Lecture Notes: The Psychology of Hate

Introduction

• Topic: The Psychology of Hate
• Published: March 9, 2017
• Reviewed by: Jessica Schrader
• Author: Allison Abrams, LCSW-R
• Source: Psychology Today

Key Concepts

Fear of "The Other"

• A.J. Marsden's Theory:
  • We hate because we fear differences.
  • In-group/Out-group Theory: Proposed by Patrick Wanis.
    • When perceiving threats from outsiders, we turn to our in-group.
    • Driven by love for the in-group and aggression against out-group.

Fear of Ourselves

• Projection: Concept by Freud, explained by Dana Harron and Brad Reedy.
  • We project undesirable aspects of ourselves onto others as a defense.
  • Leads to repression and mental health issues.

Lack of Self-compassion

• Brad Reedy's View:
  • Self-compassion helps accept the whole self.
  • Attacking others when part of self is unacceptable.
  • Self-acceptance allows compassionate response to others.

Filling a Void

• Bernard Golden's Perspective:
  • Hate can foster connection and camaraderie within a group.
  • Distracts from identity creation challenges and personal inadequacies.

Societal and Cultural Factors

• Silvia Dutchevici's Insight:
  • Cultural/political history impact on hate.
  • War culture promotes violence and competition.
  • Empathy can be hampered by societal norms promoting hate.

Addressing Hate

Learning and Education

• Golden's Emphasis:
  • Hate is learned.
  • Education in homes, schools, and communities is key.

Building Connections

• Dutchevici's Suggestions:
  • Face vulnerability and humanity to connect and love.
  • Engage in acts like talking, protesting, or therapy.
  • Compassion can bridge hate and love.

Call to Action

• SPLC Encouragement:
  • Report hate crimes to authorities and SPLC.
  • Track hate incidents to combat hate.

Conclusion

• Main Takeaway:
  • Combating hate requires a conscious choice toward compassion and understanding.
  • Education and societal change are critical in overcoming hate.