what's going on fellas so today I'm going to give you seven body language signs a woman is secretly attracted to you And I'm also going to show you exactly what those choosing signals mean psychologically Now regardless of what choosing signal from the list today you may get from women every single sign that I'm going to show you today is a sign that you need to make a damn move Because no matter how much decoding you do fellas at the end of the day you still need to make a damn move And you can't wait for women to approach you As a man you got to lead How do you set the frame set the tone and lead in the dynamic you approach and you make the damn move All right but I'm going to make it easier for you today because recognizing choosing signals can give you an advantage It can point out and distinguish the women who actually want you so you don't have to go cold turkey every time All right G Now first choosing signal first body language sign that you're going to get from women when she wants you is raised posture So this is with anybody when they see you This is with women this is with kids this can be with your family members but especially with women Raise and also energetic posture So when a woman sees you let's say she's sitting down in the chair you know how people normally sit down in the chair If a woman sees you and she notices you and her body doesn't move at all and she doesn't react I'm not going to say she's not attracted to you but she's probably not excited to see you How you know she's excited to see you She's going to sit up more And nine times out of 10 with women I'm going to show you guys something that you probably haven't noticed before You will notice that when women are around men that they're actually attracted to when they sit in chairs they'll kind of sit with an arch in their back kind of with this S shape Their breast area will be postured up and they'll have a slight arch in their back so they'll sit taller in the chair I guarantee you bro I had this chick that I used to work with And we used to have office meetings and I used to catch on to this So before I used to go into the meeting I'll be laid on purpose So I'll peek in the little window of the door and I'll see her sitting normal in the room And when I walk in I'll instantly see her body posture up and she'll sit with that little arch in her back Now what she was doing and what she was saying what this means is she's obviously excited to see you But in regards to her sitting up in a chair putting that arch in the back sometimes women do this on purpose And what she's doing guys is something called pining Something I'm explaining to you a lot about in this video All right but raised posture excited posture Her body stands up tall her eyebrows raise she just looks happier when she sees you She's probably excited nine times out of ten Why because she's attracted to you She wants you All right next one Now next body language sign a woman is attracted to you guys is if she shows you her vulnerable parts Now if you don't know what women's vulnerable parts are those would be the wrist the neck I would say maybe the inner parts of the arm So you'll probably notice a chick that likes you when you get around her what she'll do especially if she has long hair she'll move her hair behind her ear And what she's trying to do is she's trying to show you her neck What this is is this is a sign of submission This is usually a green light for you to approach or for you to make an intimate move All right fellas So what do you do in this situation you make a damn move But this just means that this woman is basically submitting to you She's doing this very discreetly but it is a level of submission All right guys This is primitive Remember if a woman is not attracted to you nine times out of 10 she won't trust you It is what it is on an intimate level So if she shows you her vulnerable parts like the neck like the wrist like the back as well That's why kissing a woman on her neck kissing woman on her back is very intimate and sensual for women Why because it's vulnerable to them They're letting you in their space in their sexual space All right G This the birds and the bees All right Next body language sign a woman wants you is smiling Now this one is obvious fellas but you got to be careful Just because a woman smiles at you G does not mean she wants you Some women are just friendly some people are just happy All right G But there are certain type of smiles that can let you know if she's attracted to you There are certain type of genuine smiles that can let you know if somebody either likes you or attracted to you Now if somebody smiles fellas and you don't see like the little eye crinkles or wrinkles like right here guys it's probably fake How you know a genuine smile these muscles right here in people's faces guys will crinkle Guarantee you Nine times out of 10 if it's real and if it's genuine So that's how you know Another way you know is seductive looks All right fellas So if a woman is smiling at you randomly in public and she's holding that smile and it's real genuine and she's staring at you she wants your energy She wants you to approach She wants you to make a damn move All right fellas Now like I said this is not in all cases but you need to know and you need to be able to distinguish the difference between certain type of smiles There are seductive smiles There are casual smiles There are genuine friendly smiles But it's not hard to tell fellas You know what me eyes look like guys Don't kid yourself So when you get them don't overanalyze Don't question yourself You know when a woman wants you to approach by her smile So make the damn move All right Women especially in 2025 G don't smile at men they're not attracted to Only the real friendly ones And most of these ain't that friendly no more to be honest with you All right guys Next one All right fellas So if you catch a woman and my mom actually taught me this All right fellas If you catch a woman playing with her hair around you now this is the one that's case by case So you got to be careful with this cuz you don't want to overstep your boundaries and then you mess around and get the wrong idea and you catch a case All right G But if a woman is playing with her hair that is one of the obvious body language signs she's attracted to you This is something called pining Like I explained earlier pining is basically a woman grooming herself and trying to look better for you Like I was saying about her arching her back in the chair what she's trying to do is make herself more