What's going on fellas? So today I'm going to give you three signs that you are more charismatic and attractive than you think. Now the purpose of this video is to help you out with your belief system and how you see yourself. Who do you believe you are? Whoever you believe you are and whatever you think about yourself will determine how you interact with the world, how much confidence you have. Basically your aura. A problem with a lot of guys is not how attractive you are. And it's not even your charisma. It's your lack of confidence. How you see yourself, whether you think you're not good enough, whether you think you're not qualified. This is going to determine how you interact with the world. And the confidence that you show when you interact with the world. All right, guys. Now, first sign that you know that you're more attractive than you think is people stare at you. All right, G. Now this is the problem and this is what happens to a lot of guys today in today's world when people stare because a lot of guys are introverted and they stay to themselves usually your reaction and basically guys when people stare at you and you seeing this as a trend and everywhere you go whether it's the bank the grocery store people are staring at you usually more times than not it means that people are just naturally drawn to your presence you may not see it why because of how you see yourself but if you change the way you see yourself you're realize that this attention that you're getting is actually good. Now, what are most men's responses to this extra attention that they get? Most men avoid it. A lot of people, not just men, when people staring at you, you feel self-conscious and you feel like something's wrong with you. All right, G. When I get attention, when people staring at me, I usually always assume that I look good that day. I never assume something is wrong with me or something's on my face. Now, something actually is on my face or something actually is wrong with me, I won't know. I'm delusional to it. That's why my confidence is through the roof. Now, am I going to walk around looking sloppy and being oblivious to my appearance? No, I am not. But if you know you got your together, you know you look good, you smell good, and all that, and people staring at you, that's probably why. All right, G. A lot of people look at people staring at them in a negative connotation like people got a problem with them. So, what do you do? You avoid it. you don't make eye contact or you just get out the room or get out the vicinity because you don't want people looking at you. Guys, if you have a glow or if you have charisma or something attractive or unique about you, people will stare. See, a lot of you guys, you guys make yourself attractive and then you look intimidating to people and then you get mad when people stare at you and they don't talk to you. It's because you're intimidating to them. So, nine times out of 10, if you're a masculine looking man and you're attractive, usually you will have to break that barrier and break that ice and smile or approach the person or say hi or wave. Most people, if you're a masculine attractive man, they are not going to approach you. A lot of guys think once you become attractive, you just get hoes. You just got all these chicks running up to you, people just waving at you, touching you. It don't work like that. All right? The more attractive, the more masculine you become, you will tend to find out that you will have to make the approach. Most times, people will still approach you just out of admiration of whatever you got. But nine times out of 10, you going to have to break that barrier cuz people, little do you know, they're way more insecure being around you than you are being around them. All right, next one. How you know that you're more attractive and charismatic than you realize is random people approach you and random people walk up and talk to you. All right. I got this thing, G. And I used to find this annoying, but then I noticed my gift. I got this thing where I'm in public and random people, G. I don't know how it is in some states because I've heard in some states up north and even some other countries, people are not as friendly as they are in like Houston, Texas, and the South. But when I go out like to the grocery store, to the bank, or I go run my errands, people randomly, G, every day come up to me, introduce themselves, and just start telling me their life story. And when I was younger, I always knew what it was. I always knew I had an opening and approachable personality. But it used to annoy me when I was younger. I used to kind of be nonchalant and indifferent with people, be short with people, something a lot of you guys do, and it turns people off and it makes you look conceited and overly confident like you ain't got time to talk to people. All right, G. If you got people coming up to you, talking to you, trying to have conversations with you, if you ain't got time to talk and you don't want small talk, that's fine. But this is positive. A lot of you guys look at this and you confuse people's intentions when people just abruptly walk up to you and start venting to you or start trying to get close to you. Yes, keep your radar up because there are some manipulative people that will just try to get in your space, try to know your business, whatever the case is. But more times than not, if you always got people walking up talking to you, telling you their business, telling you their