Welcome. Sprinkle sprinkle. How are y'all? Okay, so thought I'd go live again today. It is Monday. Happy Memorial Day to y'all, whoever is celebrating. So, it is rainy here in in Houston. Very rainy. You might hear a couple of thunder claps. It is raining. Welcome, welcome. So, we're going to be talking about state detach if you want them to chase. Now, I've talked about this before, but some of y'all just don't get it. It won't click in your head because you're so used to being a nice girl. You're so used to catering to people and being people pleasers that sometimes y'all won't get this. So, I'm going to explain it to you in detail as to why staying detached and staying a little bit mean is what allows men to want to chase you. Okay? So, listen up nice girls that finished last. Listen up cuz we're going to talk about it. The reason why men chase you if you are unbothered, detached, and pay them no mind is because you are a challenge. And they seem to see you as a prize to earn, to get, to chase. If you give in too soon, if you're too nice, it's boring. It's over. The thrill of the chase is gone. They've already conquered you and won you. Now on to the next. You see? But if there's a way for them to keep chasing you because you will not let up. You will not allow them to think that they won anything. They'll keep chasing. They may take a little break. They may disappear for a week, but they'll be right back with whatever you need and whatever you ask for. Why? It's because they haven't conquered you yet. And men are very competitive. Men like to win. Men like to get what they want. And they truly admire women who don't just give themselves away on the first date or very easily because they know the next guy is going to get it that easily as well. And they know it takes a lot to get to you. So therefore, if they say, "I'm going to make her my woman," it's going to be very hard to for another man to take you away from that man because of how determined you are to make them work for you. You know what I'm saying? So men value that in their women. They don't like nice, easy, uh, boring, predictable women because anyone can have them and anyone can please them. You see? Thank you. Nas. So, when they're thinking about someone for long-term relationships, they're going to choose someone who is a challenge, who is hard to get, who is not easily swayed, you know, because if you're nice to everybody, if you're easy, if if you're not a challenge, if you're predictable, who's to say that the next man that approaches you isn't going to be able to uh get what they want quick, fast, and hurry, and then get back out of there, you So the the harder it is for you to be one over to be impressed, the better it is when a man wants really wants you and they'll chase you because they know that they're not valuable to you. You're valuable to them. That's that makes you even more valuable when they're not even valuable to you. Okay? because they want to then prove their value to you by continuing to chase you because you see value in yourself. Therefore, they're going to see value in you. And if you see no value in them, they're going to prove their value to you by chasing you and trying to impress you. That's why if you stay detached, if you stay, you know, focused on yourself and self-obsessed, the type of man that's masculine and has something to prove and will chase you, you know, those are the kind of guys you actually want, not the kind that just wanted something quick and easy. That's not what you wanted anyway. So, it's really going to like weed out all of the dusties or the people that are there waste your time. Okay? It literally weeds out time wasters and men who aren't serious about, you know, wanting you. Sprinkle sprinkle. Okay. So, and when I say when a man chases you, it doesn't mean you're not the it mean it doesn't mean you're the only woman on their roster. It just means you're the one that they can't get yet. the one that's a challenge, the one that they keep thinking about because they haven't made any type of way with. They haven't gotten any closer. So, they're going to keep trying because they're challenged. You see, if all the other women that they're dating are boring, blah, predictable, and too nice, great, wonderful. Why can't Why can't they have you? They're going to try to figure it out. And men that are rich and have a brain and love challenges and love to win will definitely chase you. So yes, there's plenty of options. Just like you should also have plenty of options. Remember that. Just like you have plenty of options, they also may have plenty of options and great and wonderful. But when those options get boring, when those options are too nice, when those options are people pleasing, bores that are very predictable, they're going to come right back to you and you can charge your re-entry fee and they're going to like that even more and they will pay it. Why? Because they can't get to you. There's something special about you that they want to discover. Why isn't she giving in? Why is she so hard to get? Why is she so hard to impress? I wonder if I ever can impress her and when I do, what's going to happen? You know, it's the mystery of it all. So, that's why you have to stay detached and keep them chasing. Stay the prize. Stay selfobsessed. And that's when they want you because they can't figure you out. You're a mystery to them. And to um men that have money, they love to figure stuff out and they love to win. All right? So think about it like that, okay? If you can't detach from someone, it's because you're already attached. Don't attach in the first place when you meet new people. Don't attach in the first place when you meet new people. Okay? If you're someone that attaches quickly, it's because you're a people pleaser and you're needy. Okay? And there's something that you lack within. So work on yourself. Because a lot of women attach so quickly and so easily or you go out on a date two times with someone, you think that's your man. That's not your man. Okay? And then you get all in your feelings if they don't call you back. That's not your man. You chewed food across the table from him twice, that's not your man. Okay? Just cuz you tell them your life story and boring facts about you that they don't care about nor that they ask about doesn't make him your man. The more you may remain mysterious, detached and uh a challenge, the more they chase, especially if they have money. Sprinkle sprinkle because they know you don't need them and they wonder why you don't need them and why you're not a a a a peopleleasing nice girl that is a yesw woman. They're wondering why. Who else do you have access to? What other type of men with money are you used to? I want to know. That's what they That's what they're thinking. Okay. Uh oh. Thank you, Savlin. Sprinkle sprinkle. I appreciate you. Thank you. Appreciate you. Appreciate you. Yes. So, especially if you look good, they already know you know your value and they're, you know, they're either going to get on board or they're going to say, "Well, I'm not ready for someone like her. I'm just going to play around with these nice girls." you know, hit it acquitted and then I'll be back to her when I feel like I'm ready for some type something something more. And that's what you charge that re-entry fee. Okay. Sprinkle sprinkle. Hi, Shear. I want to know a clever response to say when a man asks, "So, you'd rather have her pay 100% of your bills by yourself rather than go 50/50?" What? Yeah. say, "Why do I I say I could just hire I could just get a roommate if I want to go 50/50. I don't even need a man. I can date and go 50/50, date several men and still go 50/50." Cuz that's what you going to be doing anyway. If you with a 50/50 man, you going to be dating several men anyway cuz he can't do anything for you. So, you might as well just get a roommate. Say, "I could just get a roommate and date as many men as I want." So, yes. And I can get all those guys to pay my half of That's what you tell them. You can get all those guys that you're dating while having a roommate to pay your habit of rent. It's just girl math. Okay? Or you could find a man that already has his own place and own house and own car and business and just move in with them and live rentree. How about that? What kind of broke question would like what kind of broke man is asking you those questions? Okay. Tell him he needs a male roommate. Because if you're going to be rolling around on the mattress with him, you don't be paying nothing, ma'am. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Okay. Y'all are probably dating men your own age that look better than you. That's a no. Okay. Believe me, when I was young and I used to date guys that looked good, they were all cheating on whoever. Okay, they all had girlfriends. They all had this. They all had that. You know what I'm saying? You're never going to be the only one. You're going to be looking stupid for opening your purse around somebody your own age that looks that looks good. Okay? You're just going to look dumb in the end. So, sprinkle sprinkle. Don't do it. you're you you'd be you'd be better off living at home and just visiting your boyfriend at his own place that he pays 100% of the bills with until he uh uh is ready to be a 100% provider because he's going to be paying that amount of money whether you're there or not. All he's going to do is save the money that he's not spending to impress other women with while you wash his dirty clothes. Okay? So be smart. Okay, imagine that some man says, "Okay, well I have my own place. So you move in and pay half the bills that I was already paying 100% of and wash my clothes, cook my food while I save the money that I was going to be spending by myself and then I can go impress other women." But that's dumb. Unless he's using that money to buy you gifts and put in your bank account, it's still dumb because you're still paying 50/50. It's done. Women don't go 50/50 if they're with a real man. That's a roommate, not a man. You should be dating other people. Okay. What if they say, "I'm always holding back when they're talk when we're talking." And say, "I just love your voice so much and I love to hear you speak and you're so interesting. