Listen my love, I am sick and tired of you, okay? You can't come to me constantly complaining about how you're not able to change your life, you're not able to live that dream life of yours, you're not able to change your reality, whatever, but then at the same time you're constantly helping other people to achieve their dreams, you're constantly helping other people to like change their reality, but when it comes to you, it's hard. that is just plain embarrassing and you do not behave like that okay especially as my friend like you guys are my friends and you guys are behaving like this i'm embarrassed i am embarrassed please please in this video i will show you how you can change your reality what you need to do in order to change that reality to shift it and to actually do something with your life enough please i cannot do it please i'm unlucky no you're lazy gotta have the discipline yeah and don't be like oh no it's only lucky people lucky whatever honey i was not lucky i was not born lucky i was born poor very poor yeah and i completely changed my reality why because i had to discipline the belief to do it i i don't want to be at the top on my own because it's lonely at the top i need you guys there with me so together we can evolve this channel is for you so together we're gonna go to the next level and you are gonna take notes and you're gonna listen hi guys my name is liz and welcome back to my channel okay let's get right into it okay so first things first listen people are building spaceships people are becoming billionaires people are becoming multi-millionaires people are having like a good income normal job people are literally making money off of the dumbest things people having the best relationships And you, you can't even fix your little simple life. You think that is not like, you cannot do that.
So all these people, they can do the most extraordinary, crazy things, but you can't fix your simple life. Yeah. You can't even find it. normal job yeah you can't even find a person that texts you back or that actually like appreciates and loves you oh okay well that's embarrassing i need you first to start realizing the world is huge the universe is huge god is big he did not put you on this earth so you could not do anything with your life that is not your purpose honey you can do much much more but you have to start believing that you actually can and then look at people for inspiration look at other people don't be jealous of them look at them for inspiration and thinking of yourself like wow this guy he can build spaceships hmm maybe you know i can just find like a normal job that i love maybe i can follow Follow my passion. Maybe I can like find the partner that I want and build the family that I want.
Maybe I can have a stable foundation. Once you are inspired by these people, you will realize that, oh my God, like, you know what? People can do big things so I can fix my simple life. We're minuscule. We're so like pathetic.
You know, even when you ask God, you have to ask God for the biggest thing. Because honestly, sometimes I ask God for things. I think God is even embarrassed.
He's like, really Liz? You think that small? Then the second thing, after you have realized that you can ask for a lot of things.
then what you do you need to answer questions for yourself okay we need to get really specific on what reality do we want to create example right i came from a very poor uh childhood and basically for me ever since i was a child my one important thing was i need to be stable the partner that is with me also needs to be financially stable i want to make a lot of money i want him to make enough money i don't care about like millions of millions but just good enough and then I need to have a stable household and a stable childhood for my children. That was my focus. And I was like, that's the kind of reality I want.
I want to have a passionate job that I'm passionate about. I want to make money. I want to be able to support my family.
I want to look really good. I want to love myself. I want to heal myself from the inside out.
I want to go to therapy. That's the kind of reality I want to be in. That's the kind of woman I want to be. Then also I started to think about, okay, what kind of... of partner do I want and once I literally wrote down the kind of partner I want and I had never done this before I literally attracted him and met the exact person that I wrote down so I'm telling you once you write things down you manifest them and it's crazy I want you to answer these questions yeah okay first of all what reality do I want to create first question second question who do I look up to like look up to people that you like their lifestyle you like you don't have to be like i want their life i want to be them no you get inspiration from their life lifestyle you know how we get inspiration if we're decorating our home from pinterest and all these things well the same way you look at a person you think oh okay i for example i even like their haircut or i like this that and it can be different people but who do you look up to then you write down what is a behavior that you need to change about yourself in order for you to attract that reality that you want what is the behavior that you need to change example i i was struggling with an eating disorder i had bulimia and in my reality the highest version of me she didn't have that she didn't have that eating disorder so i needed to work on fixing that and i needed to work on fixing my eating disorder because i that was not going to be my reality i was not going to suffer from it then what's a new habit that you would like to create then the last but the most important thing ever what is one thing that i can focus on right now see the human brain is incredible yeah we do not like too much choice i'm reading this book right now it's called the art of thinking clearly and basically it talks about how when we are given too much choice the brain paralyzes and just doesn't make a decision at all and we really get stressed off of it so you decide for yourself okay all of these things yeah that i listed that i want for for this new reality what is some one thing that i can focus on right now and i promise you once you focus on that one thing all the rest will follow follow the leader leader example I joined the gym recently and when I joined the gym, it's like a personal training program.
