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Relationship Principles and Frameworks

It seems to everyone that improving the relationship is there point 1 well there feed him sausages 2 sex no less there well something like that powder buy fumigator there I don't know how on the floor and stuff like that and sprinkle with coriander, you can see who it is right away who listens to lectures but now we will start with I have no questions until everyone gets together why then it seems unlikely that all this will happen empty someone will come time now how much oh seriously well the cathedral there is a ball a little inferiority complex no question arose Sorry for the questions right away yes if there was no sex before the wedding relations everything as you say about first of all wedding night it turns out that he either doesn't maybe there is something small there or big 88 understood I'm exaggerating a little here that then remain for the rest of your life sexually unsatisfied in such in spirit a good question may it not cause it seems like the same paper is torn Fine [music] but look, we are now asking this question ourselves beach it is an option that here is a man men who court you one and a half years of such a hellish stena you know, he can't give but but decided what to do then he stands there naked and it can't be like that stupid and so echo and he is like this in a black cloak with with a bloody lining that is, this is how I see it and this is how he is such that I didn't expect and now until the end of days you will be dissatisfied, that is, well and also It's strange that we laugh at this at night, that is most people are doing great they can and if they can't, well, that's where I'm not I know strange people raise your hands the taboo man courted the woman a year and a half to announce the first brophy At night he is impotent Well, well, no, but I understood maybe there is someone like that, well, one in a billion nubuck with him there with hands there and something else then I understand it, it’s clear that there is this is one in a million there in a billion if such a tragedy happens then it will be possible use the method you recommend But I don't see a problem with this, three things more people are worried about what if we have something there different temperaments well that's it Liku's temperament was discovered in the process courtship you know what what's on display and this doesn't happen in the store either, you know there she sat, fascinated by lazy things Well, I raised a hamster there with dumplings such a girl, a refrain, and then Dombai there for 13 hours in a sweat like well acrobats and joint embodiment Kamasutra Master of Sports rhythmic gymnastics but adults do it anyway, no everyone understands perfectly well that this is how networks are he lies on the couch like that all day big handsome reads books it's unlikely that in moments of intimacy this is well the fireman puts it on his knees there bottom and drives you for six hours inside like this according to that temperament is visible even without sex friends years and in another it stinks find him lord where is safe a way to smell your partner and not you need to sleep with him dance go to the dance rhythmic memory as this athos to wonderful film rhythmic further energetic energy here you can immediately see it's a classic and who is a classic I am fond of everything I am a man if he stinks, he has one problem Now I'm a woman, let's say I'm smelly he is not a man like any other man if it doesn't wash it will be bad to understand your task is not with mycoses there it smells good that it's worthwhile in any bad parking your task what to do teach him to wash songs he will wash it won't stink and you have to see it he wants to wash for you, he wants to, let's go something to do on the sweeper so that we now they didn't take it, everything comes down to a year and a half courtship if a man is courting something analysis my sunshine, what's wrong with you? someone died in the entrance on the moon No no, I didn't die, what are these white spots called? this is all around this and after yesterday's training no I managed to change my clothes and I was almost not wearing it sweat name is not right things will not work no it means I really like men who washes himself twice a day in the morning and in the evening oh well or ask what if bath maybe no bath what's the point Do you understand what these questions are about? we need to decide if they specifically match there does the stamen and pistil all match there all we will defeat 80 percent of marriages falls apart, that is, out of ten, 8 are married and it's not because everything didn't match up what started coincided was true Well, it's rare that you go there once, well, and maybe sometimes I make such cruel jokes what do you expect then what are you happy about it happened you look and she has there well well no one and accounting and you are obliged then what braids shoulders all life to from all this are you afraid of this or a man what can he do there I got through and then well horizontal wear option for everyone equally Well, really, you are grown-up uncles and aunts this mew mew and this myth my dear who wrote this letter we came up with men to test you earlier because we need to I don't care what you feel they got carried away and also as if this is philosophy this is a victory I myself am a man in an ordinary I think so in life too but who am I now elevator yes by the way I'm not a psychologist just in case case I'm just a lecturer on family topics let's keep it simple grown-up guy, that's all if you require coal diploma I graduated from the Institute of Psychology in the faculty of psychology these as if no I I won't finish anything like that, I'm done box mines do you know what it is I need to know him, I have this one beautiful diploma my pulse whom university and the like but does not have I have nothing to do with psychology I understand what sciences spiritual if a person understands spiritual well somehow figure it out with you mine woman i am your man these are trifles believe me if you figured something out it's very tart dekhi date by date six stages of building relationships are so for children It's okay that I responded so cruelly to this question you smiled and success why do you come and ask me why are you I'm so cruel to everyone I'm not cruel to all of these are just such a job for me personally what if you continue I'll talk to you until I sit you down, yes yes yes don't look back no took from I see no one It's not a whole science to bring people to feeling at school we usually tell I'll plant everything miracle they are afraid noticed will besiege how do you imagine it the barbell is 10 and you still last here complexes psychology psychology and if What questions can I have about this? I didn't convey something, I apologize and you too suddenly someone got hooked by his well roughness but I'm not honest about what to do means we were talking here recently then san alberto what is intelligent here says clarify comparing Riga the intelligentsia of Dnepropetrovsk gopnik We have different fates from the very beginning that's why we teach one science as we do but there are nuances there are always nuances so forgive me suddenly but it wasn't written on the posters that I was viewer can a man with whom you have already been relationship sex but were not married to become a suitor like him do not transfer to this category sleeping with him is not difficult, just don't sleep with him and if he gets offended they are offended and this was our task offend Women don't be afraid to offend men this is growing and getting stronger so if you did something stupid, what did you do? make it interesting what phone is mine the toy rings a Hello yeah, just kidding, I didn't answer but here's the thing Ericsson Sony phone is such a sunshine he shouldn't call me he didn't call a toy called you and that's what it was written three big letters and a little toy, that's why make it fly don't ruin it for us recording receipts on a voice recorder in flight mode I promised to take it for myself, well, I would have I took the iPhone but not the Sony Ericsson, just kidding kidding please kids question and i answer answers how to transfer you to category in this one tell me so you already listen a few days, what do you think? tell me how to translate the 2nd row as transfer you didn't listen to me before and the task is I am the rector you have to listen to me who can tell me Well, let's say if you do something I'll tell you the story wrong, do you want to? history is another story because well no if you want to listen, then listen to the story once upon a time I came once very, very I came to the temple a long time ago, there was some very amazing service in the evening was very it was warm, there weren't many people the altar will be illuminated by someone on such the accordion played a very amazing the melody is so beautiful so beautiful and never hear on mom seam gram sochi she is something very beautiful and people with the loops were healed, the wicks were approaching and it was all so romantic to me in general, they liked all of this so much someone read do you want something with the wind or can i give you can avis ran up whose wick he lit and so it should be seven times it was like this one-two and went out and I, with the extinguished wick, I was scared, I did something stupid so I need help, let's appoint such moments need help I am to someone what to do and such an experienced person puts Don't worry, tomorrow you'll do everything right I came to such a class and made a planting everything is correct and I didn't bother, so if we did something wrong and then club just keep doing it that's right, so if you're in some kind of in a state of affect they got scared, well, she gave in I don't know if it's for the pie or for fear what about 22 years old, well I'm already old and No one will take all 800 from me in Tyumen thousands of residents how can I get married and everything oil workers are all drug addicts you find out, some fears are giving me some kind of fears, I don’t for the sake of Mom needs these grandchildren, I need them urgently sleep with him because he's going to Zinka and you realized that this is a mistake, the conclusion is simple stop it this is what to do if you make a mistake stop doing this, he will get offended once again it is our task to teach a man it's right to offend, why just once to offend me than to suffer for the rest of my life I'll tell you now why a new one history but you became a lot to me I told you amazing stories about Uncle Vova, listen to him for action already story about uncle vova from odessa 7 uncle Vova from Odessa in the garage repairs the car thought of approaching he's a neighbor, he just always sits there Suitable for lions up to ten beer he tells him you are choosing a living being therefore teis two options the first I give you tenner for beer and then you for me be offended all your life because I am her tomorrow I'll ask you back and I'll ask you back too I won't give you a ten now, he sings and be mad at me for one day and then we let's be friends what do you choose she and you went and everything and in a day already that everything is fine, everything is fine because that there is no problem there is no ten debt obligations and the like How do you like the story, it's very deep deep so if you do something this is not the right answer, stop it do something wrong start doing it That's right, don't be afraid to offend people who themselves behave inappropriately be afraid to correct your mistakes it just often happens that there is always some motive and then someone there tells me something I'm in the fact that so beads mich um mich experience along with here and I also sleep next door to each other well, approximately or in general from afar his apartment and we kind of live off of it this yes I hate him he showed up there uncle from saratov i hate uncle he lives we got it and he spits there does that satya how to do it so that Uncle from Saratov, this is no longer the case where are you on her where is the actor