Let's give a round of applause
for the Bisaya! [CHEERING, APPLAUSE] Oh my! Oh my! Good day, Kuanizens! Welcome to another episode
filled with candid chats heartfelt conversations
with your Kuantie! There is no nonsense here.
This is... Kuan On One! [CHEERING] [THEME MUSIC PLAYING] At this point, we can't
not invite them to our show. They took the whole country
by storm. Even TFC subscribers
are obsessed. Their songs are so popular
nowadays. My gosh! They've been trending
for almost a year and there's no stopping
their popularity. So, we can't miss the chance
to talk to this girl group, especially since there are two
Bisaya in BINI. And today, we have none other
than BINI Aiah! [CHEERING, APPLAUSE] BINI Aiah, please greet
our Kuanizens. Hello, Kuanizens! Ah! Oh my God!
[MELAI CHUCKLING] I'm so excited, and... Oh no! I'm getting confused. My mind is like, "Do I use
Bisaya, English, or Tagalog?" [MELAI] I know that feeling! Most Bisaya artists who
come to Manila have this mindset that people only speak
Tagalog here. So we must speak in Tagalog. That's why Aiah was surprised. She was like, "Can I really
speak Bisaya here?" Actually, this is the first
Bisaya podcast I was invited to. So, earlier, when I was
checking the... Gosh, it feels weird.
[MELAI CHUCKLES] Now I'm having a hard time
switching to Bisaya. This is the longest interview
in Bisaya I've done so far. I was amazed that even the
instructions I received were in Bisaya. Now, they'll have to read
subtitles in Tagalog. [BOTH LAUGH] As they say, "The tables
have turned." [CHUCKLES] But we really made this show for Bisaya celebrities
and influencers to sort of have their own space
in this mostly Tagalog world. So, come and join us! Why am I speaking in English?
This is a Bisaya show! Anyway, how is BINI Aiah? I heard your schedule
is super hectic! Uhm... I get by. [CHUCKLES] Yeah, we're very busy,
but in a good way. We've been receiving
so many blessings recently. Right now, our mindset is to
strike the iron while it's hot. Because we won't always
be this busy. For sure, we'll eventually
have time to really rest. But since we're receiving many
blessings and opportunities, we're just grabbing it
while we can. Wow. It's really amazing that there are BINI members
representing the Bisaya. You see, BINI Aiah is from Cebu.
From where in Cebu exactly? Mactan. Mactan Island.
Where the airport is located. - Airport and white sand.
- There are many resorts too. I love Mactan!
It's my favorite place! If your thing is resort hopping,
that place is for you. Yes, yes. Where exactly in Mactan
are you from? Do you live near the sea? Wait, they might follow me home. [BOTH CHUCKLE] They might find out
where I live. Well, Mactan is not that big. It's a cute island
housing many resorts. We live near those resorts. How fun! So, if I want to swim, the beach
is just 20 minutes away. - [MELAI] Amazing.
- It's a short-- Oh. It's just a short ride
to the beach. Here, the nearest beach
is four to six hours away. Yeah, the beaches
are hours away from here. You'd feel sick from the ride
before you even arrive. But what's amazing about
our fellow Bisaya from Cebu is they're great
English speakers. And they have a certain accent
when speaking. Most Bisaya are known
to have a very thick accent. But Cebuanos speak more
softly and delicately. Like they're very sweet. [SOFTLY] Oh, not really. [BOTH CHUCKLE] - I don't think so.
- See? That's what I'm saying. Sometimes, we feel intimidated
when we talk to Cebuanos. - Huh?!
- They're so good in English! But how are you
holding up in life? Are you okay
despite the busy schedule? Yes. Actually, I live alone. The rest of my family
are in Cebu. - But I'm good.
- That's great. As they say,
"You asked for it." [BOTH LAUGH] If you regret your choices,
that's on you. But I'm sure you regret nothing
after all your success. So, in BINI, you are
the lead rapper and... What's that called again? - Visual.
- Visual. What does "visual" mean? I actually first encountered
the term when I joined the group. I thought it meant
you're good-looking. You see, in K-Pop, it's normal for group members
to take on different positions. I knew there were main, um... main vocalists, main dancers,
and main rappers. When you're the visual,
you're the face of the group. So, it surprised me when I
was chosen to be the visual. I mean, I don't think I... I don't usually mention it
during interviews, - because I...
- You feel shy? - You're so humble.
- No, I mean... Um, what's that saying again? "Beauty is in the eye
of the beholder." So, I think any of us
can be the visual. No. You're just humble. And now that I've seen you
in person, I can say you look
like Mama Mary. Oh my! We're really proud that
BINI's visual is a Bisaya. And you deserve it so much. We know you're
only being humble, but for us, you deserve it.
We're so proud of you. You're proof that the Bisaya
are also beautiful people. Anyway, every episode, we
prepare topics to talk about. [TO THE TUNE OF "PANTROPIKO"]
Like a topic-al island [LAUGHS] Let me get my list.
It's right here. Oh, you're prepared. - I listed them down here...
