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Attachment, Parenting, Erikson's Theory

Jun 13, 2025

Overview

This lecture focused on attachment styles, parenting styles, and Erikson’s theory of psychosocial development throughout the lifespan.

Attachment

  • Attachment is the emotional bond between an infant and caregiver, essential for healthy development.
  • Harry Harlow’s monkey studies showed comfort is more important than food for attachment.
  • Mary Ainsworth’s "Strange Situation" assessed attachment quality between infants and caregivers.
  • Secure attachment: infants use caregiver as a base for exploration, are distressed when the caregiver leaves, comforted upon return.
  • Insecure attachments include:
    • Avoidant: indifferent to caregiver's departure and return.
    • Anxious/ambivalent: distressed by separation, both seeks and resists comfort upon caregiver's return.
    • Disorganized: confusion, lack of consistent coping; often linked to neglect or abuse.

Parenting Styles

  • Parenting styles are based on levels of support (empathy/involvement) and regulation (control/discipline).
  • Authoritative: high support and high regulation; considered the most effective style.
  • Authoritarian: low support, high regulation; strict with little warmth, may result in rebellious behavior.
  • Indulgent (Permissive): high support, low regulation; loving but lack boundaries, children often lack self-control.
  • Uninvolved: low support and low regulation; neglectful, children may develop behavioral and emotional problems.

Erikson’s Psychosocial Stages

  • Trust vs. Mistrust (birth-18 months): learning whether the world is safe and dependable.
  • Autonomy vs. Shame/Doubt (18 months-3 years): developing independence; over-constraint leads to doubt.
  • Initiative vs. Guilt (3-6 years): initiating actions; criticism leads to guilt.
  • Industry vs. Inferiority (6-12 years): developing competence and confidence, especially in school.
  • Identity vs. Role Confusion (adolescence): exploring "Who am I?"; failure leads to confusion.
  • Intimacy vs. Isolation (young adulthood): forming close relationships or feeling lonely.
  • Generativity vs. Stagnation (middle adulthood): contributing to society or feeling unproductive.
  • Integrity vs. Despair (late adulthood): reflecting on one's life with fulfillment or regret.
  • Erikson’s theory covers development from birth to death, unlike Piaget’s and Freud’s.

Key Terms & Definitions

  • Attachment — emotional bond between infant and caregiver.
  • Secure Attachment — balanced need for caregiver and exploration, easily comforted.
  • Avoidant Attachment — indifference to caregiver’s presence.
  • Anxious/Ambivalent Attachment — distress and mixed signals toward caregiver.
  • Disorganized Attachment — inconsistent behavior, often a sign of neglect/abuse.
  • Authoritative Parenting — high support and regulation, best outcomes.
  • Authoritarian Parenting — high regulation, low support, strict with little warmth.
  • Indulgent/Permissive Parenting — high support, low regulation, few boundaries.
  • Uninvolved Parenting — low support and regulation, neglectful.
  • Erikson’s Stages — eight life-spanning stages focused on psychosocial conflicts.

Action Items / Next Steps

  • Review Erikson’s psychosocial stages and be able to identify examples.
  • Prepare for exam questions on attachment and parenting styles.
  • Contact instructor with questions before the exam.