hello gorgeous human beings of the internet how are you today Melanie and layer coming to here live on my personal Facebook page if this is the first time you have ever caught me live in your whole entire life please let me know that you're a first-time viewer I would love to welcome you to my Facebook live world if you tend to watch me quite a little bit then I hope that you will say hi because we're friends and stuff and if you happen to to be watching the replay then you can # alfm and I will see that you watched on the replay hello Ariana hello Danielle hello Amy Penny vck Christina so good to see you thank you for being here so today is a countdown it's the third live stream in a row hi Johanna hello Michelle hello Rosie it's a third day in a row that I go live because we are going to be celebrating s years of my company Alpha fem on the 5th of July and I decided to do a 7-Day countdown 7-Day countdown to seven years in business and why I want to do this is because one of the big mottos of the alpha fem brand is for me for you for us and so I want to I want to find a way that my company thriving for seven years helps you have your company yourself your life your relationship Thrive that there is a way that what is happening for me is transferable duplic able what can I give to you so that this isn't just something that I celebrate for me but something that I celebrate for me for you for us and so there are some amazing live streams coming your way today is a plot twist day there's something I had planned what I wanted to do and then the whole I decided to change things so something very cool and today's Canada day I'm Canadian and so happy Canada Day to all my fellow Canadians so today I spent some hours on the lake I smell like sunscreen I look like a mess my hair's mess and I'm so happy I've had a fantastic day and I've also even though I've had some beautiful time off and I've had time to really enjoy my day I've also had some really beautiful meaning meaningful powerful conversations today with some of my clients and the conversations really sparked something and I was like oh my gosh I think I know what today's live stream is going to be about and then plot twist what was going to talk about is no longer what I'm talking about I'm talking about something that I think is even more beneficial to you for today hello Donna hello Hillary Cindy so good to see you Sarah Fiona Shannon hello hello Rebecca Amanda hi I had to adjust my social media timer so I can watch your videos that's awesome thank you for being here Ariana hello Michelle thank you for T tagging Mary that's awesome Emma watching from the UK that's so cool Michelle penny is back Cammy so good to see you hello hello it's like a paid master class thank you for your generosity whoa thank you so much for that hello gorgeous woman Michelle so good to see you Logan hello hello I love a good plot twist hello rahima hello hello s from France Joan I'm Canadian too happy Canada Day hello Diane a so happy to see you totally digging the vibe your face is gorgeous hair I want and skin looking baby butt soft Christina you're awesome hello veronic hello Shay Laura hell hello hello Katie so good to see you Jade Karen you made it thank you thank you thank you happy Canada Day thank you hello Becky from South Australia thank you Sabrina hello Michelle okay so we have an item to draw so because this is fun times and we are having a party hey Hannah so good to see you hello Christina I led your share on Instagram today Carla thank you for catching me live this is awesome I just want to spend time saying hi to everybody noen from Seattle very cool light and Sunshine from Vancouver Island oh I love that okay so yesterday I asked if you share please let me know in the comments section that you shared so that myself my team can go through all the people who shared and draw and we are going to be drawing the we are alpha FM since 2017 hat that I was wearing yesterday well not the one I was wearing yesterday you'll have your own that I have not worn yet unless you prefer the one that I've worn warn some people are interesting that way but if you would like to have uh well basically the ones who shared the this yesterday one person is going to win this um cap today so I'm very excited about that so I think the first thing we should do is have the alpha fem team uh let me know who is our winner of the we are alpha fem since 2017 cap which is a one one and only there's these are very rare limited edition cuz I made them for my staff we had them made for our team for the party and there's some extra ones so the alpha FM team says drum roll please I feel like The Griswalds drum roll and the winner is Nicole white Nicole white you are the winner of we are Alp fem since 2017 cat so thank you so much for sharing yesterday I appreciate you so much and we are going to have another draw on the next live stream so here is what we're drawing on the next one I always love drawing these I feel like this is always so exciting we are going to be drawing the crystal Alpha fem water bottle now if you don't know what this is you are about to be in for a treat these I I sell on my website they're usually $111 on the website so these are not the Priceless ones made just for the event like the cap this is actually created for my clients at first and then we developed an alpha fem store and these are purchasable this is two items technically so there's this sleeve that's all beautiful sleeve and it says Alpha F all right but what it is is a water bottle like this and it has a crystal in it this one is a smoky quartz crystal and it says Alpha fan and this basically you fill them with water you let the water Infuse with the Crystal and then you drink the water and it infuses with all the properties of the smoky quartz this is my Holy Grail of extraordinary things in life I love it so much and you can carry it everywhere with you in your fancy little boho chic little holder thingy like this and so I can't remember how much these are I think they might be 55 or something like this but today I'm going to get make sure the person who wins wins the bottle and the holder so that you can be fancy pants all summer long so all you need to do is share this live stream let me know in the comment section that you shared and tomorrow when I go live again one of you will be manifesting the water bottle with the fancy Crystal and the Fancy schmancy Pants boho chic little holder so that you can take it with you all the live long day that's the plan for that so all you need to do is share this live stream with let me know in the comment section that you've shared Kevin and I will make sure that you're in the draw for tomorrow so what is the purpose of today's live stream there is a very really intentional purpose for today and I'm very excited about it I'm very happy to be bringing this to you so the title of today's live stream I know Kevin wants Kevin's silly thank you for being my greatest fan Kevin you're the best ah thank you Chris thank you for sharing Logan I appreciate it so much and thank you so much also for sharing Sonia thank you Sophie thank you thank you Hillary thank you Donna thank you thank you