Understanding Relationship Preferences: Sevens vs. Tens

what's up fellas so I had a loyal patron supporter that wanted to know are sevens the best option for relationships so obviously this is a purple pill brother and most of you guys I think you you wouldn't want to say it in public but most of you guys are purple pill minded right I know you won't say it on public I know you're gonna be in the comments like you red pill but deep down you looking you want some love all right yeah it's what it is what it is you know but you don't got to tell nobody all right so you know i don't know if this guy's a follower of the og ron will shout out ron will the great ron wills uh but ron wills um as far as i know he's the one that created this uh so if somebody else did before him uh or you know if somebody else did but the first person i heard talk about this is ron will so i'm gonna give him the credit for this but ron wills um said that adjustable sevens are the typical woman that you want to be in a relationship with that all right and i have heartily agreed with that i believe he is on to something i do believe most nines and tens are not good i don't want nobody to come not to all police today all right i'm quite sure there are some great nines and tens out there all right i'm quite sure it's two in the world right out of the millions and millions that it is i'm quite sure that it's two good nines and tens out there okay so i there you go i don't want to hear about no outliers or you know my mama she's a she was a dime and she was all shut the up okay all right but i believe that adjustables eight and a halves are the best option and i'll tell you why so now first what i want how i'm gonna do this video guys is i want to explain why a lot of guys believe well why i think that a lot of guys believe sevens are the best options all right and then i'll tell you ultimately why i believe seven sevens are not the best option why i don't recommend you guys doing seven maybe eight and a half but not sevens all right so what ron wills is talking about when he talked about the adjustable sevens that once they you know get fixed all up and stuff like that that they can become a nine or a ten right once they get jazzed up all right my only issue with that is um most women are not naturally beautiful tens to begin with right so if a woman is a seven and then she get dressed up and now she's a nine or a ten then i think that's the reason why he says that right uh but once the woman gets dressed up even if she's a seven when she wake up in the morning if she go get caked all up and get her hair did then in my opinion she's still gonna think she'll nine or ten regardless of how she look in the morning all right you hear kevin samuels when he asked the women to rate themselves he asked the women to rate themselves fresh out the shower not all that bullshit right but that's not usually how women gonna rate themselves right most women are not gonna rate themselves like that most women rate themselves how they look when they go to the club all right but half naked and shit that's how most women but anyway guys regardless of what And you can go over there and check out some of Ron Wills'videos if y'all guys want to, you know, get more in detail on his theories behind that adjustable sevens. I believe in adjustable eights. I'll explain eight and a half and I'll explain that later, okay? But let me get into, for all you guys who are purple pill and you're looking for a relationship, why a lot of guys believe in a seven is the best option. Number one, they're humble, guys. They're more humble. Let me put it like this. They tend to be more humble. Okay, let me put it like that. Because we done seen a whole bunch of fives and sixes over there live with Kevin Samuels that thought, talking about something, they rated themselves eight nines and tens. All right, so let's just say they, I actually didn't know it was that bad to Kevin Samuels on YouTube. I swear to God, I really thought women was more humble than what they are. I did not know that many ugly ass women thought they were nines and tens. I mean, I'm just being fucking. uh serious i i can't explain to you guys about that all right but they tend to be more humble and that's because male attention the amount of male attention and validation that you get that was that's gonna fuck with anybody ego right that's just the way it go right if you're a guy right and women for whatever reason, and start throwing themselves at you and start giving you all this tension, well, obviously your ego and your confidence and your swagger gonna go up, all right? So typically... Before social particularly before social media women who were average looking didn't have these big egos right only time you seen average looking women had these egos were when they was in a position where they got a lot of male attention for instance I told you guys I dated a girl who worked at the gym years ago right and so I'm quite sure she thought she was a dime all right in my opinion I think she was like an eight and a half maybe eight and a half right Solid chick, you know, good, nice girl. But I wouldn't classify her as no 9 or 10. I would say she's maybe 8, 8 and a half. But with all the dudes running around the gym, chasing her ass and stuff, I'm quite sure she felt like a damn 10, all right? So unless a woman was in a position where she got a lot of male attention, like a bartender or a waitress or something like that, where men just, you know, you was in a position where a lot of men interacted with you, then a lot of average women wouldn't have these big egos because Men wasn't hitting on them all day, okay? So they tended to be humble. Now, obviously with social media, you can take a fucking six, five or six hippo, create a dating profile, and now she's a dime because of all the male attention makes her feel that way. That's just the way it works, guys, all right? That's just the way it works. If people giving you a lot of attention, you're gonna think you hotter than what you are. Savings tend to not get as much attention. And so they tend to be more humble, which means they are going to cater to their man more. All right. You don't expect to come home to a lot of hot meals. If you got a if you marry or you're in a relationship with a solid 10. Right. Who got people telling her every day she should model. And you think you're going to come home with a hot meal? Yeah, you might get one once a month. But guys, she's going to do the bare minimum because in her head. She don't feel like she have to she feels like you're lucky to be with her unless you're you know Really wealthy or got a lot of status she feels but if you're a typical guy here who got a hard-working job Making 85k a year and you got a certified dime. She don't feel like you lucky to have me I can have any man. I want I can have a ball. I can have a lawyer I can have a doctor and I chose you remember chili on that song baby, baby, baby in the in the arm She was saying, you know, I can have any man I want and I chose you. Oh, she wasn't playing. That's how she felt about the situation. So you're not going to get a lot of catering from a woman who has that mentality. She almost feel like you should go to work and come home and cook for her, even though she don't got a job, even if she don't got a job. That's how she feels. So for any of you guys that want a woman to cater to you, make you feel like you're the king, you can't expect that from a woman. who sees herself as a dime and you're lucky to have her that's just the way it works okay so if you're gonna go uh with a seven you expect a little bit more humbleness just because she don't have the option now social media them kind of screwed all this up and everybody thinks they hot shit now i get that but i'm just giving y'all guys it's not gonna be as bad as the nines and tens next guys Less competition. So, if most, so guys get a seven, right? Y'all guys, women been on this shit. I don't know if any of you guys are super young, but one thing that was, you know, that you heard percolating a lot back in the day was a woman did not like a super good looking handsome man. And I mean, I think I fall right in that category. I mean, I mean, it is what it is. But. Because they didn't want to deal with that competition. And a lot of you guys are going to find this out