- Wow. [LAUGHS] ...so we won't go off topic. I feel like I'm presenting
a dissertation in class. [CHUCKLES]
Didn't we all use yellow pads - in college?
- Dissertation, huh? Your career journey has been
is incredible so far, Aiah. Before you became
a member of BINI, I heard you experienced
many rejections. But in the end,
those rejections turned out - to be redirections.
- [AIAH] Mm-hmm. Those moments when you
experienced rejection in life turned out to be signs that
God had other plans for you. He was just redirecting you. So, my first question
for you is... Now that BINI has
reached this level of success... You shook the whole world. Even TFC subscribers are hooked. You're so in-demand that
even I get asked by brands, "How much is BINI's talent fee?" I wonder why they're asking me.
I'm not your manager. That's how in-demand
you are right now. But my question is, what is the very first
rejection you experienced? Oh, wow. Tell us about
the very first one. Let's walk through
each rejection that led you to
where you are now. Talk about how
God redirected you. The earliest I can remember
is when I was very young. You see, I was a shy kid.
Extremely shy. I may be chatty now,
but I wasn't before. How many siblings do you have? - I have an older brother.
- Oh, you're the youngest. Yeah, um... There was a time when I was
so introverted. So, I think the very first
rejection I experienced was when I wanted
to make friends but I felt like they
didn't want me in their group. - Oh. Maybe--
- I felt like I didn't belong. Maybe you're just so shy
and they didn't notice you. Maybe. Or maybe I just
didn't match their vibe. So, I ended up spending
most of my time alone. Maybe that's why I became
kind of a lone wolf. Independent.
I'm used to going solo. So that was your
very first rejection. But if you think about it,
maybe they didn't reject you. - Hm?
- I mean... what if it was just
in your head? Maybe I just assumed, right? Yeah, because we tend to
assume people don't like us. But maybe sometimes we just
need to put ourselves out there. You could've asked
"Can I join you?" [AIAH LAUGHS]
That's how children play, right? Yeah, I had a lot of moments when I wanted to do that, but
I got scared of being rejected. I'd find myself thinking
"What if they reject me?" I tend to overthink like that. We tend to do that, huh? It's totally normal. But sometimes, we just have to
get ourselves out of our heads. So, those were the very first
rejections you experienced when you were a child. Can you say you've
gotten used to rejection now? Yeah. And because of those,
I realized that it's okay. I got rejected by this group,
because it wasn't for me. - [MELAI] Yes.
- It wasn't the circle I needed because I got redirected
to a better one. - So it's fine.
- That's true. You didn't have to
force yourself to fit in. So, when you got older--
No, not older. I mean, you got more mature
and turned into a young lady. Eventually, you started
going to auditions even when you were
really shy. Yes, that's right. As I've mentioned before,
I was a really shy kid, so I looked for ways
to boost my confidence. And it started when
I joined modeling. - Modeling.
- Yes, modeling. It started when
I was in high school. I was known in high school as someone who's
very weak and introverted. I used to walk
with my head down. I seemed very lifeless. That's how introverted I was. If you were a cartoon character,
you'd be Sadness. Yes, I think so, too. You were just like Sadness. For example, during sports day, while others were
playing volleyball, I was only playing board games. I didn't join them.
I just wanted to stay indoors. Yes, and... even though you were shy,
you still went to the audition. Yes, I said to myself, "Wait a minute.
I have to make an effort to change something
about myself." So, when I started modeling,
my family was shocked. They said, "You're going to
be a model? That's so cool!" They agreed, but... - They were shocked?
- Yes. They supported me. It all started from modeling. I tried modeling and pageantry until I gained confidence to participate in events. - That's it.
- But did you face any rejection when you tried modeling
and pageantry? Yes, especially in modeling. They hold auditions
multiple times. I mean, casting calls. Casting calls for projects, commercials, or shoots. Of course, there were
so many auditionees. And they were very beautiful.
Some even had foreign ancestry. You also have an edge - because you're beautiful, too.
- The criteria vary. That's what I realized. At first, I was really worried because they had beautiful faces
with tall nose bridges... As tall as five floors? I was like, "What do I do?" They also had good
height and figure. But that made me
realize something. They were so beautiful, but
they still didn't get accepted. [CHUCKLING] That means beauty can't always
guarantee you'll get accepted. Sometimes,
things turn out differently. Just because you
weren't accepted doesn't mean there's
something wrong with you. Maybe you just
didn't fit the criteria. - Wow.
- Sometimes, they are... looking for something... - Something specific?
- Yes, specific. It's a good thing,
while you were still young, you learned to accept it
and be open-minded. But what came to your mind? Why did you keep auditioning
even though you were shy? I'm not sure. Maybe I just... I just... Maybe I just mustered up
my courage. I didn't care anymore.
I just went ahead and tried it. Or maybe it was your calling? Maybe. I guess you're right. But I also really enjoyed
the process. - Oh.
- That's why I kept joining. You never really know. - Yes.
- Yeah. Then came PBB. PBB always holds
the first audition in Cebu. - Did you audition in Cebu?