for sharing I appreciate you so [Music] much okay the faith makes the miracle so this is something that sounds so normal right it's something that sounds so matter of fact of course we know this the faith makes the miracle but I want to go really deep into this and I want to unpack it a little bit more with you and I want to speak it to you in a way that's going to make it go from a sentence to a whole life experience in one conversation so the fact is I'm going to ask some questions before I get started just so you can get an idea from the people in the comment section here who here has ever experienced something in their lives when they first started something where it just felt like it was so easy to be grateful either the beginning of a new relationship that felt like a miracle like you just manifested a dream partner either the beginning of Parenthood when it felt like you just manifested a miracle either the beginning of your business where it felt like you just manifested a miracle shell so good to see you hope so good to see you oh my gosh this is awesome so you know that feeling when you get started and it feels like every little thing is a freaking miracle and it's just like you don't really know what you're doing but you keep imagining what it's going to be like and you keep imagining how much better it's going to get I don't know if You' even had the thought of like if this is how good it is now imagine how incredible it's going to be later you know when you're in that zone if if my business feels good now imagine what it's going to feel like in a couple years for now if this relationship feels like this when we've just met imagine what it's going to feel like when it's when it's official when we're engaged when we get married when if this is what Parenthood feels like and my kid can't even say my name yet imagine what it's going to feel like when they run to me and they say my name imagine what it's going to feel like imagine you know that feeling when it's so good that it's easy to project into the future and just say if this is good the future is going to be great so just look at this comment section people are saying so many things have been like this me the beginning of my life in Finland yes for sure uh yes I have yes yes yes yes it feels so easy yes me right now stepping back into an executive role after being s a a stayathome mom yes definitely when I moved to Costa Rica so true you know the the creation is in the magic yes I know the miracle feeling is in the vision and and basically sharing oh the people are sharing so this is awesome so you know that feeling when it's like this is so great but now I want you to also ask yourself have you ever been in a situation where just like that something's going bad in your relationship and you're like if my life is this bad now how bad can it get if you've ever had a situation with your company having difficulties or financial woes and thinking like if it's getting this bad this fast or if it's consistently going backwards or if it's consistently getting worse for me how bad could this get like and and imagining how good it could be feels almost alien at that point so you might have gone from a place of earning a few thousand dollars a month and imagining one day I'll make 10,000 and feels like yes one day I'll do that I'll make 10,000 a month and one day I'll make 20,000 in one day but then you might also have done it the other way so I used to make this much but now I'm making this much and if it keeps going this way I might even make less and now instead of imagining oh my gosh how great things will be in the future all of a sudden I'm thinking gosh if it's this bad now imagine how bad it can get so what we're seeing in the comment section is the same amount of yeses but with the opposite right so yes waiting for the other shoe to fall the quick send spiral yes for sure definitely feeling that there was never enough time feeling um like feel knowing that feeling all too well you know making number one thing can't make everything bad for me or that's for me and always seeing the positive okay it's been a while but yes I remember that many times over so we have as much as it's been a thing that people have looked into the future and said gosh if it's great now imagine how great it can be we've also been in a situation where it's like gosh this is so bad and how bad could it get so both things are possible in our lives and one of the things that I've really realized is that it's so much easier for us to have faith thank you Lynn it's so hard for it's so much easier for us to have faith when there's not a lot of evidence yet but we're in a place where things are on an upward spiral so the minute things start to look up a little bit so the minute it starts to look like things are getting good even if you have barely any evidence that things could work out for you you start to project things into the future Like Anything Could Happen Miracles could happen oh my gosh if I can manifest 20 bucks on the street what if I could manifest 100 if I could get one client a day what if I could get two if if a person's willing to spend $100 on a program what if they were willing to B spend $200,000 if this is if this is possible what if that's possible like that starts to happen even when you don't have a lot of evidence and the thing is your your energy as a person and we're calling it energy and I know not a lot of people really have studied this in depth and it sounds a little woooo when we talk about this but you know how when you're around a person sometimes they don't even need to say anything and you get a feeling you get a vibe from them like this is a really angry person right now or this is a really comfortable person right now or this is an intriguing person or I love this person's Vibe or I don't love this person's Vibe like we we we sense things sometimes from people and so when we start to compound all this self-belief when there is like a faith in something bigger than us when we're not just depending on our skills or be whether we're we're good enough or not when we're actually more so trusting in we don't know what god mother nature the universe there's just a feeling of like this could happen our energy the feeling of being around us changes and all of a sudden it it really does feel like we are in the miracle Zone we're in the god Zone we're in we're in the universal law Zone like when people are are near us they feel around this person magic happens and so we start to become a little bit of a magnet now the issue with this is that it's not the easiest thing to do when your thoughts are telling you the bad things are happening no matter how much you'd love to just turn it around and say okay I'm turning this ship around I'm just going to be positive let me be positive positive thinking and actually being in the god Zone in the Universal law Zone in the in the belief in in faith and and and the trust in something bigger than you it's so much bigger to be in faith than to be positive but there's a Common Thread Jen I'm so happy to see you I can't believe you felt your baby kicked today I love you so what happens is that when we are just positive