One of the great things about being born a man is that if you're born ugly, it's not the end of the world. In fact, being a little ugly might even be an advantage. Let's delve into the world of the medium ugly man. A genre of man that is underappreciated by other guys, but definitely appreciated by women.
Contrary to what you might believe, being a 6'5 gigachad with model good looks is not what everyone wants. And it's definitely not what... every guy can become. And the sad part is a lot of guys think self-improvement won't work for them because of this. They're wrong though.
They're looking at attractiveness through the eyes of a man. But what women find attractive can oftentimes be completely different. It's the same reason that when a seemingly average looking guy like Pete Davidson starts dating the most beautiful woman in Hollywood, it has the entire male population stumped. That's because we're viewing the world in a completely different way.
What men think they need to do to be attractive can oftentimes be completely different than what other people that they're trying to attract find attractive. Enter the world of medium ugly. So what exactly constitutes being medium ugly? Put simply, Being medium ugly means you're not traditionally attractive. You don't have a completely symmetrical face, your nose might be a little big or a little crooked, forehead a little bit big, but your imperfections make you attractive.
This is of course combined with other qualities that you possess. You might be really funny, dress really well, be really well groomed, or have a really cool skill. You get the idea.
So how do you become an attractive man when you're ugly? Here's some key points. Number one, Dress well and have an authentic aesthetic. I'll give you an example of an authentic aesthetic.
If you're a skateboarder, it's already a really attractive hobby to have. If you also have a skater aesthetic, think shaggy hair, oversized jeans, and vans, it's an authentic aesthetic that represents you and makes you even more attractive. But if you don't even skate but attempt to emulate a skater aesthetic, people can tell you're being a poser and it has the opposite effect.
You become unattractive. So always dress well. but dress authentically.
Next is charm. Having something charming about you and letting it flourish. If you're a funny guy with a good personality, this is a huge plus. Being able to joke about yourself and not being too serious all the time is a very attractive trait. But there is a line.
You don't want to be self-deprecating all the time. Learn the fine line to walk. Skills. Being really good at stuff is attractive, no matter what it is.
If you're really good at chess, or if you're good at fixing cars. Literally whatever you can do better than the average person counts as a skill and is an attractive trait. Being groomed and smelling good. Just because you don't have model good looks is no excuse to not always smell good and be impeccably groomed. People definitely notice small things like this and no man is truly that ugly.
if they groom themselves properly and smell good. Being physically fit. Men and women are not super different, but we both love nice physique on our partner.
Being fit will always be an attractive feature. With all that said, I hope you have enjoyed this video.