Neuro Faith Podcast - Episode with Dr. Jim Wilder

Introduction

• Host: Dr. Kirk Thompson
• Podcast explores the intersection of scientific discoveries about the mind and Christian faith.
• Aim: To discuss human flourishing through understanding the mind and spiritual formation.
• Season theme: "Thinking Well During a Pandemic."

Guest: Dr. Jim Wilder

• Known as a neuro Theologian and psychologist.
• Expert in interpersonal neurobiology and spiritual formation.
• Latest work: "Renovated: Conversations with Dallas Willard and Neuroscience."

Dr. Wilder's Journey

• Spiritual crisis at 19 led him to explore his beliefs and relationship with God.
• Key principles from the Bible: talk with God, act without fear, love people deeply.
• Professional journey in psychology, working with trauma victims.
• Discovered importance of significant attachments in recovery.

Attachment Love

• Concept of attachment love is crucial for identity and spiritual formation.
• Key biblical terms: "Hessed" in the Old Testament and "Agape" in the New Testament.
• Importance of secure, loyal, and loving relationships for brain development.

Knowledge vs. Attachment

• Distinction between knowledge (left hemisphere) and deep relational connections (right hemisphere).
• Enlightenment emphasized knowledge over relational connections.
• True belief and identity are shaped by who we love and who loves us.

Spiritual Disciplines and Attachment Love

• Spiritual disciplines create space for relational encounters with God.
• Importance of being in a relational state to truly connect with God and others.
• Practices should help us notice and be aware of God's presence and intentions.

Trauma and Relationships

• Trauma shapes our internal interpreter of other minds, impacting our relationship with God.
• Healing involves practicing secure attachments with trustworthy others.
• Our view of God can improve through healthier human relationships.

The Life Model

• An integrated approach to growth and healing across generations.
• Developed to bridge gaps between different treatment models for trauma, addiction, etc.
• Emphasizes maturity, community, and joy as foundations for identity development.

Intergenerational Communities

• Importance of intergenerational relationships for maturity and identity formation.
• Modern society's isolation has increased the need for meaningful community connections.
• Youth need opportunities to contribute and engage with others meaningfully.

Impact of the Pandemic

• Pandemic has exacerbated isolation and division within families and communities.
• Emphasis on maintaining relationships despite disagreements (e.g., masks, vaccines).
• Encouragement to work towards reconnection and repairing relationships.

Conclusion

• Reaffirmation of the importance of attachment and loving relationships for flourishing.
• Invitation to explore the Life Model for deeper understanding and practice.
• Dr. Wilder's work and writings provide valuable insights for integrating faith and neuroscience.

For more information on Dr. Jim Wilder's work, visit lifemodelworks.org.