[Music] hi there how are you guys doing i hope you're having a fantastic day we're here again your english learning buddies sir dj and dan to make sure you will learn and we will enjoy our english lessons together so make sure you have your pen and your paper ready because once again we will explore the wonders of this universal language what are we waiting for let's get the ball rolling [Music] as promised here are some compositions that you guys have posted online for your assignment using the hashtag the filipino dream let's hear it from mr aldrin he said if all filipinos unite and respect our differences the nation will have peace and equality for everyone's right without limiting and discriminating the differences in terms of gender culture races and more great work aldrin i couldn't agree more here's another one from mr justin he posted if all filipinos unite and respect differences the philippines will be a safer place to live in respecting the rights of others is like giving them courage to do whatever they want people are scared because some will mock them if all filipinos unite our goal for an inclusive society can be achieved racism and discrimination will fade away in this country and it will become a peaceful place that was spectacular jester good one and for the last one here's one from mr grids if all filipinos unite and respect differences everyone will live in a peaceful environment where love and unity reside in every human being through this every individual will be confident because discrimination and racism do not exist and it'll be a perfect world to live in wow you guys did a wonderful work thank you very much for participating in our activities dan and i sure hope to see more from you have you ever noticed a difference in the way you talk to your friends compared to the way you talk to other people it's like you talk to them in a special and unique way and vice versa right for instance i'm pretty sure that you don't say hello to your best friend instead you say something else maybe you'll say hey or sometimes when you feel so cool and excited you say hey also when teenagers say hello to their best friends they say jesus with maybe three emojis after or more or maybe hey bro written in all caps we even give unique names to our friends when we greet them online or in person like what's up homie no matter how you say hello to your friend one thing is for sure you don't talk that way to other people am i right you won't say what's up homie to your mom or dad right you also don't beat your teacher by saying hey how you doing also it would be really weird to hear our senators speak like that right hey bro i suggest i'm gonna have to sign this proposal for my homies out there right that would be crazy it just doesn't work that way the way we communicate has a big impact on how we get on with people and get the things we want if the way we speak is inappropriate we might encounter problems along the way as we all know good communication skills can help you avoid conflict and solve problems they are also important in making friends and nurturing healthy relationships now let's try to see if you can spot which statement would be appropriate for a certain situation i will be reading a conversation and try to see if you can figure out who the people are who are involved in the communication write your answers in your notebook are you ready let's play we're not stalking look who's talking here's the first one what's up dude i'm doing all right dudes just chilling as always who do you think are talking hmm from the sound of it it's like they are comfortable talking to each other they even said dude if you think they are friends you got that right let's try the next one dr ong what vitamin can my child take if she often has colds try to give her vitamin c plenty of water and lots of fruits who do you think are talking here it sounds like one of them is giving prescriptions the first one sounds like he is consulting another person regarding the health of his child what's that you got that right the people talking are a doctor and a parent of a patient correct by the way the doctor's advice in our sentence is indeed useful always remember to take vitamin c drink plenty of water and eat lots of fruits and vegetables this will keep our bodies in their best shape all the time what about this one jose do you accept maria as your lawful wife yes father i do wow this sounds like a scene from a romantic movie what do you think guys that is correct these people are a priest a husband and a wife at a wedding that's right now i'm just curious what if the groom decides to answer the question in a different way let's try jose do you accept maria as your lawful wife you got that right homie boo yeah oh my that spells disaster let's try to look at our statements i'm doing all right dude just chilling as always this is a statement we can say to a friend dr ong what vitamin can my child take if she often has colds this one is for a doctor yes father i do and the last one is an answer to a priest as you can see there is an appropriate degree of formality that should be applied when we are talking to a specific person it's like there is a style that best fits a certain situation and individual if you don't believe me let's try to mix them up and see how messed up it can be i'm doing all right father just chilling as always dude on what vitamin can my child take if she often has colds yes dude i do i guess you get what i mean by now now why are we talking about these things that's because today we are going to explore communicative styles i'm sure you are hyped for it but before we proceed with today's discussion let's try to take a look at what we talked about last time we just finished talking about