- Yes, in Cebu. - PBB audition in Cebu.
- Even if it wasn't your plan, you'd think of auditioning after seeing the TV ad of
the PBB audition in your area. So, you auditioned there? Yes, I did. Actually, I auditioned
many times. PBB always holds auditions,
right? But I used to be shy. So, when I finally
gained confidence, - I told my family.
- Okay. At least, you already had
experience joining pageants. I told my family,
"I'm going to join PBB." They screamed, "Wow!
Alright, we'll go with you!" They really went with me.
Mama and Papa were there. Even my uncles and
aunties went, too. - Because you're the youngest.
- They supported me. Yes. They were there all day. Even though the Cebu auditions
lasted until 11PM. They called out of work
just to go with me. They must be so proud of you. Having a supportive family
really makes a difference. But what exactly
did you audition for? Did you audition for PBB?
Or for Star Hunt? PBB. - Housemate?
- That's what I was aiming for. You see, I loved watching PBB
back then. You know... I also watched
you and Kim on PBB. I was probably about
five or six years old back then. My back suddenly hurt. - No kidding. I was young then.
- Yes, it's true. My mother would even scold me for staying up until 11PM
just to watch PBB. - It ends around 11PM.
- I was only a few years old. That's when it all started. - I watched Coach Mickey, too.
- Oh, really? Yes. - You even watched that.
- Yes. Because you watched PBB
back then, - you decided to audition, too.
- Yes, that's right. Did you get accepted
when you auditioned for PBB? - No, but...
- Were you shortlisted? I only got to... You see, there were many levels.
Level one, two, three... Then there was also a callback. I reached the third level. Yes. But I didn't
get a callback. No callback.
So, another rejection for you. - Whose PBB batch was it?
- Gwen's batch. - Oh! BINI Gwen and BINI...
- PBB Otso (eighth main season). - Sheena.
- Sheena. - Mm-hmm.
- Only you didn't get in? Yes. How did you feel about that? Actually, you know... Out of all the auditions
I went to, PBB was... - the most painful one.
- Really? My family fully supported me. And it was the first time
I wanted something so bad. - I really wanted it.
- Yes. Because I really wanted it,
I had a dream about it. I had a dream about what
happened in the audition. I also had a dream
about the Star Hunt logo. It was so weird. How did that happen?
You only auditioned for PBB. - Yes.
- Why'd you dream of Star Hunt? - The Star Hunt grand auditions?
- Yes. But it was over.
I kind of accepted it, too. I thought maybe
it wasn't really for me. - That I wasn't meant for PBB.
- You were starting to move on. Yes. That was months after. That's why it was so weird that I suddenly dreamed
of the Star Hunt logo. Since then, I had this feeling
that something would happen. Before I graduated
from 12th grade, I told myself,
"I'm going to Manila soon." - That's exactly what I said.
- You had a gut feeling, huh? We know for ourselves - what we really want.
- I just had a gut feeling. Actually, we might not know,
but our hearts and minds will. It's like the Lord was saying,
"This is where you should go." So, how did you enter Star Hunt? I was rejected by... - PBB?
- PBB. But one day, Star Hunt held
a private audition for Darna. At that time, I was still under
my former modeling management. They told me about
the private casting for Darna. They wanted me to join. - Was it in Cebu?
- Yes, in Cebu. I was only 17 or 18 back then. I think I had just turned 18. I hesitated joining it because the other auditionees
were 20 years old and above. - Yes.
- They were more mature. Meanwhile, I still
looked like a kid. I looked very young. You were already beautiful,
but you were still young then. Yes. My voice might even crack
if they make me shout "Darna." I couldn't handle it. Some beauty queens
joined the private casting. And they were all... On another level. - A completely different level.
- You got discouraged? Yes, I got discouraged.
But my manager talked to me. He said, "No. We won't aim
for Darna anymore. I asked you to come here so the
Star Hunt staff could see you. I said, "Oh, okay. Alright." You were redirected
somewhere else. Yes. It was nerve-racking because they gave me
a script in Tagalog. But my first language is Bisaya. - Then English?
- Then English, then Tagalog. I was given a script,
but I couldn't do it. It was like a tongue twister. - I didn't know what to do.
- You were stuttering? Yes. But I just went ahead with it. Did the Star Hunt staff
see you there? Yes, I know they noticed me because after
a couple of months, when I was already
enrolled in college, - paid for the uniform and all,
- Yes. they suddenly called. "Hi. Is this Aiah? Are you willing to go to Manila
to be in a girl group?" So, you didn't have
to audition anymore? - They called you right away.
- Yes, they did. - They called directly.
- Wow! They called me
because they noticed me. I even asked them, "How did you know..." "How did you know
I needed someone like you?" [CHUCKLING] So, how did they know? It was because of
the Darna audition. They noticed me there. My efforts weren't in vain
because they noticed me. What did you do in the audition?