too. Women are conflicted, right? It's like on one hand, I want a high value man. But on one hand, do I want to deal with all that bullshit and competition that come along with it? So when you get a seven, you ain't got to worry about some baller coming by and stealing her. She's an average looking chick. So there's less competition. It's going to be easier to set dates with her. You ain't got to worry about hypergamy as much, okay? Hypergamy is always going to be there, but not as much. If you got a girl that's on the cover of Glamour magazine or one of these modeling magazines, I mean, any day now, I mean, any day. She got an Instagram profile. Let's say you get a girl that's a super hot chick. Let's not even assume she's modeling. right but let's just say she got a facebook or instagram any day now that bitch gonna be gone unless you're a very high earner very good earner and you know very good in bed or something a woman with that much competition let's see how long that lasts Let's see how long that last. I'm not saying it won't. Maybe you, you know, own your shit and you know how to maintain attraction and all this other shit. But you're going to have, you guys, y'all seen Michael Blackston on the Braves Club talking about Ben Simmons was in his fiancés and Ben Simmons was his boy. Could you imagine Ben Simmons? Ben Simmons make $30 million a year. Ben Simmons was in Michael Blackston's girls DMs. This is what you're going to deal with. This is what you're going to deal with. Ben Simmons. Dude, you know how fast it take a woman to Google Ben Simmons'salary and find out this dude make like $35 fucking million a year? Really? Uh, LeBron James was in some guy, you remember she exposed LeBron James? And she was dating a football player and she exposed him, he was in her DMs, having some what's up? And she exposed him, that was about maybe four, five years ago. This LeBron James! Yo girl DMs! She was a hot little chick, I can't remember, but I think she was a white girl. And LeBron James, LeBron James is in your DMs. Now, she exposed it or whatever, but the point being, and the other girl told Michael Blackson, but this is what I'm talking about when you get these hot chicks like this, right? So when you got these super hot chicks, you get Ben Simmons and you get LeBron James in the fucking DMs. I'm quite sure that one of the only goddamn guys, ballers, rappers in the fucking DMs. So this is what you're dealing with. LeBron James is not going to be in the DMs of a seven. I'm just, it ain't going down. All right? It ain't going down. Ben Simmons is not going to be in the DMs of a seven. You just don't have to deal with all these high-earning-ass men all in your girl DMs and shit. If you got a girl that's a 10, you better get her ass off Instagram. Or unless you got a private profile or something like that, or she don't take very sexy pictures. Because if that bitch got a public profile and she posting, you know, quote unquote, and I don't mean even in bikini pics. I'm just talking about like in a sexy dress. You best believe some ball is going to be in them goddamn DMs. Whether she tell you or not, I don't fucking know. But I promise you, if her profile is public and she in on some sexy dresses, some shorts on, I guarantee you some ballers are going to be in her damn DMs. All right? You don't have to worry about that as much with sevens. Next, the next reason sevens. They look good enough not to embarrass you. You know, that's why we don't go to the adjustable fives and six. The seven is the bitch don't make me look bad. Like you ain't hot, but I don't got to goddamn hide and run when my friends, I see my friends and I'm out with your little glass. All right guys, any of you guys who've ever tried to date, I had somebody set me up on a blind date with a chick. She had to be a five and a half blind date. And I'm just like, I'm going to kill this motherfucker, man. Set me on a blind date with him. I, you know, I can't remember. I don't even know if he had, I don't know how that shit went down or whatever. I can't even remember in detail, but I know it was a blind date. All right. Cause this was, this was pre dating apps way 2002. Right. So I don't, I don't know if he met her through a friend. I don't know how the shit would work. Right. Maybe he never saw it and somebody gave her the number and asked her, did she know he knows somebody or whatever. However the shit went down. I mean, and I'm being generous. Five, let's be generous. Five and a half. The girl was so nice and sweet and I'm not gonna lie my hypergamy kicked in a little bit the bitch was uh worked for CBS she made six figures uh she had a a condo in Florida and her daddy had a car lot and my hypergamy kicked in y'all don't understand guys I want no high earning man at this time high value high earning well anything with high in it All right, the only thing I was running hot in was a high debt. That's the only thing I had at that point, high debt. So this is like 2002, 2001, some shit like that, right? So this is when AMS was struggling, right? And then my hypergamy started kicking in. I said, damn, daddy on the car lot, she work for CVS. She got a condo in Florida on the beach. God damn, my hypergamy kicked in. Her brother worked for the title loan spot. He had a nice house. I said, got my hypergamy kicked in. I said, damn, this bitch kind of ugly, but she got a lot going for her. So let's try! I tried, I tried, you know, I was like, you know, the bitch making six figures, you gotta understand, this is Alabama, alright, and I'm just like, man, it's done, maybe I just put a bag over here, you know, any of you guys, any of you guys ever tried to date a woman who made a lot of money and you ain't make a lot of money and you try to rationalize in your head all type of ways, I'm gonna do this, do that, but the bitch was embarrassing to go out with, so I went out with her three dates and I ended up just, you know, breaking it off. and just telling her that it didn't work or whatever. I just can't be seen with the ugly bitch. I just can't. And the straw that broke the camel back, when the bitch wanted to go to a basketball game, I still remember the bitch wanted to go to a basketball game. I'm thinking to myself, how many people going to be at that damn basketball game? Hell no. When you go to a restaurant, you know, 15 people in there, 20 people in there. Okay, I can kind of like hide behind the lampshade. It ain't that bad. Basketball game? Oh, hell no. Hell no. what we took my three four five i mean i don't know there's a lot of people in there who i might see some old classmates some old workers some people i'm working with now hell no hell no now had she just been a seven if she would have just been seven i could have dealt with it but hell no no ain't no mountain high enough I don't give a fuck how big your bank account is. I don't give a fuck if your daddy got the biggest car lot in the South. I don't give a goddamn if your brother own Title Max. I don't give a damn if you own CBS. I ain't going with your goddamn ugly ass in no goddamn basketball game. So at least a 7 is respectable that you won't be embarrassed being seen with the ugly bitch, right? That's why he said adjustable 7. not adjustable five okay adjustable six seven is okay people see you with her it's not okay all right she look okay you know if you a friend catch you or a co-worker see you they don't be looking they'll look like okay she's cute little girl you know that's how that's that what people say about a seven right they don't say she's beautiful or pretty they say oh that's a cute yes she a cute little girl right so but no no but that's why adjustable seven next guys they tend to make their own money since they pretty much figured out a long time ago that they might not be able to nab a high-earning man right so if you're a girl that's a set when you're a nine or a ten men been throwing money at you since she was goddamn uh 13 14 years old boys boys was throwing money at you when you was in fucking middle school little boys was giving you goddamn their little lunch money then so you pretty much if you're a nine or a ten You've been probably figured out a long time ago that I might be able to get a man to take care of me and use your looks for that. You know, you figure these things out, right? When I was in middle school, I figured out, you