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Machiavelli's Principles of Attraction
May 25, 2025
Lecture Notes: Machiavellian Rules of Attraction
Introduction
Importance of mindset in attracting women.
Five Machiavellian rules of attraction that transform approach to women.
Not about manipulation, but strategic engagement with human nature.
Rule 1: Stop Chasing, Let Her Chase You
Overeagerness signals low value.
Humans value what is earned; scarcity increases value.
Be selectively available to signal high value.
Match her level of investment, don't exceed it.
Allows her to invest effort, increasing her valuation of the relationship.
Rule 2: Keep an Air of Mystery
Avoid revealing all details too soon.
Spark of intrigue needed in attraction.
Share highlights and let more be discovered over time.
Unpredictability in a positive way increases attraction.
Mystery respects natural pacing and builds anticipation.
Rule 3: Master Your Emotions
Emotional volatility is unattractive.
Maintain calm and composure in the face of challenges.
Avoid rushing into infatuation or showing excessive neediness.
Stay grounded and independent.
Develop habits for emotional discipline.
Rule 4: Set Boundaries, Command Respect
Importance of having and enforcing personal boundaries.
Lack of boundaries leads to loss of respect and attraction.
Communicate boundaries firmly and be prepared to walk away if necessary.
Boundaries show self-respect, leading to mutual respect in relationships.
Rule 5: Remain Sovereign, Put Purpose First
Life doesn’t revolve around winning a woman’s approval.
Maintain focus on personal goals, passions, and principles.
Balance between personal life and relationship.
Independence and self-contentment are attractive.
Create a healthier, balanced relationship dynamic.
Conclusion
All rules emphasize valuing oneself.
Confidence and self-assurance attract naturally.
These principles promote a grounded, sovereign approach to relationships.
Promote genuine transformation, not manipulation.
Additional Notes
Attraction is invited by who you are, not forced.
Charismatic individuals don’t grovel; they exude confidence.
Encouraged to apply these principles for natural attraction.
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