but he has nowhere to go go why not us past saratov they rented out his apartment and fat these geniuses and noticed everything started out so well there is always a motive no ante Gleb Zheglov said something to me today I went for the classics, either Uncle Vova or Gleb there are no guilty burners without guilt was with his women during to figure it out and not with guns to scatter approximately like this if Do you have any more questions or else we'll be right now let's move on to the steps from please you yes and you too a little later yes yes then you don't need to return it just watch quietly now there is no need to get a consultation question I think it's directed and all that and simple the site may react we begin to condemn then me I condemn daily meditation and reading of sacred scriptures every day you repeat mantras prayers for two hours a day and you read hour day sacred scriptures are some sacred scriptures in your life just read soul meditation is mind control the action of the mantra is mind control if you you can't control your mind always like this you will be my fault vocals fault and it's sean's fault it's his fault that I guilty and thought that he was guilty girls I cried all night today tell me why who knows everything there that a woman because in the head a woman if he and he restless and he is tossing and turning that's why daily I'm completely serious now just like the pope daily meditations and sacred readings writings and after some time you you will be surprised, you will begin to see the world through the prism of the scriptures will make it easier just started to wind from so on the basis what and baths and from the path 1247 than from bottom 5 437 well you will understand everything so you sit and oh and why yes yes on the head of cabbage there is nothing to rely on, there is not enough reason there is no foundation, so it is scary when there is none faith needs guarantees when there are no guarantees fear arises [music] please leave your question before let's continue if you do something to him If A And options kohen options you want to do it why year he just doesn't want to you have to come back because here's the conditional no need, this is not about me, you are talking about it six is ​​not about you so yes, there is no need to worry I need to know and worry about my daughter what a woman needs to do smart adults A It's even better to take care of your personal life when there is no personal life you start to interfere with someone else's personal life Well, everyone is worried about the children, I don't believe that it's wrong but when it's serious are you worried about your personal life it's easy to leave a grown fool alone yeah there is no further life it's always like that know from always so always so curtain such mom what do you have here cucumbers here on salted above the machine the washing machine is washed and the kids know Yura yes that is, these are six normal people grow more often Here is the mother-in-law, this woman who does not have personal life write down yes yes what is active here you know how and then there's a joke like this Nikolai has become much better lately treat mother-in-law began to come to visit bring flowers and paint the fence [music] so that this doesn't happen, everyone needs to have each thing according to the test adequately so just leave it like this peace but but from the point of view of the sim now let's throw away these relationships then civil marriage is not a brother wonderful seminar so called why civil marriage marriage listen at night spoil your mood on the way to mine in the morning you will understand that I am right write me a letter thank Well, what are you going to do? We'll talk about it today. this talk today 10 steps for improving family relationships for improvements well generally open in family relationships so ruslan albertovich that's what they call him but i I can't translate the word break into Russian so about raid how is it translated they doused it verbatim about rise under rise to the splendor of gray and the tigers sat at my feet, everything is clear if almost means sorry i asked thank you I'll submit it because I learned it from English two words to rejoice one minute hold yourself in hand incense language there is no capital for this mini pig guinea pig and and weekly immediately you feel I don't walk the easy path there that while a little bit any for why I learned these two words, I studied for three months English but I remember everything that I do for the rest of my life ten steps to improve family any marriage is meant for relationships sublimation of relations it is necessary all the time do better take it to the next level and when rising to a new level, for sure If this is not the case, the marriage falls apart. marriage is like a climber who climbs up As long as you climb up, there is a result relaxed and you're flying and both of us I was involved in rock climbing as a child I imagine you know what makes a rock different go mountaineering Not no-no-no-no-no climber always climber climbs higher to the carabiner carabiner so when the climber falls straightaway the climber hangs first flies to carbine then after carbine and then if the carbine holds up, it hangs, if not he flies for a long time legs in such a spirit here is this family life so that you understand and what longer you have family life, the carbine lower and usually the whole bunch flies together you know when the whole connection breaks down looks gorgeous Kalabina fly out and everyone flies and thinks oh my god at least someone got away from shabbat so that the last one can endure miracle I once said this from the heart This is my debut. I've never heard of these stories before. they don't tell, it came up from childhood that's why family relationships it's time for them to improve the nation if you don't today did not improve family relations you can fly to the carbine, he always does this you have to do it, it won't hang tried to hang on a rock for a while it is possible but not for long that is, you need to go to bed and climb on that's why the mountain is so steps for improvement they will be like this philosophical philosophical first step is necessary acknowledge the problem a huge problem for people is that they don't admit that they have a problem in their marriage it usually starts like this my husband is very good person but yes, and something like that starts there very good person I adore him love him my wife is a wonderful woman but through back sheep rare well in syllables in this spirit therefore first we need to admit it because if the man does not admit his mistake, but like me to consult someone consulted on the dish no yes you don't you understand you will fly wait how it is drawn in general what is happening you came for a lot of money tear a whole hour out of my life stubbornly we're splitting something don't tell us what I didn't understand what force to give and mastic let's stop let's stop if you came ask me so that I can confirm yours delusion I don't do that because what is not necessary, that's why I immediately who was on consultations on 1 inch what i say i I'll tell you the truth yes yes yes no deceiving I will because I am not interested in it do so the first thing you need to do is It's very difficult to admit that there is a problem wake up someone who is pretending to be asleep here on k is a popular proverb therefore admit what does it mean to admit 6 problem acknowledge that the schemes used not very effective how will we spend one and a half years for this, but what if something doesn't work out? in people if you don't spend it like this statistics in eighty percent in some cases you won't succeed Well at 20 it might be you know what 8 pro is 80 percent is, well, yes, that's a lot. from you here roughly 100 people 80 of you will not succeed in marriage you will get divorced with a bang and pain, and those which will remain and it is not a fact that it will be there there will be a lot of lyalin with swans there too something will happen if it's not so scary then mathematically speaking 20 percent this means only in fifth respects you have a chance and yes if everyone is only in the fifth relationship if some creature I will not be afraid of it words will become happy in the first marriage according to statistics, your part is being pushed back what kind of relationship in tenths are not even sewn into 10 that's why you have to be afraid of such numbers I'm in In any case, I'm afraid I have to admit it avoiding the problem avoiding the problem not will solve the problem it's always-always like this that's why he there is no need to put it off until later admit to problem problem problem there is a problem gel if someone has family problems let's raise our hands, of course, well, in Men can't lift, obviously they really don't wait for men because men before they do something they think woman let's women they are friends at first those who have the same problems there is no man he is like this so so so if because the hand that it will mean maybe be but that's why men may not at all don't raise it therefore We can eat here, I guess the replacement of a man will sit for a long time how I came to one room and something like that there sat such a brutal man and wait you can sit there and do nothing speak you just listen and if you you will like it in the end you will come and understand me hand everything passed two hours he came up shook my hand and left, that was not the reason for dating but nevertheless not he didn't need to do the main thing selfie there well there something like that so the first one is to admit the problems the second one the second point to ask yourself is very amazing question i love this question I want you to adore him too it will help you live a lot it's called that For what why did i get married why did i get married it is very important that officials know why I have a huge number of versions to list won't they all be humorous that is all these versions can be found on comedy woman just send them straight away and just reread them everyone will come out this tall katya varnava no way tamiya and just reread what we ourselves are here version of honeycomb we will record everyone will laugh starting from me 21 he has a strong buttocks like a nut, a mother needs her grandchildren for me tired of sleeping on a fold-out sofa French folding bed you will find out you will fly I need to get out of Tyumen to Khabarovsk here in that spirit why did i get married if in order to train someone sometimes she doesn't listen to me like that friends for some reason I would come to get married to the brothers for Pasha [music] I worked with them until I went into training and in the frame of his strength so Kuklachev too a normal guy got married, why did you do it? the ass should listen to what kind of people you are came and invited her on a date pizzerias well what do you want to listen to I dream of a recession well, walk on a tightrope or something like that no, for some other purpose, really, we at the men's club we will find out these goals come on guys wow we had it here recently in sochi rubilovo rare refusal we had fourteen points we two passed two points and they diverged is not that here everything is under control, he is a mataji there quietly, lie down lower, there are such animals there gathered to understand why we get married or what we are getting married we need to understand the basics family psychology first of all In general, people get married to be this correct answer there is no other option if there is another option it is strange the option of sick people we do not have them now we are now discussing the beaches from what we everything is healthy and what does it mean to be happy for women for a woman to be happy means to be no-no-no-no-no to be loved because what if she is protected but not loved It's better to live on the territory of a military unit you will always be protected and so on and so forth that's why the most important thing is to be loved everything else is included in the concept of being to be chosen to be loved to be protected and well, how