know, girls kind of find me attractive, you know? And so that made me a pussy, man. You kind of figure these things out. So women, if you're 9 or 10, you figure that if you're 7, you probably didn't get as much. So you tend to focus more on getting your shit in order. Now you say... AMS, I thought you said a man shouldn't worry about a woman's finances or money. We don't care about that. True, if you red pill like me. If you're a purple pill guy and you're looking for a relationship or a wife and you fall in that category, then you most certainly should be looking at a woman's finances. Because that shit is going to fall on you. So if you're a red pill guy and you just date women and you're not looking for the relationship, money should not even enter the discussion. What the fuck does it matter, right? But if I'm getting, if I, if AMS was to go purple pill, which ain't finna happen no damn time soon, if ever, you very goddamn well, I need to know what you making a year and I need to know what, how much debt you in and what your credit score. Because all that shit falls on me. If you ain't doing shit and we go get a crib or everything and you sit over here making goddamn 15 grand a year, then everything falls on me. You ain't doing a goddamn thing. All right. Now, unless you're a very high earning guy, that's going to matter. If you're an average hard-working guy that's making 50 60 grand a year what the fuck you want a woman that's making 15 20 grand a year you don't make enough money to carry her like that particularly if you're talking about having some kids so if you're a purple pill guy if you make 50 then you want her to at least be making 35 something like that now y'all can pull that wagon together and get something you can't get nothing if you are average joe making 50 60 grand a year and she owe him ain't making shit 15 20 grand yeah what the hell what you gonna pay the light bill then she can't do shit everything falls on you so it most certainly should matter if you're a purple pill guy not if you red pill all right so from my from my life experiences the more beautiful a woman is the less likely she is not all the time don't all police i do know we got some pretty lawyers out there we got some nine piece lawyers doctor i get it guys y'all know i'm talking about the overwhelming majority all right the overwhelming majority of nines and tens are women who are out here trying to find them a baller to take care of them y'all know that i don't have to tell y'all guys that next guys um they tend to not be attention seekers all women every woman your mama your grandmama like attention but there's a difference between liking attention and seeking attention the sevens pretty much figured out a long time ago They just not that girl. They not the girl that's gonna just turn heads. They pretty much got that. The nines and tens tend to be attention whores like a motherfucker. They just crave it all day long because they've been getting it all their life and it has become a drug and addiction. If you a fucking six or a seven, you haven't gotten that attention. And you see a lot of average women now making these, I don't have pretty. Privilege videos on YouTube you see what I'm saying they they kind of get it right they kind of get it if you're an average looking woman that you're not gonna have that privilege all right you they pretty much get what they're not stupid right guys women are not stupid now some women have got gotten delusional with social media and stuff and they thinking they nice and tense but in the real world when they get off them day naps they know they not nice and tense When savants walk in the mall, they know they're not turning heads, guys. They know they're not. They're not turning heads. So that causes them not to seek attention as much. Don't get me wrong, they love it. Hey, everybody, hell, I like attention. I'm a man. Hell, I like attention. If I see some women just turn and look at me, hell, I like it. I scream my shoulders up a little bit. So everybody like attention. I don't want y'all guys to think, oh, MS says savants don't like attention. Oh, yes, hell, they do. But they don't actively seek it like the nines and tens from what I've seen in my life. They don't actively seek it. Nines and tens, seek it. That's just ridiculous. How many sevens do y'all guys see? Sevens do y'all guys see posting thirst traps on YouTube? It's mostly going to be the hotter women. You don't see too many sixes and sevens posting thirst traps. Now, if you do see some women like that, they think they are nine or ten. Women who accept the fact that they're sixes and sevens, they don't do that. You will see some sevens post thirst traps on YouTube that think they nine, I mean, Instagram, that think they nines and tens. And you can tell they think they're nine or ten by how they looking at the camera. Like, I'm hot shit, bitch, please. Right? So that's all the things that you, and for all your guys that say, well, what does that matter, AMS? What does that matter? Guys, that's annoying. That's annoying to have a woman. to be in a relationship with a woman that's an attention seeker you don't need that you want a woman that's in a relationship that's gotten that out of her system that's like getting in a relationship with a woman that still loves to go to the club you don't want to when you go get these nines and tens do you want a woman that's what what bitch you still got the help wanted sign in the window what the hell is this shit Right? If I got a woman that constantly needs that attention and you got to constantly dress like a slut, you can dress sexy. But women who love attention, they need to dress like a slut. They need all eyes on them all the time. They need to press thirst traps. Bitch, we've been married for 10 years, but yet you got thirst traps on YouTube because you need that. You need that all the time. You don't want to be bothered with that shit. Right? So when you go get these nines and tens, you don't want to be bothered with a woman that's still on YouTube pressing thirst traps in a relationship. Do Savannah James post thirst traps on YouTube? I mean Instagram? That's LeBron James'wife. Do Kobe Bryant's wife post thirst traps on YouTube? I mean, you want women that got that shit out of their system, you know, but when you go get these nines and tens, they ain't got that shit out of their system, you'll be married for 20 years, they still on that post and thirst traps. They still need to feel beautiful, because you know why they ain't got addicted to it? Because they been getting it since they were fucking four years old. They addicted to it. Okay guys, so I'm just putting that out there that that's another issue you're going to run into when you get with these nines and tens. They're addiction for attention. All women like attention, but there's a difference between seeking it and just liking it. Okay guys, now let's talk about why I don't suggest you guys to get... with a seven and why i say an eight and a half is done right one guys you're gonna get tired of fucking them very quick and guys gonna say well ams you said that no matter how hot a chick is you get tired of fucking them and that's true i do the volume of it the fucking goes down it won't stop completely so like you No matter how hot a chick is, she could be a 12. At some point, you will get tired of fucking her, but it don't stop completely, right? So say you got a dime and you're fucking her every day, twice a day, right? Granted, that's not going to last. But I guarantee you, if she's a hot dime and she maintains herself, 10 years from now, you still be fucking her three times a week. She still turn you on. Maybe you don't fuck her three times a day like you did at the beginning. Maybe that, I give you that, right? You know when you get a hot chick and y'all fucking like dogs four times a day when you first meet her? Listen, that won't last. But when you go get with a seven, over time it'll just stop completely. So maybe once a month if you're lucky. So when you get with a dime, you still, ten years from now, you still a fucker two, three times a week. You get with a seven, six months from now, she'll be lucky to get dick once a month. That's going to cause an issue, guys. When a woman feels that way about insecurities, that's one thing. This could cause her to cheat to get that