Did you show yourself off? Maybe they noticed me because I was the only
ugly duckling there. I bet you did your best, too. So, yeah... Did you say yes immediately? I remember it was late at night
and I was alone at home. Our house was finally
filled with noise. I jumped for joy. [SHRIEKS] "Manila, here I come!" I immediately said,
"Yes. Alright, alright." I agreed right away even though
I didn't know what would happen. So, that's it.
The rest is history. But it can't just be
about history because we'll keep asking
about it endlessly. - But it wasn't easy.
- Yes. It’s not easy being
the very last person they call. Yes. Last, yes. Were you scared
of being picked last? - Or did you feel pressured?
- Pressure. I felt more pressure
because other members started training
three months ago. Some even went through
bootcamp before training. So, you weren't with them
in the training? No, but... Some people say, "Why didn't you go through
our bootcamp hardships?" For me, if I had the chance, I'd rather join so we'd share
the same journey. And if she called late,
is that her fault? Put the blame on the caller.
[LAUGHS] - Who called you?
- Who was it? I got called in late
and came in late, so I need to catch up. As the director told me, "Aiah, you need to catch up,
okay?" Good thing I just have months
to catch up on, not years. So, I just got to keep pushing. - So...
- I felt so much pressure. Aside from the pressure, you know, those others already
formed groups and got close. - Yes.
- And you... - Your worry is being left out.
- Yes. Yes, that's true, as in. So what... - What did you do?
- Me... I was really intimidated because
they already had a group. I felt a bit left out because
they had all these inside jokes. - Yes.
- I just laughed along... - Even if you don't get it?
- ...even if I couldn't relate. [LAUGHING] "Why is she laughing?
She doesn't get it." Yes. I was really thankful when I
found out Colet is also Bisaya. - Ahh.
- Yes! - Thank god!
- I can ask her things like, "What does this mean?" or "How do you say this
in Tagalog?" Even now,
Colet is the one I turn to when I'm unsure if a word
is Tagalog or Bisaya or if I'm confused. At least you understand
each other. Visayans might seem tough,
but we're not really that tough. It's just how we speak. Strong and ready to fight back. Yes, know how to fight. So, that's how it is. - But it's really not easy, huh?
- Not at all. It took 3 to 4 years of training
before people recognized you. Hmm. It took years
before we got launched. Even after that,
it was still a struggle. - Still nothing?
- There's still a process. You were guests
on "Magandang Buhay", right? I keep thinking about you and feel bad because
your training is no joke. I hope you get
your big break soon. A year feels so long,
especially being locked in. You train all the time, but where will you perform
what you’ve been practicing? Yeah, especially... even during the pandemic,
we never stopped training. Those times were so uncertain. We kept asking ourselves,
"Why are we still dancing?" "What's the point?"
"What's going to happen?" Our families were worried and wondering why we kept
dancing despite the pandemic. What now?
[LAUGHING] We don't even know
if we'll still be alive then, but you all keep dancing anyway. Then, even when
ABS-CBN shut down, we just kept on dancing. Exactly. I was worried
about you all then. I was like, "What's happening?
These kids don't deserve this." I even thought you should've
been sent home. But you know,
you shouldn't underestimate young people's dreams because
they can really achieve a lot. Look at what they've achieved. It's impressive. Now that you're
in this situation, how do you feel? Do you feel famous?
Do people really recognize you? Well, at first,
we were in denial. It seemed too good to be true. We didn't want to assume. But we realized it
during our mall shows. - Really?
- We started to get scared. People were pulling us
towards them. It was different. They seemed
like zombies already. Yes! Even in the van,
they were screaming "BINI!" So do you believe now? Yes, because it's getting scary. It's more serious now.
I was like, "Ah, okay, got it." - But...
- We were really amazed. - You were amazed?
- Yes. How do you tell each other
that you're no longer-- Yes! We're just like, "Woah! Girls, remember
how we used to joke about when we'd finally make it?" "We might go down
before we go big." You keep dancing and dancing, but you're unsure
where it leads. We were amazed
to hear our Pantropiko and other songs
playing everywhere. Even in church. - They're everywhere.
- Oh, come on! Your songs are really nice.
It's wholesome. - Yes.
- And as BINI... you guys are wholesome too
as a group. You're the ones young people
should idolize. Role models indeed. We're the lodicakes.
[LAUGHS] Oh, right?
Did you ever think, "Wow, Lord is amazing, huh?
If I had stopped before, I wouldn't have achieved this."
Have you thought about that? Yes. I really believe everything
happens for a reason. Many times we've felt lost,
asking ourselves, "What's this all for?"
something like that. But in the end,
it's like, just let it go. I always say,
"Let go and let God." I tell myself, "Lord, I know
there's always a reason, whether it's rejection
or redirection." And here it is,
this is the reason. Why we had to go through
all that during the pandemic and why I couldn't see
my family for months. Of course, you're loved
being the youngest, so it's great your mom managed. How's your mom doing now? Now? Oh my!
I don't know anymore! I know your neighbors
can't stop talking about you. I just don't know anymore,
Miss Melai, because every time I go home, she's got this long list
of people she wants me
to send video greetings to. Even with the other
members of BINI? - Yes.