loved but not protected or loved well not chosen this is civil marriage is loved but not chosen the only thing you know is civil marriage such an illusory such an enterprise in which the woman is under the illusion that She is married and the man is in the pool solved free as a result he is not free, she is not married twice the poor fellows gathered there somehow so that's why what does it mean to be you you probably know, tell me, and if I like your version more than my I will fix you see I myself I'm writing all this because what does it mean to be beloved for a woman who knows someone fulfilled your wish of course and this is not enough the second half of the body is on trial Russian people Russian people always forget the second one part of a proverb noticed yes so that someone would perform your wish is the first part of the proverb And at the same time there was a child you feel like changes radically because he is unhappy at the same time what is the point in fulfilling desires therefore A man should look after a woman find out i am happy from that more fully and desire if you are a year and a half wish fulfilling happy all the time this is your woman marry her if you are unhappy you think lord prostitutes would be cheaper java I I've already gone broke on just Raffaello, no need you don't have to marry them to take care of five Farrell was taken somewhere to calm down the organ and All what does it mean to be loved for men and when it's all right even for you respected but also such a feeling that it somehow in greeting women no rise and so what did they say what does it mean to be loved by a woman before a man can be loved without a woman so how it should be there is very it's related to the fact that we just decided a come on that there was someone who allowed you to perform your desires fulfilling which you happy u what a difficult scheme to be respected a little to be respected took baseball bat and drove everyone to the conclusion to the exit and already walking in the middle you are already respect this is of course this component but The main thing is the comprehensive fact factor this is what he was fulfilling whose wish buy points not just was memory sometimes sometimes this check is there but it doesn't allow I'll carry it like a girl at school your portfolio no, but and she is I enjoyed it she didn't want to carry my briefcase home wants does not allow it it you can end duck wheezing character there enema Vanya well all sorts of things like that That's why It is very important that the answer to the question why me entered into marriage should sound only like this to become happy and make happy your partner other other reasons No, actually, it's not all that complicated. she needs to be accused in a row you say common truths before yes of course the truisms are prizes were registered from I am well filled why not why not third point need to admit that you are an addicted person men women we need to dance from the fact that there are independent people in the world there are no all people we all depended we want to be free and independent but this doesn't happen, these are my questions I crumpled it up so that they wouldn't have it a second time answer I saw what disrespect for our questions they have they just lie there There are no independent people in this world so we will still be dependent therefore you only need to depend on that someone what I choose someone myself so that it depends on him now this is what we are talking about a man and a woman and the one who does this worthy That's what we should depend on, the problem is not in the fact that a woman is dependent is the problem that she can't choose who and from whom It depends, it's nice, that is, the process there is simply no courtship and women modern I went down a different path I will become independent, but in 2, that is what independence is not to be dependent from your man who you yourself you chose and became dependent on to a stranger of course who just pay gay can't big money you suffer from it come home from what topic does not depend here I have money, as we were talking about with one guy he yells I passed what are you he wouldn't want to be protected from grandma I am being protected, says the woman I lost money from it 4 criminal cases 2 arbitration to us in such spirit what does this mean see often say Can a woman do business? I decided purely theoretically and more often it can even do business with the best men what's the catch if everything is so why not do it why am i so strongly against it because the woman was engaged in serious business at there will always be competition in the world there is when a woman is engaged in business everything is going very well how does she feel very good independent it's enough pleasant feeling but business you know all this wonderfully well it happens but always in bios there may be some difficulties aa difficulties will cause stress, so here is stress and difficulties temper a man and a woman they destroy everything we are talking now and married women what are your chances now I won't tell you works and you will start not counting yours forward no no of course we have to work what will you do Well, what options do I not want? I can't take responsibility for you no, this is not normal don't think that this is normal hopeless, there is no other option when you get married successfully you will have options will arise either work like a horse or not there are options here you remember, and here you have to choose right so a woman can hang out in society can be realized, it seems to everyone a non-working woman and such a chuvyrla in curlers chained to the radiator in the kitchen how boring it is, I cook of course it's boring a woman who doesn't work is so horrible so boring it's a nightmare a nightmare wants a whole day on what on all our opencs that similar ones you walk on drols it's horrible More than once a year after work you go to Seminars in the evenings you won't be late for them did you notice the difference before working not work often exhale and again like a horseshoe slept well in in that spirit this is terribly terrible it's terrible not to work, to sit, this is makeup you have to do it for an hour at home, you sit down and do it makeup made it went washed away cool yes cool that's why it's necessary Of course, admit that you are dependent human to easily talk about your desires you have to admit that you are dependent on the one who these wishes are fulfilled I would like draw some kind of diagram it is not difficult we draw something first child then well yes upside down I am a man I am I draw upside down woman flow man and then who here is the diagram all from each other in this way depend in this world everything depends He pumped us into a normal condition addiction is very bad service is very bad but who can say what it depends on the child being dependent on their own parents lunita depended on normal mom and dad accounting depending on the dollar is also terrible cool and believe me even better than from mom and dad problems will notice collection no problems and there are children with parents here in the middle humor yes ah in principle we should achieve exactly the same effect so you don't have to choose God, he does it right away you won't choose ideal parents either there you have to choose, that is, the problem is not in the problem is that you are dependent you can't choose who from It depends, right, a man has the same the history of men is also dependent on many you know who it often depends on from those who depend on him but we will continue if we understand that dependence is in in principle, this is a normal state in the world I personally believe that addiction is normally raise your hands no matter who does not depend on anyone it all depends on us what kind of work do you do I lowered my voice maybe you are the governor of the Tyumen region how can you not depend on anyone and direct their column Okay, we haven't completely caught the slop yet further recording x0 and did not understand the question let's break down where the reporting is, yes because that there are no independent people, yes that is let's say you are dependent on color now there will be less light than the best already see believe me there are the same mass of amazing things when you never hear mi-2 I often don't joke about hair rows I somehow Badly Grandpa got carried away, well, not exactly with a screwdriver picking around in the ear but that's why we want one thing depends we depend from punch ostap bender said atmospheric pressure also puts pressure on this it depends we are so dependent that we we can't even go to the toilet without higher powers appear in some scriptures The higher powers that are responsible for are described the fact that we go to the toilet, well, that is, they that's the air that's being pumped there, that's the whole thing the demigod who is responsible for this is so It seems like he sat on the muscles there and somehow It turns out there is so there is still no one there is no one It doesn't matter because well maybe find especially pensioners you became again we are always dependent on someone from someone gasoline prices everyone, everyone therefore admits that you are dependent a person and the fourth point he will be sound like this after this you need to understand your desires real desire can understand that people don't understand their desires raise hand of which of the watches not from the front row, here you go tell me when it's half over eighth don't forget so that we can go to it's a break understand your desire desire happen this needs for that we have we are here some human needs in men and women have certain roles, this is also ours we can't get rid of these desires either so we need to understand clearly let's get started from men's desires what men desires there is none animals are exactly like this man man to be needed yes here we went to the second be a what does it mean to be respected you can be respected but not free no no no of course I can't tell you I respect but we are together it's like an arrow the wife's piglet brings dad a cigarette and everything and everyone is already blowing heavy but it is not free to refuse mine desires therefore free is needed and need very serious need it's to remain yourself to you respected as a man as a person here some kind of some kind of image which someone came up with for himself now I and I tell women, namely you know why men can't remain yourself your woman does not I found out what it was that he was appointed to be at Kent and masturbation well she didn't find out what kind rollback and you will be like this he is and so I am not like that keep quiet and everything and everything collapsed too men have three roles three main roles you need to be free and remain yourself the opportunity to remain yourself then there is an opportunity to change when you decided this to be literally free from whose asya you of course of course what an adult and time to understand special I see it this way, that is, freely make decisions to be responsible for these solutions you know, in cooking there is such a term it's called an imposed recipe, you know what? it means but let's say for some event invite a professional chef and you say cook me fried potatoes sausages while I was there I want a Napoleon cake, it's not sweet yet I want a gasoline mojito there but also similar and he cooks what do you think there will be good ones lunch is disgusting why because these are not his recipes that's why the correct approach in this case is you invite a chef from you want him to I cooked it and he says we have this the need to feed 28 people dori there 280 and where are 800 what are you can you suggest most likely it is will offer the best successful dish which he prepares you there tweaked and Well, there are some nuances, but in 99 percent of cases it remains the same he is free and the recipes are not imposed rather everything will be very cool experienced managers understand, for example, I am an experienced manager and I work integrator for big festivals therefore when i invite chefs i never