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Building Confidence by Trinity
May 25, 2024
Building Confidence by Trinity
Introduction
Welcome from Trinity
Discussion about confidence: How to be more confident, love and build yourself, raise your self-esteem
Apology for voice condition due to concert
Importance of Confidence
Confidence affects all areas of life: relationships, friendships, finances, career
Lack of confidence often hidden well
True confidence radiates from within
Personal journey from low self-esteem to improved confidence
Five Tips to Build Confidence
1. Do Not Compare
Comparison is the thief of joy
Everyone is unique; cosmetic changes won't make you someone else
Examples: Insecurity in relationships due to beauty standards
Avoid competition; focus on recognizing your own worth
Beauty and worth are subjective
2. Stop Worrying About Others' Opinions
Importance of self-opinion over others' opinions
Counterproductive to control people's thoughts
Self-validation is crucial
Personal anecdote: reliance on people's opinions and breakup experience
3. Spend Time Alone
Valuable for learning about oneself and building confidence
Exploring likes, dislikes, and personal preferences
Personal growth through solo activities and self-help books
Encouragement to use alone time for self-exploration
4. Take Pride in Your Appearance
Looking good boosts mood and confidence
Importance of consistent self-care (hair, nails, clothes)
Self-satisfaction from making an effort
Examples of maintaining a polished look regularly
5. Fake It Till You Make It
Act confident even if you don't feel it at first
Taking note of confident role models
Importance of affirmations: repeating positive statements about oneself
Conclusion
Consistent effort needed for internal confidence
Combining internal work and outward appearance maintenance
Advocate for self-validation and not relying on others
Final thoughts: improved confidence is life-changing
Closing
Encouragement to share personal confidence tips in comments
Expression of hope that the video was helpful
Trinity's improved self-confidence journey
Appreciation for viewers
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