10 Things a Sigma INFJ Totally Detests

1. Staying on the Surface

• Issue: Dislikes superficial conversations; prefers deep discussions
• Expectation: Wants to understand profound truths, inner conflicts, and people's true selves
• Frustration: Society's standard for meaningful social interactions

2. Arguing Just to Argue

• Issue: Despises arguing for the sake of dominance or proving a point
• Rationale: Values valid reasoning and logical debate
• Problematic People: Those who are self-absorbed, shallow, and refuse to admit their mistakes

3. Having to Compromise Their Values

• Outlook: Visionaries and idealists with high moral standards
• Expectation: Strong sense of interconnectedness and societal customs
• Action: Will detach and refocus if asked to lower standards

4. Not Being Listened To

• Characteristics: Strongly opinionated and vocal
• Issue: Others invalidating their views due to complexity or rebellious nature
• Response: Will exit one-sided arguments gracefully

5. People's Inability to Commit

• Requirement: Seeks commitment in relationships
• Deal Breaker: Emotional unavailability and refusal to improve
• Perception: Values seeing people as they are, not potential

6. Lack of Emotional Vulnerability

• Need: Friendships where they can express deepest thoughts and feelings
• Preference: Emotional intelligence and honest conversations
• Issue: Feeling confined or invalidated frustrates them

7. Conflict with Close-Minded People

• Perspective: Difficulty understanding traditional viewpoints
• Issue: Conflict arising from close-minded attitudes
• Tolerance: Coexistence is possible, but will not tolerate subtle conflicts

8. Lack of Accountability

• Admiration: Values accountability and humility
• Pet Peeve: Detests arrogance and denial of mistakes
• Response: Will distance from unreflective individuals

9. Biases and Prejudices

• Issue: People's perspectives influenced by biases during debates
• Frustration: Misunderstood and discriminated against for unconventional viewpoints
• Response: Willing to challenge biased perspectives

10. Draining and Toxic Relationships

• Definition: Relationships should be mutually beneficial
• Issue: Cannot stand manipulation and toxicity
• Action: Will distance from toxic relationships for inner peace