Marriage in Ancient Rome
Introduction
- Topic: Marriage practices in ancient Rome.
- Channel: World History Encyclopedia.
- Presenter: Kelly.
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Family Structure
- Pater Familias: Father as the head, with control over the family.
- Boys and Girls:
- Boys considered adults at 15.
- Girls considered marriageable at 12.
- Boys often married later (~26) due to perceived mental imbalance from 15-25.
- Girls married to older men, viewed as more mature earlier.
Purpose of Marriage
- Social Contract: Not primarily for romantic love.
- Arranged Marriages:
- Fathers arranged marriages with input from mothers.
- Often to form alliances, business contracts, or end feuds.
Types of Marriages
- Confarreatio (Comerio):
- Upper class.
- Involved sharing a spelt cake and hand-joining.
- Coemptio:
- Lower class.
- Bride "purchased" through exchanges.
- Usus:
- Common law marriage from cohabitation.
Marriage Ceremony
- Omens: Assessed before ceremony; could postpone or cancel.
- Witnesses: At least 10 required.
- Vows and Rituals:
- Bride recites vow, groom not obliged to.
- Sharing a spelt cake offered to gods like Jupiter or Juno.
Wedding Procession and Reception
- Procession: From bride's home to new home.
- Bride drops coins for spirits, gives to groom.
- Sweets and nuts thrown to crowd.
- Threshold Ritual: Groom carries bride over threshold.
Post-Marriage Life
- Household Roles:
- Husband is head; wife is subordinate but respected.
- Tasks: wife manages home, husband handles business and politics.
- Childbearing: Expected soon after marriage; barrenness could lead to divorce.
- Divorce: Discouraged, especially with children; children remained with father.
Religious and Social Duties
- Wife's Responsibilities:
- Maintain household spirits and ancestors’ peace.
- Support husband's career.
- Social Contract: Ensures societal stability, expected monogamy.
Conclusion
- Relevance: Marriage practices reflect societal values and stability.
- Engagement: Encourages comments and interaction.
This summary captures the key points discussed in the lecture on marriage practices in ancient Rome, highlighting the roles, types of marriage, ceremonies, and societal expectations associated with these unions.