[Music] so this personally is is my favorite story that we're going to go through we're now into the fourth juice and it's about I'm the love doll modeled the Elan honey now again we tend to think that these people you know we're perfect they had no issues in life no arguments and things of that sort but they were very human and you know they went through some of the things that we go through in life so I'm the laudanol modeled a long time home one day you know got into a really really nasty argument with his wife and you know they argued and argued and apparently you know there was some baggage and there had they had issues on and off and I've the love normal day law I'm home you know got into such a severe argument with his wife that he actually left out of the house and you know he had kind of decided that he was going to divorce it so he's walking he's walking and he's thinking to himself you know what should I do what does Allah want from me what is the closest to the sin of the prophets of Allah hard he was some of them and as he's walking on the streets of Medina he hears someone reciting the 19th verse of Surat Annisa the second part which says wash Johanna Bernardo FIFA in Korea - whoa ha ha ha and takuchyan well yeah and a long ve played on Cathy Allah and live with them in kindness dwell with your spouses in kindness and if you dislike them if you find something in them that you really dislike if something really really annoys you about them right this isn't talking about the Deen now this is talking about and I know everyone is thinking about all the annoying habits of their spouses something really really bothers you about your spouse a loss of kind of Matata says perhaps you dislike a thing and Allah Subhanahu WA Ta'ala puts within it much good so you know look for things that you like about your spouse try to focus on those things and sometimes the very things that you dislike about your spouse will actually come in handy in the future so I'm the love don't what he took it as a sign from Allah you know he's walking out thinking about divorcing his wife and he hears this man you know reciting this verse which essentially says focus on the things you like and be optimistic be positive don't rush towards that divorce Abu Abu Omar he goes back home he makes up with his wife you know he decides that he's not going to divorce her and then she gets pregnant and she gives birth to a young boy by the name of Salim and Salim was the favorite son of Abdullah phenomenal day long time annual asylum actually becomes the best son of Abdullah Brahma he becomes a great scholar of Medina the greatest scholar out the loved all his children he becomes a hadith narrator right so he carries on the legacy of his father and every time beloved Muhammad would look at him he would say Sal duck a la sal de paola you know Allah was truthful Allah was truthful you know like I could have divorced his mom and I would have never had this child subhanAllah but look what Allah placed within this child but this boy grew up to become great and this teaches us a very valuable lesson in our marriages you know do not rush towards divorce divorce is an option it's there sometimes it's necessary but you know don't focus on the things that drive you crazy about the other person you know try to work beyond those incompatibilities and try especially if you got married for a good reason for the sake of allah soprano donna try to remember why you chose that person why you wanted to be with that person in the first place focus on her good or focus on his good and you never know what Allah subhana WA Ta'ala might bring out of that person so we asked a loss of Hannah Montana to to grant us you know righteous spouses and to grant us righteous children like Salim and to allow us to apply this beautiful verse from the Quran Ilana I mean [Music] [Music] you