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Family Rituals and Life Cycles

Aug 8, 2025

Overview

This final lecture covers the functions and roles of rituals in the individual and family life cycle, the intersection of therapists' and clients' life cycles, and key reflections for future practice.

Course Wrap-Up & Logistics

  • Week 10 focuses on forming rituals and understanding life cycle intersections.
  • Required readings: Expanding the Family Life Cycle (Ch. 26, 27) and Normal Family Processes (Ch. 20).
  • Watch "Ordinary People" film for the final assignment.
  • All assignments are due by Sunday, August 10th.

Assignments & Reflections

  • Complete a two-part discussion: attest to completing the instructional survey and submit a 300–500 word (or 3–5 min video) course reflection.
  • Reflection should address main learnings, applicability to future practice, and personal relevance.
  • Family Life Cycle Analysis paper: summarize film, identify stressors, diagnose a character using DSM-5, propose treatment, and discuss diversity considerations.
  • Use APA format and include at least two scholarly references (the text, film, and one article).

Rituals in Family Life Cycles

  • Rituals are symbolic actions marking life transitions and integrating values, beliefs, and traditions.
  • Functions of rituals include providing continuity, affirming identity, and supporting emotional connection during transitions.
  • Rituals can be adapted and are significant during events like births, deaths, moves, illnesses, divorce, and aging.
  • Cultural and intergenerational factors influence which rituals families retain or adapt.
  • New rituals may be created, especially important for blended or nontraditional families.

Rituals in Clinical Practice

  • Therapists can encourage clients to create or adapt rituals to support healing and connection.
  • Rituals are particularly helpful in processing grief, loss, or developmental changes.
  • Inclusivity and awareness of family dynamics are crucial when integrating rituals in therapy.

Therapist’s Life Cycle & Clinical Impact

  • Therapists' own life stages, values, and histories affect their clinical work.
  • Self-awareness is critical to maintain boundaries and prevent countertransference.
  • Therapists should reflect on similarities and differences with clients to avoid bias and support authentic engagement.
  • Use of self in therapy should be intentional and client-serving; supervision is necessary when boundaries become blurred.

Family Rituals: More Insights

  • Rituals include celebrations, traditions, and life cycle ceremonies (e.g., birthdays, weddings, funerals).
  • Stress can disrupt rituals, but reclaiming or inventing new ones can restore family connection.
  • Involve all family members and, where relevant, cultural or spiritual figures in rituals.

Preparing for Future Professional Roles

  • Continuous self-reflection and attention to your own process as a clinician are essential.
  • Building a niche in the field should align with your strengths and passions.
  • Prioritize self-care, therapeutic relationships, and humility in practice.

Key Terms & Definitions

  • Ritual β€” Symbolic action marking life transitions and conveying meaning within families.
  • Life Cycle Transition β€” Significant change or stage in an individual or family's development.
  • Horizontal Stressors β€” Life events or transitions experienced by the family over time.
  • Vertical Stressors β€” Inherited family patterns, legacies, or issues passed through generations.
  • Transference/Countertransference β€” Emotional responses and projections exchanged between client and therapist.

Action Items / Next Steps

  • Complete all Week 10 assignments, including course reflection and Family Life Cycle Analysis, by August 10th.
  • Read assigned chapters and watch "Ordinary People."
  • Reflect on meaningful rituals in your life and your own life cycle position.
  • Reach out to instructor for support or questions as needed.