Exploring Relationship Red Flags and Green Flags

Sep 7, 2024

Podcast Episode Notes: The Globe Secrets with Alicia Gogan

Introduction

  • Host: Alicia Gogan
  • Podcast Focus: Expand your mind, become self-aware, and glow up into the best version of yourself.
  • Current Status: Host is recovering from illness and focuses on a more conversational episode.

Intended Topics

  • Planned deep dive into dating, situationships, and feminine energy postponed.
  • Next week: Detailed focus on dating and feminine energy.

Current Episode Focus

  • Red Flags in Relationships
  • Updates on Alicia's personal and business ventures.

Personal and Business Updates

Social Media

  • Fake Instagram account issue: "The Glow Up Secrets."
  • Official accounts: Alicia Gogan and The Glow Up Secrets Podcast (locked account).

New Projects

  • Journal Prompt Guide: "Heal to Manifest."
    • Price: $7, will increase to $10.
    • Content: Overcoming limiting beliefs, manifestation lists, daily practices, affirmations.
    • Available digitally or for printing.

Writing and Living Space

  • Second half of a book being written.
  • Personal life updates: New condo, new furniture including a couch and mirror.
  • Plan to have the book completed by summer.

Music Playlists

  • Creating Spotify playlists.
  • Playlists include: Summer House, Hood Girl, and Rap Aesthetic.

Women's Circles

  • Attended a healing Women's Circle focused on spirituality and feminine energy.
  • Encourages listeners to join local women's circles.

Discussion: Red Flags in Relationships

  1. Promises without Action: Empty promises, lack of follow-through.
  2. Excessive Complaining: Being treated like a therapist by a partner.
  3. Rushing Relationship Milestones: Meeting family too soon, moving too quickly.
  4. Insecurity: Partner expressing feelings of being less than or insecure.
  5. Delay in Commitment: Hesitation to formalize the relationship.
  6. Dependency: Partner having no friends, overly focused on you.
  7. Defensiveness and Blame: Avoidance of responsibility, blaming others.
  8. Poor Communication: History of lacking communication skills.
  9. Privacy as an Excuse: Not posting about the relationship online.
  10. Love Bombing: Overwhelming affection quickly, can indicate deeper issues.

Green Flags in Relationships

  1. Clear Communication: Open expression of feelings and intentions.
  2. Discipline and Self-Control: Shows stability and reliability.
  3. Genuine Interest in Life and Partner: Engages meaningfully, not just for self-interest.
  4. Full Life Outside of Relationship: Balanced personal and social life.
  5. Open-Mindedness: Willingness to learn and explore new ideas.

Conclusion

  • Importance of self-reflection and identifying personal susceptibility to red flags in relationships.
  • Encouragement to learn and grow from past relationship experiences.

Wrap Up

  • Call to action: Comment on YouTube or DM for feedback.
  • Reminder about the "Heal to Manifest" guide and review requests on Spotify or Apple.

Next Episode Preview

  • Focus on dating in your feminine energy.

These notes aim to capture the essence of the podcast episode and provide a detailed guide for study and reflection.