I make you cook like me I ask what they want as they see it I already bring some recipes there look what they sent down to us from above Well, this is some kind of fuse catcher, come on let's try to change something for these We'll somehow swap the products all of this already his face recipe and all it will be very cool then I go hands in sides in cigarettes genius cook and I didn't even salt it why because I'm a genius gender and modest of course, therefore men except needs there are three more roles three roles it's being a protector be a provider and be a leader if a man cannot perform at least one of these roles or is not satisfied at least one of these needs the man tenses up and stops being who he is men if a man cannot be a protector leader and breadwinner if a man does not maybe he's a defender, so in his Of course, no one needs protection it means someone is defending themselves if a man can't be a leader means the leader already exists and believe me it's not the uncle from Saratov your family husband's slippers in the family some you know if a man cannot be a breadwinner often ready it can not earn shadows and he can't work he's with them Thank God I have a business k svezlo understand he doesn't earn anything because you have a business I want to hope for him why are you married the man you can't put it down because gladiolus the woman has one too 33 needs a woman should have feel that she is protected that she needed and that it is expensive protected need road what does road mean the only chosen one is always betrothed have you ever remembered or understood words narrowed what does it mean how narrowed the choice of you and his choice has become narrowed down to you 1 civil marriage topics disgusting what you are not narrowed that is not up to you 1 narrowed No, I think I chose it but not yet to such an extent that I would take it for you responsible, that is, in a civil marriage the woman is not protected, inexpensive and not particularly need to why does a woman understand us even when she strains us that it is so I understand and the man understands but he's right too, you agreed to find him rule everything is fair we are we agreed, you weren't against it that's why a woman also has it several roles what do you think how important most important role wife it's very important to be a wife somehow It seems a bit hot inside me we can but what maybe some guy will open the door the door is closed I won't go for sure Imagine, I went to open the windows submissions oh my god someone will decide to me therefore wife mother what other version you went down the wrong path you started looking logical chains of analogy on continue the logical series wife mother and all there daughter sister aunt friend yes yes yes but there was no need to continue logical series I don't no therefore wife mother fairy you look like a goddess, that's what women are like there should be roles in the family who is a fairy which organizes some space I had a friend of mine at that time she asks her so chicly and what do you work as she warmed I work in such and such a very expensive boutique fairy hand imagine, she worked as a fairy saleswoman no and when I heard how it works I said you work as a fairy, that is, Katya people come and she creates something atmosphere and As a result of this atmosphere, she has revenue more than in Pyaterochka during rush hour People left her and didn't just buy themselves one They even bought dresses and something else there clothes for your dogs to match the dress which they bought this is called kya that's why a woman is created for that to create a manly atmosphere he doesn't know how to create an atmosphere, well you remember talking about these curtains curtains this one is good curtains or bad A zante version of men brown fifth point fifth point fifth step is learn to ask correctly most often he doesn't know how to ask harder I can't forgive a woman for a man either we will learn now, we need to find a balance between gratitude for what was received and not not yes not with the contentment of the wrong or unworthy, that is, a woman should learn to praise a man for his successes I repeat myself but nevertheless it is possible remember and hall success at the same time be dissatisfied and do not allow unworthy she must learn to behave in this way tolerate that we have already discussed the shortcomings the difference between disadvantages and I was considered unworthy of it excessive requests and desires of a woman to man defining words now here what is excessive and why are you do you think excessive skating can be done right in the family man damn yes enough he presses and presses asks and asks, asks and against what means if a woman has a lot of requests And she's scared she's scared to be alone and not she's not enough attention, she's afraid that she won't loves very surprisingly but if a woman asks for something from a man out of stupidity it seems to me that at least we are not there no, we're saving up for a moped, something like that or there I don't know on the Czech wall in fact, how should a man answer a woman who asks for some crap of course of course let's think about it let's figure it out and find out how much it costs in those where after some time they figured out where Where not really necessary, it was necessary to find out that is, a woman at least I want this one crap in most cases on translation Russian language in male language it sounds I'm so scared I'm bored I'm afraid that you don't love me you haven't loved me for a long time you said that you love me and cube belt pin and [ __ ] I knew you I don't love me I don't know the exact percentage, well that's what I mean I suspect about 90 percent of the cases the woman asks not for what is necessary and nobody and I think so to satisfy all her desires yes no no no need satisfy her desires she has needs to be what of course she is and she must be needed she is there must be a road it didn't work there was a window yes I have one like that it feels like we're in a bathhouse before I went to pull it and it wouldn't turn on, so even condition nothing we will tolerate yes well, it's good to steal something let's clarify let's continue and we'll move on for a break a little bit later so that It would be more logical to ask correctly due to lack of attention woman starts demanding even what is not hers you need this called a frame of mind a black sheep gets at least a tuft of wool when a woman starts giving gifts to men leave him more than he can give this means that this man is not is a long-term project of a woman that is, she has already lost well all sorts of interests hope now we need that squeeze out the maximum so that later there is something left you know it's like me somehow there was such a version do you know why gypsies they wear a lot of gold on themselves they are no longer always ready to be kicked out at home therefore they should be on the first time it's not but it can't be beautiful according to ours, it can wear well an ingot gold is therefore smoothly distributed across throughout his body he is always on guard that's how modern women are all time is of the essence, that is, they understand that a man can blow away at any moment but he is right to ask this means and principle of seat belt use you know that shaky seat belt the seat belt needs to be pulled slowly and smoothly if you pull the belt safety sharply that is man turf interest in it will most likely stagnate as someone said you can even do this bend the car pillar into the car so you will pull on this belt but it strong and will not allow and sometimes they say men cocktail on discs calf yes a normal man really likes it when he has a ring in his nose inserted and the woman with a thread or in Russian, there is something about you I want this and that, well, let's go and this here is my sunshine athena lucy but this is very class because you understand that you cult of healthy and you're not turning around because she is you are controlled because it is pleasant if these eyes start bleeding then fill with blood can wave a hoof It seems to you that I have grasped everything ring yes he put this ring there himself he lets you drag him around that's why you have to carry it like neat and another Liguria here is a seat belt, that is, a woman everything can be done gently there are women to do something rude decisively there is she wants to fight with her man it is important to squeeze and so on we are sure that most likely you will be with to fight as a man no need to fight with men with men there is no point in fold Pasha or you him you will kill and you will be left without a man or he will kill you and there will remain where the women are in this meaning a wise woman asks seldom but only truly desired and in order to ask for what you really want know your desires we talked about this We had one like that fourth point if the woman does not understand your desire and on the contrary all sorts of crap crap too they were sorting out something absolutely unnecessary that is never used who has a hand to suppress and please a closet where you put your crap who has things that have never been wore them and you really understand that you you won't report it if a man buys things from which they never wear why buy them no I will help dear ladies tell me how I am I buy myself clothes, all pants must be be different but green [music] that is, I can easily go to shop and buy the same pants as for me, my husband and I are normal then there may not be you bought the same ones the second time at a good price the best shoes and I buy I went and bought them, they all cost the same these are the same, they were taken down somewhere, I handed them in here actually the same ones, yes I get into it I have six shirts in my life Can you imagine why you think me? 6 shirt It's okay to have two shirts but in contact often write waltz dressed in that the same shirt the second one as possible change the genie already got it let's buy one more shirt and everyone thinks you pauper Well, let's buy it, what's the difference? on the shirt should be nice, that's good shirt they so that there are many of them therefore I don't have things that I don't wear and I don't wear them all, I don't have them, I'm going somewhere I'll give it right away, but the woman has it and that's good and at the dacha there is a small nuance to consider that when a woman asks her man for she must understand that she is somehow should ask a little more than a man maybe to drive it a little and zones comfort is the defining word a little bit in life vova you are very deducing zone comfort most likely he will get tense if you don't take out your comfort zone rather it will only stop progressing there is a man who must understand that he should tear off a little but the defining word is a little bit like one the woman said wisely, I'm not that smart stupid even simplify it less for your husband what can he give so how did you live copy you need to build your life so that never knew but how do you save you must have a desire but not a penny it is not allowed for women to eat and save to something offensive no way especially if you feed it yourself what a horror Psychologists say that women don't have such a resource to enjoy that what does she get herself the whole network earned and bought from you there is no strength to be happy about this the only thing left to be happy about is that you they gave you what they brought you what they brought you well and so on and so on and so forth so there is no mention of the comfort zone either forget but to easily talk about your desires we must admit that we are dependent on each other and no one else know what they say woman which is absolutely dependent on its a worthy husband is the most independent woman in the world let's continue the next step is step six it's called that, we need to figure it out the concept of codependency we have already said that there are independent people no, but codependency this is when people for they are mutually dependent on each other, that is dependence on husband is the most powerful Women's independence can be about this