Hello guys, it is me Victoria and today I'm making another video for guys trying to help them have better success with women. So, I need to relate a story to you which is about when I was on the dating market and I would go on dates with guys. And I would always separate the guys into one of two categories in my head. And I'm not proud of this, but...
This is just like how it happens subconsciously. I would just instantly see a guy and within, you know, a couple of minutes, I just kind of knew if I could sleep with him or not. And it was because I was sorting him into one of two categories, like I said, in my mind.
The first category was just like, I can't. Like, I like him maybe. I think he's attractive maybe.
He seems like a really nice person, maybe. He seems like, you know, he's super successful and smart and funny, but I can't. So it's a no. It's a no from me.
And then the other category was like, I'm getting a vibe. I'm getting an energy that makes me say, I'm open to this possibility. Yes, I could potentially sleep with this guy. So what?
Was the difference separating one guy from the other kind of guy? Well, this is kind of hard to say, but I used to think it was called, it was confidence. But it's not just confidence, because what is confidence? It's really, when it comes down to it, I believe, personally, a matter of BDSM. Yes, BDSM.
Dominance and submission. Was the guy acting, was he giving off dominant signals? Was he giving off a dominant vibe? If he was, I kind of translated that in my head as confidence before I really knew as much about BDSM. And yeah, I thought, you know, he's confident.
I could go through with this in the bedroom. But if he didn't give me any of these dominant signals, I'm just like, I don't really feel like working in the bedroom to make him feel comfortable, to teach him the ropes, to kind of like baby him. I selfishly wanted to have the sexual experience of my dreams. So anyway, let me get on to the six tips that I have compiled that men can use to send off dominant signals to a girl.
In other words, to subtly dom a girl on a date. And yes, being a dom, it doesn't have to be like being a dominatrix full out, you know, like, no, it can just be, it's very subtle. And in my opinion. Subtle is best. So without further ado, first tip you can do to safely dom a woman on a date.
So first thing you can do is call her by a pet name in a joking way. Like baby, sweetheart, darling. I thought of this because my boyfriend recently did something like this. He was kind of joking and he went to me, hey there little darling. Okay, this probably sounds really stupid, but you can kind of like, let's say, you know, some girl, she might not really appreciate being called sweetheart, baby on a first date.
You don't know her, but if you kind of do it in a joking way, kind of almost like making fun of it, it will still have an effect. So you could just be like, hey sweetheart, come here or something. And you kind of laugh and she kind of laughs too.
But inside, it may be getting to her. So number two tip is express anger. Like maybe it's about, you know, you read an email or something.
Like while you're on the date with her. And you're just like, oh my god, I can't fucking believe this. And you get like angry and you swear. And you kind of just like unleash. raw emotion, that is attractive to a girl.
Because she senses, all right, he doesn't have a problem expressing emotion. Well, passion. I like that. I like where this is going. It sends like a subconscious signal to her.
Like, you know, he's not scared. He's not just like scared to unleash. So number three tip you can do is compliment her appearance.
a lot but not at really the appropriate times so like maybe appropriate time would be like you first meet her and you're just like um hey it's nice to meet me and you're very beautiful or something like that no like basically interrupt the conversation like interrupt her when she's talking about something not related to you know like she's talking about her job let's say and just interrupt and just be like Can I just say your hair is amazing or you're so beautiful or you have beautiful eyes or you have the most beautiful face or your skin is amazing or something like that. Some comment about her appearance or like I love your dress it's extremely sexy or something like that at inopportune times because the fact that you're kind of like interrupting to bring it back to sex basically. is like it kind of just makes the girl be like feel objectified in a good way controversial stuff here um another number four tip you can do is talk about guy stuff like sports the more you can create you know polarity sometimes that just deep down gets under the skin it's like on the one hair it's like oh my god Sports but the same kind of like I know nothing about sports.
It's very guy thing. So it kind of creates like this Old-school, you know attraction vibe what you're going for if you're trying to dumb a girl on a date Number five tip is tease her Yeah, there's a lot of YouTube videos online how to tease a girl which I feel can Explain this a lot better than I can like I'm not great at teasing people myself but a lot of guys just do it great um so look up youtube videos how to tease a girl like or how to flirt by teasing um that is like mental domination for a girl um it's kind of like for me especially it's like you can outwit me you can outsmart me all of a sudden i'm attracted so um then six is ask her about sex bring the conversation back to sex whenever a guy does that you know I kind of try to like stay cool on the outside I'm like but inside I'm just like it's just like a cauldron that starts like bubbling and boiling and I'm just like just stay cool stay chill but inside it's like you know forces are affecting her that you may have no idea about So anyway, these are six tips to dom a woman on a date. Subtle.
I should say six subtle ways to dom a girl. Um, yeah, I think these are really effective. Try them out and comment below.
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