Jeffrey's scared of getting rejected in front of people and so he never escalates with women. He never polarizes women and so over time the women Jeffrey's interested in lose interest in him and start dating other guys. Adonis.
Adonis instantly polarizes women. He doesn't waste time. Within just a few seconds he displays his interest in a woman and then he automatically knows if she's interested in him. Honestly, I don't know who the fuck to trust This is my friend or my fault I'm a f***ing ex-girl Yeah, she give me that glimpsed eyes, bro I remember back when I was younger, I was happy Nowadays, feel like no one understand me I'm with an artist, still be on block, baby Baby, see all the texts Just wanna You must polarize women and polarizing means to put them onto either end of the spectrum of liking slash interest.
In this video, I'm going to teach you how to polarize properly. But first, my name is Hamza. I help young men go through the Jeffrey to Adonis transformation through self-improvement. You're clearly interested in that. So if you scroll down right now, click on the subscribe and the post notification button.
It's a win-win for both of us. Bro, if there was one thing that I wish I could go back and tell my younger self, it would be to invest in Bitcoin. But after that, the second thing would be to polarize. When I was in high school or in college and I had crushes on these girls that maybe I'd be sitting next to in class, I would never polarize.
I would never actually show that I was interested in them to make them move in this spectrum of being interested in me. I kept them in the safe middle ground of never showing my intentions. And so they were always around here.
And obviously over time, you say something stupid, they start going towards the dislike. They're not interested in you. So I would have a crush on a girl.
I'd always play it safe for days or weeks. I'd think, okay, should I, you know, what should I say to her? I can't wait to speak to her in class today.
I don't want to ever show my interest in her. I would just play the safe conversations. I remember a few different times I'd be scrolling on Facebook and I would see that girl that I had a crush on for literally months get into a relationship with some guy on Facebook.
And you literally feel it in your heart. Looking back now, I understand why this was. At the very least, I should have polarized her.
I should have shown my intention to her, my interest in her. Even getting rejected would have not only saved me months, but it would have gave me a sense of confidence as well compared to just constantly obsessing about a girl who didn't even know that I liked her. And so if you're somewhat new and not really confident with girls, there's a mindset that I think will really help you.
The mindset is to polarize within the first few seconds that you meet her. Literally, you have less than a minute to polarize her and to show a little bit of interest in her. You show your interest, you show her that you're somewhat attracted to her within a minute of meeting her for the first time.
and automatically she'll put you into either two categories, wouldn't fuck or would fuck. The worst case scenario is if she never even considers you to be in either category because you just haven't shown any type of intention and then you're left in the middle of this purgatory state where it could potentially go either way but you just haven't pushed for either direction. So here is what you can specifically, practically do, even if you are a little bit autistic and you don't know how to speak to girls, start off with a compliment. And I know all the... red pill YouTubers will disagree with.
Never validatable. Shut up, bro. Never validatable.
Shut up. You have to show some kind of interest to polarize her. To show her that you're interested in her is a little bit of validation. And you do have to give a little bit to start off any kind of relationship.
The easiest way and the most straightforward way, the most honest way is to literally just go up and give a good quality compliment. I'm going to tell you what type of compliments to give. First, you have to know that we're not going to simp over her. We're not going to do the multiple paragraph messages on... Instagram and Snapchat, we're not going to be one of those dweebs, we're not going to constantly give compliments support and shit that she doesn't deserve if she hasn't done that stuff for us.
We're simply going to go up with one single compliment, the best compliment that you can give, and then just see what her response is like from there, and then you'll know. And so the compliment, the type of compliment that I suggest starts with, I think, and then just be honest. You're going to go up to her and literally just say, I think, and then whatever you think about her, I think you're cute, I think you're sexy, I think you look really nice in that dress. or that lipstick or whatever it is. If you are honest and genuine and authentic with what your brain has generated, your perception of her, her response to you is her true response to you.
And that is so powerful because then this instantly shows you whether or not you two are compatible. Because if your brain has generated a thought which she really likes and she's attracted to, then you are compatible. And instantly by saying this line, it's not even a line, but by just going up and being honest with how you feel about her.
She's already been polarized to the point that now she actually likes you back. If, on the other hand, the words and the compliment that your brain has automatically generated when you think of her didn't vibe with her and she's not interested, she's just going to push you into this direction of just being uninterested in you in that area, then that's fine. So within a few seconds, you find out and you go from there.