conditionals and how it can be used to express your stand in an argument what is a conditional sentence correct these are statements expressing the result of a particular condition using an f clause or when clause and a result clause how many conditionals are there again exactly we have four the zero conditional the first conditional the second conditional and the third conditional now how do we write a zero conditional or the factual conditional good one a zero conditional is written with present simple verbs in both the if or when clause and the result clause what about the first conditional or the possible conditional correct the first conditional uses the present simple in the if or when clause and its result clause uses the future tense which is will plus the base form of the verb what about the second conditional how do you write it amazing we have to remember that in writing a second conditional the verb in the if clause should be written in the past simple while the result clause should be would plus the base form of the verb and lastly the third conditional how do we construct a third conditional sentence spot on in writing the third conditional we use the past perfect tense in the if or when clause and for the result loss we use would have plus the past participle of a verb impressive i'm truly glad that you were able to get all that i'm sure that you know your conditionals very well by now just like what we said last time expressing arguments is helpful in presenting one's reasoning to change another person's point of view on a particular topic or issue conditionals may be helpful in persuading others to move or act and even change their thoughts that's what martin luther king jr did as i said a while ago we will be talking about communicative styles so what do we mean by communicative styles according to martin juice from 1976 a linguist and a german professor it refers to the form of language that the speaker utilizes which is characterized by the level of formality or informality there are five communicative styles these are casual consultative formal frozen and intimate for today we'll just focus on the first communicative style casual the word casual means relaxed and unconcerned that's because this style is an informal language used by friends and peers when we talk to our friends we use the casual communicative style in this type there is free and easy participation from both the speaker and the listener slang vulgarities and colloquialism in formal contractions like ain't juno ghana are normal in this type of speech style for example when something is very good enjoyable or exciting you can say it's lit dude the party last night was lit where were you another is the term ghosting or to ghost someone it is used when you cut off communication with someone you are no longer interested in omg did you hear jen ghosted ralph another is spill the tea when someone is spilling the tea it means they are gossiping what happened at steph's birthday party come on spill the tea this uses group language so only members of the group can understand it here nicknames are used in addressing one another it may be indecent colorful or obscene but slang is a crucial part of any language just think about how you guys can come up with statements that only you and your friends can understand isn't that great evidence of how creative people can be the casual communicative style can be used in everyday conversation with friends a personal message or a dm blogs tweets and calls to your buddies so basically the casual communicative style of speaking sounds cool but do you know what's cooler than being cool being nice just like what harold kushner said when you are kind to others it not only changes you it changes the world now for a fun activity i will be reading a lit statement employing a casual communicative style and then you'll try to tell me what it means i'm sure you can answer this easily because you're cool are you ready homie let's play let's have some flex in as we do some chilling here's the first one what does shook mean omg i'm shook my favorite series has a new episode i need to watch it asap you're right it means they are shocked or incredibly surprised let's try the second what is hangry i'm so hangry right now i could eat five burgers in one sitting this may sound funny but it means that somebody feels so hungry that he is angry and for the last one what does fam mean hey fam let's go we're gonna go over to my place if you think this means family then you are correct fam refers to a group of friends that feels like family family isn't always about blood relations rather family is the people in your life who want you in theirs the ones who accept you for who you are the ones who would do anything to see you smile and love you no matter what so if you have your friends you consider as family and family that you consider as your friends then you are truly blessed treasure them life isn't about material wealth if you have your family good friends food on your table and the roof over your head that you are richer than you think be thankful and learn to share thank you very much for keeping up with us up to this point you did very well in our game you really are lit for that here's a two thumbs up from your coolest fam sir dj and dan and that ends our episode today dudes that was amazing time flies when you're having fun indeed i hope you had an amazing time with us your english learning buddies sir dj and dan stay tuned because in the next episode we will talk about the second communicative style always keep safe guys and as i always say never stop learning because life never stops teaching see you in the next one peace out [Music] [Music] [Music] [Music] [Music] [Music] [Music] [Music] you