Ever since I joined the gym, like all the other issues, like not socializing, like not feeling confident anymore, like really like having kind of like an isolated depression. They went. They went because I decided to focus on that one thing and then all the rest of it follows.
So you decide, OK, what do I start with? Do I start with my physical appearance? And.
Do I start with healing my mental health? Do I start with not allowing toxic people in my life anymore? And then I swear, or do I start like going out a little more?
Everything will fall into place. Another thing is the illusions of life. See, we as humans, we like to create meaning out of something.
We always like to look for patterns and have meaning in them. For example, if we look at the clouds, right? We will see a certain shape in the cloud.
We'll be like, oh my God, this is a sign. This is whatever, right? No, sometimes things are just things and they're not like a pattern or whatever and the same way that you guys say like oh i'm just unlucky i have like i constantly attract on like unluckiness no you don't you have uh you have good days and bad days and that's that's just it you're not unlucky stop telling yourself that you're unlucky see the same way um i grew up uh in a i'm a muslim right so we believe in evil eye now the issue with this is constantly whenever something would happen like i would get a rash on my face or i would fall down the stairs i like constantly i would think like oh my god then this is evil i this evil i i'm getting evil eye but now i like completely changed my thinking and i was like no i do not get evil eye i like only what i allow will happen this is my reality and i allow what comes in and what goes out walk away from things and people that are not good for you You have to start thinking, does this person add to the reality that I want to create for myself?
Do they fit into that reality? Okay, so this person is always putting me down. This person is not giving me any.
need love this person is toxic no okay cut cut cut i want them out because i'm trying to create my my my reality here these people cannot come with me sometimes you get even tested about how bad you want it by um having these people in your life and really when you cut them off god gives you something so much better but that's because you showed him i trust you i don't care like how much i want this person in my life or how much this person person makes me feel comfortable or how much this thing makes me feel comfortable, I'm gonna cut it off so I can show you I trust you and you will give me something better. Some people are not meant to be with the highest version of you. Some people are not meant to go to your highest reality with you.
Then you think always, does this action support the reality that I'm trying to create? For example, if you say, okay, I want to make my own money and I want to have a partner that makes their own money and i want us to be a stable couple a really good couple right then you keep dating people that have no work ethic you keep dating people that don't want to work and literally uh basically don't want to do anything but live off of other people you have to think to yourself if i continue doing this then This action will not support the reality that I want because you're contradicting yourself. You cannot say this is what I want and do the complete opposite thing and expect this to happen. Or you're trying to create a reality where you want people to respect you, where you want to inspire people, whatever, but you keep people pleasing to a point where nobody respects you. Or you keep like making, letting people make a joke out of you, not standing up for yourself.
Where are we going? What reality is that? Because we're going backwards, honey.
Become your own biggest investment. See, I feel like when people say this, they look, oh my God, you're so selfish. No, honey, no. Because when we invest in you guys, when we give you guys everything and we constantly pour into other people, then that's fine. Yeah.
And they completely drain us. We're left with no energy for ourselves. That's all okay.
But don't you dare, don't you dare do that for yourself. Because that's a really, you're a bad person. Oh, you need to start investing in yourself. You need to start investing in yourself. Whether it's your physical looks, like your skin.
