Challenges and Rewards of Living Abroad

Aug 22, 2024

Podcast Episode Summary

Host and Guest Introduction

  • Host: James
  • Guest: Mary Martha
    • Origin: Milwaukee, Wisconsin, USA
    • Moved to: Santiago, Chile in 2016
    • Profession: Life Coach

Section 1: Journey to Living Abroad

  • Inspiration for Moving:
    • Always wanted to learn Spanish
    • Preferred living abroad over traditional classroom learning
    • Initial plan was to go to Spain, shifted to Chile due to a family connection
  • Visa Process:
    • Entered Chile on a tourist visa
    • Had to obtain a certification to teach English
    • Temporary work visa applied for within 90 days of arrival
  • Preparation Before Moving:
    • Worked in the US to save money
    • Did not focus on learning Spanish before leaving
    • No major ties (e.g., rent, furniture) when moving

Section 2: Experiences in Chile

  • Initial Impressions:
    • Language barrier was significant upon arrival
    • Landscape difference: Santiago surrounded by Andes Mountains
  • Accommodation:
    • Stayed with family friends initially
    • Moved to a hostel for a few weeks while searching for permanent housing
  • Social Connections:
    • Found connection with other expats in the hostel
    • Initially communicated in English; struggled with Spanish
  • Teaching English:
    • Taught English in one-on-one or small group settings
    • Opportunities to connect with different age groups
    • Applied for a visa during this time; faced bureaucratic challenges
  • Cultural Differences:
    • Noticed differences in interview processes (more informal in Chile)
    • Difficulty in entering established social circles of locals
  • Social Life Changes:
    • Shifted significantly after meeting her now-husband, who is Chilean
    • Found it easier to integrate into Chilean society through him

Section 3: Reflections and Advice

  • Advice for Future Expats:
    • Emphasize the importance of self-care and mental health
    • Consider values when making career and personal decisions
    • Be patient with the adjustment process and social integration
  • Coping with Homesickness:
    • Regular communication with family and friends back home
    • Use of audio messages for deeper connection
  • Final Thoughts:
    • Living abroad can be challenging but highly rewarding
    • Importance of compassion toward oneself during this journey

Guest Contact Information

  • Instagram and TikTok: @coachwithmm

This episode highlights the challenges and rewards of living abroad, emphasizing personal growth, social connections, and the importance of aligning one’s values with their experiences.