although there's a mind thing about being positive everything is going to be all right I am positive I believe in miracles the vibe isn't necessarily there it's not necessarily a full body thing that other people can feel that the Universe can feel the God can feel you're not necessarily in the zone it doesn't necessarily mean that you believe it you're just trying not to be negative you're just being positive and so you might find it difficult to stay positive because it doesn't feel like you're in the zone so I'm going to give you a a tangent example of what positivity versus being in the zone feels like and I feel like the ladies on the here are going to get me you're going to get me so you know the feeling about wanting to get in the vibe to get intimate with your partner and feeling like you know it's date night I just need to shave my legs get myself together it's going to be good versus the feeling of feeling entirely taken over by a feeling you cannot control like it's on like dunk tongue and you have got the feeling in your feels like you've got this feeling inside your bones and there is nothing that's going to stop it like you are having a good time from head to toe you are lit up like a firecracker and you are in the zone and if someone touches your knee you're about to melt that is so different than the mindset of I can do this this is good for me it's good for my relationship I am in love this is this is good the kids aren't at home it's the perfect night it's Wednesday and it's time for business time it's so different getting yourself in the positivity of the I'm beautiful I smell nice my legs are soft I can I've got this it's going to be fun I just have to get in the zone but when you're in the zone there is no positivity required once you're in the zone you're just in the zone it's the same thing in your life making your dreams happen is Like Making Love positivity will not get you as far as getting in the zone the zone is the zone is the zone is the zone is the zone and the zone is where the miracles happen so the fact is trying to be positive trying to get in your head to figure out how to be positive in order to believe is one thing versus really cultivate that God Zone in your life and the field of miracles in your life is such a different feeling it's such a different energy and it requires a different kind of mental strength because one is I want to be entirely encompassed by this energy until there's nothing more I need to do than surrender to it and the other one is I'm trying to make this feel true so that I can get on with it one is like a pushing forcing getting through it and the other one is an allowing a surrendering and all of a sudden you're in the zone and everything just kind of happens so we'll often hear when people are talking about these unrealistic results they'll say things like it's easy and then other people are working really hard and they're hustling and they're like this is not easy well one person's in the zone and the other person's in the positive I can do this and I'm not letting go results can happen with both but one feels like effortless in the moment and the other one feels like you did it you can celebrate yourself you worked hard you accomplished it you did it but they definitely feel different so why is it that these two experiences of Life are just as possible just as as real the experience of being in the zone versus the experience of working hard and succeeding at something these are both real and valuable experiences of life but one creates Miracles and one creates results so where a lot of people misunderstand my desires with Alpha fem is is that I believe any of us can produce results results are just 1 + 1 equal 2 results are you do what you've got to do and then you do it like you might not have the greatest quality of life you might not enjoy it you might be bearing you know gritting your teeth the whole way and saying I've got this I can do this what I really want to bring to the table is how to access that Miracle Zone but the miracle Zone requires a lot more of your openness it requires your mind your energy your body your spirit it requires you to want to switch on it requires you to to be turned on by life like you are an awakened human being instead of just like I do what I've got to do and I don't want to devalue doing what you've got to do because sometimes that's going to work and that's going to be good but the thing thing is learning this as a secondary skill I think is one of the greatest things that's ever happened to me in my life is knowing I can get in the god Zone I can get in the universal law Zone I can get into this place where everything is supporting me to win and that's what I really want to transfer over in a in my teachings and in the way that I am so yesterday I was saying you know Alpha FM is where realism and idealism Collide so this is a lot the part where there's some idealism here the god Zone the universal law Zone I know there's a lot of idealism here but the amount of people who've been transformed from this work makes it inevitable that this is a thing myself included and so I just want to invite you to contemplate these things and to think to yourself okay I've seen the difference in my life when I'm in the god Zone and when I'm not what it feels like in my relationship when I Surrender and I let I let my feelings Take Over Me versus when I try to push to make something work in my business how it feels when I'm in that creativity Zone when I'm in the serving Zone when I'm just I'm just being me and it's just working and then all of a sudden I get in my head and things get hard so why do I want to bring this forward to you I have I have helped thousands and thousands and thousands and thousands of people in any single thing that make that is important to them whether it's their love their relationship their money their business you name it but there is a pattern and there's something that tends to happen when people only listen to half of what I say and it's normal that people really only listen to half of what I say because the first half creates results and the second half is like a an understanding or a warning of what the second wave is and they don't want to think about the second wave because they want to enjoy the first wave which I totally respect but this also makes it that people go into my world and then take a break and then they come back for round two after they've learned what it is that I'm trying to tell them at at round one but they're like let me enjoy this and I'm like okay F come back after but here's the big thing once you've achieved things in the miracle Zone there are two kinds of people when you achieve things in the miracle Zone you either realize that that was a miracle that this was an energetic match that you put yourself in the god Zone and that you trusted and that you did your part which was to literally put yourself in energetic alignment with the things that you want to then surrender to the universe to God to the energy and say do with me what you may what what do you want me to do in what you know what's the best of me let me trust let me have faith in this let me go as far as