- And even you? Yes. The last time I came home,
right when I got there, all tired from the flight
and it was still early, someone was
running up yelling, "Miss Aiah!
Can I get a picture?" Turns out, my mom
had spread the word about when I'd be arriving. She had made
an announcement. You had some fan clubs
waiting for you. Yes. But, I missed seeing
how cute they are, with their clothes even
labeled "Aiah" and "BINI". Even their hats have names. You're the visual of BINI.
Who wouldn't be proud of that? - Hey!
- You know... If I were your parents, I'd say my finished product
turned out really well. Well, yes. They made her the visual.
[LAUGHS] I inherited this from my mom. But did you
and your mom discuss how it's a good thing she didn't force you
to just go home? Because sometimes parents
really feel bad for their kids. She didn't tell you to just
go home and not endure that? Actually, for other parents, they would've made
their child come home. But my parents are different. They made me stronger by motivating me to stay. "It's hard at first,
but you can do it." - That's what they said.
- [MELAI] Wow. That was their mindset. The three of them - Mama,
Papa, and my big brother. You have such a
great support system. They remain strong
despite the distance. So, during times
when you feel weak, do you still turn to them
for advice? Yes, always. [MELAI] What kind of advice
do you ask from your mom? All kinds of advice. School. Work. Love life. Just kidding! I'm single.
[MELAI EXCLAIMS] Don't lie to me! I have the Lord's love,
and self-love. [LAUGHS] Okay, so during hard times, you still call your mom? Yes, my entire family
is just one call away. There was a time, Melai, I reached my lowest point when I was here in Manila
last year. One time, I called her
and just burst into tears. I said, "I can't do this
anymore, I need you." - I told her...
- "Come here." [AIAH]
"Ma, I'll book you a ticket." "Get your stuff ready." She said, "Sure. Okay.
I'll get ready." - [MELAI] To come to you?
- Four hours later, she arrived. She stayed with me in Manila... - ...for about a month.
- What were you going through? What was I going through
that I needed my mom? I was working and going
to school at the same time. And it was almost
the end of the year. We usually get busy
at the end of the-- Oops! But, yeah... - [MELAI] Mm-hmm.
- Last minute, that's when a lot of things happen, right? Last minute tasks at work. - Last minute projects.
- [AIAH] Yes. And I was all alone that time,
and nothing was making sense. I really needed help. So I'm glad Mama immediately
came to the rescue. It's good that you
reached out to your mother. Some people turn to
friends or other people, but sometimes they only
make things worse. [MELAI] Right? Good thing
you approached your mom. But aside from the
redirections from God that you have embraced, can we talk about
your love life? Oh, boy!
[MELAI EXCLAIMS] Can we? Oh, boy! Oh, boy! Just share whatever
you're comfortable sharing. - Like in the past...
- [AIAH] Okay. What did you learn from
the redirections you had before? Like how did rejections bring you to the people
in your life now? Well, actually,
I mentioned it on our podcast. [AIAH] We have a podcast. So, there came a time when... There came a time when, I had to choose between
love and my career. I wanted to have both, but... You couldn't have both. [AIAH] It wasn't the
right time back then. - It wasn't meant to be.
- [MELAI] Yes, yes. But since I could only have one,
I had to let someone go. And I felt guilty because
I ended up hurting him. - [MELAI] You let him go?
- I just want to spread love. Just love, love, love. But no, I realized that maybe
there's a reason for all this. In which, it turned out
to be a good thing. After that experience,
I realized that... I should be focusing on myself, my family, my career,
and my studies. I guess it just wasn't
our time to be together. At least he got to focus
on his own thing. Now he's happy... - [MELAI] Ah...
- ...with someone else! [MELAI LAUGHS]
But I'm happy for you! [BOTH LAUGH] That's good. What matters is,
at the end of the day, you realized that
you weren't meant to be. - Mm-hmm.
- [MELAI] You know why? If you pursued that,
you wouldn't be here today. You would have taken
a different path. - [AIAH] Maybe.
- You wouldn't be here. You would be wondering
what could have been, right? But, if you chose
that life instead, there's nothing
wrong with that. But this was
the Lord's plan for you. Yes. BINI is life! ["NA NA NA" BY BINI PLAYING]
[MELAI] Exactly. BINI is life indeed. BINI wouldn't be BINI
with just 7 members, because there are 8 of you. Our management said,
"There's time for everything." - [MELAI] Yes.
- We just have to wait. And look where you are now. You are BINI Aiah,
the visual of BINI. [MELAI] Right,
ladies and gentlemen? But, since we're talking about
rejection being redirection, what's your advice
for young people, especially to those
who are listening right now? When they face challenges
where they feel like, "I can't take this anymore!" When things get hard. - [AIAH] Yes.
- What's your advice to them? Given that you are the Queen of
"Rejection is Redirection." Well, it's normal that after a heartbreak,
or any rejection, it's natural to feel sad because you're in pain. But, the best thing you can do is find a healthy outlet
to express yourself. Find opportunities to grow, instead of focusing on the
bitterness of rejection. What I do is, I tell myself, "You'll be okay.
