Jefferson Fisher Podcast: Navigating Difficult Conversations

Introduction

• Focus on making difficult conversations easier in life.
• Host: Jefferson Fisher.
• Encouragement to subscribe and leave reviews.

Key Steps for Difficult Conversations

Step 1: Avoid Small Talk

• Don't start with: "How are you?" or "How are things?"
• Start with: "Thank you for making the time to talk with me."

Step 2: Express Need for Help

• Use phrases like: "I need your help knowing how to feel about this."
• Helps transition from opponents to teammates.

Step 3: End with Feelings

• Express how you feel post-conversation: "I feel better having talked with you."
• Follow up with: "So how about you?"

Contexts for Difficult Conversations

• Delivering Bad News: Quickness is key, be direct.
• Sensitive Topics: Can follow steps 1-3 more smoothly.

Example Scenario

• Situation: Addressing a comment made at a dinner.
• Approach:
  • Set the right time for the talk.
  • "I need your help with a comment you made."
  • Express how it made you feel.

Real-Life Application

Case Study: Derek from Oregon

• Challenge: Difficult conversation with a supervisor.
• Advice:
  • Schedule a dedicated time for the conversation.
  • Use "I need your help..." to open up the discussion.
  • Be concise and allow the supervisor to respond.

Importance of Difficult Conversations

• Catalyst for genuine relationships and growth.
• Deeper relationships require tolerance for difficult conversations.

Conclusion

• View difficult conversations as opportunities, not obstacles.
• Upcoming podcast episodes and communication tips.

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