Key Points from Jessica OS's Lecture on Effective Texting

Introduction

• Jessica OS shares secrets about texting women that make them respond instantly.
• Discusses common texting mistakes by men: boring, predictable, or needy texts.

Common Texting Mistakes

• Texts like "Hey, how was your day?" are not engaging.
• Boring texts blend in with every other guy's messages.

Secret #1: The Curiosity Text

• Grab her attention with intriguing, open-ended texts.
• Examples:
  • "You'll never guess what I just heard about you."
  • "I just saw something that reminded me of you and I need to know your take on this."
  • "I have a crazy question for you. Ready?"
• These texts work because they spark curiosity and make her think.
• Keep the conversation ongoing by building anticipation.

Secret #2: The Compliment with a Twist

• Avoid generic compliments like "You're beautiful."
• Use unique and playful compliments to stand out.
• Examples:
  • "You have this cool without trying vibe that people would pay to learn."
  • "Do you part-time as a comedian or is being hilarious just your side hustle?"
• Compliments should be specific, personal, and with a playful twist.
• Don't overdo compliments; a single well-placed one is more effective.

Secret #3: Timing is Everything

• Text at the right time to get better responses.
• Best times: Evenings after dinner, midday breaks.
• Avoid texting in danger zones like mid-morning, late afternoon, and late at night.
• Observe her texting patterns to find her most responsive times.
• Avoid double texting; confident men don't chase.

Secret #4: Be Her Escape, Not Her Chore

• Texting shouldn't feel like a task or interrogation.
• Avoid questions that make her feel like reporting.
• Ask fun, open-ended questions for a light-hearted conversation.
• Examples:
  • "If you could do anything else rather than what you're doing right this minute, what would it be?"
  • "What's the craziest thing that's happened to you this week?"
• Share playful scenarios to engage her imagination.
  • "Zombies are invading and you can only grab three things before you run. What are you taking?"
• Use humor to create a relaxed atmosphere.

Secret #5: Leave Her Wanting More

• Know when to end the conversation to keep her interested.
• End on a high note, so she anticipates the next chat.
• Examples:
  • "Okay, gotta run, but this was fun. Let's pick up tomorrow."
  • "I'll tell you the rest later. You'll laugh, I promise."
• This builds excitement and makes her think about you.
• Confidence in leaving a conversation makes you more attractive.

Conclusion: Ultimate Texting Mindset

• Texting is about connection, not impressing.
• Be confident, playful, and authentic.
• Keep it light for genuine engagement.
• Try out the texting strategies and share success stories.

Additional Notes

• Jessica encourages the audience to subscribe for more tips.
• The lecture offers practical examples and strategies to enhance texting skills.