Overview
Joe Aaro discusses the importance of sitting behaviors in different social and business contexts, emphasizing their significance across cultures and their impact on perception.
Significance of Sitting Behaviors
- Sitting behaviors can influence how others perceive you in both social and business settings.
- Cultural norms regarding sitting, such as order of sitting and posture, vary worldwide, especially in Asia and the Middle East.
- Abiding by local social conventions is essential to avoid negative attention.
Guidelines for Proper Sitting
- Only occupy the space you are entitled to and avoid encroaching on others’ territory.
- Placing elbows on tables or spreading personal items widely is frowned upon in many cultures.
- Avoid becoming a distraction by not tapping, playing with objects, or shuffling papers.
- Fidgeting with hands, fingers, or objects is perceived negatively.
Professional and Social Implications
- Distracting behaviors can draw negative attention in formal settings, such as courtrooms.
- Sitting too casually or leaning in too aggressively can create undesirable impressions.
- Mirroring the sitting behaviors of others is an effective strategy for fitting in appropriately.
Key Takeaways
- Sitting behaviors are more complex and impactful than often assumed.
- Individuals are responsible for adhering to relevant social norms and conventions.