they said but you need to choose the one from whom depend nice nice at least like this when a woman chooses a man so as not to It depends, she will most likely choose for herself irresponsible men when a woman chooses a man for herself so that she doesn’t get away from him it depends on whether she chooses irresponsibly very often there comes here all men are younger than me those who are me constantly appear I attract of course but why are they like this? what mommy you just don't want depend on a man automatically such are attracted Well, we're talking about sunflowers too remember there was such a harsh allegory if a woman can say no then while recognizing the final word as a man that their relationship will never be very beautiful and at the same time they both can preserve yourself as a person that woman I must learn to say no but at the same time she must learn the last word is left to the man but that's about right, it's not for me I like it but you can do as you wish do you think it is necessary? the main thing is in the end then when not to say him but I area to do u ruin everything phrase technology but I said better don't use it at all somehow it's necessary block ban ban somehow train yourself that this is all the combination of these letters is not even in in such order and the woman goes out what is it this is a very dangerous thing independence always seems very sweet attractive very attractive but independence is the main reason all divorces but usually says no they got along in some way or another nonsense but most likely people just don't want to depend on each other but on the other hand why marry a person who will then have to prove it all his life it's strange for him to have his independence I often ask why not us from this why about People who are dependent on something are also very become independent should but before marriage let's talk about this for a woman to show that she is a person means to say about in our desires we sometimes say these you need to learn to ask but for a woman It's more important not even to forgive, but to learn talk about your desires if a woman knows how to talk about her desires and knows about his desires to us the man at some point when he you will want to he fulfills some of the women's desires will know about her desire well how about how you will fulfill the desire there is she is silent as partisan it's true That's why that someone is giving lectures to the cops there I read it so I'll clarify it's a pity strain arose that write down I understood everything yes but be careful or you'll get it now send and then I do something let's say the opposite the next point is point 7 is also very an important woman besides what is needed understand your desires and meaning understand your husband's desires so guys if possible quietly because 6 we had to sort out the concepts I see you decided to codependency right now I need to understand a man's desires, yes I do I'm nervous well I'm talking about this because men are very single-tasking live creatures that is, is there a man speaking that's the only thing he can tolerate any man and vectors is when his listens when he speaks and sees that you listen to someone dro even there is it yours I get really tense when I'm teaching, how can this be here? Such a serious event was prepared that's why he transferred to the same family history these man your this says from they are distracted by the fact that they simply begin go crazy and ready to possess the face and you and how you listen at this time moment it's easier for men because if he doesn't listens to a woman, he doesn't hear her This woman doesn't listen to a man then it's true enough you hear what I I say panda here but man no there is here for example a man will be with you you two will talk embarrassed times roller you will me all he will not hear for him there will be and how to hand over on the plane so this is one task, that's why I explain either to upset in some way or to be like this suggest what how because if you got herself a crocodile in the fridge in this in the bathroom then you should understand how not to feed him you fed him strawberries and cream, he didn't eat, start to bite off something that's why it's very important to understand desires of men to be and to be such not that the question of what unites women and men Most of all in the family it is anecdotal such a question is a joke yes yes and he and she think about it all the time one how to make a man happy [music] that's why the man says he's ready to do anything for women to help her do it now can he have any desire at all women make him happy him really cola woman this is being led It seems to them that if I fulfill the wish all the man's desires he reciprocates yes he will fulfill my xxx if you scratch him back so that he scratches yours then him he would say thank you more often and think cool woman amazing such a thing the need to scratch men's backs, you know I like the bowls and you sit and do it all life of a friend yes you will start reading and sewing I've been scratching myself for 47 years, nothing will happen so far so good, but as a dad, how should it be get your back scratched just ask no need hints no we need to give examples we are not like that the truth is the truth if you see that a man has no desire fulfill your your desires 7 see what a man wants only him to be fulfilled so somewhere The virus has most likely entered your relationship women brought this virus through their husbands initially and desire initially and the man's desire was different from the start and every man's desire in a relationship is here is a boy who wants to carry in style backpack your classmate your my friend very clean and beautiful and desire to perform a feat but somewhere a woman freaked out at the countries bent somewhere something started to stir up somewhere start paying for hype news portfolio They've been carrying my briefcase home for two days now I have to give myself to him for knives It's true, he's wearing a sixth dress on his head I didn't have that thought and that means the most interesting thing is that she and the man are in the head didn't come just in case this one is a little bit esotericism but nevertheless nevertheless point eight point eight this is necessary to understand male independence and 7 we said that there yes that is it understand your husband's desires desires of a man point eight understand male independence Let's go back to whether or not man achieve independence be independent become independent yes such version but for a man it is very important become independent achieve this independence but this needs to be done before marriage before the birth of the child before responsibility because only an independent person can move on the stage of codependency, that is codependency is not two dependents people are two independent so it depends on your wife it's very well a man is very parasitic when he is dependent on his family what does it mean dependent on my family he is addicted to borscht, sex and so on something like that is not he is addicted to being a leader protection com miner because only in such a family a man feels he is dependent on the feeling of being a man a man and if a woman can create this for him an atmosphere where he can feel himself yellow men come yes I am a man I I can God you are great and someone someone thanks for putting something in Damn you did such a bad thing I did the same I was upset today, I cried all night here what did i do you hurt me so much you did They think such nasty things, how could I even do something like that I can hit like you hit and it's the same as with my 12 year old daughter bang which of the men who is the man who killed his 12 year old daughter, yes, in the jaw so with a turn on and but so salvation well you know what the effect was maximum well so that it is not already an adult so if a woman knows how to be in in the mood of such a small one girls in the family is a normal state when she speaks she feels like a man can feel argue with feelings women tell me model i tea otacona when I think differently let's sit down, talk and decide everything normally, like an adult, and the attack will see all women no no man shows up camouflage is covered for rest no he grows up but his shoulders are wider and bald There's already a master of sports sitting there international class a what a master of sports wants to do international class to win to win therefore it is very important when can such a mantra be used in a family read yes yes well not everything can be achieved achieve very good manta me it I liked it very much, I recorded it and maybe did you like it, I'll repeat it twice it is so I voluntarily being absolutely independent absolutely independently choosing from many people one from whom I'm absolutely going to absolutely independently depends all life these are full dad experienced dad I will say said to repeat twice because I'm already repeating it on purpose to remember I voluntarily being absolutely independent absolutely independent I choose from a variety of people one from which I absolutely intend regardless depends on your whole life I won't repeat it again write down the essence in your heart I think everything is on video yes everything will be posted for free absolutely along there will be a reason piri-piri review in a happy marriage a woman remains completely independent all their lives because she is absolutely dependent and many say that they study this the question is what an independent woman she is nature simply doesn't need it that is, the woman wants to become independent when she doesn't have someone from whom and I communicated with someone I want to depend on I have a very amazing friend he is a mentor to the female doctor salyate at the same time he is very serious spiritually advanced person and and he works very hard, he is in our the city is very serious well how professional very serious doctor there you have to work tirelessly for that say that he has up to 80 people a day maybe accept women I don't know at all how is it by the second somehow how are you tariffs are on the move per second but he doesn't like it when the turn comes it's like yes only serious connections can somehow that's why he says I'm for my career I've talked to at least 30 thousand women I talked and they all want the same thing they want to be married to a worthy man they everyone wants a cozy home with obedient children if they don't have it they want something some other crap type of independence and type of equal rights what equal rights do two people have to carry sugar to the fifth floor to drink together or rent the woman is not crazy and some kind of equality but such itself how is this also going on the internet joke how at home one began to be indignant there this work with men somewhere in office that damask this is the most you me no Whatever you put it in, you don't belong to They didn't treat me as an equal discuss your women drinking with her she'll throw in a tourniquet there in three days What opinion is not everything keep treating me differently Of course it's good to drive a car by yourself but It's better when you are driven, of course it's true it's nice to be able to buy you flowers for yourself on March 8th but better when you have them in the valleys and so on and so forth so on and so forth woman Well, look how I said this version I just don't want you to now thought 6 of you all who want to drive somewhere yes that is if you come up People will take what I say into consideration although everything and everything and everything all at once will spoil the defining here everything is important factors so if you are from context just rip it out, a woman shouldn't work from before very well but she should not rub being absolutely dependent from a worthy person than she can absolutely not work and if it a lonely dove on the ledge outside the window she will work like Pasha Angelina on tractor d t t t t t t and so on Everyone knows something like this short pasha angelina people adults remember adults and people who were born in the eighties and God willing, at 90 they