I want her to realize that I'm intelligent, that I'm ambitious, that I'm successful. I talk about how I run a company, that I'm worldly, that I've lived all around the world, that I have a really cool life. I DJ these parties or I go to lots of big events and this and that.
I want her to know that I've dated beautiful girls. The fact that she's beautiful isn't some rare thing for me, isn't some big change of pace. I'm used to dating beautiful girls like that all the time.
What's up guys? John Anthony here from John Anthony Lifestyle. Today I want to talk about how to come up with a demonstration of higher value stack.
A bunch of demonstration of higher value or otherwise known as DHV stories that you can tell to convey your value to the woman so you can have better chances to get the girl. Before we continue, if you'd like to learn my entire system A to Z including texting, mastering online game, cold approach, night game and day game, how to run your dates, close your dates and retain the girl. to build a rotation or have a dream girlfriend, don't hesitate.
Jump on a free 30-minute call. Link in the description. Also, press subscribe button and press notification bell to be alerted of new videos every single day, two videos a day as we move forward. The big thing with a demonstration of higher value is that it must come from what society sees as something that is cool or high value. An example would be if you were a computer programmer, If you were to put in your Tinder bio, computer programmer, that's going to look potentially value negative because of the social connotation that goes along with that as being nerdy or a loser or something like this.
That's just how society sees stuff like that. So you need to frame it in a way where it looks cool. So alternatively, you could say something like leads a tech team in your Tinder bio. So kind of a good exercise, what I do with all the guys in my mentorship program, is you should make a list of four things. Okay, so number one, you're going to want to list out cool experiences that you've had.
Okay, have you went and climbed a mountain? Have you went on some cool retreat, you know, in the jungle or whatever the fuck? Okay, cool experiences that you've had.
Okay, and then you're going to reframe those things in a way that appears cool. Okay, or high value. Okay, number two, you're going to want to list skills you have.
Okay, cool things you can do that you've developed over time that make you stand out. Okay, number three. You're going to want to go over hobbies.
Myself, I do Muay Thai kickboxing, I do Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu, I go to the gym, I go to the beach, etc. So you can list cool things you like to do. And last but not least, number four, you want to list interests that you have. Cool things that you're involved in, etc. So this is how I build a guy's Tinder bio.
But you're going to also want to form stories around some of these things so that you can talk about them both in the cold approach and also on dates, okay, or even when you're just hanging out with the girl when she's back to the house, okay? So for myself, I used to DJ electronic music prior to getting into all the pickup stuff. I used to play electro house, deep house, dubstep, etc.
I was playing in small and medium-sized clubs. I ended up in the height of my DJing career, I was playing big events. I played a 5,000-person indoor sports arena and things like this. But, you know, I bring that up in almost every story, even though I don't really actively DJ much anymore. I say, what's up?
Hey, I wanted to meet you. What's your name? I'm a DJ at this place and this place, or I DJ electronic music.
What do you do? I talk about other DHV stories that I talk about personally. I talk about how I have two bachelor's degrees and two master's degrees. I talk about how I used to work on nuclear missile defense. I talk about how I do martial arts, how I do Brazilian jiu-jitsu, and how I do Muay Thai kickboxing.
I talk about how I like to go to the gym and eat healthy food. Talk about how I can speak five different languages. Talk about how I lived all around the world in over 30 different countries. And I also talk about beautiful girls that I've dated, okay?
Which demonstrates the pre-selection principle. So, and I'm going to touch on mysteries five attractions, which is that can help you craft and guide your DHVs as well, okay? But the purpose is, all these different stories, I have kind of a rough canned framework or outline in my head so that I can tell the stories routinely without any problems on dates and in cold approaches, etc. But they're not fully canned.
I'm not reciting these stories word by word, line by line. Just full canned. That would come from the wrong frame.
So it's just kind of like go-to topics that I talk about that convey value. So mystery, going into a little lesson on mystery. Eric von Markovic, who was in the book The Game, he wrote the book Mystery Method. He says that there's five attraction switches.
There's leader of men, protector of loved ones, willingness to emote, adventurous life. And pre-selection. Pre-selection being other hot girls approving of you. Adventurous life is doing cool adventurous shit.
Shit, which tends to be one of the top, not tends to be, statistically is one of the top three performers as reported by the Match Group for online dating apps. It's a guy with a dog, shirtless ripped abs, or some kind of thrilling or adventurous shot. So that's the adventurous life one.
