How to Talk Attractively to Your Ex and Get Them Back
Key Points
- Changing mindset is crucial to attract your ex back.
- Many people struggle despite giving their best efforts.
- It's important to realize that your ex's actions are not against you, but for their own emotional processing.
- Focus on communicating with your ex's emotional side rather than the rational side.
Understanding Your Ex's Behavior
- Ex's Distance: Often your ex's distance is for their own emotional needs, not because they are against you.
- Processing Emotions: Your ex needs time to process their emotions, which can result in them becoming avoidant.
- Avoid Misinterpretation: Don't take their distance personally; it's a part of their healing process.
Effective Communication Strategies
- Communicate to the Right Brain: Focus on engaging their emotional side rather than their rational side.
- Show Positive Change: Demonstrate that the breakup was beneficial and led to self-improvement for both of you.
- Before and After: Highlight the changes and improvements that have occurred since the breakup.
Key Phrases to Use
- Overcoming Past Problems: Emphasize that you're happy both of you have moved past previous issues.
- "It makes me happy that we have been able to overcome the past problems."
- Opening Your Eyes: Highlight the significance of the breakup in helping you see things clearly.
- "Without this situation, I wouldn't have been able to open my eyes."
- Need for an Update: Explain that sometimes an update or change is necessary for realizing important aspects.
- "Sometimes we need an update to understand the power of..."
Additional Tips
- Avoid Routine and Codependency: Break free from routines and codependent behaviors to reignite passion and excitement.
- Focus on Attraction: Understand that breakups often stem from a lack of attraction rather than a lack of love.
- Move Forward: Stop dwelling on the past and look forward to creating a better future together.
Resources and Support
- Free Master Class: Coach Adrien is hosting a free master class to help you get your ex back. Sign up in the description.
- Private Coaching: Apply for private coaching for personalized guidance and a game plan.
- Community Support: Reach out with questions and participate in live sessions for additional support.
Conclusion
- Demonstrating personal growth and positive changes can make your ex reconsider their decision.
- Engage emotionally and show that the breakup has led to valuable insights and improvements.
- Utilize specific phrases to communicate effectively and attractively.
Remember: Moving past the breakup and focusing on self-improvement can lead to a more fulfilling relationship in the future.