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Signs of Incompetent Counselors

Aug 30, 2025

Overview

Dr. Grande discusses six objective signs of a less-than-ideal therapist, emphasizing the importance of counselor competence and the potential harm caused by unqualified practitioners.

Defining "Bad" or Less-Than-Ideal Counselors

  • Focus is on general signs of incompetence, not just poor client-counselor matches.
  • The majority of counselors perform well, but a few can cause significant harm.
  • The term "bad counselor" refers to being less competent, not necessarily unethical or harmful.

Sign 1: Evasive Responses About Licensure

  • Counselors give complex or evasive stories when asked about their license status instead of directly answering.
  • Legitimate explanations for lack of licensure (e.g., intern status) should be simple and clear.

Sign 2: Misrepresentation of Academic Credentials

  • Counselors claim a doctorate enhances their clinical skill when it is not in a relevant mental health field.
  • Ethical practice requires counselors only use the "doctor" title if their doctorate is in a related field.

Sign 3: Blurring Professional Boundaries

  • Suggesting friendship or romantic involvement during or after therapy is inappropriate and potentially unethical.
  • Post-therapy relationships, especially romantic ones, are highly debated and generally advised against.

Sign 4: Incorrect or Unethical Diagnosing Practices

  • Inventing non-existent disorders or using trendy but unofficial terms is problematic.
  • "Weaponizing" diagnoses to stigmatize or punish clients is unethical.
  • Over-diagnosing or stacking multiple disorders without proper criteria is a warning sign.
  • Failing to name relevant diagnoses or using incorrect diagnostic terms reflects poor competence.

Sign 5: Dogmatic Adherence to One Treatment Modality

  • Rigid loyalty to a single counseling theory and dismissal of all others limits effective treatment.
  • Counselors should remain open to multiple approaches based on client needs.

Sign 6: Overreliance on "Art vs. Science" Justification

  • Counselors frequently use "counseling is more art than science" as a way to mask lack of scientific understanding.
  • This phrase can indicate avoidance of evidence-based explanations.

Recommendations / Advice

  • Consider these objective signs when assessing a counselor's competence, but evaluate each situation in context.