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Notes on Increasing Sex Appeal as a Man

Jul 17, 2024

Increasing Sex Appeal as a Man

Introduction

  • Physical transformation often occurs faster than the mental glow-up.
  • Many attractive men still carry insecurities from earlier life stages.
  • Sex appeal involves a harmonious blend of physical appearance, personality, confidence, and energy.

Physical Features

Physique

  • Key to sex appeal: A well-defined body shape.
  • Ideal physique: V-shaped torso, broad shoulders, slimmer waist, defined muscles.
  • Clothing tips:
    • Avoid overly baggy clothing (sleeper build).
    • Avoid overly tight clothing (attention-seeking).
    • Wear clothes that accentuate muscles but provide comfort.

Masculine Features

  • Masculine traits: Angular jawline, facial hair, thick eyebrows, thick neck.
  • Average features: Attractiveness often lies in facial symmetry and average traits.
  • Other factors: Charisma, kindness, intelligence, voice.

Importance of Types

  • Some individuals may not appeal to everyone despite maximizing their sex appeal.
  • People can still find non-ideal features endearing and attractive if it aligns with their type.

Bodily Awareness

  • Significant facet of sex appeal:
    • Bodily confidence (e.g., dancing, martial arts, strong confident walk).
    • Indicates confidence and perceived sexual prowess.
    • Most men lack bodily awareness; mastering it can boost sex appeal.

Mysteriousness

  • Qualities: Piques curiosity, draws people in.
  • Traits:
    • Choosy about personal details shared.
    • Listening more than speaking.
    • Engaging in unexpected hobbies or skills.

Silver Tongue

  • Importance: Eloquent and persuasive speaking.
  • Traits: Ability to verbally spar, quick-witted in group settings.
  • Improvement: Watch comedians proficient in roasting.

Conclusion

  • Increasing sex appeal involves a blend of tangible (physical) and intangible (personality, charisma) elements.
  • True attractiveness consists of character depth, intelligence, and authentic interaction.