Notes on the Medium Ugly Man

Introduction

• Being born a man allows for some leniency regarding attractiveness.
• Medium ugly men may be underappreciated by peers but are often appreciated by women.
• Attractiveness is perceived differently by men and women.

Perception of Attractiveness

• Not all men aspire to be the ideal "gigachad".
• Many men feel self-improvement is futile due to perceived limitations in attractiveness.
• Men's views on attractiveness do not align with what women find appealing.
• Example: Pete Davidson dating beautiful women stumps many men.

Definition of Medium Ugly

• Medium ugly: Not traditionally attractive; may have imperfections.
  • Examples of imperfections:
    • Asymmetrical face
    • Bigger or crooked nose
    • Larger forehead
• Imperfections can enhance attractiveness when combined with other positive traits.

Key Points to Become Attractive

1. Dress Well and Authentically

   • Authentic aesthetic is crucial (e.g., skateboarder with true skater style).
   • Avoid posing; authenticity is key.

2. Develop Charm

   • Showcase charm and personality; humor is attractive.
   • Balance is important; avoid constant self-deprecation.

3. Cultivate Skills

   • Being skilled in something (e.g., chess, car repair) is attractive.
   • Skills matter, regardless of the field.

4. Maintain Grooming and Hygiene

   • Grooming and pleasant scent improve attractiveness significantly.
   • No man is truly unattractive if they take care of themselves.

5. Physical Fitness

   • A good physique is attractive to both genders.
   • Maintaining fitness is essential for overall attractiveness.

Conclusion

• Emphasizes the importance of self-improvement and embracing individuality.
• Encouragement to focus on personal traits rather than just physical appearance.