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Understanding Intentions vs. Expectations

Nov 18, 2024

Spiraling Higher Podcast: Intention vs. Expectation

Hosts Introduction

  • Sam: Mindset and Manifestation Coach.
  • Gina: Biz and Mindset Coach.
  • Purpose: Support spiritual journeys, discuss healing, manifestation, consciousness, and spirituality.

Manifestation Journey

  • Achieved 'couch vibes' setting for the podcast.
  • Discussion on how they manifested the current podcast setup.

Movie References

  • Holes: Movie with themes around fixing things and resolution.
  • Enchanted: Highlights how expectation vs. reality can differ.

TV Show: Love is Blind

  • Examination of expectations in relationships from the show.

Main Topic: Living a Life of Intention vs. Expectation

Defining Expectations vs. Intentions

  • Expectation: Outcome-dependent; tied to future events.
  • Intention: Present-focused; energy and behavior in the now.
  • Expectations lead to disappointment if unmet.

Transitioning from Expectation to Intention

  • Intention focuses on intrinsic qualities, how one wants to carry themselves.
  • Example: Relationship between parent and child.

Common Patterns and Challenges

  • Expectations limit behavior and mindset.
  • Intention can lead to unexpected outcomes and joy without attachment.

The Role of Disappointment

  • Disappointment reveals unmet expectations.
  • Opportunity to understand the subconscious beliefs.

Cultivating Intentional Energy

  • Focus on present energy, not controlling outcomes.
  • Example: Traveling and feeling novelty and presence.

Intrinsic vs. Extrinsic Motivation

  • Intentions are intrinsic (internal), Expectations are extrinsic (external).
  • Expectations often involve factors beyond one's control.

Practical Application

  • Encourages living moment-to-moment with intention.
  • Segment Intending: Setting intentions for different parts of the day.

Conclusion

  • Shift from expectations (judgment, future) to intentions (presence, now).
  • Intrinsic intentions contribute to a sense of agency and control.
  • Choice is key in maintaining intention-focus and managing expectations.