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Tips for Talking to Girls at School

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I mean and when school is in session you constantly around these people all of the time bro so obviously talking to girls in the schools I think it's gonna be a little bit different Now understand this when you in school you should be focused on your class get your grades and all that stuff up but uh at the same time bro I understand I've been in high school before and this work for College too don't don't think this is just High School College too bro I understand bruh you know I'm saying when you when you when you got a girl that you crushing on or whatever you see a girl that you like she look attractive whatever you want to be able to approach her and what better place to do that than in school that's where y'all are all at you feel me so school is a little bit of a different environment so let's just go ahead and hop right into it bro now this is the first thing that you need to know about talking to girls while you're at school bro never ever ever and I cannot stress this enough bro never ever ever approach a girl when she is in a group or with one of her home girls or more the reason why is because this when you in school it's all about groups everybody got friend groups and stuff like that that's who you hang out with you know what I mean you always hang out with a group of people don't approach the girl when she's in a group why because you have to understand that it is going to be 10 times harder for you to get her number because of her friends bro they're going to be trying to see block bro they're going to be trying to stop you from talking to this girl why for a plethora of reasons she's probably gonna be jealous her friends is probably going to be mad at you trying to take away her friend it's all kind of BS reasons why they don't want you talking to the girl bro so don't approach when they in groups why because you have to not just be attracted to the girl you want to talk to but you have to be attracted to every girl there the only time they're gonna let you talk to the girl is if they've already been showing you mad truth or signals and they've been talking about you amongst the group but if they ain't been talking about you already and you haven't already been shown twos and signals if they're not look looking at you when you walking down the hall and nothing like that bruh I promise you it's gonna be extremely difficult for you to approach a girl while she in a group dawg cause all of her other friends gonna look at you crazy they're gonna look at you sideways like who is this dude coming up to trying to so so she gonna be don't know don't nobody want to talk to you oh she don't like you her friends is gonna start speaking for her bro that's why you got to be careful about this dog now you can approach a girl in a group but just know that your success rate is going way way down bruh so in order to make your approaches more efficient you want to make sure that you avoid this okay you don't want to be approaching girls when they're in groups but what you do want to do is approach her while she's by herself bruh when she's maybe you got a study hall with her maybe you got a class what are you sitting next to her whatever you know what I mean maybe y'all got a uh the same lunch period She happened to be sitting by herself today whatever the case may be bruh go find her when she's by herself she's not in a whole group of friends or nothing like that because a group of friends is going to stop you from success bruh when she's by herself then it's just her it's just her versus you and yeah she might go chat over to her home girls and stuff like that that's just how School Works bro you know what I'm saying like this is the thing about approaching in school it takes way more courage in the real world it takes way more courage because you constantly around a cesspool of people that all know each other so if you go and talk to a girl the whole school is gonna know everybody's Gonna Know but at the end of the day if you do it it is what it is I mean I could just tell you from first-hand experience at the end of the day No One's Gonna really care so go ahead Brett make the approach you'll see her she's sitting by herself whatever you know saying go up and approach and now the things that you say to her bruh when you walk up to her you don't have to compliment or nothing like that bruh you could pretty much say anything bro use your environment to your advantage go to be like yo excuse me are you busy right now are you working on homework oh okay for sure uh you know I'm saying I just want to talk to you real quick yeah you want some gum you know I'm saying you like Doritos like anything bro you can literally talk to her about anything and a lot of people think oh that's not game cam that's not game you got to say something sir bro if you think that you have to say something certain then you have no game you have no game bruh why because what I understand about women is that it's not about the things you say it's about the way that you do it it's about the way that you say it so if you walk up to her with the most confidence in the world then I promise you it won't matter you can say you can say whatever you know I mean you can go start talking about astrology to her it doesn't matter she'll be intrigued in the conversation that's the whole point when you are approaching a girl stop thinking about getting her number that's the problem with y'all that's why you never actually get it that's why she never actually rocks with you because you're not interested in talking to her you you you you you're on thirsty mode you're