stories, after they get done talking, you like, "Bitch, I don't even know you. Why did you tell me all that? What you want advice or something?" If you're getting that, that means you are a magnetic person. You got a magnetic personality. Nine times out of 10, you make people feel safe to open up and vent to. People don't feel safe with their business, especially nowadays. So, if you are one of those few people that people just feel open to talk to and they don't mind venting to and telling their business to, and they're not worried about being judged or criticized or anything like that, you got a gift. All right, G. Sometimes this is natural. Some men, some people got a natural aura. They got like a glow like I said and people tend to gravitate towards them and want to tell them all they business. Why? It's just that safe feeling that they have around them. Now, next one is that people orbit around you and they linger around you. All right, guys. If you go out to like social events or you go to parties or family gatherings and you realize every spot you move or even at the gym, you'll notice this at the gym. Pay attention. And every spot you move to, you'll notice that people just start gravitating around you. All right, guys. It's like a herd almost. It's like they naturally do it. Nobody actually knows that they're following you, but they just end up being in your presence and people just end up talking in groups around you. This happens to me a lot socially. This not only means that you're charismatic, but nine times out of 10, people see you as a leader. It's your energy, the energy that you project. Maybe because your posture, maybe it's how you walk, how you talk, how you interact and lead others. But this is a good sign. All right? A lot of you guys, like I said, because you're introverted, you avoid this. Why do you avoid this? Because you don't see yourself as a people person. You don't see yourself as somebody who attracts people. Therefore, you almost like self- sabotage. So any positive social interaction you end up being involved in. You find a way to either get out of it, make it negative, make it indifferent, or just make it dry. Why? Because it's how you see yourself. That's why I always say if you haven't really done any self like deep work on yourself, don't tell yourself you an introvert. I tell myself I'm an introvert. Why? Because I can easily snap that switch and go out and talk to anybody I want. It doesn't matter. I don't call myself an introvert because I'm scared to talk to people or I'm shy or I don't know how to talk to people. So, like I said, do not tell yourself you're an introvert until you've done deep work. All right? Don't label yourself as some because what an introvert is is somebody who's introverted. They're not they're not outgoing, which is an attractive personality trait. They're not charismatic, which is an attractive personality trait. All right, G. So, don't tell yourself you're an introvert. Another thing, be yourself. All right. This is the most frustrating thing that I see in today's world. If you pay attention to me and g I am not tooting my horn or pounding my chest. I am saying I am unapologetically myself. I don't give a damn what you think about how I look, how I dress, what I say, how I think or how I say it. All right, G. This is how you got to be. Now, do you want to make sure you cross your tees and dot your eyes and making sure you're looking good, smelling good, speaking right, and everything? Yes, of course. But don't try to be something or someone that you are not. Whatever is unique about you, that's what makes you great. I guarantee you, G. I have found the things that's unique about me, like the way I talk. Is it perfect? No. But I articulate myself in the way that helps me relate to men that I need to help. That is my gift. That's unique about me. Does it have pros? Yes. Does it have cons? Absolutely. but is something that's unique about me. Do I need to improve it? Yes. Will I change it? No. All right, G. So, like I said, most of you guys need to do some work. You need to get the work done. But there is a contingent amount of you guys who made it this far into the video. And the reason why you made it this far because you know you actually don't have a problem with how attractive you are, how magnetic you are, or how charismatic you are. The only problem is that you're probably in your own way. People, all right, I want you to think about this. People do not care as much as you think they care about you. So when you go out, wherever you go, and you'll worry about people judging you, criticizing you, looking at you weird, paying attention to whether or not your shirt fit right or not. Most times people don't care. They can care less what color your shirt is, what kind of shoes you got on, how much your shoes cost, they don't give a The only person who really cares is you. Nine times out of 10, G, little do you know, most people who staring at you, walking up to you and all this they only noticing the positive qualities about you. They noticing the 80% about you. All right, the good But what you paying attention to is the 20%, the 20% that's lacking. and you letting that override your 80% in your mind and it's messing up your social interactions and it's dropping your own charisma that you already naturally have. All right, G. So, I hope you guys got a lot out of today's video. Share this with a homeboy that this will help out. All right, fellas. It's your boy KD. We are hab.