validation, that sexual validation and sexiness from another guy. All right? It can cause arguments because now she can think you cheating on her because, hey, you know what the old saying is? If he's not getting it at home, he must be getting it from somewhere else. So that's going to cause an issue. So it doesn't... Work. When I was fucking with that girl at the gym, it was fucking her so bad that we wasn't having sex at the end that she was talking about, you act like I got a smell or something. That's how bad me not fucking her got to her head. That she literally started thinking like, you act like I smell or something. That's the shit you're going to be dealing with, guys. It's not a good thing. All right? So that's one reason why I say don't get with a seven. Next, you won't put that much effort into the relationship. Man's effort level goes hand in hand with our attraction level. No attraction, no effort. Hey baby, you want to go out to dinner Saturday night? I'm going to spend $200 to take your ass out. It's no effort. Because you don't really care. Because you're not that attracted. If it's a woman that you're really attracted to, you want to keep her happy. Because you're attracted to her. Men's love and attraction level go hand in hand. So if you're not putting that effort in, the relationship is going to dissolve anyway. That's why these things don't work. Because if you're not putting the effort in, then the woman is going to start feeling a certain type of way eventually. And then she's going to lose attachment or whatever love she has for you. And it's just a matter of fact, it's going to dissolve anyway. That's why you can't go with a girl you perceive as a seven. Relationships require effort on both parties. And if you're with a woman that you don't find attractive, you're not going to put that effort in. Next guys, you won't experience true love. So for all my purple pill guys who are going to get married or be in long-term relationships, let me explain what I mean. A lot of you guys, and some of you guys might be in relationships now, and you think you're in love. That's not love. A lot of you guys don't know the difference between loving the ideal of being with somebody or loving the ideal of not being lonely versus loving the person. That's two totally different things. And this is what I mean by being in love with the ideal of not being alone. That means that if another woman or a better option came your way, you would just throw her to the side. She's not really what you want. but she's the best you can get now and so you just take that and you accept that that's not love that's not true love that's just i don't want to be alone you want true love true love and i only believe a man can get that from a woman he perceives as a nine or a ten a eight if you get with an eight and a half The attraction from her personality and all the things she do for you can grow that to a 9 or a 10. When a woman is a seven, she would never make it that far. There's only so much your attraction, your personality can bring that up. If a woman is a seven to you, there's not enough blowjobs and meals that she can prepare for you that's going to make you start looking at her as a dime. An eight and a half, yes. A seven, no. She might make it to an eight, eight and a half, but she won't make it to a nine or a ten. There ain't enough food that she can cook to do that. There ain't enough back rubs she can do that. There ain't enough foot rubs she can do to do that. It's just not. So you won't experience true love. So if you're a guy that want to experience true dime passion love, right? I think it's got to be an eight and a half. if you want to experience that. Any guys on here right now that are dating women or in a relationship with a woman they perceive as a seven, ask yourself, do you really think you truly in love with that woman? Or are you just in love with the ideal of being with somebody? Two different things, guys. Totally two different things. That means that if you think that you truly in love, that means that whoever that hot girl that you really find hot on Instagram, that if she wanted to be in a relationship with you, The girl you're with now, you would tell her, you would tell that other woman on Instagram, no, this is who I want to be with right here. Nobody could take her place. Ask yourself. And I'm talking, and if you're a married guy, I'm talking about take out the financial responsibilities and stuff or consequences of getting a divorce and stuff and ask yourself, if I removed all that, would I still choose this woman? Most of you would say no. Most of you would say no. Most of you are in a relationship out of convenience. She's good enough. She's got another good attributes, right? And I don't want to be single alone. So that's why a lot of guys be in relationships. It's out of convenience. All right? Scarcity, whatever you want to call it, right? All right. So you won't experience true love, guys. Next, guys, you'll feel a certain type of way when you see women that you find very hot, right? Guys, ain't no worse feeling in the world than to be with an average-looking woman and then to go somewhere, restaurant, club, grocery store, whatever the fuck ever, and you see a super hot chick, that shit will eat your ass alive. And you'll just think to yourself, what the fuck am I doing with my life? What the hell am I doing with my life? Now, you always gonna see hot chicks, but when you with a girl that's a 9 or a 10 in you, or 8 and a half, that's done got, you know... Your attraction made her, she done grew on you enough to make her look like a nine or a ten from all the other attributes. You'll say, shit, she fine, but my girl fine too, right? So you always going to see hot chicks. That's never going to end. But when you got a hot chick or a woman you perceive as hot, shit, my girl hot too. Shit, you don't feel a certain type of way, but when you with an average looking woman, man, old flat booty ass woman or average, whatever, right? flat chested ass woman whatever whatever you that turns you on and you girl ain't really got that shit that just like just eats at you you just think about man i would love to fuck the shit out of you that's not a good feeling guys and imagine being in a relationship or getting married or something like this you want to deal with that for the rest of your life That's all I'm saying guys. So it's just something to think about. If you want to do this, you want to get with a girl that's going to be hot for you. If you're going to be proper pure, get a woman that's going to be hot. So you don't have to deal with that every time. You want to go in a restaurant and you with an average looking chick, man, or average looking than you at least. And then it's the girl that's just like super hot the whole time. You just like, but you don't want to be too direct because you know your girl, she's looking at you because she see the hot chick. Right? Women, average looking women, they see those chicks. They know. They know you want to look. Right? They're not stupid. They know, oh shit, she's super hot. Then they kind of looking at you out the corner of the eye. And then you looking up here like you don't see all that. You see all that ass. So you don't want to deal with that shit, guys. And lastly, guys. personality can make them more attractive but it only can do so much all right it only can do so much it won't improve the sex life so I get it a lot of guys don't say well a mess She can grow on me or over time and love that you you won't never experience that personality can only carry so much I understand that sevens tend to cater to their man better or you know They have better personalities because they're more humble But at the end of the day guys personality can only do so much only so much so you that's that's just what I think about the situation guys All right. So like I say do an eight and a half If you're lucky enough and you can get a 9 or a 10 that's got all those attributes, then you're lucky. But theoretically speaking, you're better off probably finding off like an 8.5 and letting her grow on you. Alright guys, so that's my answer to any guys who... I've heard this shit too before in life guys, that the best women are like average salmons and shit like that. Whatever guys. Alright, I'll get back with you guys later.

