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Overcoming Fear of Water in Life

Aug 8, 2024

Lecture Notes on "Deep Water" from Flamingo Book

Introduction

  • Educator: Anisha, English educator
  • Chapter: Chapter 3 - "Deep Water"
  • Author: William Douglas
  • Theme: Overcoming fear of water through determination and willpower.

Key Points

Fear of Water

  • Early childhood fear: 3-4 years old, beach experience with father.
    • Incident: Knocked down by a big wave, struggled to breathe.
    • Resulted in a deep-seated fear of water.

Attempt to Overcome Fear

  • Age 10-11: Decided to learn swimming.
    • Incident: Pushed into a 9-foot deep swimming pool by another child.
    • Experienced a near-death situation; fear intensified and persisted for 3-3.5 years.

Taking Action

  • Swimming Instructor: Finally hired to help confront and overcome fear.
  • Practice: Started swimming in April and continued until October.
    • Practiced in lakes, rivers, and large swimming pools.
    • Faced fear repeatedly, challenging himself to swim despite anxiety.

Realization and Reflection

  • Philosophy on Death: Realized death is peaceful and devoid of worries.
    • The real terror is the fear of death itself.
  • Journey to Conquer Fear: Overcame fear of water and death through persistence.
    • Found immense joy in living without constraints of fear.

Summary of the Story

  • Autobiographical Piece: "Of Men and Mountains"
    • Douglas details his childhood phobia of water and the journey to overcome it.
    • Key message: Determination and willpower can help conquer fears.

Important Comprehension Questions

  1. Sense of Panic: How does Douglas convey the panic of drowning?

    • Detailed description of his emotions, physical struggles, and the terror of near-drowning at the YMCA.
  2. Overcoming Fear: How did Douglas ultimately overcome his fear of water?

    • Hired a swimming instructor, practiced swimming in various bodies of water, and faced his fears head-on.
  3. Larger Meaning: Why recount this childhood experience?

    • To illustrate the importance of overcoming fears and enjoying life without limitations.
    • Reflects on a quote by Roosevelt: "All we have to fear is fear itself."

Conclusion

  • Final Thoughts: The lecture highlights the transformative power of facing one's fears and the importance of living life fully post-conquest of fear.
  • Further Learning: Encouragement to explore additional resources on the topic and access video lectures online.

Reminder

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