I can go let me be the best of me that I can be and then show me what's possible for me like you're in that energy and then all of a sudden God God mother nature of the universe shows you life that is extraordinary and then there are two kinds of reactions the first reaction is oh my gosh I did this I'm amazing I'm so amazing I need to show everybody how I did this I'm I'm the I'm the one who did it I'm the one I have to figure it out I have to figure out how to do it again how did I do this this is all me I'm amazing I know I know I prayed to God and to the universe but then I ended up doing all by myself and now I've got to figure out how I'm going to do it again and now I've got pressure to do it again and now I've got to show people how to do it again and I need to know how to do it again and it's all the pressures on me and all the eyes are on me and now I need to think about how I'm going to do this again in the public eye I need to think about how I'm going to manage to pay my staff I need to figure out how I'm going to learn to do this and this and I need and now we need to do it and now all of a sudden the miracle zone is no longer on the table because God mother nature of the universe says oh you did this all by yourself we misunderstood our part in this please proceed and then we go oops and then there is a humbling Awakening moment of like well I think possibly there was a little helping hand there from some some exterior forces I was trusting in believing in and praying to during all of those times and so what I've often said to people is you're going to wonder how to do it until you wonder how you did it this is what is going to happen if you do it with faith the way that really where the miracle zone is if you do it with faith because the miracle is in the faith it's in the trust in something that you you have no idea how to do and when you trust in something that you don't know how to do and you are willing to say mother nature God the universe play me like an instrument I want my music to touch the planet I'm willing to be used for the greater good like I am going to do the work and then the results come and you say thank you you look at the results and you say thank you this is a result of the faith this is what happens when I'm in the god Zone this is what happens when I don't try to control everything when I Surrender when I allow the miracle Zone the universal law Zone into my life this is what happens thank you yes this is exactly what I had in mind this is exactly what I hoped for this is what I've been praying for thank you I don't know how this happened but that's great news because if I don't need to know how I did this I don't even need to know how my next dream is going to come true the ego is surrendered you celebrate you say I'm so grateful and what you can do is you can share the mindset it took for you to get into the zone you can share certain strategies but the energy of who you are is that this was a collaboration between you and whoever it was you were praying to all this time if you forget that this was a collaboration you will go into the world claiming that you're God's gift and it will run out eventually because this was never just something I did or something you did and the people who are capable of walking one foot in gratitude and one foot in desire are the people who keep walking for a lifetime it has been the gratitude for this that has made this journey possible for me for two reasons number one because I haven't taken for granted and I've continued to live my life in the most beautiful way the way the way that is really I think intended in the stories that we learn to be in gratitude to Marvel at life to to say thank you when when miracles happen but beyond that when consistent magic was happening in my life instead of letting my head become so big and think I'm the full-blown Genius of this and now I should be able to duplicate these results and I need to show the world how great I am and I need to make sure that I'm constantly as good as I was and I need to make sure that I don't disappoint people and I need to be the one that's this and that instead of doing that I continued to have faith in the thing that could come next that I have no idea how I'm going to do the real Choice the real truth is I really believe if I would have tried to do what I've done on my own if I would have put it in my head that this was all me I never would have created what I created because my own limitations would have gotten in the way I don't I don't know how to do all of this I just know how to surrender and to say I will use my life for the good show me what to do tell me how to handle this I will do it I will I will do it I will learn the thing I will teach the thing I will give with all of my heart I will check in with you before I make big decisions I will do big things I will make a difference while I'm here money in my hands is good for the world I'll make sure I take care of of me of my people and of the world I will give and I will ask you where to give I will do what you want like I'm in the zone with you god mother nature of the universe I will trust the signs I will make sure that when I celebrate this I continue to give you the the glory of all of it I will say thank you God mother nature of the universe I will talk about manifestation and co-creation until the the end of my life I will not sell a guaranteed system that creates joy for you because the system is god mother nature the universe but how do you understand the system how do you become a person who understands their power and co-creation with divinity Source Mother Nature God the universe how do you take power like you were created in the eyes of a Creator like you were created in the image of a Creator which means you are a Creator so how do you take on your role as the creator of your life created in the image of the creator of all things and collaborate on something where you don't take full responsibility for the greatness because the greatness is a collaboration the failures are lessons they're meant for something and so when I look at life this way what I see is that there are Miracles everywhere in my life and I have two choices I can live for the Miracles or I can live for the the evidence of what I know for sure I can control one is the human version of me and the other one is the godsent Creator's own magical law of all things version of me and it is the most normal thing for us to want to be the human version of us and to do what's certain and what's real and what's true but here's what ends up happening at a big level so I want to I want you to project yourself right now if you can in a place where you do create something extraordinary where you become a multi a millionaire a multi-millionaire creating something that does genuine good on the planet okay so imagine you put yourself in this and on top of that you have a relationship that's thriving that requires your presence you have a family that's thriving that requires your presence you've got it all going on everything is there all the things are happening for you you've really got it all it's all happening can you see how if you take it on to