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Mhm. You said, "Why do men pay for stuff?" Cuz they don't and they don't want a relationship. Cuz they just don't want a relationship. Ma'am, you can't force men to have a relationship with you unless you want to be cheated on because they're trying to be nice and and tell you the truth. Why would you force somebody to want to be faithful and have a relationship with you when their intention is not that and they tell you upfront? Listen to people when they speak. They're telling you the truth. They're telling you, "Look, I don't want a relationship with you. You are not the one. I will not treat you right, but here's some stuff because I'm wasting your time." That's all that they're doing. They're they're giving you stuff, but they don't want no attachment because they're going to treat you wrong. And they don't want you to grow emotionally dependent or attached to them. Okay? Because they're not getting ready to treat you right no time soon. They'll give you some money. They'll see you when they see you. That's like a sugar daddy. Okay. What if you slept with him already? Well, I hope you got something out of it. Hope you got your bills paid. I hope you got something in your savings account. If not, try again next time. Baby, don't do it. Don't do nothing before you are benefited heavily. Invested in heavily. Okay. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Mhm. You said, "How to become feminine. Your voice is so deep." Just lighten your voice like this and talk like this and smile a lot. That's all you have to do. Fake it. Thank you, Savalene. Hi, Shira. How do you access yacht club rich? Go to the yach club. Look at boats. Go on um boat. Uh they have like in some cities they have like boat tours or like uh boating I don't know they just have like little uh events where you can go and they have bars next to the marinas where a lot of the people that own yachts will go after they get off their boat or before. So go to the marina bars, hang out by the marina. If you can get into the yacht club as a guest, great. Wonderful. or they have yaching events, marina events, stuff like that. Okay, just look it up online under like boating events, yaching events, and see what they have. Sometimes you can buy tickets. Sometimes there's fundraisers. Just see what you can find. Thank you, Lahi. Can the chase be possible if someone doesn't fit in providers world? Um, they have to want you. That's number one. They got to want you. You can't want them more than they want you. That's the number one thing. If they want if they don't want you as much. I mean, if you want them more, it's never going to work. Okay. Sprinkle, sprinkle. They have to like you times 10. So, make sure you're out of their league. Thank you, Shr. Sprinkle, sprinkle. So, make him pay a bill, then sleep with him right now. Make him invest in you heavily so that when you get to the point that you want to be intimate with him, he's heavily invested in you. Bills, shopping, savings account money, whatever money he gave you up until uh you decided to become intimate with him. An investment. Do you know what an investment is? It's a large sum of money that has been invested in a person that's not being spent on the other person. So dinner doesn't count. Travel doesn't count if he's with you. Anything that he's given you that's for you by yourself is an investment. So if he's paid your bills, if he's paid your rent, if he's paid your car notes, if he's taking you shopping, if he's giving you money just because if he's bought you a new car or paid off your old car, that's an investment. Okay, think about it. Investment. Like when you go to the car dealership to buy a car, you put a down payment on the car and then you pay monthly bills, right? Same thing. The big down payment is the investment in the vehicle. So let's say he spends $15,000 on you, $5,000 on you prior, not just going to dinner, but giving you things you actually need and want. And you decide, "Okay, I like this guy. He's a provider. maybe we can take it to the next level. He's invested so much money into you that the night or the day after you become intimate with you, he's more likely to stay and stick around and do more because he's invested money there. You see, Versus to get up and leave and say, "Okay, well, that's it. I'm done." You see? So, men follow their money and they follow their investments. So, make them invest in you. That's that's explaining it the best I can. as an investment. What if he used to provide but you slept with him and he keeps coming back around? I don't know what to do. Re-entry fee, ma'am. Tell him things that you need every time he comes back around and see if he'll solve your financial issues, your fake financial issues or whatever. See if he'll give you whatever you want. Okay. Your boyfriend blocked you and everything, so you decided to leave him alone after you found he cheated on you with his former maid, but he denies it. Okay. They all cheat, ma'am. So, what's the what's the big deal? Is he going to pay for your forgiveness? What do you want? Do you want a new car? Do you want a new diamond? Like, what is it? They all going to cheat no matter what. Sprinkles. So, get something out of it. All right. Unblock them instead of your wish list or some diamonds or whatever it is that you need him to buy you. And then after he gifts you or gives you the money that you want, then you can decide if you want to stick around or not. But get something out of it. Don't just leave all mad. Get something out of it. Always. Always get something out of it. They all cheat. Just get something out of it. Okay. Get compensated. Okay. Mhm. Pretend like you're going to forgive them and tell them what you want. Get it and then decide if you want to forgive them or not afterwards, but get your stuff first. All right. You said not all men cheat. Okay. Well, the ones with the lower half. Okay. Sprinkle. Y'all keep asking me, "So, all men cheat?" No, not all men cheat. Not the ones that are locked in the basement tied up. They don't cheat. But hey, if you want to bet your life on them being faithful, go right ahead. Thank you, Draco. Glaciius, what a name. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Need an entire future live on re-entry fees. Good idea. Sprinkle, sprinkle. That's not ited. Maybe coming up this week or next week or when I get back from vacation, but noted. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Okay. He said, "Sometimes you'll hear a guy brag about how he has a nice car, house, but doesn't want to give you anything. That's cuz he's paying for that nice car and house. He ain't got nothing left over. Sprinkle." All right, then. He said, "All men cheat. Just accept it and get paid." Exactly. Just get your money. Who cares if they're cheating? If you're with a man for him to be perfect and um faithful, you're stupid. If you're with a man and expect him to be 100% perfect and faithful his entire relationship, especially if you're going to be in there for a long time, you're dumb. Mhm. Do y'all know that a man being faithful in a relationship is the equivalent of you saying you're not going to buy stuff you don't need as a woman? How many times have y'all gone to the store with a list and only came out with the stuff on the list? That's to me that's same thing same. Now it depends on what you call cheating. What what do you think cheating is? Talking to another woman, buying her drinks, doing this, doing that, going to bed with her? Like there's levels of cheating. So to me, it's like saying, I'm only gonna go in the store and get what's on this list. I know that's a lie. And eventually, I'm going to get something else that's not on the list. Eventually, I'm just going to pick it up and like, oh, I need that even though I don't. So, that's what I equate men cheating to. Uh, I equate it to women trying to go in the store with a list and only coming out with what's on the list. You said micro cheating. Exactly. No man is going to ever believe a woman is going to go into the store with a list and come out with only stuff on a list. Ain't no man going to bet their life on that. Just like a woman shouldn't bet their life on a man never cheating. [Music] Okay. All right. Now that we understand each other. Thank you. Sprinkle. Sprinkle. Yes. I've been swimming. I've been at the pool. That's I got a little tan. My hair is curly cuz I haven't blow dried it yet cuz I'm going to jump back in. Plus, it's raining and and it's very humid. It's summer time in Houston. So, we're going to go for our curly bob this summer and maybe I'll straighten it every now and then, you know, or maybe I'll throw on a wig when I'm going to be extra glam. But, uh, this is what we're rocking this summer. Yes, the 80s Whitney Houston. Oh, I want to dance with somebody. I just need a little scarf to tie up. This little piece is bothering me right here. It's not curling. Okay. What you said if you found out if you found out he's down low, what's your next move? Um, definitely cut him off in the bedroom and then definitely get some money out of him and then definitely do what you need to do next. Either leave or call it a lavender relationship and let him know there'll be no more rolling around on the mattress. Everybody go get checked and if he wants to continue the facade, then he's going to have to pay to stay and you keep his little secret. You know what I'm saying? Some wives find out and they they make a profit off of keeping this little secret. You know what I mean? Like, okay, I ain't going to tell nobody, but you going to have to pay this curl. Nice curl. I need to get some little curl spray. Yes. You said take him to the gay club. Girl, you probably going to be embarrassed. But [Music] anyway, it says, "As long as deal keeps the bills paid and money in your pocket, do you, bestie?" Do you, bestie? His new nickname is bestie. Okay. What if every guy isn't that interested in keeping you around though, ever since you