your hair your body on the foods you put in your body then your mental therapy on if you cannot afford therapy journal journal shadow work questions write them down it's like therapy what i'm gonna do for you guys i'm gonna start a podcast i'm gonna start a podcast where i invite every time i go to therapy i just have my therapy sessions on the podcast so you guys can follow it to me and you guys can get free therapy because i know therapy is expensive i was uh uh like at a time on a point where i couldn't afford therapy i totally understand it but now that i can i'm gonna share that with you guys even though i have to put my personal business online that's okay but realize that the more you invest in yourself the more you level you up and the closer you get to that reality and the more other people who respect you i like how can you not respect a person that thinks they're worthy of their own investments how can you not respect that imagine you see like someone with a really nice car right and they always clean and it's always clean from inside from the outside it's really well taken care of then people would say like oh my god that person that guy or that girl really loves their car well do that for yourself too because the same way you're gonna invest in yourself people can tell that you are a person that loves okay another thing and this is the most important one of the most important is make your words match your actions i do not want to hear oh no liz i tried but i couldn't do it what did you you try what did you try because why are we having this conversation right now why did you stop so you tried once and then you stopped and that's trying my sister she told me recently she's like liz the reason that you are so successful is because when you want something and you say i'm gonna do it you actually do it and she's like everything you preach on your youtube and everything you actually do that like you're really authentic to your words i am when i say that i am gonna do something i will do it i do not care that's what the vibe the successful from the unsuccessful people a lot of my successful friends that i know we all have the same mindset we want to do something that is good of course we actually do it we do not care whether we will fail at it or succeed we don't know the outcome we only know that we can take the action to go towards okay so you have to have this mindset see most unsuccessful people they have this mindset like oh no that's too much risk oh oh no i won't be able to do it oh no they could do it but i couldn't do it whatever um yeah that's how you never try anything and where do we end up then i think the most beautiful thing in life is trying new things then failing and then trying something else like at least you're living if you're not trying anything and you're just following a constant thing and not doing anything outside of the box like how boring is that okay this is a good one this is have the wizard mindset okay what is the wizard mindset the wizard mindset is basically believing that you're a wizard like like thinking you're a magician so for example if you say like i want this and you have it i genuinely believe that anything i want will happen as long as i set my mind to it it will happen there is no other way i'm just a wizard i am a wizard i want you guys to be wizards i want you guys to think of yourself like i'm a wizard why should it not happen i'm a wizard anything i ask for i will receive if i ask god for something i receive it i you know even i am so delusional i literally think okay like tonight i'm gonna ask god like uh first be thankful for everything that i have i'm very grateful by the way i'm a very grateful person and that's also why i think that i keep attracting blessings because i am grateful and so basically then i thank god for everything i have and then i say god please give me this two days max two days max i have it without a doubt be willing to be cringy okay listen i did something that goes against my things i basically went uh like a week ago I was searching something and all of a sudden I saw like a link of reddit and it was about me so I click on it of course reddit lovely place so many positive people um and on the thing they were basically saying that I am a narcissist I encourage cheating and basically gold digging to the core and uh then this uh also compared me to like people that are you know I don't know I was reading all the comments and everybody's like yeah she's so cringy she's so like embarrassing she's so whatever blah blah and then i was like oh no that must have hurt honey i might be embarrassing but i'm paying my mama's bills okay yeah i am literally taking care of the people that i love and i am able to do that because i am embarrassing to you and what are you doing just already yeah i don't like her to be willing to be cringy yeah In life, when we make certain changes, when we start changing how we allow people to treat us, when we start changing our other appearance, when we start like doing anything really to level our life up, people will start telling you that you're cringy or you're embarrassing or you're doing too much. Like calm down. And it's like they're just speaking out of jealousy. Like honestly, you know, because they don't believe they can do it themselves. So you have to be willing to take that little hit because at the end, it's going to pay off.
thing is sometimes you need to be alone to be able to create your dream reality to be able to level up why do i say this see when you are an empathic person or you're a highly sensitive person like i am um people like me we tend to when we we are around people our natural default is to help them even though they didn't ask they didn't mean to we constantly want to help them and we pour so much into them and we do this even without realizing yeah but what happens then is we don't have energy left for ourselves anymore so we are helping these people create their reality we are helping these people accomplish their dreams but we are we are being drained so for me i became so depressed whilst i was doing that with my partner i've been doing that for like the last eight months with my partner you for like the last eight months with my partner without even realizing it that i was literally like okay i need to take a step back like i literally need to be on my own right now and i need to focus on liz and what does liz want and i swear like the moment I started being on my own, like my creative ideas came back, my passion for my job came back. Even if you see my other videos, like I completely lost passion for this. And I love talking to you guys. I used to see you guys as like my family. And then it became like, I literally came to a point where I was like, I don't want to, I cannot even get myself to film.