your human only you will immediately start to feel pressure you will start to feel pressure on how to be a good enough wife you will start to feel pressure on how to be a good enough mother you will start to find pressure on how to make sure your staff is paid for and how to keep making enough money to keep being visible enough on the internet to keep being relevant enough that people care to keep doing enough and showing enough and proving enough so that all these balls you've got in the air don't fall it's inevitable that this will happen if you build this with only the human in mind so when you start the journey with all of your innocence with the understanding that you can ask and pray for mirales you don't think of all these things you think about imagine the beauty that my life will be one day if I ever have the opportunity to touch these these things Financial Freedom love motherhood all the things that you may have always wished for like what my life would be like if I have them and then you have them and you start to build a pressure like somehow you're only responsible for it because you forgot someone else helped you get it all you forget something else was in charge with you you prayed you wished you said this will be better for me for the world if if it happens and then you got it and you thought you were alone it is harder to believe in miracles when we have evidence it's harder to believe in miracles when we have responsibility because inevitably without even recognizing it what we're saying is I can't believe in God or the universe here because it's irresp responsible for me to do that if I believe in God and I have faith and I believe in the universe and I have faith and it goes wrong I won't get to just say well I don't know what to tell you I believed in God and it didn't happen that's true you can't just sit on your couch eating Cheetos and say I really don't know I put it in the hands of the Lord and then just like I don't know must gotten lost in transit but not my fault like can't do that but what you can can do is say with a with a limited amount of time to think and feel with the an amount limited amount of energy there can be no energy given to what if me and God and and mother nature in the universe all fail it has to be here's me giving my all and with any other energy I have I'm reminding myself that god mother nature the universe have my back that as I give everything I give not because I think I'm the only one playing the game but because I know that when I give all of my heart and soul I'm in the god Zone because you're not in the god Zone when you're not giving all of you you're not in the god Zone when you're not using your life to everything it can be you're not in the god Zone when you're not being utilized to the full power that you are you're not in the full God Zone when you're not attuned like an instrument and you're not playing every string every cord that you have in harmony with the universe with God you're not you're not fully in the god Zone if you've got one foot in one foot out hoping for a miracle or fearing that you're not good enough either way that's not you harmonizing with the greater sources in this life so the only way that this works is you have to give it everything people say but I'm exhausted and I said you know what you're exhausted about thinking about failure fearing failure anticip ating failure that's what you're most ex exhausted about because when all you had was imagining possibility and imagining greatness and imagining everything there was to imagine you spent all your time doing your best and wishing and praying until responsibility came at your door and so I want to help you do two things I want to help you create the life you've always wanted but then I want to help you keep it the first thing is easier than the second because it's easier to believe in miracles when you have no responsibility or when there's no fear of losing the fact is most of us have the most power this is how it works when we have the most power in our life is either because we have nothing to lose or we have achieved extraordinary personal power anything in the middle feels wobbly and I can tell you I've been on I've been on the other side of this when I am in my most personal power there's only two people I feel have as much PE as much power in the moment as me another person that's achieved their personal power or a person with nothing to lose who could come into my life like a bull in a china shop and break everything cuz who cares their life's broken anyway what does it matter what damage they Cause And so what you've got to understand is you're going to give yourself only two choices if you need to feel that circumstance anal power and and I think you know I'll keep this for another conversation for us personal power versus circumstantial power but the the feeling of being in your personal power and knowing that you can handle it because you're capable because you've got god mother nature the Universe on your side because either there's a miracle on the way or there's a lesson on the way that you needed to learn in order for the miracle to come true and it's time for it it's all connected and you've got this and as long as you give your best and you trust that you're in collaboration with larger energetics there really is no failure because failure would be ending or quitting or stopping and that's not on the agenda today nor is it on the agenda tomorrow or the day after that because this life compounds itself and its Evolution and growth over a lifetime and you're not going anywhere you're just going to get greater and greater and wiser and wiser and better and better as you learn from your mistakes and you celebrate your Miracles that's the only Zone you're going to be a part of when you when you actually abide by those laws the level of personal power that you have is extraordinary and when you touch that in your life everyone feels it you become the person people rely on and trust and all the things and that is incredible until all of a sudden you start to feel the pressure of it and you forget that you are literally walking on you're walking on the on the energy like if you got to the point where there's that much responsibility that is required of you you did did not get there alone if it is not good for the world for you to have that much power you just won't have it so I trust whenever something is difficult for me whenever my my life is challenging or something stressful happens I'm like I would not have been given this much power unless I was also given the strength to make make this right whatever it is if I'm supposed to learn something I'm supposed to grow there's another level of me I'm supposed to help more people I'm supposed to supposed to meet more people so what do I need I need more strength I need the capacity to handle more people who disagree with me I need to be able to speak even though people watch and hate I need to be able to address concerns and difficulties and projections and anger and all kinds of stuff if I'm going to address more and more and more people I have to be able to address more and more and more opposition how do I handle