Notes from Dreamgirl Podcast with Liz

Introduction

• Host: Sheen
• Guest: Liz (also known as Wizard Liz)
• Liz shares the story behind her nickname:
  • Worked in a restaurant, a client complimented her aura, and she joked about being a wizard.

Liz's Background

• Childhood was traumatic; experienced physical abuse from her father.
• Mother's abuse was also witnessed.
• Father's infidelity was seen as a relief for Liz and her siblings.
• After father's departure, Liz developed eating disorders (bulimia, anorexia) as a form of self-abuse.

Key Themes

• Aftermath of abuse is crucial in self-identity formation.
• Liz felt responsible for her family's struggles.

Pivotal Moments

• Liz's life began to change after her father's departure.
• She focused on making money to provide for her family.
• Realization that energy spent on eating disorders limited her personal growth and creativity.

Self-Discovery and Healing

• Transitioned from self-abuse to self-acceptance.
• Emphasizes taking responsibility for one's own life and decisions.
• Encourages listeners to stop blaming circumstances and take back their power.

Misconceptions about Liz

• Often labeled as a narcissist due to her confident demeanor.
• Clarification that narcissism involves manipulation and not overt self-promotion.

Advice on Relationships

• Importance of listening to intuition regarding toxic relationships.
• Recognizing actions over words in relationships.
• Encouraged to set boundaries and prioritize self-respect.

Confidence and Self-Love

• Self-love should not be confused with selfishness.
• Recommend applauding oneself and developing skills to build confidence.
• Discussion on societal pressures regarding women and success.

Jealousy and Comparison

• Jealousy can be a motivating emotion to identify what one truly wants.
• Importance of not demonizing jealousy but using it as a source of inspiration.

On Personal Growth

• Emphasizes the importance of surrounding oneself with supportive people.
• Acknowledges outgrowing friendships and the discomfort it can bring.
• Encourages listeners to focus on self-awareness and setting healthy boundaries.

Final Thoughts

• Encourages belief in oneself and in God, and the power of manifesting desires.
• Suggests prayer and maintaining a connection with God for higher vibrations and peace of mind.

Closing

• Sheen expresses gratitude for Liz's insights and encouragement.
• Liz emphasizes the importance of being true to oneself amidst societal expectations.