turned 21? Maybe I look different or worse, but people compliment me. I don't know. Maybe it's cuz you're so young. They don't think you can be in a serious relationship or they see you as disposable because of your age. 21-year-old women and men that are close around your own age don't see anything serious. You know what I mean? You're for fun. This is why a lot of young women have issues keeping a man because you're for fun. You're young. You're supposed to be carefree and just exploring life. Some men don't get why such a young, beautiful, or, you know, attractive woman wants to tie themselves down so young. Men don't get that and they feel like even if you say you want to tie yourself down, there's too much temptation out there if you look good, you know, and they'll constantly have to be worried about that if they're insecure. So, young women are mostly going to attract older men who want to groom you or to keep you for themselves. So, if but if you find my channel first, you're literally going to be grooming them. You know what I mean? Because you've already gotten all the information that you're going to need in order to do what you need to do and get the money that you need to get out of them. So, if you're a young woman, you need to watch my channel and go for older men who will take you more seriously because they think that they can groom and mold you and do less to impress you. So, you literally you'll just be grooming them and they won't even realize it. So, go for the older guys and get the money out of them. Okay? They know that if they deal with a young woman, they have to shell out money. Period. Okay. Sprinkle sprinkle. So, you found my channel at 20 and now you're 26. Well, thank you for being here for so long. Sprinkle sprinkle. Um, hold on. I'll answer this one. How to attract provider men. You're 21 and 51. Okay. Um, definitely you're going to have to wear flats, but if you want to wear heels, you need to be around tall people or say you're a model. Okay. Um, maybe go like there's clubs for tall people. Someone told me this, you know, like if you're an extra tall woman, there are like dating singles clubs or like gettogethers or meetups with tall people. So maybe look some up in your town. Is it hard glowing up when you're naturally unattractive? Living paycheck to paycheck. I'm scared I'll be alone struggling forever. You're 27. Anna, sprinkle, sprinkle. When you invest in yourself, you can never lose. Okay. If you look good, you feel good and you get more opportunities and more people will be attracted to you. Okay? I would rather look good than be scared. You know what I'm saying? I would sacrifice a meal in order to go buy makeup. I wouldn't eat lunch for a week if it meant I need to buy me some foundation. Okay? I'm going to sacrifice where I can sacrifice. Okay? I don't think you going to starve to death if you skip one meal and sacrifice for your beauty. How to sell a girl to car dealership men customers. What? How to sell as a girl? Oh, you got to compliment them and you got to ask them what they do for a living. You got to be all nosy about their money so that you know that they can afford the car and then u like when they start to say, "Well, I don't know about this one." Ask like act like you don't believe their what they do for a living. It's like, "Oh, okay. Well, you know, it's okay. Let's go find something more economical." Like, you got to you got to work on that ego. Like, use words like that. Okay. Well, I'll find something that's more economical. Like, take them to the uh most expensive thing first and then start downsizing when they're not acting interested and then they will like, "Oh, let's go back to the first car you talked about." Especially if you're pretty. You take them to like something cheap and ratchet looking, they'll be mad. If it's a new car dealership, take them to the like the the cheapest model last but the most expensive model first. Okay. Sprinkle sprinkle. He said, "Where do you buy your dressing gowns and robes and girl Amazon?" Sprinkle sprinkle. I I put a lot of stuff on my wish list for my birthdays and for holidays and people send them to me. Like I got this really pretty satin feathery boa like 19 art like 20's art deco robe from Amazon. They just sent it to me. Um I got a lot of satin and feather uh robes and slippers on Amazon. It's and they're cute. So shout out to Amazon. Sprinkle sprinkle. I get a lot of stuff from you guys on my wish list. A lot of the lounge stuff that I've been wearing is from y'all. Thank you. I've gotten scarves. I've gotten um cute slippers. I've gotten just a lot of stuff. I just put it on my wish list and y'all y'all go ahead and send it to me. Thank you, Mary Angel. Sprinkle sprinkle. Your provider boyfriend made you feel bad for wanting things like flowers and other mandatory things. Oh, monetary things. He says he thinks I'm with him for the wrong reason. Say, "I am. I'm with you for the wrong reason. I need to go find somebody that got some money." Goodbye. Sprinkle sprinkle. You are with him for the wrong reason. Okay? You're with him for the wrong reason. He doesn't think he needs to financially support you or impress you. Okay? He's setting you up to want less and expect less in life. Sprinkle, sprinkle. He thinks he's the prize man. Okay. Thank you, Mocha Drop. Hi, Shira. How do you get your new provider man to give you money to move to a safer neighborhood? Lie. You got to make up a lie and say you was almost got somebody tried to get you girl and you start calling call him crying. Get the phone be like you'll never guess what happened and be all scared and like shaking and crying. I need to move out really quick. I can't stay here another night. I'm telling you getting PTSD. Tell him, you know, somebody got you, got your purse, got something. Just lie. Lie. It's a lie. Then he'll be like, "What can I do? I don't know, but I need to move out this week. This week?" Like, if you make it real urgent, they'll believe you. I just need to get into a safer place. They like, "Yeah, yeah, I I'll help you. You get your acting skills together, ma'am. Okay. and make up a fake everything and just start crying and scared and be like, "You got to get out this week." You know, I don't know. He'll pay to break your lease and everything. Okay. You said you are 23 and you got a bob haircut. It suits you a lot, but you're afraid. You said men like longer hair. Then get a wig. Switch it up. Y'all don't know how to wear wigs. Get a wig or get some clipins. Don't act like cutting your hair you can't have long hair the next day. This is 2025 and there's a beauty supply shop on every corner and every time you scroll somewhere online people selling hair. Get you some clipins. Get you an extension. Get you a wig. Wear whatever you want. Like if I'm tired of my hair being short, I just throw on a wig. Okay. Sprinkle. Sprinkle. He said, "How to regain power in a long relationship? By becoming the person that you're supposed to become." Okay. By not centering your life around a man. by treating yourself as the main character and as a priority. That's how sprinkle sprinkle. That's all you got to do. And the best way to do that is to focus on yourself. Do what you like. Do what you want. Look how you want. Dress up. Look cute. Stop worrying about what everybody thinks. And do what pleases you. You got one life to live. You know what I'm saying? So, go and live it. And get your power back by living your best life. You can be with a man um at the same time as obsessing about yourself and being a main character. Your life doesn't have to center around another person and it never it doesn't. They're just an added bonus. Y'all get so confused when y'all get in relationships. Y'all make that person the center of your life or you expect them to be the center of your life when it's just an added bonus. Okay. Remember to keep yourself and who you are because a lot of women get lost in relationships and they let the man do what you know this this and that and they the man will take that for granted. So you got to make sure that you're the main character of your life always and never let up. A provider millionaire said one reason he divorced his late wife was she got she got spoiled and nothing was exciting to her anymore. How do you avoid that? Acting. Sprinkle. Acting. Acting like you're still impressed. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Thank you. I appreciate that, Alexandria. Thank you. You're right. That's my problem. Thank you, Miss Kiwi. Sprinkle, sprinkle. You got to act like you like whatever they're doing. Okay. Like, oh my gosh, I love it so much. Thank you. Oh, how did you know I wanted this? You know how when a kid draws a bad drawing and you don't know what it is, but you got to act like you know what it is? The same thing. Men are like children. They want you to be all extra happy. Even if you're not impressed by what they're doing, they're like a child. They need you to give them a positive response. They need to know that you appreciate what they're doing. So act like they just drew something you have no idea what it is. And just pretend it's the best work of art ever. Treat them like a child. Yes, darling. I love this. It's so beautiful. How did you know I wanted this? Oh my gosh. Thank you so much. It's so beautiful. That's all they want to hear. Spring sparkle. He said, "I will do." Yes. Now, some women, it's not about the material things. Sometimes their husbands are buying them material things to make up for the the bad things that they're doing. You know what I mean? When I when I tell y'all to get get money from them when they mess up, sometimes they're not going to act impressed with a material item if it's to make up for something that they did wrong. So sometimes you're not going to get the full story from a man about spoiling his wife. Maybe maybe she wasn't spoiled. Maybe she was just compensated for his bad actions. So there's a difference. Some women won't act impressed because it means that, you know, she's not mad at him anymore. So some women are just getting compensation uh gifts versus just gifts out of the kindness of their heart. Being a good man. Y'all got to look at it from both angles. Okay. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Whenever a man is telling a story about his wife and talking down, believe me, it ain't true. Okay, sprinkle, sprinkle. He's just mad, frustrated that he can't get his way with her and can't impress her anymore. So, even if she's gone, he asked me, "So, what are we after the third date?" It's like, "Oh, wow. Okay. Well, I mean, I really like you. You're very nice. Um, and I would love to take this relationship to the next level. I just need to know one thing." Well, what's that? Are you a provider? Is you a provider? Cuz it ain't going nowhere if you're not. Sir, sprinkle. Sprinkle. You still under free food in my phone. So until you start providing it ain't going nowhere. Okay. They're moving too fast. Exactly. Tell them to pay some bills if they want to move faster. It's like, "Okay, you want to move faster? Let me get Let me go get these bills." Next step bills. Okay, Sugar Daddy wants you to follow your private Insta where you have no followers, but I follow hundreds of accounts. I told him this my private world. Why are you even telling them period at all about any Instagram? You're supposed to have a alias Instagram for people to follow that you don't want in your business and then another one that's just for you. You don't tell them everything unless you met them there. Then they should already be following. Like, why y'all talk too much? Why y'all talk too much? Y'all did that to yourselves. Sprinkle sprinkle. You talk too much if it's private. How would he know about it? Change the profile pick, ma'am. So he can't find it. Mhm. You said he's grown. Why is he worried about an IG? Exactly. The best thing you can do is just say that you're going to suspend it temporarily and then block him. That's all. Sprinkle or start another one with the same profile pick and follow some other randoms and then share him with that one. Okay, that's all you got to do. Start another one. Follow a hundred random people that you don't think he'll disapprove of. Put the same profile pick and that's it. All right. Since you already blab too much, most old people don't even have an Instagram. I don't know. Is he young? [Music] Okay. Okay. He takes you shopping and pays, but when you ask for him to pay your credit card bill, he says, "I need to learn my lesson and refuse to help." Then get the other one to pay it, man. That's why you need to. Cuz see, when a man tries to control you through money and he can't, then that's when he wants to give you more. That's why you need two, three or four, ma'am. So when he don't pay the credit card, the other one will or he'll give you the money to pay it. Okay? You need more than one. Otherwise, men are going to try to control you by saying, "You need to learn your lesson." Okay. I learned my lesson to have two struggle. Be smart, ma'am. Don't be dumb. Okay. The booty building system. How are you? What's the coldest, most detached thing you've ever personally done to make a man chase harder? We want the tira sprinkle sprinkle. Uh treat uh um just treated him like a regular person. I act impressed when he was doing things that were impressive and then normal the rest of the time. like I I would only respond to actions and that's it. And they kept chasing and the the the action of giving was the only way that I could be excited or smile. Okay. So I it's kind of like that. They could only make me happy if they were doing something positive or giving to me. Otherwise, I'm not impressed. I don't care. Blah blah blah blah blah blah. natural naturally unimpressed and kind of nonchalant unless it's something I really like. It helps a lot. Yes, ma'am. Sprinkle sprinkle. Because in order to get that high that they need from you, that approval that they need from you, they got to be doing something actionoriented that's beneficial to you. Otherwise, you're not going to be excited and you're not going to want to waste your time too much dealing with them, you know? So, they have to constantly be impressive. Mhm. Thank you. Be only impressed by action, not talk. That way they have to constantly do stuff for you and then it'll become a habit to them. They'll just be automatically used to doing it in order to get the reaction out of you. So that's that's something that I've done. I don't think I've ever done anything that harsh or bad. I think that I've just been very consistent in what I say and how I am. You know, I would never say I've done anything bad because it's always the other person's free will. You know what I mean? It's always your free will to do what I need you to do. [Music] When when a man has free will to do what he wants to do instead of you better do this or you better do that because they know you can get it somewhere else, the only way that they can impress you is just to do it. Okay. Sprinkle sprinkle. A man you just asked a man you just met asked you if you wanted financial support. Then he asked me if I were open to hook up and how much. No, no, no. Um, I only date providers and I have to really get to know someone and feel financially safe and secure in a relationship before I move to the next level of intimacy. That's what you tell them. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Cuz what he's trying to do is see if if you're selling something. No, use those words I just said. Sprinkle, sprinkle. You said you just complain about something and if they don't offer to help by Exactly. Because they don't care about you, not as a person. Sprinkle, sprinkle. If they truly care about you as a person rather than a piece of meat, they will want to help you and impress you. So that you will see them as a provider and someone that you can possibly see in a relationship with. Okay? Sprinkle sprinkle. You see, women know that men only see them as pieces of meat. And if that's all that they're going to see them as, they're not going to be concerned about their well-being or if they need help or not or blah blah blah blah blah blah. So that's a red flag not to even deal with them after that. They don't see you as a person. Okay. Sprinkle sprinkle. You said he lazy after you said I love you. You never say I love you first to no man. Sprinkle. They got to say they got to fall in love with you first or else you did it wrong and backwards. If you tell somebody you love them, they don't. First of all, they don't believe you anyway. Second of all, it makes you seem desperate and pick me. Shish. They got to say it first. They're supposed to impress you. Okay. Never say it first. Okay. Cat. Sprinkle. Sprinkle. You're going on a twoe vacation to Europe. Sugar daddy is 30 years older. Says he wants to meet day before I go to give me a gift. Should it be jewelry? It should be whatever you want it to be, ma'am. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Jewelry is nice. Okay. Sprinkle. Sprinkle. Mhm. You said, "How can you be a downto- earthth person?" Um, to who? Who are you being a downto- earthth person to? Are you a downto- earth person naturally? Anybody can be down to earth but still have very high standards. Sprinkle sprinkle. Mhm. What do you mean to yourself? That's easy. Just do what you want. Your boyfriend calls you a D because he says I make him feel stupid. I speak to him. Please give me feedback advice because you're talking to him like a child. So if you're going to talk to him like a child, you got to use positive reinforcement versus negative reinforcement. So if he has money, it's worth talking to him in a positive manner if you're going to talk to him like a child versus a negative manner. Okay? If you ain't got no money, girl, move on to the next. Uh, you're emotional and sensitive. How to become opposite? Uh, focus on the goal, not the person. Don't don't take anything personal. Focus on your goal, not the person. What what what are the benefits you get from being with this person? Focus on that. If you can't focus on that and you're only focused on the person and you take everything personal that they that they say to you, they have power over you. If you can't control your own emotions, people have power over you. People have power over weak and emotional sensitive people. If those people don't know how to control their emotions, so if you don't want people to have power over you, trigger you, sorry, then learn how to control those emotions and attach them to goals instead of people or uh temporary feelings. Okay. Think about the consequences after you act emotional. Is it going to get you what you want? No. Then then change it up to get what you want. Hi, Shira. How to act when you really want to provide when you really want him to provide for you while you attend law school. Okay. Play inexperienced. If you're already smart, then play uh common sense dumb. Okay? Cuz you can be book smart with no common sense. So just play that type of dumb like inexperience. Like you don't know anything of the world. Say, "Oh my gosh, I don't know how I'm going to do both things. Go to school." Don't even I don't know if he already knows you're going to law school. Just say just say school. You don't have to say law school. I don't know what I should do. Should I just go to school or I just need help? I don't know. I need a backup just in case. Um, you know, talk in a dumb voice, but be adamant about what you want from them. Thank you, Angel. Oral honey pot. Sprinkle sprinkle. Your hubby 20 years older is disrespectful to you while have you while having you go 50/50. you left a week ago and your child or with your child and he gives you 1.5K in three days just to come back. Not sure if I should because of the toxicity. Okay, ma'am. Sprinkle sprinkle. Um, if he's giving if he's making you go 50/50, um, why don't you just get you a roommate? What's the point? Tell him you ain't going back unless he's going to be 100% provider and stop disrespecting you. If and if not, you ain't got no reason to be there. He's too old to be acting stupid. Sprinkle. Sprinkle. Just tell them straight up like that. You too old to be asking anybody for money. Mhm. And then put them