hi friends have 1% better today I have an awesome friend on the channel a once full-blown porn addict who spent lonely nights where he would masturbate constantly and get high but he's now been porn free for over nine years and is a certified sex and porn addiction recovery coach watch this video to the end to hear his incredible story Thank You Brandon for having me on 1% better I'm JK and before I begin I'd like to tell you a short story on a beautiful late spring afternoon ten years ago two young men graduated from the same college they were very much alike these two young men they grew up in the same town went to the same church enjoyed playing soccer and loved watching the same youtube channels both of them had been better than average students both were personable and both as young college graduates are were filled with ambitious dreams for the future when they graduated both of these men were addicted to pornography at the same level of addiction recently these men returned to their College for their tenth year reunion they were still very much alike both were married both had two young children and both as it turns out had gone to work for the same fortune 500 company after graduation and they were still there but there was a difference one of the men was a manager of a small department and he was going through a very bad divorce with his wife his children had no respect for him and he was struggling with porn induced erectile dysfunction in addition to his porn addiction the other was the president of the same company he had a happy marriage and a wonderful sex life with a beautiful wife his children made honors in their school and they were very respectful to their father have you ever wondered as I have what makes this kind of difference in people's lives it isn't intelligence IQ or talents or dedication it isn't that one person wants success in life and the other doesn't the difference lies in what each person knows and how he or she makes use of that knowledge with support and that's why I'm talking to you today and to people like you about the importance of recovery from porn and masturbation addiction for that is the whole purpose of my system porn reboots to help you quit porn for good to help you find freedom happiness control and peace by quitting porn without worrying about failure judgment fear or shame you see porn reboot is a unique porn and masturbation addiction recovery platform it provides the best online porn addiction recovery coaching program in the world this program is not designed by professionals who just went to school and read about case studies of porn addicts on paper and many of these professionals didn't even have any experience with being addicted to pornography at all in contrast to all those mainstream recovery programs the porn reboot program is designed by an ex porn addict myself for those of you who don't know much about me my name is Jay Kay and I'm a certified sex and porn addiction recovery coach I've helped over 2,000 men stop their problematic behavior and managed as sexual urges over the last 10 years however I haven't always been on this side of the addiction for over a decade I struggled with a serious porn addiction myself I was exposed to pornography at 8 years old and by the time I was 17 I was a full-blown porn addict in my late teens I went through a dark period of mediocrity characterized by extreme hate and anger within me I hated society I hated women successful guys a lot of stuff this was because I thought life had dealt me a really bad and unfortunate hand I was frequently depressed and unmotivated to accomplish anything I was terrible at time management and frequently spent hours playing online games masturbating and getting high maybe it was the porn maybe it was something deeper but I knew that I didn't like the way I was living my life I didn't know whether to get on medication Oh see a therapist actually I didn't think I needed either so I just kept watching porn and masturbating when I felt stressed out I knew my habit was a problem when I got to college and could barely stay awake in lectures because I had been up all night watching porn and trying to find the perfect scene sometimes masturbating four or five times a night other areas of my life began to suffer as well my social anxiety got worse by today my self-esteem and motivation were at record lows and I began spending over $100 per day on live camp sites where the women would seduce me and boost my frail ego it didn't stop there either when I was 22 my problem escalated sex with women no longer satisfied me or gave me the thrill that it used to I needed porn really disturbing porn to get that adrenaline rush and get myself off I also began looking for random sexual encounters outside of my relationships with women does any of this sound familiar to you I knew this was wrong so I searched for ways to stop my destructive habits I tried everything I could to help change my behavior I tried meditation coaches therapists 12-step programs I read every book I could find on the subject I joined group therapy and spiritual groups for men you name it I tried it some of them helped more than others but none of them were able to cure me and I always relapse within 80 days at the most I couldn't fight my urges off forever and I always fell back into my old habits maybe you've had a similar experience I knew I had to develop my own system after I kept failing I took everything I learned all the best pieces from each method and organized them into my own system and I base this system around the four pillars of recovery accountability biochemistry environments and community when I put this system into action I was able to manage my cravings replace old behavior with new coping methods and end my addiction for good I've been porn free for 11 years now the system I developed was vital in breaking the addiction keeping my urges under control and eventually replacing porn with healthy coping mechanisms it's done the same for over two thousand men so far and it can do the same for you too so what set spawn reboot apart from any other program well first you don't need to stop masturbating when you sign up in fact stopping may not even be your goal and that's okay there is no need to change your behavior until you actually want to you will never be pressured to make a decision that you are not ready to make and even better that you don't want to make second you will never be judged no matter what your personal goals are you will never be asked to take on a label or to declare yourself as powerless instead you will learn how between your ears you have the most powerful tool in regaining control and freedom around pornography you just need to be shown how to use it third you won't need willpower this is a willpower free zone you learn exactly why setting limits on yourself and not allowing yourself to have sex or masturbate has the exact opposite effect that you want making you want to watch porn even more fourth there's no guesswork or religion this is a rational intelligence science based approach you learn the psychology behind your desires firmly rooted in the latest psychology and neuroscience you'll understand your unwanted cravings desires and how to eliminate them before they become urges you feel compelled to act on fifth there is no failure none ever with one teeny tiny exception the only failure is not to begin your recovery journey sixth you won't be alone you'll join an entire amazing tribe of like-minded individuals will hang out every day online in a closed private group and meet weekly for group coaching and accountability studies show that success comes from community this will be your ultimate recovery community claim your spot in the program using the link in the description below you're going to want to find out without delay if poor reboot can do for you what it's doing for thousands of men who have quit porn for good about those two classmates I mentioned at the beginning of this story well they grew up in the same neighborhood with the same environment went to the same college got started on the same career path and both of them were addicted to porn so what made their lives difference systems did systems with mentorship and high levels of accountability I can't promise you that success in life will be instantly yours if you sign up for the porn reboot program but I can guarantee you that you will quit porn for good so that you are ready to show up in life as your best self regain complete control and confidence over your porn and masturbation habits your life your health your happiness and your freedom I'm JK your brother in this struggle and I'll see you as a student in the porn reroute program you