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Demonstrating Higher Value in Dating

Mar 22, 2025

Lecture Notes: John Anthony Lifestyle on Demonstration of Higher Value (DHV)

Introduction

  • Presenter: John Anthony
  • Focus: Demonstrating higher value to improve success with women.
  • Key Concepts:
    • Conveying intelligence, ambition, success.
    • Importance of conveying worldly experiences and cool lifestyle.

Concept of Demonstration of Higher Value (DHV)

  • DHV involves telling stories that convey your value to women.
  • Society's perception of value is crucial (e.g., "leads a tech team" vs. "computer programmer").

Building a DHV Stack

  • Exercise Steps:
    1. List cool experiences.
    2. Identify skills you have.
    3. Enumerate hobbies you engage in.
    4. Outline interests you are involved in.
  • Purpose: To craft stories around these experiences and talk about them during interactions with women.

Personal Examples by John Anthony

  • Former DJ in various music genres.
  • Educational background in nuclear missile defense.
  • Engages in martial arts, gym, and healthy eating.
  • Multilingual and well-traveled.
  • Demonstrates pre-selection by mentioning beautiful girls he has dated.

Mystery's Five Attraction Switches

  • Developed by Eric von Markovic ("Mystery"):
    1. Leader of Men
    2. Protector of Loved Ones
    3. Willingness to Emote
    4. Adventurous Life
    5. Pre-selection (approval by other attractive women)

Women’s Attraction vs. Men's Attraction

  • Women respond to a man's survival and replication value (confidence, social response, etc.).
  • Men typically respond to a woman's physical appearance.

Crafting Your DHV Stories

  • Avoid overt bragging; instead, integrate stories naturally into conversations.
  • Use stories to convey authenticity and aspects of high-value personality.

Additional Tips and Resources

  • Integration of DHV into Tinder bios.
  • Importance of being authentic and congruent with DHV stories.
  • Resources: Mentorship programs and calls; books and training materials (Occam's Razor).

Conclusion

  • Importance of strategically sharing DHV stories to leave a strong impression.
  • Encouragement to join mentorship programs and engage with video content.

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These notes provide a structured overview of key points from John Anthony's lecture on how to effectively demonstrate higher value in dating contexts, highlighting both strategic storytelling and authentic self-presentation.

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