It's not the end of the world." I use the opportunity
to have more time for myself, to pursue other hobbies, meet new people, and travel. I still find reasons
to be happy. It's really not the
end of the world. That's right.
It's not the end of the world. Just wait, you will
meet someone in the new direction
you're going. You may even
become a director. [LAUGHS]
[MELAI] Just kidding. So, speaking of travel, - can we talk about that?
- [AIAH] Yes. I've read that you
like to travel solo. [AIAH] Yes. - [MELAI] Where have you been?
- Yes. Well, uh... I've gone solo travelling
here in the Philippines. First was La Union.
I traveled via bus, by myself. Did you cover your face
to not be recognized? - Yes.
- [MELAI] You wore a mask? - Yes, then--
- To our viewers, watch out, BINI Aiah
could be in your bus. Keep your eyes peeled.
[AIAH LAUGHS] Yes. Then this year, I also tried, before holy week
or during holy week, I travelled solo to
three or four countries within a week. - [MELAI] Mm-hmm.
- All by myself. - Really?
- Yes. But my parents were
really worried about me. Yes, and you're the youngest.
So, what happened? Yeah, but I had so much fun because I was on my own,
I had so much freedom. [MELAI] Weren't you afraid
of getting lost? Not at all. Maybe because I learned
to be independent in Manila. I got used to being alone. I learned to be a lone wolf. But it's still different
to travel alone when you are going
to a new country. - You need to ask around.
- Yes. I have also tested
my ability to be wise and not
easily fooled. You know,
I'm not easily scammed. Like that. Are you good at spotting if
someone is a scammer or not? Yes. I can tell if someone
is a swindler. [LAUGHS] Why does it look like
you're pointing at me? Are you trying to tell me
something, Aiah? It makes me think if
I am the swindler. Hey! But you climb too, right? - Yes.
- I also climb. - Oh?
- I'm a social climber. - [AIAH LAUGHS]
- Just kidding. I climb in Rizal.
Just for a one-day hike, or sometimes we do
overnight climbs in Baguio. - Wow. Nice!
- You should come with us. But you don't climb solo,
right? It's too dangerous,
especially rock climbing. Oh, um. I tried wall climbing
and bouldering. I tried rock climbing.
But it's not... too difficult. But you had someone
with you, right? Yes, I did.
Someone helped me. But it's not really... some rock climbs are really
intense, the really high ones. I don't like rock climbing
either, I'd rather stick to
mountain climbing. It's really intense.
But I have a group, I'm with some friends,
I go with Madam Darla... Oh... If you want to join us,
come along. - Sure.
- No problem. Let's climb together. It's so nice to see
the mountain. Greeny. It's the best. It feels so good. The "greenery"? [LAUGHS] You know, climbing is great
because it strengthens your stamina
for dancing. Yes. Actually,
that's my reason for jogging. I need to stay active
because it helps me a lot. - It really helps a lot.
- Yes. For stamina. That's what I want too. - You stay active.
- I want to be like that too. But why does it feel like
I'm a boxer? But where's your
next destination? - For traveling?
- Yes. Where do you want to go next? Well, I want to try Asia first. Because that's what
my budget allows. And Asia because it's close, especially since we're busy and we only find out our
schedule weeks before. It's really hard to go to other
countries that require a visa. Asia is really the place I can
go to because it's visa-free. - That's true.
- So, that's it. We wish you good luck.
I hope you... I hope we can climb together.
I'll invite you sometime. - Sure, okay.
- If you have time. So we can spend
time together, you know. I also want to invite my
other friends like Kim Chiu... Yes, I'd love that. We'll climb with our
Bisaya friends. - Really? [LAUGHS]
- Yeah. It would be great to do
an overnight. - Yes.
- Maybe we can go to... Mt. Ulap. I haven't tried that yet. When you wake up,
all you can see are clouds. I like that, camping. I have a group,
and we’ll just bring our bags, and the members
will bring the tents. - They’ll build a tent city.
- [AIAH] Wow! They’ll also do the cooking.
We’ll just eat. - I'm in. I like that.
- Me too! - I'll invite you.
- All right. Your friends have to like... - mountain climbing too.
- Don’t force them... Don’t force them because
after just one kilometer, they'll resent you. [AIAH GIGGLES] They’ll regret it.
They’ll really get mad. But of course, BINI Aiah, now-- I really hope you're
enjoying this. because we've reached the... - "Big Problem."
- [AIAH] Oh no. [UPBEAT MUSIC PLAYING] For me, this is really
a big problem because these are questions. Questions connected to you. It's your fault. Why did you join the pageant? Now we’re dragged
into your English. This is in English. But of course,
we have a bowl here. A toilet bowl? No.
[LAUGHS] So, the two of us
will draw questions that we need to answer. [AIAH] Okay, okay. So, you go first. - Will I give it to you?
- Yes. Then we’ll answer it. For those who don’t
understand Bisdak, what does "kuan" mean for you? For me... The "kuan" of your "kuan"
is "kuan." - [MELAI] Wow.