attractive for you Now here's another thing about playing with her hair Sometimes it's a nervous reaction So it could be either or Sometimes she's naturally adjusting her hair to look good for you And sometimes she's just touching her hair and twirling it nervously because you intimidate her or she really likes you or she's nervous around you Women will do this But the bigger reason why fellas is she's nervous Women are usually nervous around the men that they're attracted to Why because they don't want to mess up Women don't like being rejected Women don't like being judged Women are easily intimidated by men that they're attracted to or they feel a higher value than them So understand playing with the hair twirling the hair putting it behind the ear Remember I said especially if she's showing her neck vulnerable parts All right G It's all obvious All you have to do is go out one day like go to the mall and just pay attention to women All right fellas Just watch women like people watch one day and you will notice all these little signs when women are attracted to men All right fellas And you can see this if you're not getting any of this when you're having a verbal conversation with a woman like right in front of her she's probably not attracted to you If she's more talking to you like a friend and it's kind of very subtle and none of these things are happening she probably don't like you All right and what she's also doing by playing with her hair is she's trying to draw attention to her femininity because playing with your hair is feminine guys Just think of a man Even if he has long hair fellas sitting there twirling your hair in public that's feminine So it's like the opposite for a man How men show their masculinity We pump our chest up We make our voice deeper So on the contrary for women they do like play with their hair fix their cleavage like that All right they're trying to get your attention But sometimes she's just nervous All right guys So it's case by case Now next thing number five leaning in All right guys now when you are talking to a woman face to face All right and I used to have this problem with this chick at work because you know at work you got to stay professional But I had this chick at work who really liked me And every time we would talk about work at work she would always lean in like this close to my face G So I always have to used to kind of back up every few sentences as we was talking so everybody didn't get the perception that we liked each other we were dating All right But that's how you know clear as day If a woman don't want you she's not going to try to close that distance in between you guys But on the contrary if she does want you she's going to do anything to close that distance in between And that brings me to my next point with leaning in All right So the reason why and what this mean fellas is she's trying to close distance All right fellas Now next point related to that is touching All right Now that's either her touching herself self-touching or her touching you Now the self touching is a natural thing that women will do from time to time And this one is case by case depending on the woman But her touching you fellas let's say you're out on a date with a woman and you guys are laughing you making jokes because you're a comedian and you making her laugh If during those jokes and while she's laughing she's touching your leg touching your arm G caressing your chest every now and then she's giving you these little love taps she's probably attracted to you And what she's doing is she's trying to break that barrier that touch barrier Cuz when you meet a woman there's always that touch barrier She don't really want to touch you You don't really want to touch her because you trying to keep it cordial and respectful But what she's trying to do is give you permission to get in give you permission to be intimate And most of you guys miss the goddamn signs and don't make a damn move And then you come to me and you ask me "K I was on this date with this woman and she was rubbing my growing area Bro what do I do?" Make a damn move That's what you do G She's touching your dick bro Obviously she wants you All right fellas So stop playing with me guys You know what these women doing It's not hard to tell when a woman wants you She will make it clear I don't care if she's shy If a woman wants you and she's attracted to you she will let you know It may be subtle It may be a little handkerchief fellas but you going to find out All right guys Last one And I can't forget is eye contact Now this is the thing about eye contact and this is the thing about women in 2025 What I've noticed is because of cell phones social media just distractions in the world women typically not being attracted to most men What I've noticed is women don't usually make eye contact with men unless they're attracted to him or unless he's interesting So with that being said guys if you have a chick and she's making eye contact and it's obvious she wants you do not expect her to walk over and approach you It's not going to happen That's what a lot of guys think That's a mistake a lot of you guys make and you think she don't like you because she didn't say anything She's not supposed to Remember I said sometimes it's just subtle as a handkerchief Sometimes her just looking at you and staring at your ass for 5 seconds long is her dropping a handkerchief Women don't want to be rejected Women don't want to be judged So they're not going to approach So the most they may do at some times and trust me fellas they think they applying pressure And we know it's not But you got to play the game So if you're getting eye contact fellas assess it Look back Turn your head Look back again Give her a smile If she smiled back make the damn move All right fellas That's what this one means It means make a damn move All right G I don't care if you think you gonna get rejected Make the damn move anyway At least you know Now you can decipher different types of eye contact and now you can tell But if you keep being scary all right fellas and just staring at women like a deer caught in headlights you will continue to be pussyless All right G So pay attention guys All right it's not hard to tell It's not hard to get cold when a woman wants you Nine times out of 10 if she does it's going to be clear as day in plain sight All right fellas So I appreciate you guys for tuning in I'm going to drop some more body language videos in the description for you guys to go check out All right fellas It's your boy K We out of here baby [Music]