But let me get into, for all you guys who are purple pill and you're looking for a relationship, why a lot of guys believe in a seven is the best option. Number one, they're humble, guys. They're more humble. Let me put it like this. They tend to be more humble.

Okay, let me put it like that. Because we done seen a whole bunch of fives and sixes over there live with Kevin Samuels that thought, talking about something, they rated themselves eight nines and tens. All right, so let's just say they, I actually didn't know it was that bad to Kevin Samuels on YouTube.

I swear to God, I really thought women was more humble than what they are. I did not know that many ugly ass women thought they were nines and tens. I mean, I'm just being fucking.

uh serious i i can't explain to you guys about that all right but they tend to be more humble and that's because male attention the amount of male attention and validation that you get that was that's gonna fuck with anybody ego right that's just the way it go right if you're a guy right and women for whatever reason, and start throwing themselves at you and start giving you all this tension, well, obviously your ego and your confidence and your swagger gonna go up, all right? So typically... Before social particularly before social media women who were average looking didn't have these big egos right only time you seen average looking women had these egos were when they was in a position where they got a lot of male attention for instance I told you guys I dated a girl who worked at the gym years ago right and so I'm quite sure she thought she was a dime all right in my opinion I think she was like an eight and a half maybe eight and a half right Solid chick, you know, good, nice girl. But I wouldn't classify her as no 9 or 10. I would say she's maybe 8, 8 and a half. But with all the dudes running around the gym, chasing her ass and stuff, I'm quite sure she felt like a damn 10, all right?

So unless a woman was in a position where she got a lot of male attention, like a bartender or a waitress or something like that, where men just, you know, you was in a position where a lot of men interacted with you, then a lot of average women wouldn't have these big egos because Men wasn't hitting on them all day, okay? So they tended to be humble. Now, obviously with social media, you can take a fucking six, five or six hippo, create a dating profile, and now she's a dime because of all the male attention makes her feel that way. That's just the way it works, guys, all right? That's just the way it works.

If people giving you a lot of attention, you're gonna think you hotter than what you are. Savings tend to not get as much attention. And so they tend to be more humble, which means they are going to cater to their man more.

All right. You don't expect to come home to a lot of hot meals. If you got a if you marry or you're in a relationship with a solid 10. Right. Who got people telling her every day she should model. And you think you're going to come home with a hot meal?

Yeah, you might get one once a month. But guys, she's going to do the bare minimum because in her head. She don't feel like she have to she feels like you're lucky to be with her unless you're you know Really wealthy or got a lot of status she feels but if you're a typical guy here who got a hard-working job Making 85k a year and you got a certified dime. She don't feel like you lucky to have me I can have any man.

I want I can have a ball. I can have a lawyer I can have a doctor and I chose you remember chili on that song baby, baby, baby in the in the arm She was saying, you know, I can have any man I want and I chose you. Oh, she wasn't playing.

That's how she felt about the situation. So you're not going to get a lot of catering from a woman who has that mentality. She almost feel like you should go to work and come home and cook for her, even though she don't got a job, even if she don't got a job.

That's how she feels. So for any of you guys that want a woman to cater to you, make you feel like you're the king, you can't expect that from a woman. who sees herself as a dime and you're lucky to have her that's just the way it works okay so if you're gonna go uh with a seven you expect a little bit more humbleness just because she don't have the option now social media them kind of screwed all this up and everybody thinks they hot shit now i get that but i'm just giving y'all guys it's not gonna be as bad as the nines and tens next guys Less competition.

So, if most, so guys get a seven, right? Y'all guys, women been on this shit. I don't know if any of you guys are super young, but one thing that was, you know, that you heard percolating a lot back in the day was a woman did not like a super good looking handsome man.

And I mean, I think I fall right in that category. I mean, I mean, it is what it is. But. Because they didn't want to deal with that competition. And a lot of you guys are going to find this out too.

Women are conflicted, right? It's like on one hand, I want a high value man. But on one hand, do I want to deal with all that bullshit and competition that come along with it?

So when you get a seven, you ain't got to worry about some baller coming by and stealing her. She's an average looking chick. So there's less competition.

It's going to be easier to set dates with her. You ain't got to worry about hypergamy as much, okay? Hypergamy is always going to be there, but not as much. If you got a girl that's on the cover of Glamour magazine or one of these modeling magazines, I mean, any day now, I mean, any day.

She got an Instagram profile. Let's say you get a girl that's a super hot chick. Let's not even assume she's modeling.

right but let's just say she got a facebook or instagram any day now that bitch gonna be gone unless you're a very high earner very good earner and you know very good in bed or something a woman with that much competition let's see how long that lasts Let's see how long that last. I'm not saying it won't. Maybe you, you know, own your shit and you know how to maintain attraction and all this other shit.

But you're going to have, you guys, y'all seen Michael Blackston on the Braves Club talking about Ben Simmons was in his fiancés and Ben Simmons was his boy. Could you imagine Ben Simmons? Ben Simmons make $30 million a year. Ben Simmons was in Michael Blackston's girls DMs.

This is what you're going to deal with. This is what you're going to deal with. Ben Simmons.