That just shows how much of my energy was being drained. And that's why I'm saying sometimes you need to be alone in order for you to create that reality, in order for you to get to that next level. Another thing is start unlearning what they taught you. Listen, start unlearning what your parents taught you. Start unlearning what your teachers taught you.
Start unlearning what your culture has taught you. Wait. What they were telling you was what was a reality for them in their life.
That's what they believe for themselves. That doesn't have to be your reality, honey. It doesn't have to be. You have the chance to do things differently now. You have the chance to actually take your power and say like, okay, maybe that was your reality.
And that was a reality I was born into. But that's not how I'm going to leave this earth. I'm going to leave this earth having lived my reality. And in reality, I...
created for myself and you cannot blame them for um teaching you those things because that's the only thing they knew but you should start educating yourself on your own stuff create your own opinions about life start to uh look out for yourself what the best ways are to approach your life and how you want to live it so you can live it like with yourself authentically so you don't have to like when when you're old like regret your life because you feel like you live for someone else no honey live for yourself i've promised you i promise you if someone had told me liz you're gonna you're gonna be old yeah 80 years old look back at your life and say i live for someone else i would have told them kill me right now right now because that will not be my reality don't let other people influence your opinion see opinions change we we constantly we grow we learn that's normal yeah but what i mean by this is we are very influenced by other people so this is normal because our primates what uh we we literally follow the crowd because we we needed to stick together in order to survive, right? But now what happens is, for example, you watch a video, right? You have an opinion about this video.
Then you start and you go to the comments and you see totally different opinion from the one you had. And then your opinion starts to get influenced by them. You can't... allow that to happen because that just means that you're easily manipulated what you can do is look at other people's opinions look at what they think that you should do or whatever look at them and say like okay that's your opinion you can have an opinion but i'd rather stick to my own and i try on my own and if i fail at it whatever yeah then i learned from it but it's my opinion and it's what i'm gonna do ask to be guided ask for signs asks for help from god i promise you i promise you this works this literally works i've said this in one of my videos about manifesting that people should ask for science and literally i have my dms were flooded with people that did and they got so many signs they they asked for to see like this that and they they saw all these things it's incredible you guys need to start speaking to god or to a higher source that you believe in like when you guys like need something or something talk to them like a friend and say like hey i need this like thank you so much for providing me with everything but i need you to help me with this please i need you because like they will like whoever you believe in they will help you i promise you every friend that i've told to do this everyone they were shocked like liz they were like this advice is golden look what i would suggest you ask is god please give me whatever is meant for my highest good god please remove people that don't have the best intentions with me from my life god please guide me towards my path and show me signs of what i need to do if you believe in the universe you can ask the universe whatever you believe in it doesn't have to be god whatever but i promise you i promise you this works best but not least is be disciplined okay you need to have Consistency over perfection.
We don't need perfection. Nothing is perfect in life. Yeah?
And if we're gonna strive for perfection, we're not gonna get anywhere. You're not gonna do anything. because the the first business you create will not be perfect the first person you ever date will probably also not be perfect the first gym session will probably not be perfect but at least we have the consistency to keep going because we're not striving for perfection we are striving for consistency to eventually get to our goal do not look at people and think like oh my god they're at this age they're so much further than me i should have been there no honey it's you you versus you. You do not look at these other people. The only way you look at other people is if you want inspiration from them and you're like, okay, fine.
Like if they can do it, I can do it too. But we don't look and compare them and be like, oh, age, this and that. You never know what like God has for you. You don't know what is in store for you, you know? So maybe you're thinking and thinking like, oh, my life should be like completely like this, but you were meant to have a much bigger life.
So you're limiting yourself. So only look at like little inspirations and like Focus on you. It's you.
Your dream person is you. So I know you guys can do it. Because literally, like I told you, I'm not going to the top alone, honey.
I don't want to be there and literally think like, oh my god, I have no friends. No, no, no, no, no. I need my little wizards with me at the top. And we're going to do this together.
We're going to heal together. We're going to level up together. We're going to recognize our worth together.
and we're just going to the next next level thank you so much for watching guys i love you guys so so so much and yeah i see you in the next video bye