on child support. Sprinkle sprinkle. You can get your money either way. Just get your Just put them on child support and get your money either way. All right, sprinkle. Sprinkle. Like, why are y'all dealing with somebody that's acting dusty? All right. Mhm. Thank you. Good luck with that. Like, make sure you get your money and put him on child support. He going to wish he had paid all that cuz now he got to pay it by himself anyway. If you're not there, who who's paying the other 50%? if you ain't there him, right? So, what's the difference? Whether you're there or not, he going to have to pay it. Okay. Said he has the money. He just wants to disrespect her. Yeah. Cuz he wants to feel like he's young or something. He ain't young. He old. He got to pay. Sprinkle. Sprinkle. Tell him when you were born he was 20 years old and now he trying to ask you for money. How stupid do that look. Mhm. Said, "I'm not going to reach in my pocket and pay some old man who was 20 years old on my birthday when I was born. You You should have had it together by now." You're with a 65y old. What? What do you do when he wants to break up with me now? Because I'm giving up the cookie. Girl, he's 65. He wants to break up with you now that you gave it up, girl. Sprinkle sprinkle. You need to start talking about death. You need to for him to face his mortality. Like, oh my gosh, my say say your uncle or your your fake uncle or your fake somebody or your fake grandpa just died. Say he was like 63 or 67. Like make it around his same age and say, "Oh my gosh, he died alone and I'm going have to go to the funeral." like face make him face mortality like he's old man what he's going to do start talking about people dying around his same age in your family and then he'll be like trying to prove his youthfulness by sticking around or he'll be scared to to die alone. So either way you going to keep him and like if you're scared that he's going to die on you anyway he might be not be too appealing to you anymore. He might want to stick around just because now you think he's old and feeble. He's going to try to disprove it. Uh oh. Sugar daddy and you met when he saw me speak at Gala. How can I work to on him to hint and give give you give up work so you can start your own social media style business? Okay. Well, uh if you talk to him next time, it's like, you know what? I really want to focus on doing ABC and D and work is just getting in my way. I mean, I wish I just had some uh bunch of money to just pay my bills that I could just focus on one thing. Hint, hint, hint, hint, hint. You know what I mean? That's what you tell him. Be honest. Like, what he going to do? Either you going to pay or or he's going to not. Thank you, Angelina. Sprinkle, sprinkle. He claims me as a girlfriend but didn't text me often. Okay. A lot of people don't like to text and you might just be one of his girlfriends. sprinkled. Uh, nobody can claim me as a girlfriend unless they're paying bills. That's how you need to be. That's if you let somebody claim you as a girlfriend and they're not paying anything, don't let them claim you. It's like, "Oh, no. You know what? I don't know. We need to discuss that because uh girlfriend to me means something totally different than it means to most people. So, we're going to see if you qualifi if you qualify as boyfriend." Tell them that. He's like, "Well, we'll see if you qualify as boyfriend." Okay. Starting to get boring routine in the home together. Okay. Well, switch it up, man. Go places without telling him where you're going. Get dressed. Do stuff. Be more spontaneous. You know, change up your style. Mhm. [Music] You got to change it up, you know. Do something different. All right. Change up your schedule. Do something different. Mhm. Okay. You walked up to a 72-y old billionaire in your church to have a conversation. He owns a dealership and booked me for an interview. How to flip the script to be his sugar babies. Right. You got to keep complimenting that man. Girl, when you go when you when you um see him again, make sure you cute. Make some eye contact. Smile. Hold the eye contact a little longer than normal. ask about if he knows somewhere good to to get some type of certain food. Like, you know, I really been craving such and such type of food. Do you know any good places to go? Because like I can't find anywhere that sells a good such and such and they'll ask you out to eat. Okay? Cuz the old people love to go out to lunch with somebody and just talk to them. All right? or he'll be like, "Oh, I have a chef that can make that really good." You know, you never know. Just if you always asking them like stuff that they can contribute like knowledgewise, but not always like business, like maybe food or just his opinion on cool places to go or, you know, D. He'll be more likely to invite you. Sprinkle. Will I do summer vlogs? Yes, I'll probably do a summer vlog after I get back from vacation. Yes, ma'am. How to get back into dating as a celibate 23-year-old when men are always expecting physical intimacy. Don't tell them. If men are expecting physical intimacy, they need to be expecting to provide and expecting to fully uh invest in you. And a lot of men aren't going to pass that test. So you're not even have to worry about telling them a thing, you know. And if you find one that does decide to invest in you heavily, then you break the news of poor Aunt Ethel and now, you know, you're going to be mourning for a whole another month for fake Aunt Ethel. And then you just keep dragging it out. And then you then maybe you can tell them well since we've been in a relationship this long and you've invested this much you know um what do you think about and if you know if you want to wait for marriage or if you want to wait until this this and that just tell him you know I'm celibially secure with a lot of men and then he'll give you more money so just keep lying. Just keep dragging it out and lie. How do you have to tell somebody all your business before they even get to it? Okay, Sprinkle, Sprinkle, you keep running into this guy and he flirts with you. He gives me his number and I'm not sure if I should text. No, he's supposed to ask for your number. Sprinkle, sprinkle. All right. He's supposed to ask you for your number. You see, men think they're slick by saying, "Here's my number." They want you to chase them. No, they need to be asking for your number. That way, they're truly interested in you. If they want to talk to you, they're going to call or text you. If if you run into him again and he gives you his number, say, "Why don't you take mine instead? Don't chase behind a grown able-bodied man. Make them get your number. That's how you know that they like you, especially if they use it to ask you out to impress you. Otherwise, he's just playing games and seeing who who's who's biting, who's the big Misha that's going to call him. Okay. A man can flirt with anybody he runs into and gives his phone number out. Who's going to call him? Big Misha. Exactly. Why he ain't ask for your phone number? [Music] Uh oh. Okay. So, the old man got a wife that go to your church, the billionaire. Girl, he probably cheat anyway. She probably don't care. If he that old, she probably is over it by now. [Music] He probably she probably know he have a little flip on the side every now and she old like him. She probably do not care long as she he leave her alone. Let her do her shopping and ushering and whatever she be doing. [Music] Mhm. I had a old man try to flirt with me right in front of his wife. Like she's standing right here talking to me, being friendly to me, and he going to try to flirt with me right in front of her face. Just like, what are you doing, girl? Old men do not care. They will flirt with you. Brighten white face right there. Sprinkle sprinkle. So yes, there. And they were rich, too. There was a couple, they were rich, they, you know, own a very big lucrative business, you know, we were talking and stuff like that. The wife was being nice, da da da. She's like, she shook my hand, said, "Oh, goodbye. See you, you know, goodbye, whatever." And um, no, I I put out my hand to shake her head. And she's like, "No, give me a hug." So, I gave her a hug. And then um her husband's like, "Oh, can I have a hug, too?" And he was looking like and I was like, "No, but you can have a handshake. Why don't you hug your wife?" Like I was being respectful because you know, she was nice. Um and he looked at me kind of weird. Like then he says then he started to try to brag on his wife cuz he knew he had messed up. So he was like, "Can you believe she's this old? Doesn't she look good for her age?" Yeah, she's that old. like he started trying to like flip the script and brag on her. I think she heard you sprinkle [Music] sprinkle. Like I can't help what old men try to be coming on to me. And it's so funny because a lot of them do. Like literally, I don't know what it is about me. I guess like I have an aura that says if you owed and got some money, come through. I don't know. Anyway, I'm telling you, you could pull them. That's very easy. They're very easily gotten. You see a old man, they're down for it because they got the money to do it. Sprinkle, sprinkle. They were not swinging cuz she looked at him crazy when he said he wanted a hug. She was like, "All right. Even if he has money, if if he's ugly and wants to get up in your face, I can't pretend to be into it." Yeah. you know, um, none of the men on the money are cute either. Like I I like the the dollar bills, the hundreds, the 50s. Like none of them men are are attractive on the dollar bills. So that's what I just go by. But even the money is ugly, but I'm still going to take it cuz it's spins. Sprinkle sprinkle. All right. I ain't never seen no cute man on no money. But the money is cute. What the money can do is cute. All them men on the money are ugly, old, baldheaded, got on wigs. Some of them crazy looking. Girl, just get the lane. Okay. [Music] What time is it? Okay, it's still kind of early. Y'all, I've been out of the I've been out of um the loop for a week. I didn't have my coffee this morning either