shouldn't even know who is pasha angelina God forbid you should never take anything in your life didn't surface don't know great great great, we'll have a laugh with knowledgeable people you can type in the internet pasha angelina and was horrified therefore a woman must voluntarily make yourself dependent on what is needed to help my husband get what you want do all your what what to make you happy here the main male desire is very important yet understand the nature of the promise it is point nine I sometimes refer to some Vedic sources and it is said that only those promises that are given absolutely voluntarily without any all other coercions have force assurances of oath are of no force and marriage is not can't be strong if someone from couples did not make the decision independently freely and easily if you have marriage is based on something other than that mutual desire to make each other happy then all these all these vows all these paintings there is a wedding of the girl Yaga this is the fulfillment they don't make any sense you just have to get married according to the calculation, yes, there just has to be a calculation I am now teaching the correct calculation know the trajectory of the projectile must be precise dad and still the white light shoots out like in You never know, we'll get a kopeck on the seventh try in marriage you feel like you don't get it right you shoot in the other direction you know how there's a joke, this one is sitting by the window looking waiting for her betrothed is this love is this not love this is schizophrenia says the wise man She looks into the house from the street it seems like the windows are looking, it seems like it's waiting, but with there are no streets to the house there are no narrowed ones so of course it had to be calculation with the good center me well I promised and what but I promised well I have to do something, right? well and so on, I need to listen to something like that I'm ready to tell you that sometimes this happens the tenth point needs to be sorted out in connection generations I started to draw a little bit and I want to give you a hint about what a connection is generations first we depend I just I want to push the topic push the topic dependencies I am absolutely dependent I am a henpecked man demand from this with experience henpecked with the old I feel great and absolutely dependent this holds this addiction keeps me going gives me the opportunity to be a responsible person if it works and the like only I am independent I am sad and a loser I want to tell you right away, that's why I'm trying to push this topic through that it is zagi possibilitie ok at first we are absolutely dependent like little children we are born we go world fall asleep not swell nothing that is we absolutely dependent god sends us people crazy desire for you love to protect and so on note people are designed in such a way that she doesn't cares we will die immediately but somehow why are there these people who are from we care and no one cares there is such a hotel peeling absolutely I'm addicted, they put a diaper on me disgusting I want to choose which ones myself there are purees I want to know about you myself suck the left tit and so on there everyone is silent there is no democracy that are totally to ride totalitarianism of all It suits me, doesn't it? why on the thrush and we start trying to achieve independence it means already echoes upbringing and but mom well what are you wearing one hat put on gloves sensor drank you will find out this is the same everyone knows this peak as a transitional one at some age we try this independence to achieve and when we we achieve this independence when we we'll learn ourselves when we learn well we become independent then in the end we we begin to sacrifice our independence for the sake of others more helpless more dependent and the like that wants what to do as a man when you become independent take responsibility for someone to someone give patronage to a man and that is someone help this bar on built donations on this a lot of things built and then when the man grows up becomes serious so strong firmly on the diet, wife has grown up protected there everything she is in ecstasy that he starts to take care of more parents and such a person does not write a what to do and what must be paid medicine for dad there who or for that mom he doesn't write such things to him coolly pay for mom's medicine or something like that light and and pay because it gives him What significance of course of course of course he understands that in this way he is a nutmeg pays yes but he balances in the universe creates some because but so that if a man starts to get nervous that he has to do something there I need to listen to my mom about something like that I will report and listen or not listen but we live in a broken place it really does happen That's why normal state when people want want to give something to those adcolony once upon a time parents depended on it and that similar the point is not to achieve independence from a in order to learn in fact, cooperation is huge the problem in marriage is that people don't know how cooperate and basically why not it turns out that she is an employee because of men and women begin to cooperate as equal as partners a man and a woman equal partners are not well Imagine a father and his nine-year-old son cooperate as equal partners that it will work out ok years went to make a fence together Mom asked No, of course there will be cooperation. of course it will be you just someone will be someone will be responsible help before or just go to I remember my boy and I went with gloves dig a garden there for some years back who to which floor Well, he was there for nine years, let's say. he really dug No, he wore white gloves like that he didn't even get the workers dirty and then he sent him to go there bring a rake, go and get some water there and there he is there was something going on there I figured it out there, I don't know what it is then trunk from we dug the garden This is how we collaborated of course 28 years old as if to choose me as a brother 28 She hasn't worn me out in years works like that same victim so let me repeat ten more steps they these steps I want you understood and not for us thought about it find it so philosophically and not like their language the truth will fulfill the complex but there is something to think about them Today we have such a philosophical topic 1 admit problems second task question why did we get married 3 admit dependent person 4 understand your desires 5 learn to ask correctly 6 understand the concept of codependency point seven: understand your desires Men, it makes sense to figure it out 8 Understanding Male Independence 9 understand the nature of promises and 10 understand the connections but the generation is here It turned out so strange today topic if you have any questions on the topic or in family psychology and I have so much like just a bunch Let's girl how old are girls how is she going to give it away Well, how do I know then, you ask? is it right for a girl to do something I ask her what should she do to get out, I don't know life No my mother just doesn't like me You give me information on this I don't I can answer you, so you should understand that children do nothing to their parents shouldn't all they should can give only to your children this is really what you should no one you shouldn't eat that often talk about the woman who takes it while parenthood requires parents to pay there is something else for them that is not right she must first be under herself she herself must become a patron protected she must grow such a husband who will take under his wing her parents too they are not happy about this if a woman starts to take care of everyone especially if the girls are 30 then Mom and Dad are 50, still such strong guys which simply suck out the tornado of comfort I understand when girls are 50 and your parents are old but you are different question what spirit what duty this girl 30th anniversary can give all with you strong Mom and Dad what is the debt card Well, I didn't understand everything, but I understood everything I knew. I said everything please give me your question Mycenae and if they see differently say no to work on the woman by the ropes and Finds 70 and seriously or a loving couple study together Well, she's a little bit tempted by this it would be nice if we sat together pack, put in checkered bags drag the shells to the market to sell with the inscription Tyumen 2015 and everyone will see that well The number five is a corrected number four last year they didn't sell any ears approximately that and why does a woman need it do business month man so that he could save on an accountant who will he have to save on in which ones that's not true then he wants to be a designer save money if you want to support a man create an atmosphere for him where he can after his business you can relax beautifully and recharge your batteries those same ones so that he would feel that there was a nest which he wants thousands of defeated mammoth and if you are together you will do business and go home when you come back you both will look there who's wife and she won't be there, I have a question for you will you be doing business who will be wash that is you want to plow so that earn money for a nanny and who will be his feed a how do you work together? do you want a this is the network of the house hang the curtains and where in hang curtains in the office no well if you have a business selling curtains stop being hysterical I know you're already being abrupt fell to curtains and now I sat down and thought because of the curtains to break such a slender system it's true what is the right thing to do forgive them this the ingot pleased our conversations as what is the right thing to do if on holiday the man says but choose a gift for yourself I'll give money for it later and I'm like this I won't receive a gift of joy because I put time and effort into it myself did all the work A what work tired of choosing gifts and Well, I just take it as humor some you know how they go I'm on I press the button on the seat and you earn money there is such a healthy one does not go and what are you they wanted him to figure it out himself you buy you sit like this how i loved once i dreamed of 13 years nothing like that will be normal adequate scientists yes take the gift after all I'm not a genius coupe for a long time not at all you as ever a man wagon Well, tell me, who has experience like this? your man always guesses didn't guessing tell you so just once and I wonder what [music] look here, there's just one thing which you can't even talk about, the man gave maybe there in the store, well, for adults something but in any case you suggested we'll drop you off here and there now this will break the well-ordered system again yes, but basically not so I like it, it's vulgar, well, it's cool of course if a man does this he is not worthy Bandit, pick some [ __ ] for yourself and our house will be a month later we will buy Go-go spend daddy's hard earned money money of course if so yes he says then of course it's a shame but if that's how he is he says go choose all I pay him Of course what do you want I will give you money for this matter it would be even better to just give some money and I'll tell 50 thousand guys about you buy any gift you want of course, if all the money is accounted for [music] you should tell him not to try make surprises surprises not his canyon at alamo absolutely about i honestly tell you I will say that I tried it once in my life make a surprise it was bending and my wife she is to me without any She said don't do that again so that nothing happens and I have been like that ever since don't do this again didn't buy clothes some how i this video that's all that ended and you know I I understood everything very well that's why there are none of these knit no management well if I can't do it, what are you puffing about and also a request I would like someone to write it down Certainly with the advent of our family