Five Habits That Make People Dislike You

Introduction

• Presented by Charlie Hooper, expert in charisma and confidence
• Charisma and confidence are key to success
  • Ability to speak with conviction
  • Influence others
  • Connect with people
• Personal story of overcoming invisibility and lack of confidence

Key Techniques and Insights

• Prey vs. Predator Movement: Valuable for first impressions
• Charismatic Traits: Attractiveness factors
• 60-Second Act: Establishing trust and respect quickly
• Six Charismatic Mindsets for success

Personal Transformation

• Overcoming shyness and invisibility
  • Struggled with making connections
  • Impacted by past trauma
• Importance of shifting environments
  • Study abroad as a catalyst for change

Building Charisma and Confidence

• Cultivating charisma through intentional practice
• Importance of body language
  • Prey vs. predator movements
  • Eye contact and open gestures
• First Impressions: Fun, trust, and respect
  • Use enthusiasm and humor
  • Establish trust non-verbally

Social Dynamics and Interactions

• Charismatic Mindsets:
  1. Fun
  2. Trust
  3. Respect
• Avoiding Common Mistakes:
  • Over-qualification
  • Dropping names excessively
• Social Interactions:
  • Start with basic introductions
  • Use enthusiasm and vulnerability

Building Confidence

• Confidence as a skill that can be developed
• Overcoming fears by changing mindset
  • "No matter what, I will be okay"
  • Focus on character over reputation

Other Charismatic Types

• High conviction
• Authentic
• Funny
• Empathetic
• Energetic

Professional Application

• Interview preparation and engagement
• Asking the right questions
  • What would success look like one year from now?
  • Establishing proactive measures for excellence

Dealing with Challenges and Setbacks

• Handling criticism and maintaining integrity
• Charisma in leadership and influence
  • Examples from political figures

Conclusion

• Charisma and confidence are critical skills
• They can be learned and cultivated over time
• Importance of genuine connections and character development