Dude, you know how fast it take a woman to Google Ben Simmons'salary and find out this dude make like $35 fucking million a year? Really? Uh, LeBron James was in some guy, you remember she exposed LeBron James?

And she was dating a football player and she exposed him, he was in her DMs, having some what's up? And she exposed him, that was about maybe four, five years ago. This LeBron James! Yo girl DMs!

She was a hot little chick, I can't remember, but I think she was a white girl. And LeBron James, LeBron James is in your DMs. Now, she exposed it or whatever, but the point being, and the other girl told Michael Blackson, but this is what I'm talking about when you get these hot chicks like this, right?

So when you got these super hot chicks, you get Ben Simmons and you get LeBron James in the fucking DMs. I'm quite sure that one of the only goddamn guys, ballers, rappers in the fucking DMs. So this is what you're dealing with.

LeBron James is not going to be in the DMs of a seven. I'm just, it ain't going down. All right?

It ain't going down. Ben Simmons is not going to be in the DMs of a seven. You just don't have to deal with all these high-earning-ass men all in your girl DMs and shit.

If you got a girl that's a 10, you better get her ass off Instagram. Or unless you got a private profile or something like that, or she don't take very sexy pictures. Because if that bitch got a public profile and she posting, you know, quote unquote, and I don't mean even in bikini pics. I'm just talking about like in a sexy dress.

You best believe some ball is going to be in them goddamn DMs. Whether she tell you or not, I don't fucking know. But I promise you, if her profile is public and she in on some sexy dresses, some shorts on, I guarantee you some ballers are going to be in her damn DMs.

All right? You don't have to worry about that as much with sevens. Next, the next reason sevens. They look good enough not to embarrass you. You know, that's why we don't go to the adjustable fives and six.

The seven is the bitch don't make me look bad. Like you ain't hot, but I don't got to goddamn hide and run when my friends, I see my friends and I'm out with your little glass. All right guys, any of you guys who've ever tried to date, I had somebody set me up on a blind date with a chick.

She had to be a five and a half blind date. And I'm just like, I'm going to kill this motherfucker, man. Set me on a blind date with him.

I, you know, I can't remember. I don't even know if he had, I don't know how that shit went down or whatever. I can't even remember in detail, but I know it was a blind date.

All right. Cause this was, this was pre dating apps way 2002. Right. So I don't, I don't know if he met her through a friend.

I don't know how the shit would work. Right. Maybe he never saw it and somebody gave her the number and asked her, did she know he knows somebody or whatever.

However the shit went down. I mean, and I'm being generous. Five, let's be generous.

Five and a half. The girl was so nice and sweet and I'm not gonna lie my hypergamy kicked in a little bit the bitch was uh worked for CBS she made six figures uh she had a a condo in Florida and her daddy had a car lot and my hypergamy kicked in y'all don't understand guys I want no high earning man at this time high value high earning well anything with high in it All right, the only thing I was running hot in was a high debt. That's the only thing I had at that point, high debt. So this is like 2002, 2001, some shit like that, right?

So this is when AMS was struggling, right? And then my hypergamy started kicking in. I said, damn, daddy on the car lot, she work for CVS. She got a condo in Florida on the beach.

God damn, my hypergamy kicked in. Her brother worked for the title loan spot. He had a nice house.

I said, got my hypergamy kicked in. I said, damn, this bitch kind of ugly, but she got a lot going for her. So let's try!

I tried, I tried, you know, I was like, you know, the bitch making six figures, you gotta understand, this is Alabama, alright, and I'm just like, man, it's done, maybe I just put a bag over here, you know, any of you guys, any of you guys ever tried to date a woman who made a lot of money and you ain't make a lot of money and you try to rationalize in your head all type of ways, I'm gonna do this, do that, but the bitch was embarrassing to go out with, so I went out with her three dates and I ended up just, you know, breaking it off. and just telling her that it didn't work or whatever. I just can't be seen with the ugly bitch. I just can't.

And the straw that broke the camel back, when the bitch wanted to go to a basketball game, I still remember the bitch wanted to go to a basketball game. I'm thinking to myself, how many people going to be at that damn basketball game? Hell no.

When you go to a restaurant, you know, 15 people in there, 20 people in there. Okay, I can kind of like hide behind the lampshade. It ain't that bad. Basketball game? Oh, hell no.

Hell no. what we took my three four five i mean i don't know there's a lot of people in there who i might see some old classmates some old workers some people i'm working with now hell no hell no now had she just been a seven if she would have just been seven i could have dealt with it but hell no no ain't no mountain high enough I don't give a fuck how big your bank account is. I don't give a fuck if your daddy got the biggest car lot in the South. I don't give a goddamn if your brother own Title Max. I don't give a damn if you own CBS. I ain't going with your goddamn ugly ass in no goddamn basketball game.

So at least a 7 is respectable that you won't be embarrassed being seen with the ugly bitch, right? That's why he said adjustable 7. not adjustable five okay adjustable six seven is okay people see you with her it's not okay all right she look okay you know if you a friend catch you or a co-worker see you they don't be looking they'll look like okay she's cute little girl you know that's how that's that what people say about a seven right they don't say she's beautiful or pretty they say oh that's a cute yes she a cute little girl right so but no no but that's why adjustable seven next guys they tend to make their own money since they pretty much figured out a long time ago that they might not be able to nab a high-earning man right so if you're a girl that's a set when you're a nine or a ten men been throwing money at you since she was goddamn uh 13 14 years old boys boys was throwing money at you when you was in fucking middle school little boys was giving you goddamn their little lunch money then so you pretty much if you're a nine or a ten You've been probably figured out a long time ago that I might be able to get a man to take care of me and use your looks for that. You know, you figure these things out, right? When I was in middle school, I figured out, you know, girls kind of find me attractive, you know?

And so that made me a pussy, man. You kind of figure these things out. So women, if you're 9 or 10, you figure that if you're 7, you probably didn't get as much.

So you tend to focus more on getting your shit in order. Now you say... AMS, I thought you said a man shouldn't worry about a woman's finances or money. We don't care about that.

True, if you red pill like me. If you're a purple pill guy and you're looking for a relationship or a wife and you fall in that category, then you most certainly should be looking at a woman's finances. Because that shit is going to fall on you.

