Am I a Lesbian?

What is Compulsory Heterosexuality?

Compulsory implies lack of choice; culture pressures individuals into heterosexuality.
Predominantly researched concerning women due to intersection with misogyny.
Society teaches women from a young age that their value and identity are tied to relationships with men.
- Expected to be attractive for men, change behavior for men's approval, and desire men's love above all.
- Media (magazines, movies) reinforce the pursuit of male approval and romantic relationships.
- Public existence often comes with unsolicited evaluations from men.

How do I know if I'm a lesbian?
Attraction to fictional men or male celebrities.
Past feelings of attraction towards men.
Conflicting emotions concerning men.
Signs and symptoms of compulsory heterosexuality:
- Attraction to Men: Analyzed whether it stems from genuine desire or societal expectations.
- Relationships and Intimacy with Men: Examines personal satisfaction and genuine connection.
- Early Interest in Women: Reflects on past feelings and experiences.

Understanding the difference between genuine attraction and compulsory heterosexuality.
Importance of recognizing the nervousness and blushing often associated with same-gender attraction.
Hypothetical Attraction and Fantasies: Imagining scenarios to explore true feelings.

An outline of indicators that might suggest a lesbian identity.
Encourages reflecting on personal experiences, feelings, and societal influences to discern true orientation.

This document is a comprehensive guide for those exploring their sexual orientation, particularly in recognizing lesbian identity amidst societal pressures of compulsory heterosexuality.