that in my body through lessons and the lessons need to come before the miracle does so I can hold the miracle a lot of people think the test is is here to challenge you because you did something wrong it's karma like something hard is happening because you're paying for something you did in the past I don't believe that I believe I asked for big things and God mother nature of the universe said are you sure you can handle it and I said yes and they said are you really sure and I said yes and they said okay well let's just test it just to be sure and then we'll send you the thing and then I say how dare you send me things like this that are so hard I said but you said you could handle it I said yes I didn't want to have to prove it I just wanted to say it and not have to be tested much better that you're tested before the miracle then when the miracle comes it's sturdy then when the miracle comes you can e you can compound it instead of worrying is it possible that I'm going to lose this is it possible that it's going to fall is it possible that it's only temporary is it possible that I have it but it's not going to last what's the point in having it like that I want my miracles to be solid I want my miracles to be sturdy they don't feel like accidents they feel like an energetic match for that I'm tested a little before to make sure I can hold the pressure and I can and I got this but it's not always comfortable sometimes it hurts sometimes it sucks but the thing we've got to learn is not how to operate in the god Zone like we don't have to learn how to how to be with manifestation we need to get ourselves to where we allow ourselves permission it's the human part of us that blocks it like no don't have that much Faith what if it fails then you'll look silly whoa don't surrender that much and don't lean back you'll look lazy and people will judge you whoa what is this personal power you're going to you're going to sound like you're too confident and people won't like you anymore and you're going to attract all kinds of no wait don't start declaring all these huge things you're going to look so silly if they don't work and and this is going to happen that's going oh wait whoa whoa whoa that much visibility no no no no no no no what if people don't like you what if they say mean things what if they say no no no scale it back hold it back it's the human being that stops it until you get in the god Zone and it's the same thing with intimacy don't don't get yourself all caught up you're getting hot and bothered breathe don't don't don't don't touch me no don't don't touch me there don't don't kiss me there don't touch me there no no no no no no no no no because I feel the power taking over me because I feel I feel it and I don't know what to do with it and I think I need it to stop because once you're in the zone you're unstoppable and so how do you continue to stay motivated in your business when you're going to you're going to start hitting $10,000 months 20,000 30 40 50 60 70,000 and those are going to become normal eventually not desensitized that's what I want to help you with not not normal like who cares normal like your body doesn't push it back anymore out of fear that you're going to lose it or mess it up or someone's going to take it or someone's going to hate you for it or you're going to make a mistake and it's going to C like all that goes away visibility online where it feels like if there is anything bad you're just going to breathe through it and you're going to be okay you're part of the reason that something is going to advance like if something difficult happens with visibility it's part of your journey to learn a lesson so you can grow even more everything is either a lesson or a miracle and so you're utilizing the human human version of to craft the greatest version of you that you can because that's the gift we got is to be human that we can smell and taste and touch and feel and like experience life in the most extraordinary way and also be connected to something so much bigger than us that we probably will never comprehend in our lifetime to say only when I let the Divine Play This human of the like this human like an instrument while I harmonize with the energetics that give me everything it's an everything kind of Journey I can't go I'm half an instrument make beautiful music out of me it's like you've got to be willing to be played 100% And then the symphony happens and when we're in collaboration and we're all harmonizing and the symphony is loud and all of us are being the best we can possibly be and the music is loud and the god mother nature the universe is coming in and supporting the missions and everything's happening then we say thank you we say yes we say thank you this is why I believe in equal power but different in shoulder-to-shoulder because I don't think that there is somebody up there or any energetics up there that's preferring people like you get to be in authority and you get to be good enough and you get to get everybody to follow you I don't think that's how it works I think it's like you're going to you're going to be the kind of person that wakes people up and makes them realize their power not you above them you beside them so they can awaken like that's what we're really doing here every person that that awakens to their power is actually just a piece of the puzzle so the whole world can advance whether you you unlock a piece of art you unlock a piece of literature in business you invent something it's in community Communications you become an extraordinary speaker an author whatever it is that you create for this world you're an equal equal power but different piece of an extraordinary puzzle unless you're just half of what you could have been and then the Divine only has bits and pieces to play with and you don't get to actualize to be everything you were meant to be but if you wonder sometimes like why why is it that I don't have the same things as these people I'm just as good so that means your human is is just as good except you do not have the same Faith you still think it's about you pushing you still haven't really made peace that there is something far greater than you that's making all this happen youve got to be able to say thank you as much as you say please this is something about spirituality that I think I had wrong for the longest time I never spoke to God unless it was to say please about something please God help me blah blah blah please God help me blah blah blah and when I said thank you I I said Thank you when it was like from the skin of my teeth you know like oh thank God but when a miracle happened in my life it was all about whether I was deserving of the the accolades rather than thanking God for that as well and I feel like a big difference in my life now is that I see God in everything I see Mother Nature God the universe in every single thing I I see it in the morning sun and in the day off and in the ability to appreciate the wind on my skin and the the soft kisses in my relationship and the genuine understanding of one another it's in the right words it's in my ability to write the way I want to write it's in the knowing that I can