So if you're a red pill guy and you just date women and you're not looking for the relationship, money should not even enter the discussion. What the fuck does it matter, right? But if I'm getting, if I, if AMS was to go purple pill, which ain't finna happen no damn time soon, if ever, you very goddamn well, I need to know what you making a year and I need to know what, how much debt you in and what your credit score.

Because all that shit falls on me. If you ain't doing shit and we go get a crib or everything and you sit over here making goddamn 15 grand a year, then everything falls on me. You ain't doing a goddamn thing. All right. Now, unless you're a very high earning guy, that's going to matter.

If you're an average hard-working guy that's making 50 60 grand a year what the fuck you want a woman that's making 15 20 grand a year you don't make enough money to carry her like that particularly if you're talking about having some kids so if you're a purple pill guy if you make 50 then you want her to at least be making 35 something like that now y'all can pull that wagon together and get something you can't get nothing if you are average joe making 50 60 grand a year and she owe him ain't making shit 15 20 grand yeah what the hell what you gonna pay the light bill then she can't do shit everything falls on you so it most certainly should matter if you're a purple pill guy not if you red pill all right so from my from my life experiences the more beautiful a woman is the less likely she is not all the time don't all police i do know we got some pretty lawyers out there we got some nine piece lawyers doctor i get it guys y'all know i'm talking about the overwhelming majority all right the overwhelming majority of nines and tens are women who are out here trying to find them a baller to take care of them y'all know that i don't have to tell y'all guys that next guys um they tend to not be attention seekers all women every woman your mama your grandmama like attention but there's a difference between liking attention and seeking attention the sevens pretty much figured out a long time ago They just not that girl. They not the girl that's gonna just turn heads. They pretty much got that.

The nines and tens tend to be attention whores like a motherfucker. They just crave it all day long because they've been getting it all their life and it has become a drug and addiction. If you a fucking six or a seven, you haven't gotten that attention. And you see a lot of average women now making these, I don't have pretty.

Privilege videos on YouTube you see what I'm saying they they kind of get it right they kind of get it if you're an average looking woman that you're not gonna have that privilege all right you they pretty much get what they're not stupid right guys women are not stupid now some women have got gotten delusional with social media and stuff and they thinking they nice and tense but in the real world when they get off them day naps they know they not nice and tense When savants walk in the mall, they know they're not turning heads, guys. They know they're not. They're not turning heads.

So that causes them not to seek attention as much. Don't get me wrong, they love it. Hey, everybody, hell, I like attention.

I'm a man. Hell, I like attention. If I see some women just turn and look at me, hell, I like it.

I scream my shoulders up a little bit. So everybody like attention. I don't want y'all guys to think, oh, MS says savants don't like attention. Oh, yes, hell, they do.

But they don't actively seek it like the nines and tens from what I've seen in my life. They don't actively seek it. Nines and tens, seek it.

That's just ridiculous. How many sevens do y'all guys see? Sevens do y'all guys see posting thirst traps on YouTube? It's mostly going to be the hotter women. You don't see too many sixes and sevens posting thirst traps.

Now, if you do see some women like that, they think they are nine or ten. Women who accept the fact that they're sixes and sevens, they don't do that. You will see some sevens post thirst traps on YouTube that think they nine, I mean, Instagram, that think they nines and tens. And you can tell they think they're nine or ten by how they looking at the camera.

Like, I'm hot shit, bitch, please. Right? So that's all the things that you, and for all your guys that say, well, what does that matter, AMS?

What does that matter? Guys, that's annoying. That's annoying to have a woman.

to be in a relationship with a woman that's an attention seeker you don't need that you want a woman that's in a relationship that's gotten that out of her system that's like getting in a relationship with a woman that still loves to go to the club you don't want to when you go get these nines and tens do you want a woman that's what what bitch you still got the help wanted sign in the window what the hell is this shit Right? If I got a woman that constantly needs that attention and you got to constantly dress like a slut, you can dress sexy. But women who love attention, they need to dress like a slut.

They need all eyes on them all the time. They need to press thirst traps. Bitch, we've been married for 10 years, but yet you got thirst traps on YouTube because you need that.

You need that all the time. You don't want to be bothered with that shit. Right?

So when you go get these nines and tens, you don't want to be bothered with a woman that's still on YouTube pressing thirst traps in a relationship. Do Savannah James post thirst traps on YouTube? I mean Instagram? That's LeBron James'wife. Do Kobe Bryant's wife post thirst traps on YouTube?

I mean, you want women that got that shit out of their system, you know, but when you go get these nines and tens, they ain't got that shit out of their system, you'll be married for 20 years, they still on that post and thirst traps. They still need to feel beautiful, because you know why they ain't got addicted to it? Because they been getting it since they were fucking four years old. They addicted to it. Okay guys, so I'm just putting that out there that that's another issue you're going to run into when you get with these nines and tens.

They're addiction for attention. All women like attention, but there's a difference between seeking it and just liking it. Okay guys, now let's talk about why I don't suggest you guys to get... with a seven and why i say an eight and a half is done right one guys you're gonna get tired of fucking them very quick and guys gonna say well ams you said that no matter how hot a chick is you get tired of fucking them and that's true i do the volume of it the fucking goes down it won't stop completely so like you No matter how hot a chick is, she could be a 12. At some point, you will get tired of fucking her, but it don't stop completely, right?

So say you got a dime and you're fucking her every day, twice a day, right? Granted, that's not going to last. But I guarantee you, if she's a hot dime and she maintains herself, 10 years from now, you still be fucking her three times a week. She still turn you on. Maybe you don't fuck her three times a day like you did at the beginning.

Maybe that, I give you that, right? You know when you get a hot chick and y'all fucking like dogs four times a day when you first meet her? Listen, that won't last. But when you go get with a seven, over time it'll just stop completely. So maybe once a month if you're lucky.

So when you get with a dime, you still, ten years from now, you still a fucker two, three times a week. You get with a seven, six months from now, she'll be lucky to get dick once a month. That's going to cause an issue, guys.

When a woman feels that way about insecurities, that's one thing. This could cause her to cheat to get that validation, that sexual validation and sexiness from another guy. All right?

It can cause arguments because now she can think you cheating on her because, hey, you know what the old saying is? If he's not getting it at home, he must be getting it from somewhere else. So that's going to cause an issue. So it doesn't... Work.

