Introduction to Cigar Play

Overview

• Date: July 2020
• Presented by: Papa ONYX
• Cigars are a significant element within the Leather and BDSM communities, recognized for their erotic connotations and power dynamics.

Cigar Basics

• Terminology:
  • Cigar = Stick
  • Head: End that goes into the mouth, akin to a penis head.
  • Cap: Small ring on the head where cuts are made.
  • Foot: End that is lit.
  • Barrel/Body: Middle section of the cigar.
  • Filler: Blend of dried/fermented tobacco.
  • Wrapper: Outer layer, color varies from light (mild) to dark (stronger flavor).
• Ring Gauge: Diameter of the cigar; measured in 1/64 inch increments. Common sizes range from 28 to 60.
• Buying Tips: Consider strength, taste, aroma, size, and price, and consult with a tobacconist.

Pre-Play Considerations

• Trust is essential; negotiate terms, boundaries, and establish safe words.
• Awareness of potential health issues due to smoke.
• Cigar play can cause burns; understanding first aid and medical attention for burns is crucial.

Elements of Cigar Play

1. Servicing Play

   • Involves lighting the cigar, part science and part art.
   • May evolve into oral sex during smoke sessions.
   • Initiates trust and adapts to the smell, taste, and smoke.

2. Heat Play

   • Involves holding a lit cigar close to the skin.
   • Sensation ranges from fear to heightened arousal.
   • Includes singeing of body hair (done carefully to avoid skin burns).
   • Avoid singeing facial hair or getting too close to the skin.

3. Smoke Play

   • Invokes smell, taste, temperature, and breath control.
   • Involves warm smoke, kisses, and sometimes breath control with a gas mask.
   • High responsibility on the dominant for safety.

4. Ash Play

   • Uses non-glowing ash for sensation, not burning.
   • Incorporates ice to enhance sensation and safety.
   • Ash writing is a form of dominance; ash eating is another component.

After Care

• Post-Play Checks: Inspect for burns or breathing issues.
• Hydration: Essential for recovery.
• Cleaning: Optional based on preference (preserve aroma vs. wash away).
• Leather Maintenance: Recipe provided for removing cigar smells from leather.

Summary

• Cigar play is complex and requires consent, understanding, and safety.
• Dominants and submissives each have roles in ensuring safe, consensual play.
• Emphasize education, experience, and communication in all sessions.

Additional Notes

• Follow ONYX Mid-Atlantic on social media for more insights.
• Engage in play with informed consent and responsibility for safety.

Disclaimer

• Acknowledgement of risks inherent in kink play; ONYX holds no responsibility for individuals’ play outcomes.