Nervous System's Role in Safety and Connection

Oct 5, 2024

Lecture on Nervous System and Safety

Introduction

  • Quote by Thich Nhat Hanh: "Earth will be safe when we feel in us enough safety."
  • Focus: How the autonomic nervous system helps us feel safe and build connections.

Autonomic Nervous System (ANS)

  • Role: Platform for lived experience and internal surveillance system.
  • Functionality: Organizes our experience and is shaped by individual life events.
  • Process: ANS sends information to the brain, which creates a narrative.

Co-regulation

  • Concept: Balance between survival drive and desire to connect.
    • Sometimes these drives work together; other times, they conflict.
    • Past experiences can shape our responses to cues of danger or safety.
  • Quote by Stephen Porges: "Trauma is a chronic disruption of connectedness."
    • Trauma results in dysregulation of the nervous system.

Autonomic Conversations

  • Interactions: Continuous exchange between self, others, environment, and spirit.
  • Safety Cues: Essential for connection and co-regulation.
    • Sending cues of safety invites connection.
    • Cues of danger increase survival responses.

Social Engagement System

  • Components: Eyes, ears, voice, face, and head movements.
    • Controlled by cranial nerves.
  • Function: Facilitates connection by sending and receiving safety signals.
  • Impact of Masks: Focus on eyes for cues due to face coverings.

Listening and Voice

  • SSP (Safe and Sound Protocol): An auditory intervention using music to calm the nervous system.
    • Enhances the social engagement system.
  • Porosity: Music of the voice, conveying intent beyond words.
    • Monotone voice as a danger cue.
  • Vocal Bursts: Non-language sounds understood across cultures and species.

Head Movement

  • Movement: Nod and tilt as cues of connection.
    • Unmoving head signals danger.

Co-regulation and Self-regulation

  • Begins at Birth: Essential for survival.
    • Co-regulation leads to self-regulation from a safe base.
  • Misattunement and Repair: Important for relationship dynamics.

Ventral Vagal Anchor Practice

  • Purpose: Identify elements that anchor us in a ventral state.
    • Who: Person who gives a sense of safety.
    • What: A simple, calming practice.
    • Where: Safe and comforting place.
    • When: Time when one feels safe and centered.
  • Flexibility and Resilience: Being able to return to a ventral state promotes health and well-being.

Conclusion

  • The lecture emphasized understanding and utilizing the autonomic nervous system to achieve safety and connection in daily life.
  • Encouraged to explore further resources for in-depth learning.