what to do when you finally make eye contact with an attractive girl I'm going to show you the exact techniques needed so the next time you lock eyes with a girl you'll know exactly what to do so you'll never miss an opportunity again and towards the end of the video I'm going to show you Advanced Techniques you could do in a variety of different environments to actually get the girl to approach you now if you've ever made eye contact with an attractive girl you've probably done one of the following mistakes number one nervously looking by being the one that's breaking the eye contact you're going to be perceived as being either shy awkward especially some of you dudes like when you make eye contact with a girl you almost have this like Split Second like mini panic attack and then you like look away and when you look back after breaking eye contact and she catches you looking again and then you break eye contact again and it's just this like weird back and forth you end up getting in your head more and then it gets really weird and you just you're never gonna approach after that and that brings us to mistake number two which is staring hate when guys stare I think dudes do this because they think that it's actually displaying confidence because they're not looking away and breaking the eye contact but when you're just staring emotionlessly it creates the wrong effect you're just coming off weird the problem with both of these mistakes is that neither of these create the right emotion within the girl so every time you make eye contact with a girl it's an opportunity to create emotion number one nervously looking away well that's not creating the right emotion you're just giving off nervous effects and then staring emotionlessly isn't creating emotion either so what do we do in this moment Kyle what do we do when the hot girls looking at us making eye contact let's start off with the basic techniques and then later on in this video we can get into some more advanced stuff number one would be don't break the eye contact at least not right away remember this is an opportunity to display confidence and create emotion within the girl so don't break the eye contact right away and number two have a light smile not some crazy big cheese in hardcore I'm so happy kind of a smile but more something along the lines of like a light smirk or a light smile yeah you definitely want to keep it subtle and this is how we'll begin to create the right emotion and then we will ever so slightly start the communication line using number three a white head knot this is almost like an acknowledgment kind of like a very light greeting you're not doing some like crazy wave trying to like wave her down it's like that's way way over the top the power is in the subtlety when these three are done correctly it's going to display confidence create the right emotions and it starts the communication line between you and the girl subtly now let's get into the different places you might lock eyes with a hot girl and I'll go over how to proceed in each environment to get that girl starting off with places you frequent this could be the gym School a work environment anywhere that you know you're going to see the girl multiple times in these kind of environments we're gonna use the power of familiarity to our advantage so the first time that you see the girl the main goal is to just start the communication line very subtly there's no rush because you know you're so it starts out with a light smile light head nod is all you're gonna need to do and that's gonna lay the foundation because the next time you see her now there's a little bit of familiarity built up and you could go a little bit further with it if you see her again you could you know smile head nod maybe even throw in a light wave this time or if she's actually near you it's okay for you to say hey what's up or hey how's it going and it's not a big deal versus what most dudes do is like you look at the girl she sees you look away then next time you see you look at the girl she sees you look away and now you've like made it awkward you've built this thing up in your head and now there's no way in hell you're gonna actually go up and approach her so for places you're frequent at I think familiarity is really powerful because a woman's top concern is her safety and her security exactly so I just love this whole concept so with that being said I know what you're probably thinking now well what do we do if we see a girl and we're not at a place we frequent there's still two different techniques that we need to discuss second of which is a little bit more advanced but for right now let's get into the next technique the three second rule so this is great in places where you don't have that much time you just have like a very short window to make something happen you're at the grocery store or you're walking down a random street and then you and the girl make eye contact now you have three seconds to commit to going up and approaching her because understand guys this girl is about to be gone for forever from your life instead of sitting there and just thinking about it and these excuses start to pile up in your brain if you're walking and you make eye contact with that girl eye contact light smile light head nod and then count down three two one and then just go in at that point I'd like to just say something basic something like hey excuse me I just saw you walking by I wanted to come meet you really quickly how's your day going and that should be enough to get you into an interaction if you guys want to know more about how to approach the girl in order to take the conversation I'm gonna link another video right now you guys could check out after this one and finally let's get into some more Advanced Techniques these are going to be used best in environments where the girl isn't just leaving instantly something like a bar or a club or anywhere we know she's gonna be there for an extended period of time first time you guys make eye contact I still recommend going in with eye contact light smile light head nod and now if you guys are out at night sometimes I'll even throw in a light cheers as well and now we want to evaluate how she's reacting to you so look at her face guys so if she's responding positively she may do a little bit of a smirk probably gonna look away most likely she's gonna look back again or what she may do is she doesn't look away at all she may just keep looking at you and have somewhat of a positive response on her face so here are the different moves we could do from this point number one you go straight up to her at this point and just approach something along the lines of hey what's up how's your night going all right this can definitely work if you guys already made eye contact you give her a smile and a head Notch respond positively this could totally work here number two you give a light smile and then wave for her to come over to you this is a little bit more advanced because obviously this is going to take a certain level of confidence to look at the girl smile she's responding possibly and then you wave her over to come to you and side note if you don't do this in a confident manner she's not going to come if you're weak you're insecure you're you're resistant to like kind of waving she's gonna pick up on the subtleties and instantly not come like 100 percent you're gonna do it you gotta be sure about it exactly yeah or number three you can playfully tease her with your eye contact from a distance so she's looking at you just positive another thing you could do is you kind of like give her an eye roll and you like look away I'll do this like playful thing where I like awkwardly look at her and then I like block my face and either one of these can be effective too but understand it's a playful tee so when you do these you do need to still have a smile on your face to show the girl that you're just playfully teasing I really like when people are able to communicate and be goofy from across the room yeah like I find that really funny and I find that like it shows a lot of confidence and it does warm up and make you more familiar with the person as well exactly and then if she's responding positively to this stuff the tease you could still then wave her over so it's not like these are in any particular order these are just different tools you could play around with and lastly I know what you're thinking though what if I wave her over and the girl doesn't come now what it might happen and that's right but but be like closed off if he came up to me exactly so just because she doesn't come in that moment does not mean it's a rejection some girls will come I've had a lot of girls that'll come over there are so a good amount of girls that won't come over it doesn't matter because either way at this point it's now a green light for you to go over to her yeah that's why all of this is so powerful is because in some cases you'll even get the girl to come to you but worst case you could go up to her in that moment say something like hey what's up why don't you come say hi am I that intimidating and I love these techniques because when they're done properly it communicates confidence friendly social non-threatening it's fun it's playful but I haven't even technically approached the girl yet I've opened without opening so by the time we actually start talking it's a warm open that's why it's so powerful getting good with your icon contact is really important guys if you ever meet people of High status or guys that are really confident or typically they're good looking too they have really good eye contact and that's why it's an important skill set even if you're just like an average looking dude if you can look at a hot girl and have unwavering eye contact and good communication she's like she's thinking like why is this dude so confident why is he talking like that why is he looking at me like that there must be something about this guy so it's a really important skill set you need to cultivate in order to become a high value dude and if you want to become a higher value dude get more women more dates click the link in the description fill out the application for an opportunity to work with me personally if you guys want to watch more content on this check out this video right here and that's all for this one guys peace out