a child of one and a half years I became mean to men I understand that I shouldn't behave like this, but I can't leave myself, I'm sawing him without reasons and codes husband ideal apparently due to lack of objects to which you can merge negative emotions all on husband what to do Well, after a year and a half, you're just tired and everything will be fine with this, but it is already necessary not nag ask him so he will listen to you everything is there he will listen to you he will have everything the same thing but painlessly you me we need to listen because our the child is one and a half years old, I am so tired tired of writing how to sleep eat when the child allows me, it's very difficult for me chatted movie sadhana no regime java look, I gained 12 kilograms and because I am this I drink and eat all these nipples on the 7th canon and so on and so forth then game anyhow anywhere what I got it, I don't get enough sleep, I have these healthy circles under the eyes and I don't even bear kuala it's me not performing it don't say anything and just listen to me you are a good man you are not guilty of anything, just a child I've been tired for a year and a half and listen to me if if you need to do something I'll tell you what to do now shut up and listen a If you don't listen to me I'll saw you up you and I have your face I explained it to you clearly or somehow else I don't have, I haven't given birth, but I'm married and I have a lot when I was a pupil once upon a time they gave me a tip raising two brothers from such a I had to educate someone like that I train was a good brother I have experience and I have taught them many things which I will never teach you to do in my life his brother his son never in my life to her no that's why God forbid [music] sorry how can i best spend my vacation unmarried girls with a boyfriend are better to conduct in total or best to conduct in the group for unmarried girls it's cool to be in a group not for men guys and girls some group going somewhere some kind of tourist thing is it real cool thing really cool thing that yes, you can travel and with someone a suitor but already at a fairly high level stages courtship yes something like that well where else to conduct ditches specifically the city of Buba Today is good Sochi there are good hotels we need red meadow and all that stuff so I understood correctly that you are asking specifically which format is this the best format the worst thing that can happen is being alone conduct raise you will go you will find rest alone adventure for your lower 90s rather total at my husband mottos before husband arrested it is written my spirit to plates day random sand no friends he only communicates with my men my friends, it worries me you are right these are waves so tell me what does he need you to communicate with my I will bring you friends to the neighbors I'll sleep with you just in case you don't need to communicate with your friends, you are very wrong Democracy was launched into the family by a man always oil woman always fire so you don't have to get so close there is some kind of etiquette, well how can you communicating in the family is not allowed Ethan serious thing if it's unmarried girlfriends are not allowed to be at home at all you shouldn't have anyone coming to your home if you are married you have unmarried girlfriends or some married ones but yes, they are so easy and no need comes when your husband is at work according to the agreement my will be in an hour from here I'm getting ready for family and so I'm not joking at all, well that is, these friends cannot come to you home when you are there you are not there because what and so on and so forth and in general It is very good for a woman to communicate with a man with the bottom u7 they will teach her bad things you have to be careful when making friends, girlfriend who yours got married they are very many life has changed a lot so find another summit friend communicate less and how will you do that continue to communicate further this format will change completely somehow you will communicate with the now married woman a friend of ours to stay the night with her hands what will you do sit until in the morning everyone is having fun walking around go to the disco and eat and burn, eat and burn the show there is nothing like that for him and on a married woman is a completely different status I'm cheating on you girl marry woman life changes absolutely loaded with this horse is not a foot soldier so you immediately you will learn how to survive will change dramatically just like a man is not married and married these are different men so and someone that is your whole life well before marriage and after it's like before demobilization approximately like this please friends and initially it was allowed with him they were already married there are vegetables there is a topic we will work together for a whole year like this companies you come it was left common interests and the cause of workers you all together in the company so that what are the differences with her husband? my sunshine look into my lustful eyes nasty eyes that's why you're like this tells something not I know all this wonderfully only from the inside all this is not true I'm not ready now just through memoirs that's why I know the basics the basics are like that you'll play out so there is some well good good Let's say you are ready for your husband communicated with his unmarried girlfriends what is there to think about? only with the ugly ones like that whose chopsticks are all filled up noise well what then well what do you mean no will say which one with what decent there are no decent and You don't have any married friends, but I'm joking of course. by this you yourself allow and permit so that a man like that oh my god let's go Usually men do this to me now I need your help please lift me up the hands that who agree with me that it is not necessary chat with unmarried friends I also raised it, look, I see everyone who are here yes he also longitude all they told you they explained to you man that catch him married men there shouldn't be any unmarried girlfriends because that all your husband's friends are either ex-lover or future or real because a man can't be friends a man can never have a woman make friends with women husband and woman are not created for men as friend she was created for something else I unfortunately, the truth will come to pass I know all this wonderfully and you only know women think he'll be friends with me any way your friend is your secret admirer here Look, I'm going to make a statement to you now. I never befriend women who are my sexually unattractive you believe me it doesn't mean that with them I'm a cultured person, they're already married there But I am very careful with them I don't call them by name God forbid something happens that prevents it from happening the situation it may develop in spring I came there, let's say testosterone he will now rise to the salty this testosterone and the like and that's it everything went off the scale fell man mesh such don't look at your man before such and put in an awkward position londa is a lustful male like me like this we are still and we are within the framework we are doing well we feel we are released we are all animals we are we find I put him in the chicken coop and let him sit Here I keep my friends too You are a vegetarian, yes, I am I'll tell you a joke I'll tell you a surprisingly not pouting big topic was not raised a woman comes to to the vet and he says I have it shorter I have a problem, my cat gives birth all the time he says or what's the problem here. But she doesn't leave the house There is no one else, there are no cats in the house she's giving birth, she's giving birth, I don't know where to give birth he doesn't fit into the toilet anymore kittens That's roughly how he became interested such a phenomenon phenomenon don thirst can a I think my husband is some kind of ghost something is going wrong there, no need to clarify and he This one comes into the apartment, it's true there sits such a cat he is like this turn around and cross and sit here such a cake from him What are you talking about, that's her brother good they don't give I knew so guys forgive me if suddenly I revealed some secrets and mysteries to us it will be easier, therefore there is no such thing friendship you can't allow a man to be your husband we need to be friends with women and this is my friend and there is nothing there just went to school Thank God my wife and I studied together knows all my friends my whole well Her sexual growth has passed before her eyes this is my custom I remember Zhenya in the sect then I looked after so I didn't know anything at all without remembering my husband I looked after everyone This is fine yes and if a man asks how you are doing And to my answer I'm tired today he immediately he says oh I'm also starting to get tired talk about yourself how to translate talk back to me so I could share speak out otherwise In this case I don't want to listen to his tiredness since I don't feel supported, thank you you for the answer you are great, I am absolutely normal woman the trick is that you allow well well well let's play I'm not me I don't know, here we are, here's my parade, but what about I'm tired, I'm tired today too This is the kind of crap we traded in our ratings have dropped in a jiffy rose and hemorrhoids and so on and so forth furthermore we also owe the Tajiks there for aluminum 600 million dollars a the Chechens don't want to give us ours money and this is still there there there and in general I have but I don't know gonorrhea syphilis psoriasis and liver cirrhosis ugh, I feel better and you need to go to the market sphere to soak and to move away from here all of this is why at the stage and I too tired stop my dear what are you let's not let's not confuse let's not confuse I am a woman I am I speak out and you listen, and not absolutely no need to solve issues Now I need you like a bti psychotherapists a psychotherapist is someone who is like this Cheburashka such a small bridge between two ears and you just listen listen listen listen and if you teach your husband listen, everything will be very good for you because men of course sometimes sometimes they get confused, they might think that the wife is a psychotherapist and if you start listen he will say well if it works saved a lot on psychotherapists there on the accountant on the designers here on psychotherapists are still with the man and desire to save on a cook prostitutes and cleaners if you allow he does this with great pleasure without remorse the attention of a woman without guilt which will put it off until I don't I know how to get cold gnawing until nothing during life there will be no such thing, he will take and use it won't even rise to and worry, so a woman should understand that a man has two functions psychotherapist and mr. solve everything problems but this is ruslan berty's term dude mister we solve all problems and here we are sometimes we get confused when we just need a woman listen height to run decide because when we we hear women problems subconsciously how are they worth it for me I haven't solved this issue, it's like a complex responsible man you quietly quietly shasha two steps back and breathe our where are you just throw a panama hat for 1 lat listen a sometimes when you need to solve a problem, well yes I understand you, yes no-no-no understand no need need to go decide you understand what I'm talking about, you understand and that's it you need to build relationships in such a way that the man didn't confuse it, so I wouldn't even I don't know what the problem is, how can I not solve it? The man says, I don't have any at all there are simply no such problems, you will find out Why I just started saying some nonsense got tired turned around and left Yesenia, out of a sense of duty, withdrew and that's it, and I I'm not going to listen to this crap and that's it no that's not it intro learn a great thing learn to speak a woman shouldn't have 80 percent qualities of women and 20 of