Expectation Setting: It's crucial to set and communicate your expectations in relationships.
Self-Worth: Look at positive examples to understand that you deserve respect and equal treatment.
Provider Mindset: Instead of wealthy men, focus on those who have a mindset of a provider.
Misconceptions About Feminism and Financial Support
Double Standards: Society often finds it acceptable for single mothers to provide for multiple children but criticizes women who expect financial support from men.
Workload Inequality: Women often carry the burden of both domestic and professional responsibilities, which is unfair.
Anti-Feminism: It's not anti-feminist for a man to provide; it can actually be empowering.
Personal Experience
First Boyfriend: Wealthy but lack of a provider mindset.
Current Partner: Not as wealthy but has a strong provider mindset, leading to a stress-free financial life.
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Societal Expectations and Dating
Expectations from Men: Men often expect women to meet high standards but don't reciprocate the effort.
Deserving More: Women deserve to be spoiled and financially cared for.
Provider Men: Men with a provider mindset are more valuable than wealthy men who are stingy.
Addressing Wealth: Explain your expectations subtly without demanding.
Practical Tips for Women
Mindset: Don’t settle; set your standards high.
Ask for Things: Don’t hesitate to ask for financial support or gifts.
Competitiveness: Men are competitive; use this to your advantage.
Appreciation: Show appreciation for small things to encourage more generosity.
Make Him Think It’s His Idea: Guide him to make the choices you want.
Financial Stability for Future: Focus on generational wealth and long-term security.
Feminine and Masculine Styles
Personal Comfort: Dress in a way that makes you feel confident, whether that's feminine or masculine.
Divine Feminine: Receiving support is part of respecting the divine feminine in relationships.
Psychological Tips
Perceived Competitiveness: Compare favorably to other women being treated well to spur competitive instinct in men.
Avoid Negative Pleasantries: Never say you don’t need a man; it diminishes support.
Show Need: Even for small tasks, show that you need and appreciate his help.
Empowerment in Relationships
Receiving: Accepting help and support is important for maintaining balance in relationships.
Wealth Through Generosity: Supporting women can lead to greater personal success for men.