Overview
This lecture explains Charles Cooley's "Looking Glass Self" theory, emphasizing how our self-concept is shaped by our perceptions of how others view us.
The Looking Glass Self Theory
- The Looking Glass Self was developed by Charles Cooley in 1902.
- The theory examines how our personal identity is influenced by social interactions.
- Our self-image combines both our internal feelings and imagined external perceptions.
- Different relationships and social roles lead people to view us in various ways.
The Three-Step Process
- Step 1: We consider how we appear to others (friends, family, strangers).
- Step 2: We imagine what others think of us (e.g., funny, shy, standoffish).
- Step 3: We develop feelings about ourselves based on our perception of their opinions.
Influence of Imagined Perceptions
- According to Cooley, we are influenced by what we think others think of us, not their actual opinions.
- These imagined perceptions can be correct or incorrect.
- Misinterpreting how others see us can negatively impact our self-esteem and confidence.
Example Scenario
- After a date, not hearing back may lead someone to think they're disliked, affecting self-confidence.
- In reality, the other person may have positive feelings but is waiting for contact.
Key Terms & Definitions
- Looking Glass Self — the idea that our self-concept forms from our perceptions of how others see us.
- Self-concept — the overall image we hold of ourselves.
- Imagined perceptions — beliefs about what others think of us, not necessarily their true thoughts.
Action Items / Next Steps
- Review and reflect on how your self-image is shaped by interactions and imagined perceptions.
- Consider examples from your own life where you misinterpreted how others viewed you.