I can write a post and I know when I when I read it that that's exactly what I wanted to say that when I post it on social media and you read it you will get exactly what I meant that I can express myself in a way that is completely open that I don't feel stifled or stuck that I don't worry about getting the right words or saying it right I'm free to speak I see God in that mother nature of the universe I see that and every time I say yes and I pull my credit card out my bank account out or cash out and I just get to take the thing that I desired and say thank you I see God in everything I see the creation in everything I gave my everything today and every day and in response I received everything and so I think this is the thing to really focus on as we're growing what we're growing is to say how much do I really have faith I've been tested my my belief in Miracles has been tested every step of the way here and this is this is a slippery slope when it comes to personal development because the truth is the only way this works is if you believe enough in you that you invest everything you've got your time your energy your resources in you that's it that's how it works but people want to make someone else responsible for that choice how do I know what's the best program to invest in you don't invest in the program you invest in you but what if it's the wrong program it can't be the wrong program what do you mean how could it be the wrong program if you take the program you either learn lessons or a miracle happens but I just want the Miracles nothing happens that way not a program not a discussion not a live stream not an investment not nothing you can't guarantee anything in this life that's the whole point and if you feel yourself wanting to guarantee things it's because you're not in the miracle Zone you actually want certainty you do not have faith it's the whole thing but what if I what if this is not the right person what if I don't like the person I ended up buying from then you learned the lesson but what if I can't even learn the lesson well then you need to learn the lesson about being unable to learn a lesson unless the lesson looks the way you want it to look how do I know if it's the right Mentor how do I know if it's the right coach how do I know if it's the right program you make the decision and then you make it the right one how do I make it the right one by knowing it's either going to be a lesson or a miracle this isn't the coach good enough or the coach isn't is the coach was put on your path to teach you a lesson or a miracle because they were sent by God either way they were s by Mother Nature God the universe either way because or else you wouldn't feel anything I've learned just as much from the Investments that I thought gosh that was not that was not an example of a miracle for me I've learned more in hindsight from those I learned faster I learned more I learned resilience I learned forgiveness I I learned personal power I learned responsibility I am far more who I am because of the things I did that didn't work than the things I did that did the things that that I did let me tell you this the things I did that worked make me cute and adorable and funny and playful and the things I did that failed make me wise and Powerful beyond my years make me capable of taking responsibility for myself make me capable of making decisions that do big things in the world make me capable of sitting at a boardroom meeting with only men and not feel weird about at all make me capable of making huge financial decisions being financially responsible for enormous things getting myself back up one more time from things I would have thought would have killed me a decade ago my failures did that for me and I am extremely grateful for that you got to have both and you've got to have faith that both is part of your journey if not you'll only play half you'll only play half you'll say I'll only play the half that wins and the universe says we don't really know what to do with that God says I don't really know what to do with that you were made to be all and you're only giving me the half you think is good enough I don't know how to make all the magic all the notes all the music with only the half you think is worthy I don't know how to do that so you got to surrender yourself like show me and if there aren't enough examples on the freaking planet that imperfect judged misunderstood is sometimes the gateway to Excellence then the only thing we need is more evidence because there are so many stories about the people who are overlooked and misunderstood and judged and this and that becoming the greatest because the lessons that are learned take you beyond what you thought you could ever ever hold you're stronger than you think but if you only willing to do one round of Miracles the minute the tangible thing occurs from the miracle you asked for you'll stop believing Miracles if you're only willing to do one round so if you can imagine this I Pray for a miracle I believe in this miracle and I'm in the god Zone with it the miracle comes and the minute I have it I forget it was a miracle I imagined I did it myself and I start to wonder how I did it and unless I can understand how I'm going to make the next Miracle happen I don't want to touch anything anymore I don't want to move anymore I just want to make sure that this miracle stays and I don't want to do anything to jeopardize what I've gained and I don't want to try anything anymore I just want certainty now to protect this thing that I've I've created myself how can there be more this is The Human Condition we only believe in miracles until miracles happen then we see them as tangibles and then we start to interact with the world like it's a tangible place you plucked the miracle from the God's Own tree and all of a sudden you're looking at it like it it was grown from the earth in front of you and you want to work hard to make more of it happen and you want to imagine that it was all you and it's going to be all you if you fail now and it's all on you and then the support from the Divine takes a break but I've seen this I've seen this question in the comments and this is what I want to tell you of course you can turn it back on I hope this conversation turns it back on all it takes is that you're willing to sit with uncertainty that you you look at the difference between fear and excitement the only difference between fear and excitement is what if it works versus what if it doesn't it's the only difference your faith boils down to this one golden vibrational string what if it works what if it doesn't and it's your mind and your heart and your willingness to be everything that you could be in your life that's going to make you find out which which way you pull that string there's a bunch of things I've done that haven't worked and those things made me who I am and there's a bunch of things that worked and those things made me who I am I couldn't take any of them away so often people ask me on podcasts if you could if you could say one thing to the version of you that was sleeping in your car all that time ago if you could say one thing to the version of you that