men 20 for that to learn to say no no someone's foot is going home I thought years well let's do it here, I thought decisively I see that as to whom I don't, I don't remember anymore, I'm a man men have a memory like a fish 2 seconds opinion but we are not talking about that now they said on birthday well day birthday then birthday gathered crowd than normal state mouse not we speak on another others when there to corporate bypassed you can there corporate I know there is one person there who is not married. I won't go but there is actually a very large one serious label to go on day birth for example to an unmarried girl a if you gain weight by one birth 1 then most likely you will leave alone yes, if it goes with a friend, then sooner you'll just go back with your girlfriend and if exit on you will go you will leave hell but in basically you will have problems everyone is a goat they will cling to you in ways that are necessary stick to approximately so, that's why it's necessary learn to go to birthday parties like this one but itis is unoccupied so it's very good in this case to have married friends like these you approach your girlfriend if you blew do you believe we are going to a birthday party we are with you I'll talk to you need to go were so Lenka we must marry this is ours the duty of housewives is everything for us ok, but she needs to wait, she'll go alone how lonely well this is the poorest one yes it's not nice and indecent for her not to have there was a complex so she will go with us I need it, you don't mind OK they came and everyone understands you, you are with them Well, as long as it's not occupied and under guard something is sitting on disney dance once ours to us not once but only once and not try to run away all the men danced around the parade a woman dancing is an interesting option she is invited I am dumb for 5 hours photo invite then you have to break in you have to break in now this is generally beauty it will disappear and all such beauties along the road in there are no all lying around in the channels we met, talked, thank you for that they say such a sacrifice to the house the owners will start it is not a lock but it is you have to do it very beautifully if you don't you know how to do it right, in general don't make yours give you something like that that then you will be left alone with two children please hear from me, who has it? the question was he hasn't come for a long time first efforts to remain silent to endure not to decide but look you can't do that man comes in I agree with Oleg Yuryevich and he takes off his shoes and already as if he has on children are hanging on his back, his wife is screaming in his ear I had a problem with my hands screwed in and the like for men need to prepare for therapy he comes such an elder loyd children dad came dad Then dad came and gave us something tasty brought dad generally worked all day dad is like yes yes daddy I already prepared for you that at some point it needs to be washed granny dad stinks that's why but you can't tell Farru run-run your tracks no, neither did she, I hung up the towel we're waiting for you daddy went to get confused comes out and everything is already covered there, everything is already in the freezer You're so frozen that you're all like that silent you sit salad lining and that's how the light burped oh you won't believe it but it happened today I explained Oleg's version clearly Yuryevich please your question and we have another letter of course a woman should never listen to what the man says so I can say that it's very clear tell me i don't want to listen to you where does it say Well, train, I'm safe I can't even speak the language and muted his lips never said such a phrase but you have to learn This is all very good but I'd rather tell you I'll tell you about myself that's why everything a man says is but it's not interesting that's why men they would with pleasure and listened but the woman if he sits there and is dumb, it seems to him that we are like between would be the situation it is necessary for we are here well to be a clown somehow and amuse the dodavi to amuse and he listens and if she is silent ask questions ask the question where did you study and where are you lived and who are your parents and what on specialties and what do you read and what do you listen and so on what color are you I like it, but if everything is bad there, what is it? mobile phone do you like some do you know the letters ask a man everything please everything is necessary find out I will give, therefore it is said that a woman to her a man can tell everything but not right away a man can tell his woman three things first how he loves her what she is beautiful and the second thing is that he is for her did 3 what is going to do all this a great scheme when everyone is in ecstasy and a man very often does not need them come up with writing essays there we're not really, well, you know, not everyone is like that the same chatty as me sit behind my not come something why he tells him something, he came like this All brevity is the soul of wit why are we sitting here, why aren't we working here? Stalin All scene at Stalin's [laughter] It's cool for them to have fewer diseases nights will live very much and generally open mouth dangerously comes out energy of power an open mouth is a hole in the gas tank spent when a man speaks on the first place for me mom then you wife therefore, the issues are resolved accordingly there are no priorities, this is not right It's better to find out before marriage because well how can he say let's say we don't have me I will say I don't know what you should tell your man but for men mother is sacred and wife is not sacred there are some of them, that is, the first category 2 like sturgeon in Balakovo that's why it is normal state when this this saint but the symbol of the downy of children is more than one how do you take care of them, what is the priority the one who was born first has the right to love Sorry, I only had enough money for candy elders to whom you're so small I'm not sure what from me Well, this is madness, everyone understands that you you will love children equally therefore a man's task love and care for your women their equally and most importantly love and care from their women and not bring them together so that they would be somehow separate like I was There is 1 amazing person in the family but he so smart and not poor but apparently not poor because he is smart and has a lot women he cares about his wife is his mother and sister and they all live with him him and he is a serious person they are not at home he lives there and he built a house there sister and built everything on one plot and mom and you know what the trick is, each one has their own kitchen because the door is just covered in chocolate yes of course not everyone cooks and carries it he's such a repo guy that he's showing off his mom he made three women happy and what if he would have driven them all into a heap and there would have been this is a demonstrative St. Bartholomew's Day massacre Struggle 12 times of the Russo-Japanese War please there was a question somewhere with us note the last one can be put friends the last ones here will come later not think now very important floor we won't have the last topic tomorrow tomorrow is a men's only club so the question must be intelligent so that I Krasila left Tyumen whoever asks the question will receive it blessings for a happy marriage please your question so you somehow didn't migrate like me all all all this menu what does it mean you are very important can congratulations let's ask without allegory what do you want should they come Tomorrow they will come tomorrow well, but they won't hear, but it's important or you don't hear them let me in if he screams at me well that's where it is there is no point in this matter, let's ask stop controlling the boy 22 let the years go where they want you said what yes, normal, normal mug The guy says cool things, I don't so much so there is and go will be good don't worry i won't tell nothing like that will ruin your relationship not there or use your boys don't worry about than then why is the question really not it's important there is one more chance tasks important question but a blessing and still 2 please last time leaves tick teak 321 [laughter] Let's who went to the course millet is this normal [music] you need a man is present in life and so on just in case it's rare now you need to build a sexual raising daughters is not lectures girls mom will tell you now important no and especially did not live with no triplets or the elder one told you there and pass on to the younger ones as you understood no no here something else is important build such relationships that they wanted to listen to you well older to the core tell me how you just how old is she well no well everyone years if you tell about loves vaginas and fritz i'm afraid that I hope nothing happens to get the belly so here is very It is important that the mother has common sense and the child should be given a scheme that he will calm down, this is not necessary now no need for sex education Seiran vinta and we need to tell what the scheme is ashes there what well and I don't know what would storks bring children to water, they all bring them from them Authors are born in cabbage give which the storks brought becomes eagles about those who are goats in the cabbage I don't need anything like that before It's surprising if they don't believe me. some was in my mother's tummy both as where do they come from from love with the ass Well, I see, in any case, I don't think so what do you need to draw peniston and so on tell some things and or what Mom should move at 120 beats per minute as naive dan token no in any case the scheme that pulls your child and that's it Thank God, at seven years old I can read better the wizard of the emerald city and in 10 to I don't think she'll be happy to know about this for 7 years why did they tell the villains in the entrance more stupidly so it is necessary that she does not go with villains in the entrance that's why I'm telling you that you need to build build so relationship shu yours children were protected in this case protected from this dirt at the moment because she also try it yourself Well, you were told at the age of seven about the importance motherhood nothing look three girls see how it worked out, I even took it apart, that is, there there is nothing so surprisingly complicated nothing even I, stupid, figured it out this question is not complicated nature groin will tell you we will tell you therefore not hurry up, it's not so important to build relationships so that you have bridges relationship with the child before that, so answer the need but beautifully it's beautiful there about the pregnant batman and There is no need to say of course that there is nothing here it was again let me tell you a joke and This is where we'll end the joke for today the topic you raised is seven years old the boy just comes home from school first class watched says dad no mom clearly abortion well mom mom need to run to a what to do child and sport school pedophiles as usual mother got nervous took away does not mean to say words Luckily, my father was upstairs watching football comes running faster faster need something explain what explain what will I do quickly you are a father or not one in such a dad to do something on this wave gathered there among the link with all sonny daddy is all with a handkerchief flows like Obama of all sorts Well, you see, son, there are men. and women sometimes arise between them sexual intercourse they must step and men have such a stamen mom peridot here is the filing to drive up this is generally heard this word the child sits like this at the lips the century will win, which is not good for the child stamens and pistils went swans reactions long time ago and so on but today we are in At school, in a singing lesson, they taught the song "Waves" raging and beating against the side of the ship so that this doesn't happen, friends, on this See you all Thanks a lot