Improving Your Life with Simple Habits and Principles

Jul 9, 2024

Lecture Notes

Introduction

  • Daily activities often become ingrained habits, which can be helpful or harmful.
  • Aim to share simple and effective habits/principles for improving overall quality of life.

Digitize Your Life

  • Use tables and applications (Google Sheets, Notion, Google Calendar) to track tasks, habits, important events.
  • Memory lapses are common; digitizing helps remember tasks, health status, and important details.
  • Examples:
    • To-do lists for each day.
    • Detailed checklists for trips.
    • Recording video shot lists and test results.
    • Tracking body measurements for sports.
    • Scheduling birthdays and important events.
  • Suggest moderation in tracking to avoid obsessiveness.

Write Down Your Rules and Principles

  • Transferring principles to paper helps create a personal constitution.
  • Example principles:
    • Always speak the truth and uphold honesty.
    • Never allow oneself to be used; avoid toxic people.
    • Continuous self-improvement and learning.
    • Balance habits with quality and freedom.

Stop Lying

  • Emphasizes honesty due to previous experiences of seeking attention through lies.
  • Be sincere and open in all actions for a simpler life.
  • Avoid hiding uncomfortable truths from oneself and others.

Moderate Bad Habits

  • Terms like dopamine detox, self-improvement should be about balance, not banning pleasures.
  • Indulging in things like social media, fast food occasionally is fine if not overdone.
  • Philosophy focuses on quality and freedom.

Set Restrictions on Social Media

  • Use a black-and-white filter at night to avoid distractions.
  • Limit time spent on social media; prioritize real-life experiences.
  • Disable notifications at night to reduce stress.

Manage Social Media

  • Differentiate between mindless scrolling and purposeful use.
  • Social media should be about genuine connections and preserving memories.
  • Regularly monitor usage and set privacy settings accordingly.

Take Risks and Move Beyond Comfort

  • Growth requires facing challenges and uncertainties.
  • Embrace failures and seize opportunities for personal development.

Learn to Love

  • Expanding love beyond partners to family, friends, and oneself.
  • Show love through kind words and actions.
  • Let go of resentment and embrace compassion.

Keep a Schedule

  • Flexible scheduling for tasks, ensuring a balance between work and leisure.
  • Importance of maintaining a stable sleep schedule.
  • Use meditation apps like Sleepy for better sleep quality.

Solve Problems

  • Address conflicts promptly to prevent destructive outcomes.
  • Avoid communicating with toxic individuals to protect mental health.

See Good in Life

  • Focus on positive aspects and gratitude to attract similar energy.
  • Avoid fixating on negativity to prevent it from dominating your life.

Evaluate Your Life

  • Value time and life equally, not just wealth.
  • Analyze the worth of activities for informed decision-making.
  • Prioritize meaningful experiences and avoid time-wasting habits.

Value Experiences Over Possessions

  • Minimalism and focusing on creating meaningful memories over accumulating things.
  • Buy only what can be afforded again without stress.

Focus on Your Life

  • Avoid comparing achievements to others; focus on personal growth.
  • Learn from others without devaluing their achievements.

Never Give Up

  • Maintain perseverance and never settle for less.
  • Learn from mistakes and continue trying until achieving goals.

Conclusion

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