was struggling financially what would you say and you know what I respond I wouldn't say anything I'd be too afraid of changing something and messing it all up I wouldn't say a thing I'd let things unfold exactly as they did because I understand I gave everything and mother nature God the universe did the rest and as I move forward into the next dimension of my life the next decade the next years it's going to be to navigate the tangible expectations that come with everything I've built because they're so much bigger now the materialized energetics are so much more now I have so much to measure against my mind will tell me I have so much to protect my mind will tell me I have to be careful to not lose what I've built my mind will have to so I will have to I'll have to strengthen my connection to the god Zone at a whole other level that will be my job for the next decade so what an incredible time to walk shoulder toosh shoulder with me as this is actually the Journey of my life and every every conversation every thought that I have it will be my pleasure to teach and Lead this conversation for me for you for us cuz I know this is the thing I went from what should be impossible every single thing I have have ever been told was impossible for a person like me I achieved anyway not because I hustled and pushed and tried to be accepted but because I believed in something bigger and I did my work to connect to the god Zone but the more the materialized results happen the harder it is to believe in miracles because there's something tangible to hold you're afraid of letting go of what you have and to reach for the stars you're afraid you're going to drop what you have you've got to trust that what you have is also being supported by the god Zone you have it but you have it because it was a co-creation with the Divine you don't just become responsible for for it 100% once you have it it's still in the Gratitude and the energy of having received it and holding it in that vibration that you actually continue to create the Miracles and feel extraordinary gratitude for what you have so I hope this conversation created some movement some movement for you I hope this conversation started to stir something I hope it'll give you something to think about to contemplate that you can start having even more faith in you and in the fullness that is the human you were given to stop judging what's the good part of you and the not good enough part of you and that you actually trust some parts of you are supposed to create lessons and some parts of you are supposed to create miracles that as you engage with Mother Nature God the universe you have to engage 100% for the symphony to unlock and that there are tools that some of us have been cultivating earth side to help us connect with the faith in in those frequencies because that's nothing to do with us once you're in the god Zone you just lean back but it's getting to that zone trusting yourself enough not constantly pulling back not going back in what do you need to believe even about yourself about the world that's really what the work is so if when you listen to me something lights up inside and you're like I'm going to take this as a sign like this is maybe something I'm supposed to learn a lesson or a miracle from this woman and I can feel it I've created incredible spaces wherever you are on your journey if you've succeeded at so much already you run a huge Enterprise but you find yourself feeling exhausted by it sometimes you wonder if it's going to be possible for you to hit you know Millions months like how do you continue to stay motivated how do you grow how do you believe and change beyond what you've done I got your back find out about AF next see how I can have conversations with you I'll unlock your world in a way that's so magical like anywhere you've been I've been let me just help you unlock it if you're in a place where I speak and you're like I know this is for me I'm capable of doing this I want to learn everything I want to learn the energetics the manifestation the money I want to learn the business the social media the 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much Magic on the horizon right now but you I can't I can't have faith for you I can just have conversations with you where we untangle the thoughts and the fears the very normal adult fears and have you start believing again that this is the beginning for you that this is just a couple of chapters in that the book is Unwritten that the rest of your life you're the one that has to make it happen like the rest of my life I'm the one that makes it happen the biggest misconception that I've ever had in my life is the thought that one day you get to a place where you don't need to to create anymore you don't need to create Solutions anymore you don't need to worry about money you don't have to create it that anymore you don't need to create anything anymore one day you're just comfortable that's what I used to think now I realize that is not the case doesn't matter how wealthy my clients are and how advanced they are on their Journeys they still need to create whether they need to create Magic in their relationships or Connection in their motherhood or money in their business or innovation in the marketplace it is never a time where we are done creating because we were created in the image of creators we were created in the image of creators that will be the Perpetual story of our life is how we create the rest of it no matter what it is your business your money your relationship your friendships all of it and my greatest desire is to help you create a masterpiece something that when you look back at the at the end of your life you can say I was played like a symphony I was played like the greatest instrument I did not leave one un note unsung I left music behind on this planet and it's not that I didn't fear fear were some of the most beautiful notes I played it's not that I didn't have pain pain were some of the most beautiful notes I played it's not that I didn't have failure failure was some of the most beautiful notes I played I lived it all I left nothing behind and I am a part of why the world will progress because of me and everything I learned on the journey here and I am so proud out of my life that's what I want for us so if you feel this come play come have these conversations with me this for me is the greatest part of life it's greater than any other pleasure that I have I could spend my entire life in conversations like this and feel fulfilled and it will be my honor to speak to you about what matters to you and what you need in order for your life to feel as great as it can possibly be I want to thank you for the time that you've invested in this class today in this in this live stream with me today and I I do want to say if there is anybody that you can think of that it would make a difference for them to hear this either tag them in the video tell them to watch it share it on your personal timeline let people know what this live stream did for you and why it would be important for someone to watch it or send it directly to the 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