And then willingness to emote is showing a whole bunch of range of emotions using facial expressions, body language, etc. And then we have leader of men. Do other men respect you and follow you, etc. and protector of loved ones.
Do you stand up for people in your life that need help? Do you stand up for what I do for the guys in the community with attacking all the fucking scam artists and frauds and taking all the backlash and the heat and the slander and the ruined reputation as a result of doing so? So those five attraction switches are what women respond to inherently. And Listerine talks about in his book how men...
respond to a woman's aesthetics, to a woman's physical appearance. They make a split-second decision, okay, that girl's an 8, okay, that girl's a 9, okay, that girl's a 6. And they make that decision, and it stays pretty much fixed. Whereas a man's value is determined by his survival and replication value.
So the woman is looking at his confidence, how he carries himself, how other men respond to him, and then these other attraction switch type things. So what you're looking to do with your own DHV stack is you want to really stand out from all the rest of men. You really want to convey the impression that you are the full package guy, kind of like the Christian Grey from the book Fifty Shades of Grey. And I'll get into this a little bit more, but if you are on the fence, we do have limited spots in the mentorship. Please jump on a free 30-minute call and we can go over the details of that.
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I have to fix the Juicy J outro so that it's not copywriting every single video I put out and putting the monetization to Juicy J's record label. So what you want to hear from the girl on a date or in a cold approach is you want her to say like, damn, so you're basically like. The full package, or basically you're like the perfect man. I hear that all the time from chicks in cold approach, from chicks on dates.
I'm carefully strategizing and tactically saying different things to convey different aspects of my personality. I want her to realize that I'm intelligent, that I'm ambitious, that I'm successful. I talk about how I run a company, that I'm worldly, that I've lived all around the world, that I have a really cool life. I DJ these parties or I go to lots of big events and this and that. I want her to know that I've dated beautiful girls, right?
Like the fact that she's beautiful isn't some like rare thing for me, isn't some big change of pace. I'm used to dating beautiful girls like that all the time, etc, etc, etc, okay? And you really want to just, it's, and there's a big caveat here.
You don't want to come across as bragging or trying to prove yourself or trying to impress the girl. So whenever you tell these DHV stories, as you build your own DHV stack, you have to kind of plant them as seeds indirectly in the conversation. You don't want to do things like, Hey, did you know I'm a doctor? Hey, have you ever been in a Lamborghini before? Mine's out front, right?
Like, where you're obviously just overtly bragging, that's going to work against you. It's going to have the opposite effect. She's going to think this guy's trying to overcompensate because his value must be low, etc., etc., etc.
So instead, use DHVs, demonstrations of higher value, to revolve around things that are in your own life that you have going for yourself. Remember, I said the cool experiences, skills, hobbies, and interests. And then frame them in a way that they appear cool in society's mental model.
And then make sure you bring them up in a way that's not bragging. I have all my DHV stuff listed as well as all my major conversational topics listed in Occam's Razor, which has a link in the description. It's also included in the mentorship.
So the whole thing about what do I say next, how do I keep the conversation going, how do I navigate the conversation, that's all covered in my trainings with the links in the description. So I hope this video was very helpful for you guys. This is a really important topic.
You guys need to start, rather than just talking about total nonsense at random, which you're going to be doing a bunch of, you're going to still be free associating and speaking with no filter, but you want to kind of tactfully front load some of these DHV things, both in a cold approach and on a date, so that you make a really solid impression on her. And she thinks, okay, this is a guy that I'm going to remember. This is a guy that I really want to get with.
This is a high value guy that's in demand. And when you get to the level I'm at in the game, Okay, today's close is 1,380 girls. And I have girls routinely that are like above a 9.5 on rotation or even going on new dates that are telling me like, oh my God, I'm falling for you more like every single day.
Like, oh, you're like the perfect guy for me, et cetera, et cetera, et cetera. Okay, and these are girls that would be, you know, a lot of guys perfect 10. And they're telling me that. But I've crafted the way that I'm presenting myself.
And they feel it too. It has to be authentic. It's not just like, okay, I have a whole bunch of good stories.
I have a whole bunch of good lines, etc. That's not the whole point of this. The whole point of this is you're trying to convey aspects of your personality that are high value, but then you need to be congruent with those things. And you need to be not giving a shit, confident, comfortable in your own skin, not afraid to call people out, etc., etc., etc. So all these things are going to go into being a high value alpha man, but then you need to convey them properly to the woman, both in your words and your body language, but also in the stories that you tell.
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