cuz I don't have my coffee pot here. Oh my gosh. You said be detached like a serial killer. Yes. Well, being detached doesn't mean you're cold. It just means that you're smart and emotionally intelligent and you're not going to attach to any old thing that's not beneficial to you. You know, it's just being very selective about who and what you attach to. You said order some coffee. I was about to, but I just I had like a lollipop cherry cola a little while ago, so maybe that gave me a little caffeine. It's like a prebiotic healthy digestive like digestive health soft drink and maybe had some caffeine. So, I'm I'm okay. You see, people out here manipulating. They sure are. Everyone is manipulating you in some form or fashion to get what they want or to get the response that they want from you. [Music] Okay. Sprinkle. Sprinkle. He said, "How well will addict worked?" I'm afraid to spray it, girl. I butterflies. I haven't sprayed it yet. I don't know. I'm afraid. I still have it closed and sealed in a in a little baggie. I don't I'm not spraying that stuff. I'm scared. What's going to do? Why don't you do it and find out and come back and tell me that's for the whole cosmetics uh pheromone spray. There's a really strong one that you have to like write the owner and ask directly to purchase it and then they'll ask you a series of questions to make sure that you're in the right person to, you know, get your hands on this stuff because it's that potent. I have some, but I have yet to use it. It's like I don't want to find out. I'm already attractive enough if I spray that stuff on, who knows what's going to happen. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Maybe if I see like, you know, someone that might need it more than me, I might gift it to them. Sprinkle signs he is chasing starts to become dangerous. Oh, signs. If he is chasing starts to be I don't know. Like if he's very disrespectful and very jealous, that's a sign of danger. Okay. Sprinkle. Sprinkle. Cuz he's seeing you as an object versus a human. Okay. So, anybody that's super jealous or super disrespectful or mean or physically or mentally abusive is a red flag. Yeah. But also like if he's seeing you as an object, it's not good. Okay. He's an entrepreneur and being and been giving you money. Last time was his birthday. He asked me to come and I refused. He asked me, "Where's my present?" I said, "I don't know. You should have just got him a card, girl. or a pair of socks from the Dollar Tree or the dollar store. Just, you know, something cheap. Sprinkle, sprinkle. If you've been giving you money, give them a pair of socks and a card. I don't know, sprinkle, sprinkle. Yeah. If he's controlling Yeah. You don't want to be dealing with somebody that think that they can control somebody. All right, y'all. I have to uh Oh, summer Kiki. Thank you, ma'am. Sprinkle. Why do guys who used who used you or dated always come back? They do. They reflect on their actions when you leave after seeing through their games. Um, they want to see if you're dumb enough to let them back in for free. Okay? Because if if they reflected on what they did and how they were wrong, then they're willing to pay for their mistakes. So charge that re-entry fee, darling. Sprinkle, sprinkle. They really want to come back. Whatever you want from them, they'll do it. Whatever you need from them, they'll give it. So if it's money, if it's a shopping spree, if it's a gift, ask for it. Don't let them come back for free. People only come back for free because it's free. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Okay? You don't let people come back for free. That's like people making their rounds. Okay. Well, this one said no. This one is this one is being mean to me. Let me call my ex and see if she'll boost my ego back up so I can go back to the other one later on like I'm a man. No, you know. No, they they got to pay because that's what they're doing. They're just making their rounds to boost their ego. I style abundance. Thank you. Spark sparkle to you too, ma'am. Spark sprinkle. Yeah. Spinning the block to get ego boosts. Just get their money. get your money boost. They can't even text you or talk to you unless they're going to cash app you first. Ma'am, don't entertain stuff that's not beneficial to you. Don't waste time. And the reason why I say that, don't waste time. Don't keep letting people circle the block because they don't respect you and they don't they don't see you as a priority. They see you as somebody who'll take crumbs and leftovers and mistreatment over and over again from the same person and they won't learn their lesson. So charge them. Teach them a lesson. Okay. It means they didn't find better or they think you are weak. Exactly. So just charge them. You can't be weak if you always charging cuz your bank account going to be strong. All right. Okay. What if they don't care and keep doing it? Then your bank account should be growing. Ma'am, sprinkle. Sprinkle. Charge them more each time they come back. More and more. The re-entry fee gets higher each time they try to come back. Okay. Thank you. You're right. I appreciate you. Thank you, Miss Summer Kiki. Just get the money, man. Attach to the money, not not him. Sprinkle. Sprinkle. If a man really wants you to attach to them, they will do anything to make you realize that they love you, that you're the one, and that they will do anything for you. If they haven't done that with their actions, with their ability to provide, then why should you believe it? Just keep getting and stacking the money that they're going to give you. Sugar daddy cut you off because you ma messaged him during MDW. I don't even know what that is. Demanding more of him and his time. Should I apologize or wait for him to rent a car come coming up? Renting a car is coming up or be silent. Um, a man a sugar daddy doesn't have to spend time with you. They got to spend money on you. Okay. Sprinkle sprinkle. If you're that attached to a sugar daddy, that's not your boyfriend. That's not your husband. That is a man that is giving you money so he could do what he got to do whenever he feel like he don't he doesn't he's not attached to you like that. So stop trying to attach to him. Okay, y'all understand this? Get the money. That's what a sugar daddy is, not a time daddy. Shira, I'm 21. My boyfriend broke up with me and I feel oh and you miss him and he oh Anthony what do I do? He spoiled me in the beginning then stopped. That's what they usually do. That's why you got to make sure they got real money to continue and you get them on direct deposit. Okay? And you don't give anything up until they're heavily invested in you. So you just need another one that's slightly older with more money. Sprinkle sprinkle. You just need another one that's older with more money and you'll forget all about him. You got to replace them. Sprinkle sprinkle. Replace and make sure when you replace him that one has more to give. Okay? And don't talk about the old one with the new one. Some of y'all be dumb and doing stupid stuff like that. Get a roster. Exactly. You're single now. Act like it. You you you should be able to get way more out of people now that you're single than attached to somebody that's not doing too much for you. You said, "I miss him. Should be banned from the chat." So, you miss somebody not spoiling you or doing nothing for you. You miss rolling around on a mattress. Well, find somebody with more money. Okay. Sprinkle, sprinkle. That's your new mission in life. Find somebody that has more money that can do more for you. Okay. If you can't do that, then I don't know why you on my channel. You said he stopped spoiling you because you got emotionally attached. Exactly. You loved him. You fell in love with rolling around on a mattress with him. Now you miss him and he got bored and left. Okay, wonderful. Stop. Don't get detached if you want them to stay chasing and stay spoiling. Here you go. [Music] [Music] Okay. Y'all are asking me how to be nice. I don't know how to be nice. I know how to be real and I know how to get what I want. If y'all never heard the saying, "Nice woman go finish last cuz they're no challenge." It's better to be remembered as somebody who you couldn't win versus somebody you won and walked on as a doormat and then discarded. Okay? It's always best to be the one that got away or the one that they couldn't impress. It's always best to be her, not the other way around. Because they'll always be trying to figure out still why could I have done different? Why why did why wasn't I good enough? So, never be the nice girl because you'll get discarded and never thought about again unless they need somebody as a fool. Okay. Sprinkle, [Music] sprinkle. You said nice women usually forget that men pretend to be nice and they are not. That's true. They just want what they want. So be smart, don't be dumb, and don't be nice. Mhm. You said you don't feel tough enough for this world. Then attached to money, not people. Okay. The people that are supposed to be a part of your life, they're already a part of your life. The people that want to become a part of your life will meet your standards to stay a part of your life. You get it? The people that are supposed to be a part of your life will meet your standards. And if your standards are that they have money and that they spend it on you, they're going to meet them if they want to be in your life. It's it doesn't have anything to do about being tough. It's about having your standards and keeping them. That's literally it. If they can't do it, tell them to move out the way. If you have a business and you have to hire people to do a specific job and they can't do it, you don't hire them. It's that simple. Y'all be just trying to be nice to everybody. If somebody comes in and you're trying to hire somebody to do a certain job and they can't do it, you're going to hire them just cuz you're nice and and waste your time and energy and money on them just cuz you're nice. No, you don't fit the job description. Look, it's that simple. All right. Do better. Okay. I'm sorry. I forgot to answer this question. Should