on desperation mode and it's coming off in your conversation that's why it's always so awkward go with the intention of having a real conversation with this girl and learning about who she is a little bit before you start getting the number and stuff like that or before you give her your number always give her your number always okay but again it doesn't really matter what you say as long as it's not empty validation as long as it's not a compliment of her face or anything that she got on nothing like that bro because that stuff is for the birds all she gonna do is say thank you and she's immediately gonna place you in the nice guy category I promise you she's getting all kind of guys coming up to her complimenter all the time dog all the time it doesn't matter what you say use your environments your advantage bruh and honestly the way that you practice it just by having more conversations you got to get a little bit more social but boom bruh just go go ahead talk to her you know what I mean have a cool little conversation you know what I mean ask her about what she's doing you know I'm saying is she busy doing something ask her about what she doing she got earbuds in but she's just sitting there just jamming out asking what type of music she's listening to whatever it doesn't even have to be a long conversation okay but make sure that at the end of it you go ahead and give her the number it's simple as that y'all just be overthinking it women are not very difficult bruh and they're just looking for the way that you say it if you go up with confidence see you gotta imagine this bro this is what I'm gonna say when you approach a girl imagine you're one of those guys that's filming a video and you at the mall spitting game to a woman they're always walking around like oh yeah you know what I mean like I'm him I'm him you have to you have to be that way because in order to record yourself spitting game at the mall it takes balls bro I ain't gonna lie it takes confidence all right so just feel like you that dude whenever you approach her bro it's simple as that all right so boom approach her when she's by herself now another rule what you don't want to do is approach women while they are walking somewhere you have to remember that this is school and again this is School College whatever bruh but she's walking somewhere if a girl walking somewhere bruh and it looked like she's getting like you know what I mean she's moving fast pace whatever you know I'm saying she's trying to get to class don't approach her don't approach her because that's an easy way to get rejected the only time you should approach a girl while she's walking and if if it's very clear that says it's a it's a slow little stroll she ain't really going nowhere you know what I'm saying she's just kind of oh la la la you know what I'm saying maybe she's showing you some tools and signals heavy choosing signals as she's walking whatever the case may be you know I'm saying maybe she's walking to go sit down somewhere but other than that if she's walking to class if she's walking somewhere and it looks like it's important bro let it be let it go that's an easy way to get turned down even if you're the most attractive looking dude she will turn it down because she's going somewhere this human decency bro now I shouldn't even have to say that part but the problem is a lot of people don't know how to take social cues who don't understand how people work you don't understand that there is a time and a place to approach a woman bruh there is a time and a place to approach a girl bruh there is a time and a place for all of that and if you do it at the wrong time bro it don't matter what you do what you say no matter how much confidence how much swag you got you could be Michael B Jordan She Gonna Keep It pushing because she got somewhere to be you have to remember that these girls have egos they're not going to be stopping for you they're not going to stop and go out that way for you oh but what if you're that guy but none of you are that guy you're in school bro this video is you in school bro you know what I'm saying none of y'all are really that guy I'm gonna touch on that more a little bit later too but understand that if she's rushing somewhere do not do it dawg it's that simple now this the plus thought about school the plus art about schools that everybody knows each other in some way yo girl the girl you crushing on bro you probably got a friend of a friend that knows her or something like that bro everybody knows each other which means that if you search her up on social media you probably got one or two people that's already following her you know I'm saying so you already got acquaintances so it's not weird if you follow her as well because you probably got people that know her stuff like that you go to her same school now the reason why this is a w is because if you in school social media game becomes very very easy and fluent and efficient bruh boom all you gotta do is hit her with the follow whatever if she follow back cool you know I'm saying she posts videos on her story it's simple as this bro when I'm not gonna die too much in the Instagram game bruh I'll probably make a separate video for that but this is the thing bro you get her on Instagram bro all you do you don't like her don't don't go liking her pictures bro don't do that corny stuff and don't go commenting nothing like that none of that thirsty stuff nothing like that or you can comment but not yet I'm gonna get to that bro reply to her stories and when I say reply to her stories be careful about the ones that you choose to reply to do not reply to them thirst traps do not reply to her thirst traps don't even like the stories of her