Lecture Notes: Changing Your Reality

Introduction

• Importance of not complaining and taking action.
• Helping others but neglecting oneself is embarrassing.
• Discipline and belief are key to changing reality.
• Aim: To evolve together and reach the next level.

Realization and Inspiration

• People achieve great things; you can fix your simple life.
• Recognize the vastness of the world and your potential.
• Look at others for inspiration, not jealousy.
• Ask God for big things, not small ones.

Defining Your Reality

• Be specific about the reality you want to create.
• Examples include stable relationships, financial stability, and self-love.
• Writing down goals can lead to manifesting them.

Self-Reflection Questions

1. What reality do I want to create?
2. Who do I look up to for inspiration?
3. What behavior do I need to change?
4. What new habit would I like to create?
5. What is one thing I can focus on right now?

Illusions and Beliefs

• Life's illusions: not everything has meaning.
• Stop considering yourself unlucky; it's just perceptions.
• Change the mindset from superstition (e.g., evil eye) to control over your reality.

Cutting Off Toxic Influences

• Evaluate if people contribute positively to your desired reality.
• Cutting toxic people leads to better opportunities.
• Align actions with the reality you want to create.

Investing in Yourself

• Self-investment is crucial and not selfish.
• Take care of physical, mental health, and personal growth.
• Start a podcast for sharing therapy insights.

Consistency and Actions

• Make words match actions; don't give up easily.
• Successful people align their actions with goals.
• Trying and failing is part of living.

Wizard Mindset

• Believe in your power to manifest desires.
• Act with the belief that your wishes will come true.
• Gratitude enhances the attraction of blessings.

Embracing Cringiness

• Be willing to be seen as cringy or embarrassing for growth.
• Accept criticism from others as a sign of their jealousy.

Need for Solitude

• Being alone can help create your dream reality.
• Empaths may need solitude to focus energy on themselves.

Unlearning and Educating Yourself

• Unlearn societal, cultural, and familial teachings that don't serve you.
• Create personal opinions and live authentically.
• Avoid letting others influence your opinions.

Seeking Guidance

• Ask for signs and help from a higher power.
• Implement guidance requests in life decisions.

Discipline and Consistency

• Consistency is more important than perfection.
• Focus on personal growth, not comparison with others.
• Use others as inspiration, not benchmarks.

Conclusion

• Aim to evolve together with others.
• Healing, leveling up, and recognizing worth collectively.

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