How to Give a Toast - Ramona J. Smith

Introduction

• Speaker: Ramona J. Smith, 2018 World Champion of Public Speaking, Toastmasters International
• Topic: Tips for giving a successful toast

Key Points

Keep it Short and Sweet

• Importance: Toastmasters learn to get to the point
• Goal: Stand up, raise your glass, say a few brief, engaging words
• Occasions: Toasts happen at weddings, memorial services, and other events
• Eulogy Tips:
  • Focus on celebrating positive aspects
  • Highlight a short list of their accomplishments
  • Avoid boring long chronologies and cliches
  • Express their joy and sense of accomplishment
• Wedding Tips:
  • Speak from the heart
  • Wish the couple well
  • Mention one admirable aspect of their relationship (appropriately)

Be Careful with Humor

• Importance: Humor has a place in every toast
• Guidance:
  • Be empathetic to the honoree and circumstances
  • Avoid embarrassing or risqué stories/jokes
  • Focus on the person or event being honored without making others uncomfortable

Practice

• Preparation: Practice at least once or twice
• Structure: Start with “I’d like to propose a toast”
• Rehearsal Tips:
  • Practice giving celebrants time to raise their glasses
  • If no microphone, practice projecting your voice without yelling
  • Breathe deeply, let voice radiate from your center

Conclusion

• With preparation and practice, you can master the art of toasting
• Aim to make every celebration memorable
• Closing: “Cheers!”