thirst tracks I promise you only swipe up and don't don't don't react nothing like that and don't send one emoji and don't compliment only swipe up on the stories where she's doing something interesting and when I when I say doing something interesting doing something that you genuinely find interesting like if she's watching anime she posted on her Story boom swipe up and say oh you like this show blah blah blah conversation starter start these conversations and then be like okay for sure oh you go to this school okay cool I'ma see you around now you have a report now next time you walk past it again oh yo what's up you know what I'm saying I saw you was watching blah blah blah it's that simple it's that easy now and I know what you're saying cam I'm not really interested in and trying to know this girl I'm just trying to clap cheats well I got news for you buddy I got real news for you buddy the only girls that's just gonna let you clap and dip is the ones that's hoes and they probably got STDs let's just be real about that bro and the other thing too I know you gotta probably another another question can what if she don't post nothing interesting on her story what if her Instagram is mad boring and all it is is thirst traps and just showing herself off well this is what you have to understand people live their lives through social media now so if she's not posting anything interesting besides there's traps I got more news for you buddy you probably don't want to pursue that she probably as empty as a balloon let's just be honest bruh let's just be honest now I understand some people it's just not on social media like that all right so don't take that statement and apply it to everybody but let's just be real here if all she posted starts tracks bro this is probably a pretty vain woman she probably ain't really you know what I'm saying she probably not really too too interesting all she want to do is use her looks to get clap down you feel me that's all she would clap down you want to avoid these women because the reason that they're posting these thirst traps and nothing else is because they want you to fall for The Thirst track they want to see you be thirsty they want the likes they want the attention stay away from those bruh but if you follow a girl you like her she posts something interesting swipe up on her story talk to her swipe up on her story multiple times whatever but do not validate and then work your way in there you know what I'm saying oh you know I'm saying you have a couple of conversations with her now is yo you know what I'm saying like uh you trying to eat lunch together whatever you trying to you trying to do this you trying to do that outside of school you build a rapport women are very easy you build a little bit of a rapport with them you go out with them I mean bro I don't understand how it's so difficult for y'all you know what I'm saying but at the same time I do understand because I used to be young and inexperienced just like y'all bro you feel me now this is the last thing I'm gonna say about talking to girls at school weather is the girls at school listen the girls at school all got mad egos you have to remember that bro they all got mad Egos and they not who they say they are every girl at your school probably thinks she's that girl probably thinks she's sweeties probably thinks she cardi B probably think she I spice bro they're not I promise you they're not so don't let them intimidate you and for the dudes at the school bro every dude is pretending he's he thinks he's him blah blah blah he putting on his Versace putting on the Dior he putting on all this designer clothing posting it on Instagram you getting jealous bro that's his parents money here trust fine baby nobody in school like that it is really living like that nobody is really him while they're in school let's just be honest unless you like super smart or something like that you know I'm saying are you just an NFL bound athlete but let's just be honest most of the dudes in school that be pretending to be him that got the greatest confidence in the world they really have nothing going on with their lives I've seen it before with my own two eyes people that got nothing going on posing on Instagram posing and acting like and talking like they're really him they're not really him I promise you so the key to really being successful in school with women and we're making friends is this be true to yourself and I know that it sounds like corny logic but just hear me out bro it sounds corny but if you are cool and comfortable with who you are you will be the most confident dude because with everybody at your school faking they gonna they're bound to crack one day they bound to crack one day they got him Heidi deep inside that they can't get rid of because they're pretending to be somebody they're not don't be a faker don't be like everybody else don't be a pretender dude be comfortable in your own skin and when you're comfortable in your own skin that is the beginning of confidence you can start having confidence bruh for real own who you are dog because that's the only one you can control yourself bro ultimately ultimately own who you are and don't let nobody nobody tell you that you is not enough bro and if you can be real with yourself 100 then I promise you I promise if you can be real with yourself bro dog you had a World in Your Hands cause with confidence you can do anything bro that confidence is going to exude to other people they're gonna be like how can I get like him whole time they don't even know that the secret is really just happening with yourself and tapping in with Jesus man God bless you I love you all I'm out of here I'll catch you on the next one peace