When I was fucking with that girl at the gym, it was fucking her so bad that we wasn't having sex at the end that she was talking about, you act like I got a smell or something. That's how bad me not fucking her got to her head. That she literally started thinking like, you act like I smell or something. That's the shit you're going to be dealing with, guys.

It's not a good thing. All right? So that's one reason why I say don't get with a seven. Next, you won't put that much effort into the relationship. Man's effort level goes hand in hand with our attraction level.

No attraction, no effort. Hey baby, you want to go out to dinner Saturday night? I'm going to spend $200 to take your ass out.

It's no effort. Because you don't really care. Because you're not that attracted. If it's a woman that you're really attracted to, you want to keep her happy.

Because you're attracted to her. Men's love and attraction level go hand in hand. So if you're not putting that effort in, the relationship is going to dissolve anyway. That's why these things don't work.

Because if you're not putting the effort in, then the woman is going to start feeling a certain type of way eventually. And then she's going to lose attachment or whatever love she has for you. And it's just a matter of fact, it's going to dissolve anyway.

That's why you can't go with a girl you perceive as a seven. Relationships require effort on both parties. And if you're with a woman that you don't find attractive, you're not going to put that effort in.

Next guys, you won't experience true love. So for all my purple pill guys who are going to get married or be in long-term relationships, let me explain what I mean. A lot of you guys, and some of you guys might be in relationships now, and you think you're in love.

That's not love. A lot of you guys don't know the difference between loving the ideal of being with somebody or loving the ideal of not being lonely versus loving the person. That's two totally different things. And this is what I mean by being in love with the ideal of not being alone.

That means that if another woman or a better option came your way, you would just throw her to the side. She's not really what you want. but she's the best you can get now and so you just take that and you accept that that's not love that's not true love that's just i don't want to be alone you want true love true love and i only believe a man can get that from a woman he perceives as a nine or a ten a eight if you get with an eight and a half The attraction from her personality and all the things she do for you can grow that to a 9 or a 10. When a woman is a seven, she would never make it that far. There's only so much your attraction, your personality can bring that up. If a woman is a seven to you, there's not enough blowjobs and meals that she can prepare for you that's going to make you start looking at her as a dime.

An eight and a half, yes. A seven, no. She might make it to an eight, eight and a half, but she won't make it to a nine or a ten.

There ain't enough food that she can cook to do that. There ain't enough back rubs she can do that. There ain't enough foot rubs she can do to do that. It's just not. So you won't experience true love.

So if you're a guy that want to experience true dime passion love, right? I think it's got to be an eight and a half. if you want to experience that.

Any guys on here right now that are dating women or in a relationship with a woman they perceive as a seven, ask yourself, do you really think you truly in love with that woman? Or are you just in love with the ideal of being with somebody? Two different things, guys.

Totally two different things. That means that if you think that you truly in love, that means that whoever that hot girl that you really find hot on Instagram, that if she wanted to be in a relationship with you, The girl you're with now, you would tell her, you would tell that other woman on Instagram, no, this is who I want to be with right here. Nobody could take her place. Ask yourself. And I'm talking, and if you're a married guy, I'm talking about take out the financial responsibilities and stuff or consequences of getting a divorce and stuff and ask yourself, if I removed all that, would I still choose this woman?

Most of you would say no. Most of you would say no. Most of you are in a relationship out of convenience. She's good enough.

She's got another good attributes, right? And I don't want to be single alone. So that's why a lot of guys be in relationships. It's out of convenience. All right?

Scarcity, whatever you want to call it, right? All right. So you won't experience true love, guys. Next, guys, you'll feel a certain type of way when you see women that you find very hot, right? Guys, ain't no worse feeling in the world than to be with an average-looking woman and then to go somewhere, restaurant, club, grocery store, whatever the fuck ever, and you see a super hot chick, that shit will eat your ass alive.

And you'll just think to yourself, what the fuck am I doing with my life? What the hell am I doing with my life? Now, you always gonna see hot chicks, but when you with a girl that's a 9 or a 10 in you, or 8 and a half, that's done got, you know...

Your attraction made her, she done grew on you enough to make her look like a nine or a ten from all the other attributes. You'll say, shit, she fine, but my girl fine too, right? So you always going to see hot chicks.

That's never going to end. But when you got a hot chick or a woman you perceive as hot, shit, my girl hot too. Shit, you don't feel a certain type of way, but when you with an average looking woman, man, old flat booty ass woman or average, whatever, right?

flat chested ass woman whatever whatever you that turns you on and you girl ain't really got that shit that just like just eats at you you just think about man i would love to fuck the shit out of you that's not a good feeling guys and imagine being in a relationship or getting married or something like this you want to deal with that for the rest of your life That's all I'm saying guys. So it's just something to think about. If you want to do this, you want to get with a girl that's going to be hot for you.

If you're going to be proper pure, get a woman that's going to be hot. So you don't have to deal with that every time. You want to go in a restaurant and you with an average looking chick, man, or average looking than you at least.

And then it's the girl that's just like super hot the whole time. You just like, but you don't want to be too direct because you know your girl, she's looking at you because she see the hot chick. Right?

Women, average looking women, they see those chicks. They know. They know you want to look.

Right? They're not stupid. They know, oh shit, she's super hot.

Then they kind of looking at you out the corner of the eye. And then you looking up here like you don't see all that. You see all that ass. So you don't want to deal with that shit, guys.

And lastly, guys. personality can make them more attractive but it only can do so much all right it only can do so much it won't improve the sex life so I get it a lot of guys don't say well a mess She can grow on me or over time and love that you you won't never experience that personality can only carry so much I understand that sevens tend to cater to their man better or you know They have better personalities because they're more humble But at the end of the day guys personality can only do so much only so much so you that's that's just what I think about the situation guys All right. So like I say do an eight and a half If you're lucky enough and you can get a 9 or a 10 that's got all those attributes, then you're lucky. But theoretically speaking, you're better off probably finding off like an 8.5 and letting her grow on you. Alright guys, so that's my answer to any guys who...

I've heard this shit too before in life guys, that the best women are like average salmons and shit like that. Whatever guys. Alright, I'll get back with you guys later.

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