How to Make a Man Chase You Like a Drug Addict

1. The First High

Initial Interaction: Essential to meet organically, not via apps.
Dinner Date Setup: He asks you out on a dinner date; ensure he has the best experience.
Mindset for First Date:
- Bring fun, flirty energy.
- Show genuine interest in getting to know him.
- Avoid agreeing with everything; express your own opinions to keep it interesting.
Creating Emotions: Your goal is to make him associate you with strong emotions, whether good or bad, but not indifference.
Banter: Engage in fun and flirty conversation, challenge him lightly to keep things exciting.
Avoid Indifference:
- Don't be too agreeable; avoid him feeling 'chill' or indifferent.
- Make the first date memorable and emotionally impactful.
Limited Texting: Get to know him primarily in person, not over text. Avoid giving low-quality 'doses' of yourself via text.

Post-Date Strategy:
- After a great first date, let him return to his normal life without immediate follow-up.
- Do not call, text, or FaceTime heavily post-date.
- Maintain a balance so he doesn’t feel ghosted but keep your distance.
Encourage Him to Chase:
- Ensure he misses you and the emotional highs you bring.
- Avoid daily communication to prevent him from getting just enough of you via texts/calls.
Timing: Space out your interactions to allow him to experience life without you, heightening his desire to see you again.

Anticipation Building: Don’t be overly available for immediate follow-up dates.
Scheduled Second Date: When he proposes a follow-up date, wait at least a week.
Managing His Anxiety:
- Let him wonder and analyze every detail of your interactions.
- Ensure his anticipation of seeing you builds up.
Balance Communication: Occasionally express excitement via text but emphasize your happiness about meeting in person.

In-Person Focus: Focus on how much you look forward to seeing him in person, not over text or calls.
Avoid Over-Texting: Excessive texting diminishes his motivation to see you in person.
Validations: Only validate and appreciate his efforts to meet in person.
Limit Casual Communication: Keep a balance; show interest but avoid creating a virtual relationship.

Cut Dates Short: Always leave him wanting more. End dates a little early.
Avoid Overstaying: Don’t let him get too used to your presence too quickly.
Limited Sleepovers: Initially avoid sleepovers to keep the experience special and avoid becoming mundane.
Regulate Your Presence: Keep each interaction high quality to prevent him from becoming indifferent.

Cycle of Addiction: By spacing out interactions and keeping them impactful, he will become addicted to the highs you bring.
Maintain a Balance: Balance your interest and keep the anticipation cycle active.
Collecting Information: Throughout this period, gauge his suitability as a long-term partner.
Final Commitment: Only deepen the relationship (e.g., sleepovers, intimacy) after confirming he has the qualities you seek.

Expert Control: Understand how to play the game of love and life to get what you want.
Avoid Indifference: Always aim to evoke strong emotions to avoid becoming just another part of his routine.
Stay Balanced: Ensure your approach is well-balanced to keep him engaged without pushing him away.