Lecture Notes: Are Sevens the Best Option for Relationships?

Introduction

• Speaker addresses the audience informally, mentioning a debate around relationship preferences.
• Discussion revolves around the concept of "purple pill" ideology.
• Recognition of Ron Wills as a foundational figure in the theory of "adjustable sevens."

The Concept of Adjustable Sevens

• Ron Wills' Theory: Adjustable sevens can be transformed into nines or tens with proper effort and presentation.
• Critique: Most women aren’t naturally ten; a seven dressed up may still believe she’s a ten, affecting her ego.
• Acknowledges the presence of exceptional nines and tens but asserts they are rare.

Why Many Believe Sevens are Ideal

1. Humility:

   • Sevens tend to be more humble than higher-rated women due to less male attention.
   • Higher-rated women may develop inflated egos from constant validation.

2. Less Competition:

   • Being with a seven means less competition from seemingly more attractive suitors.
   • Sevens are less likely to attract high-profile men (e.g., athletes, celebrities) who often pursue nines and tens.

3. Respectable Appearance:

   • Sevens are attractive enough not to cause embarrassment in social settings.
   • They do not face the stigma or discomfort associated with dating lower-rated women.

4. Financial Independence:

   • Sevens often realize the importance of financial stability earlier than nines and tens.
   • They tend to develop their careers and financial independence due to a lack of overwhelming attention from men.

5. Attention-seeking Behaviors:

   • Sevens typically do not seek attention as aggressively as nines and tens.
   • They engage in social media less to gain validation.

Why Sevens May Not Be the Best Option

1. Loss of Attraction Over Time:

   • Men may tire of sevens more quickly than nines or tens, leading to decreased sexual attraction.
   • Relationships may decline due to lack of effort from both parties.

2. Effort Levels:

   • Men's effort correlates with attraction; less attraction leads to less effort in the relationship.
   • A perceived lack of mutual attraction can lead to relationship deterioration.

3. True Love vs. Convenience:

   • Many confuse companionship or convenience with true love.
   • Genuine love comes from higher attraction levels, which sevens may not inspire.

4. Jealousy and Comparison:

   • Being with a seven may lead to feelings of insecurity when encountering more attractive women.
   • Constantly comparing partners can cause dissatisfaction and relationship strain.

5. Personality Limitations:

   • While personality can enhance attraction, it has limits; it cannot compensate for physical attraction completely.
   • The dynamics of attraction are complex and typically require both physical and emotional connections.

Conclusion

• Final recommendation is for men to seek relationships with women rated around eight and a half.
• Summarizes that pursuing relationships with higher-rated women can lead to a more fulfilling and stable partnership.
• Emphasizes the importance of attraction in maintaining a relationship.