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Red Flags and Relationships: Lessons Learned
Dec 6, 2024
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Story 1: Casual Dating with Red Flags
Initial Impressions
: Good job, polite, educated, no immediate red flags.
Incident
: Asked to keep a date casual due to exhaustion.
Response
: He insisted on dressing up, telling her what to wear.
Outcome
: Recognized as a red flag and ended communication.
Story 2: Controlling Relationship
Start
: Relationship began to show control over clothing choices.
Escalation
: Led to abusive behavior.
Climax
: Physical abuse resulted in injury.
Lesson
: Early signs of control can lead to abuse.
Story 3: Marriage Pact with a Tragic Ending
Background
: College friends, pact to marry if single by 30 and 32.
Tragedy
: Her sisters died, changed her personality, needed space.
Reunion
: Reconnected via letters, decided to marry.
Tragic Ending
: She died in a car accident days before their planned engagement.
Story 4: Family Dispute at a Wedding
Family Situation
: Biological father absent since childhood, stepfather supportive.
Conflict
: Biological father's sudden appearance disrupted wedding plans.
Resolution
: Called off the wedding, grandparents married instead.
Message
: Asserted family loyalty and respect.
Story 5: Awkward Bedroom Talk
Situation
: Girlfriend attempted dirty talk, struggled with language.
Outcome
: Boyfriend laughed despite promising not to.
Aftermath
: Needs to make amends for laughing at her attempt.
Story 6: Disturbing Date Experience
Background
: Met a seemingly nice guy on Tinder.
Revelation
: He confessed to a disturbing crush fetish.
Exit
: Left the date, avoided further contact but kept option open for financial reasons.
Story 7: Embarrassing Photo Incident
Incident
: Live photo accidentally sent revealing groom in a compromising position.
Spread
: Sent to extended family and friends.
Outcome
: Became a lasting embarrassing memory for all involved.
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