- Thank you. That's very true. Because it’s "kuan." - You cannot explain the "kuan."
- Yeah. - And it’s unexplainable.
- Yes. Because "kuan" is in the
back of the dictionary. [AIAH LAUGHS] - It's exempted.
- Yes, it's exempted. "Kuan" is everything. Because you can use it
in everything. True, that's right. When you can’t think
of an answer, - "kuan."
- [AIAH LAUGHS] - Yes.
- Right? - So, next, next. I’ll draw now.
- Alright. - You read it.
- Oh, okay. Oh! What is the essence
of being a Bisdak? - I’ll answer first.
- Oh, okay. The essence of being a Bisdak
is common sense. [LAUGHS] - That's not even an answer.
- [LAUGHS] Common sense, because... we know how to speak Bisaya,
English, and Tagalog. What's the matter? - Oh!
- [APPLAUSE] Okay, now it’s your turn
to answer the next one. Okay, okay. This is hard. This time, I’ll read
and you’ll answer. Okay, okay. This is where your kuan...
Miss kuan... Miss Mactan will come in. [GIGGLES] What if...
This question is so hard! Oh no! What if all of a sudden... - Oh!
- You had a million dollars? What is the first thing
you would buy and why will you buy it? What I think of immediately
if I had that much money is to start a business.
I don’t know. I would do business so
the money circulates. So it's not just me who
benefits from the money. I want to have a business
where I can involve my family. After that, I’ll share
the money with them. Then I’ll enjoy myself
afterward. - Wow. And more travels to come.
- Yes! [APPLAUSE] That's very true. In fairness to BINI Aiah,
even though she’s still a teen, twenteens... but her mindset is really
advanced. - Twenteens?
- Teens... Maybe 11 or 12 years old? - Tweenies?
- [LAUGHS] Twen-teens? But she already knows
where the money should go. Oh. I switched
to Tagalog again. She knows where
the money should go. - Yes.
- You're very good at that. Next, it's my turn. - Should I speak in Bisaya?
- Oh, it's my turn. Okay. Oh no. What do you think is the
Philippines' greatest contribution to the world? It's a Binibining Philippines
question. It's like..."Bini-bini" Wow. - For a "bini-bini."
- Can you please... - Can you repeat it?
- What do you think... What do you think is
the Philippines' greatest contribution to the world? The Philippines' contribution
to the world is manpower. [AIAH] Whoa. Manpower, why? I don't know why. [LAUGHS] Doesn't even matter
how hard you try? [LAUGHTER, APPLAUSE] Because we have many
TFC subscribers. - [AIAH] Oh.
- We... we... - The doctors, we spread it.
- Yes. - The nurses, we spread it.
- Spread it. And the OFWs, we spread it. - Wow! Agree! Agree!
- [APPLAUSE] Thank you very much. Even if they don't
really understand, they're like,
"just go along with it." - That's true.
- Now, I will ask the questions. You. Do you want to answer? I agree. Manpower is indeed the
greatest contribution we have because we are different
here in the Philippines. We are family-oriented, brave,
resilient, and strong. Yes. Even if we are separated
from our families, we will work and support them. [AIAH] True. Right? So, that's our contribution. Who will take care of
the foreigners' children? - Isn't it crazy?
- [AIAH LAUGHS] They can't work if
there are no Filipinos. Right? Should I translate
these questions to Bisaya? I'm not angry. Okay, next--
this question is for you... - What's more difficult to play?
- [AIAH] Oh dear. Hiding feelings... - Hey!
- or hiding debts? Oh! It's harder to hide from
the person you owe money to. [LAUGHS] Because you could go to jail. Hiding feelings,
only you know that. It's only you because
only you can feel it. But hiding from someone
you owe money to, - just pay them so you won't...
- [MELAI LAUGHS] - so you won't get caught.
- Yes. So you won't get reported
to the Barangay. That's right. Thank you very much,
BINI Aiah, for keeping up with our silliness
here at Kuan On One. But of course,
here at Kuan On One, we have what we call
the Ultimate Yawyaw. [UPBEAT MUSIC PLAYING] The Ultimate Yawyaw... strengthens what we have
learned from each other. Including your realizations
in life which made you feel like,
"Oh, that's right." Looking back at what you've
been through, those experiences
you fought for... and now, you're at
the point where you're enjoying the blessings. The Ultimate Yawyaw I learned
from you, BINI Aiah, is... courage. Aw. I truly saw courage in you
because even though you faced
many rejections, you didn't give up. You didn't even take a break. - You kept auditioning.
- Yes. You weren't... You weren't discouraged. You were really courageous. What you did was
you kept moving forward. Your attitude and wisdom
of having courage will take you far.
Do you know why? Because you know what you want. You're not shaken by the
discouragements around you, or by the frustrations. You just want to keep going. You just keep going. I really admire the courage
you show in your journey of
becoming BINI. And I hope that
with your courage, our Kuanizens will also
learn and use it in their lives until the end. And you, keep that courage because that's what
we want for you. - Thank you. I was touched.