you apologize or wait for him? Girl, you never apologize to a sugar daddy. Let them come around. They're the man. And stop becoming over emotional around these men. They're not your boyfriend. They're just a way for you to get money. Stop being over emotional. Stop trying to make him your boyfriend. He's just your sugar daddy. Okay? Do y'all not know the difference between a sugar daddy, a boyfriend, and a husband? Let me tell you, a sugar daddy just gives you money, sees you when they can. That's it. Boyfriend is somebody that you spend time with, have a relationship with, and who should be paying for everything. A husband is the same thing except y'all got a piece of paper and he probably has more money than the boyfriend. All right? Stop getting them confused. Stop getting them confused. That's not your man. Sugar daddy does not mean relationship. It don't mean boyfriend. It don't mean husband. Stop treating these men like they're your man. They're not your man. Just get their money. How should I pay for How should you get plastic surgery? I don't know, ma'am. Sprint. Find somebody to pay for it if you can't. I don't know. Do you need it that bad? Okay. [Music] Okay. Oh, he said I love you first, not you. I show passion now he lazy. Then stop showing passion. Start showing passion in yourself. Become selfobsessed once again. This is always going to be the answer. Become obsessed with yourself. Don't even worry about him. Start just making everything about you. Okay? You left a guy who used to spend on me. He insulted me after I ignored it. Now he apologized. But expect something physical right away. No money off girl. If anybody's expecting something physical with you, they don't like you. Especially right away. They don't like you. They're just in it to get it real quick so they can leave real quick. If a man plans to be with you for a long time, they can wait. They're patient. They'll spend money. They'll invest. They'll prove themselves to you. If they're just trying to hurry up and get in and get out, they're going to be trying to rush you into something physical. So, know that if you ever give it up to him, he's going to be gone as quick as he came in. Okay? Make them invest money. Investments. Investments. Have him pay some bills. Have him put some money on on your car. Have them do something to build up your savings account. Have him buy you some new tires if he's trying to get to that. It costs money to get to that. Okay. If y'all are close to the same age and he looks decent, he's gonna expect you to act just like he's acting because he thinks you're young and want him to. They got to like you way more for them to do way more. Going to ask tomorrow for money will update. No fear. Good for you, Ara. So make sure you look better than him and he likes you way more. And that way he'll do whatever you need him to do. Otherwise, y'all y'all don't need this channel. Y'all are dating people that can't do nothing for you. Spring. Okay. Okay. He said, "I love you first. Who cares?" He He probably didn't even mean it. If he's If he's acting like that, he didn't mean it, ma'am. He just did it so you could do what you need to do with them. Most men don't mean it unless they're paying like money. Like, have they paid off your car note? Are they paying their bills? Do you still have to work? Then he don't mean it. Thank you. Uh, Sabia, Sidia, thank you. How to stay detached from narcissistic parents. Uh, stay busy and stay away. Spread sprinkle. Thank y'all. Sprinkle sprinkle. Y'all have to understand something. If a man says I love you, if it's not attached to he loves your bills, he loves your car note, he loves, you know, your credit card uh bills, do he really love you, or he just mouths words? Okay, he got to show action. And if you love me, pay these bills. If you love me, pay this car off. Show me. Don't tell me. I don't I don't need words. I need actions. Okay. Sprinkle, sprinkle. You said you're not finding men in the luxury gym. Are you going early in the morning? Like early early. The old people wake up early. You trying to find an old man. get up like be be at the gym at about 7:00 7:30. You trying to find an old one. Okay. Old people wake up early. They wake up at 4:00 in the morning. They get up, get dressed, take a shower, then go to the gym. Okay? You got to get there at 7, 7:30. They gone by 8, baby. Sprinkle. Go. You got to get up early for old people for the gym. Anyway, all people up before the sun, [Music] [Music] baby, the perfect the perfect schedule. If you have kids and you drop them off to school or you get them off to school, that after you take them to school, go to the gym right away. That's that's the time that you're going to catch the old people early. early early. Okay. You're not going to catch them after 8. They're going to be there between 6 and 7:30. Okay? Cuz they get up early. Then after that, they either go to the market or they go run their errands or they go home and then go back out to lunch. That's why I say if you want to find older men, you got to get up early in the morning. They don't get up late. They don't have the same schedule as certain people. So, get up early. What if you work? Then get up early. Sprinkle. Sprinkle. If you don't, then you know, don't worry about it cuz all the older guys are up early. [Music] Okay, I'm just telling y'all what I know. Like, if you want to meet guys that are older, not in the gym, then you need to join a country club or some type of sports club. They may be in there after, like maybe eight, maybe nine. But at the gym, older guys are going to be there super [Music] early. You say even there in England, old people be up before dawn, even at the gym. Honestly, ass. If y'all want to meet old people with money, go get up early in the morning, go to the rich side of town, and go do stuff. Go to breakfast, go to the gym, go walk around. They're they're all all out there doing that stuff before 8:00. Okay? And the funny thing is they're not they're not going to be used to seeing younger people out there that early in the morning. So, you're going to be a rare thing. So go make yourself seen. Yep. Lunch, breakfast spots, gyms, parks, grocery stores early. Like anything before noon, you're going to be able to meet people doing their errands and, you know, getting in the gym and all that kind of stuff. Some old people have regular schedules and they do the same thing every day because they're in a routine. If you can find one like that and that you see all the time, you're most likely going to get approached by them if they start recognizing you. if you are on that same regular schedule. Okay. Okay. What's the best way to ask for plastic surgery money? I don't know, ma'am. Just I always lie and say it's for something else when it's for something else. Just say it's for something else. Just always lie and say something is for something else. Why do you got to tell them exact details? Who cares? Just get their credit card. Say, "I need I need to use your credit card and go then use it for that." I don't know. What I'm telling you is y'all talk too much. Y'all give away too information. Too much information. And you need to be less revealing. Okay. Say less. Sprinkle. Sprinkle. I've never seen a generation so obsessed with plastic surgery. But hey, if you ugly and you need it, you know what? I'm never going to say don't do it. I'm just going to say hopefully you need it. If you don't need it, save that money and start a business. If y'all want to ask me a one-on-one question, the the easy is the easiest best way is to join my Patreon tier 2 and up and you can literally direct message me and I will write you back in one or two days, okay? and you can message me as often as you like and I will respond to you within one or two days. Also, um I have a mail out tier where if you sign up for the mail out tier, I'll mail you a card each month. I'm kind of behind this month cuz I'm moving, but um you know, we're in the middle of this move. So, I'll have to bust out my stationery once we get settled in. And then, um most I sent out most of the the letters for May. So maybe one or two didn't get sent so that I'll just make it up to y'all in June. Sprinkle sprinkle, but most of the time I'm very consistent and you receive everything on time. So no worries. But that's the best way to contact me is through my Patreon messenger. I I'll link it again. Thank y'all. And you also get PDF books, journaling prompts. Um there's posts and videos. And there's also I think if you are a member for 3 months or more, they they'll send you a Sprinkle Sprinkle sticker, which is kind of cute. Mhm. Sprinkle sprinkle. Yes. I'm staying I'm staying here. I'm not moving out of state. No worries. Mhm. Yeah, our house is like, you know, a mess and there's some stuff that they need to like renovate and do some stuff with. So, you know, we had to do a little um what what do you call this? Move in order for them to fix the house. Sprinkle. Sprinkle. Yeah. How to be comfortable with yourself after a lifetime spent in hating yourself. Why would you hate yourself? You're supposed to be obsessed with yourself. You're supposed to be the main character. Okay. You said temporary relocation. Okay. Thank you, Kimberly. Sprinkle. Sprinkle. Girl, I don't know the vocabulary for this, but I appreciate that. Um, yes. Spend time becoming obsessed with yourself. That's how That's how you get rid of self-hate. Become obsessed with yourself. Thank you. How did I discover the mole? I looked up at the ceiling. Mhm. My kids started coughing. There was leaks in the roof from the air conditioner and all the hurricane storms that have blown through Texas. And you know, a lot of stuff goes undetected for a while. And I live in a very humid environment. A lot of the times, you know, when people build houses, the builders are trying to build so many houses real quick that they kind of cut corners or they build them really fast. And so sometimes like things don't um things aren't as good as they should have been. And so, uh, like we had our house build built. And so, um, a lot of times when you have a house, if you don't fix things right away, things can like get worse over time. So, that's just what happened. And I think it's cuz James is old and he never really wanted to be on top of things as a as a homeowner as much as he should have. No. So, no, we're not in a hotel, darling. No, that would be nice though, but no. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Yeah, like when you're a home owner, you got to be on top of all that stuff. You know, I left it up to him. Thank you, Miss J. Marie. Sprinkle, sprinkle. What does it mean when a guy sends you videos and pictures of his exes? It means he don't like you. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Okay. me don't like you, ma'am. Sprinkle, sprinkle. It doesn't mean It means you ain't the one cuz why would he be doing that? No man ever showed me their ex. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Happy moving, Shar. May your new place sprinkle sprinkle with lovely moments. Thank you, Miss Ann. I appreciate you. Said he wants you to be jealous and insecure of his ex. Yeah. Any man that sends you that doesn't like you for real. They're just playing with they're just playing you. A man that wants you to take them seriously is not going to mess up like that. Okay. If a guy's hours late for plans you had, he he was on a date with another one before you and it ran over or he doesn't care and you're not a priority. Sprinkle, sprinkle. He says, "What do I think about Dubai? They make some good chocolate and has some nice perfume, but I've never been there." Sprinkles. Okay. Mhm. You said you live in Dubai. Mhm. Wonderful. You like it? Sprinkle. Sprinkle. I have watched I forgot what the name of it was but there's like a reality show that follow around like rich wives or rich women and their like everyday lives. I think it's in Dubai. It shows you their extravagant lifestyle. I think it's on I forgot the channel. I don't know. But yeah, I've watched a few of the episodes. That's Dubai Bling. Yeah. Yeah, I've watched a few episodes of that. That's really extravagant. I think it's called Dubai Bling, like bling bling. Would you recommend dating or mirroring a NB who is more domestic, likes to help with house, cook, and clean rather than working? What's the NB? And he What do you mean? What's an NB? I don't y'all a newbie. A NB. He likes to help with the house and cook and clean rather than Okay, so just hire a maid. Sprinkle, sprinkle. What the heck? A man. So you just got a male maid. Wonderful. Sprinkle. Sprinkle. You said non girl. I don't know what you're talking about. Y'all got to talk to me in English. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Okay, just hire a maid. Ma'am, skip the rig. [Music] Okay. Yeah, I've seen Young Famous in Africa and really nice. Love that show, too. Mhm. He said he's a free maid though. Okay. Well, don't call him your man. Call him your maid. I don't know. Mhm. [Music] Thank you, Kristen. Sprinkle, sprinkle. I appreciate [Music] that. You said, "I am too famous in the Arabic world now." Really, Hana? I did not know that. Sprinkle, sprinkle. [Music] What to do? Wait, what do you think about dreaming about someone? Hidden desires maybe. You said envy is possible. Nonblack girl. I don't know. Y'all got to start spelling stuff out. I don't know what these little abbreviations means. It's just random letters. Imagine if he's home all day when you get alone time. Oh no. You said, "Do I believe in justice? What am I in the Justice League? Am I a superhero? Am I a judge? What you recommend for 18year-old beautiful girls is worth preserving for marriage. Um, I believe that a 18-year-old girl shouldn't even be thinking about marriage. Sprinkle. I believe that 18-year-old girl should be focused on herself, becoming her best self, and learning who she is. Yes. And prioritizing and becoming a self obsessed. I don't think she should be dealing with nothing broke either. and whatever she wants to do with herself, so be it. But I feel like definitely they need to be becoming selfobsessed and dealing with themselves. Okay. Yes. Why are women these days getting so attached to men from the first date? Because they're stupid. And a lot of people think that they're going to be lonely because people keep lying and telling them, "Oh, you're going to be lonely if you don't get them in." They want to attach to somebody that bought them some food and some drink. Look, you can get free food anywhere. Okay? You need to attach to somebody wanting to pay your bills. That doesn't happen on a first date unless it does. You know what I'm saying? Get attached to what they can do for you, not how they can lie to you. Cuz first date is literally a lie. It's not even them. It's their representative. Okay? What they can do for you is what you need to get attached to. Y'all are not smart. That's why people keep getting attached to people on the first date because they're stupid. Okay. Sprinkle. Sprinkle. [Music] I can tell this guy is nervous to ask me out, but he's interested. How can I help him out? You can't. Ma'am, stop trying to do what the man's job is. I'm not going to look over here and say, "This man really wants to ask me out. I know he's interested. Should I help him?" No, ma'am. If he's not bold enough and man enough to walk across this room and impress me and risk rejection in front of whoever, then I don't want him. Why do you want him? Why do you want to help a man? Why do you want to baby a man? Why do you want to cuddle him? Why do you want to take his hand and lead him over to you and say, "I know he want to ask me out, so I'm going to help you." Okay, maybe he don't want to ask you out. Maybe he's not man enough to even be with a woman like you. Have you ever thought about that? Because if he was, he would be. Y'all keep trying to help these men and they don't even They're not even men. Stop it. Sit your butt down and wait for a real man to approach you. That's it. Okay. Y'all be doing too much. She tell y'all now if this were a man, if the same words came out of a man's mouth, you would call that being invasive. Now, wouldn't you? If a man is sitting there and say, "I know that woman wants me. I'm just going to go get in her face and see if she responds. I know that woman wants me. She don't want you. She just looking at you and trying to figure out if if you dusty or or or paid. And she probably thought you were dusty and just stop looking, you know. So, we can't do that. We got to allow people to do what they are supposed to do and if what they're bold enough to do, we can't sit there and try to do stuff for grown able-bodied men. Stop it. You said you're constantly denying travel invitations. They're not supposed to be inviting you to travel. They're supposed to be giving you money. They're supposed to be approving that there are providers and that they like you for you, not for you to be a travel escort. Okay. Okay. Mhm. You said you talk too crazy for a women, a woman who's pushing 200 lb. I'm sorry, Jason, that you're underweight and have no muscle tone. I am not pushing 200 lb, but if I was, um, I'd still probably be looking more manly than you. Sprinkle, sprinkle. I'm sorry you got little pee pee and little leg syndrome. All right. and short man syndrome. Sprinkle, sprinkle. I'm sorry. Your ribs show when you take off your shirt because you're underweight and skinny and don't have no protein powder. I don't know what to tell you. All right. Sprinkle, sprinkle. All right. Anyway, don't travel nowhere with a man that ain't your man or a provider. Exactly. Sprinkle. Sprinkle. Mhm. Malnourished men need talk talk the most. Exactly. Don't nobody want your tails in the crib body. Said get your weight up. Yes. He has little man syndrome. He's intimidated by a woman who's 5'9 and not close to 200 lb. Boy, I would tower over you and you would feel like a Thank you. Arya, does it count if he put you on payroll, but it's not his personal money? Uh, if you get caught, I don't know. You going to be in trouble. Sparkle. Okay. What can I say to your sugar daddy if you don't want to go to dates in some areas? I don't want my boyfriend to see me. Okay. Um, keep suggesting other areas of town and say that your aranged family member lives over there and you don't want to run into them. Okay. Say blame it on an aranged family member. Okay. Okay. He said, "I don't know why y'all are trying." I know. Like if a Dusty wants attention, they'll just try to belittle a woman or say something mean just to get attention. Wonderful. Okay, you got your attention today, Dusty. Congratulations. You can breathe now. All right. Why do some men use a woman as a therapist? Cuz they can't afford a real [Music] therapist. Okay. What do you think? What do you think about calling men out and telling them I don't believe anything until I see it? I'm just say I'm a I'm a person that likes actions. That's a nicer way to say your words mean nothing to me. Or just say I like a man of action. every time they start talking it's like well I prefer a man of action or I like a man of action and then when they're talking and blabbing just be like not really paying attention and just say well I prefer a man of action that means your talk is cheap sir nobody's listening anyway y'all I've got to go a pleasure I'll see y'all sometime again this week hopefully I'm going to try to get unpacked as fast as possible I might have to give away a lot of stuff cuz we're um I just packed everything without going through it a lot first. So, you know, I have to give away a lot of junk. So, hopefully I'll be back sometime this week and maybe I'll go to my office space to where less things will be less chaotic and we'll see. Okay. Thank you, ML. Sprinkle sprinkle. I appreciate that. Mhm. All right. Thank y'all everybody who sent sprinkle sprinkle. Thank y'all for asking good questions. Thank y'all members of the channel. I appreciate y'all so so much. If y'all are members on my Patreon, I appreciate you as well. And I will be writing you back if you have written me. I wrote y'all back last night. So, if you haven't checked your um messages messages, uh you should have something there. Okay. I'll see y'all soon. Bye.