- [APPLAUSE] You, what is your realization? <br> what I have learned is to just
really trust the process. Even if sometimes you question why you have to go through
those things, why you have to do those things. Especially in life,
there are many options, easy ways out,
and easy directions, but... actually, you learn more from
the challenges you go through. So, I'm grateful that I went
through those challenges, and if there are more
challenges to come, bring it on. I can face it. Just have courage,
although it's, you know... it's hard. Just breathe.
You can always breathe. Just keep fighting.
Everything has a purpose. I love it. - "Trust the process".
- [APPLAUSE] Wow! There you go. Kuanizens, you are learning a lot
from BINI Aiah today. "Trust the process" and Courage. Those are indeed some
of the keys to success. Just keep fighting.
Rejection is redirection. Yeah! What's your favorite
Bisaya word? Many Bisdaks are curious
about that. Actually, I have many favorites. But this is my new favorite:
"Isog." (Brave) - Isog.
- [MELAI] Oh. - Exactly! You can't handle it.
- Brave. What does "isog" mean to you? How important is it to you? "Isog" doesn't mean you'll be
aggressive like a dog. - Are you a dog?
- No. "Isog" means having
enough fire to... to... what do you call that? - To fight.
- Yes. Like a fighter. Because you're strong.
Is that right? - Strong.
- Yes, strong! You can continue despite
whatever life throws at you, even if it's hard, as long as
you're brave enough to go through all of it. You must also have courage. That's all. Prayer is also important. Prayer is number one. You're brave.
Whatever challenge you face, - you won't give up.
- [AIAH] Yes. God won't let you down
if you are brave. He'll look after you. - God is your backup.
- [MELAI] Correct! Anyway, this is what we call... I mean, you guys
are trending now, - even when we go to Korea.
- Wow! They're also Blooms. The two of them. They're always dancing
in front of me. They want me
to watch them dance. Even though I'm busy,
they still ask me to watch them. This is proof that they
really like BINI. Look, they danced
to Salamin, Salamin. It's Mela and Stela. Roll VTR! ["SALAMIN, SALAMIN" BY BINI
PLAYING] Wow. I thought her waist
would break while dancing. [CHUCKLES] Because she wanted
to imitate you. Especially that part. I'm glad she didn't get shy
dancing in Korea. She was the one who insisted
on dancing there. Oh. It's really in the middle of... That's in Gangnam. [COOS] She used to dance a lot
to K-pop songs. Now they dance to P-pop,
our very own! You see, we went
to a bar there. Oh, I saw that. - It was like a restaurant.
- They danced to that song. Look at her.
[COOS] Wow, she's good. She's missing a tooth, look. [CHUCKLES] But she's still dancing. She was like,
"Mama, I want to dance." [COOS]
[CHUCKLES] - Oh!
- Wow! [CHUCKLES] She pouted. She's copying you guys. [CHUCKLES] [COOING] Yes! [CHUCKLES] She's feeling it! Yes. She's so cute! [COOS, CHUCKLES]
[CLAPPING] That's how big your impact is on my daughters, BINI Aiah. Hold on! I think... I think something is missing! Where's the video
of you dancing? [AIAH LAUGHING] Didn't you go to Korea too? I feel shy. It looked like I was dancing
Tinikling when I tried to do it. But okay. Fine. Teach me how to do it. Let's dance on the side. ["SALAMIN, SALAMIN"
BY BINI PLAYING] Left... Again! Heart! [GIGGLES] BINI Aiah is really teaching me. [STAFF CHEERING] - Thank you so much, BINI Aiah!
- Thank you. Thank you very much, BINI Aiah!
Let's give her a big hand. [CLAPPING]
[MELAI] Wow. I'm really proud to say that a BINI member herself
taught me the dance. I won, guys. I'll just laugh at you. But of course, thank you
so much, BINI Aiah, for accepting our invitation.
I know you're very busy but you still gave us your time. Anything for you. Aww. Come back here, okay? - Oh, I would love to.
- [MELAI] Yes. We prepared something for you. Just a small... - How cute!
- A small gift. - Hope you like it.
- Thank you. You can use it
to scare cockroaches away. [CHUCKLES] - It's so cute. Thank you.
- Again, thank you so much! We only give those
to our guests. Oh, right.
Exclusively for guests. For the others, we only gave
them sleeveless tops. [BOTH CHUCKLE] Anyway, thank you very much,
BINI Aiah. Would you like to thank anyone for the huge success
of your concert? Yes. Thank you so much, Blooms, and all the Bisaya Blooms. Some of them
flew from the province and some came
from other countries just to support and watch us. Thank you so much! I hope you will continue
to support us whenever we have a show. And yes, I hope you can still
be there at our future events. Please support the Bisaya. There are many Bisaya
in the industry. Thank you very much, BINI Aiah. We're so happy that you came here
on Kuan On One. Thank you so much! And thank you
very much, Kuanizens, for joining us here.
You guys are amazing! Thank you for watching guys. Especially now
that we're trending because we have BINI with us. Until next time, this is... Kuan On One! Woo-hoo!
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